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  1. ellentonboy
    The fact that you said the words "bitter old queen" and "troll" in your post says quite a bit about you. There are rules here, you were supposed to read them when you joined, so why not just follow protocol. Sounding like an entitled 20 or 30 something is a bad look, just saying....
  2. ellentonboy
    Okay, I just noticed this thread and I am going south. Why, oh why would someone want to encourage this? I am not a mental health professional, nor do I play one on television. You guys can do what you want with your bodies but before you make a decision that may be irreversible, please get a second or outside opinion. Just adding my opinion but I would not make a decision like this without seeing a professional's guidance. Good luck...
  3. ellentonboy
    Okay, I'll be blunt and crude. A piece of plastic does not feel the same as a penis. It doesn't and it never will. I won't continue to post on this thread because I think it is fair to say that "we agree to disagree" in many cases.
  4. ellentonboy
    I can't say I have ever seen a sign saying "please pick up your toys before leaving and take them with you", but I guess that would make sense. What do they have? A "lost and found" section? Can you imagine having to go back and ask for one that you forgot? Think of the look on the guy's face at that front entrance way. "Excuse me but I left my double headed dildo in my room, did you find it'? Toys have never been something I used, or enjoyed. To bring toys to a bathhouse seems counter-productive. I am there to play with the toy attached to a human male. I guess I find this thread rather surprising. I used to have a saying "the only thing being put in me is attached to and part of a human being". Not a strap on, not any outrageously huge butt plug that looked like one of those orange cones from driver's ed class in high school. No, sorry guys, not into having some plastic device shoved in me that you later put in your dishwasher. Not in the 90s, early 200s or today. Not happening with this guy. And NO, I mean dick, not a fist before you think I travel down that path, because that is DEFINITELY not happening. I am not judging, not saying anything negative about guys who enjoy toys. More power to you. But I'll take a pass....
  5. ellentonboy
    I learned from the very first day I joined that this was the rule, and it wasn't going to change. Crying, whining, bitching is not going to change the fact that you have to be a consistent poster in order to get some kind of relief. Continue to sign in, continue to PARTICIPATE and POST, don't just "like" a comment. The more you actively participate, the sooner you are free to post and enjoy the forum. I didn't like the rules at first, but once I understood it was nothing personal, everyone has to deal with the rules, I calmed down. Relax, post, your time will come.....just be patient.
  6. ellentonboy
    Most severe symptoms I have seen for gono have been a milky (not cum) discharge coming from the penis. It can be very difficult to urinate, and painful. Syphilis can sometimes be more difficult to detect. Sometimes the first sign can be a headache that you can't shake or sometimes a stiff neck. In many cases you don't even know you have it. Another area to look at are your palms, are there blotches, do your palms itch? Sometimes if you have blown someone who has it you might have white blisters inside your mouth that make it difficult to eat .
  7. ellentonboy
    Adam4adam is still very popular here on the west coast of Florida. Many younger, open minded guys. They have a LOOKING FOR NOW section for those who don't want to make an appointment to have sex next Tuesday at 4:00pm 🙄. Very popular around 2 am on weekend after the bars close. Manhunt - different bunch of members. You see a lot of NEGATIVE ONLY in their profiles. One good point - they added a video chat area so you can actually see who you are talking to, a better way to promote yourself. FYI - the Lauderdale/Miami area has a rather large membership, I had a friend actually stream our play session live and we had quite a number of viewers in the middle of the day. Hey they may want to touch you if you're poz, but they are certainly interested in watching. That's been my experience.....
  8. ellentonboy
    It was part of the Club Baths chain, you had to purchase a membership the first time and you were able to use their other locations if you traveled out of town. Sadly, it is closed. It was a true bathhouse, not like Rainbow with all the socializing.
  9. ellentonboy
    Does anyone know his sentencing date? I don't normally get satisfaction over something bad happening to an individual, but in his case, I'll make an exception. What aggravates me is the press reporting him as "gay for pay" porn star, or worse yet, not mentioning his occupation at all. "Gay for pay" my ass, he's been in Skype chat rooms fully naked taking with other gay men. No one put a gun to his head during that time. He faces charges of assaulting , resisting or impeding officers, civil disorder and engaging in physical violences in a restricted building with a dangerous weapon. He gave an interview claiming the charges were part of a "political witch-hunt". He claims to be a retired army officer, and that he was shot, retiring in 2006. I suppose being shot doesn't prevent him from getting fucked by two co-stars in a recent Lucas Entertainment production. Fucking hypocrite...... Oh and to BZ members who think he will only spend a few days in jail, not so sure about that. Federal sentencing guidelines are harsh, especially when it comes to violence against Federal law enforcement.
  10. ellentonboy
    There are some guys that want to fuck and to fuck only. If he has allowed you to see his face then it is not an identity issue. He may just be a "strictly ass man", Guys like that may have a gf or wife who will suck them off, but they may not have the opportunity to fuck a guy in the ass. If you are satisfied with the way he eats your ass, and fucks you, then it's a win/win for you. I am sure there are plenty of guys on Grindr or wherever that want only oral sex, I have found that to be common. In this case, the opposite applies so why not just enjoy it? It sound like you did if you had him back for a repeat.
  11. ellentonboy
    Hollywood and West Hollywood are filled with gay men who are more than willing to play. They are online or on their phone apps 24/7. You mention you are looking to top, I can tell you on sites like MeWe and Barebackrt.com there are plenty of bottoms that are more than willing to get fucked. Very easy.....
  12. ellentonboy
    The "old club baths" as I called them were near the entrance to the Crosstown Expressway in Tampa, I believe somewhere on possibly 10th Street. I thought they were part of the old CBC chain. I remember being there and they actually had, I believe a 25th anniversary party, where employees served alcohol at the end of several rows of rooms. It was my understanding they had a long term lease and there were never any issues with police, but this was years ago. It was a different crowd than "Rainbow", many long term bath house patrons who had been patronizing that establishment since the 80s. I am sorry it is gone. What was different from the Rainbow, is there was little or no talking, or "stand and modeling" but rather guys getting down to the business of sucking and fucking. I still hook up with a guy who I met there when I first moved to Florida, he's still active online and has, on occasion, bought a trick with him to my house after leaving the baths. I don't think we have met at the Rainbow. That place was MUCH too social for my liking, I didn't appreciate walking through the hallways and someone yelling my first name from one of the rooms. I wasn't comfortable with people doing GHB, the few times I was there I saw people lying unconscious with their doors open, later hearing they were robbed. I am all for having a good time, but Rainbow I found a bit too risky with theft and people over-indulging in "enhancements"/
  13. ellentonboy
    Why would I not fuck the first time I went to a bathhouse? That's the purpose, right? I fucked in Philadelphia and Fort Lauderdale, as well as the old Club Baths in Tampa. By the time I got to the now defunct Rainbow I had certainly fucked at a bathhouse in Tampa.
  14. ellentonboy
    I was caught off guard yesterday when receiving my monkeypox vaccine. They checked my "record" and insisted I needed a hepatitis A shot. I felt almost pressured to take the hepatitis shot, but after reading many infected had traveled abroad, I was somewhat relieved. I plan on going to two countries in late October that have very high Hep A rates. But here is my question to Forum members, why were they so insistent on getting my Medicaire number if these shots were supposed to be free? I happened to be with someone is privately insured, they didn't ask him for a copay or any of his private insurance information. I am incredibly grateful that these shots were given in a private facility, air-conditioned, and offered a time window of up to two hours. I have also been assured I can return there in 28 days for the second shot, I won't have to go the Health Department and wait in line, or deal with new people who aren't expecting me. So again, why the insistence of gaining my Medicare number? If I am told by my Ryan White case manager it's free, why the sudden demand for that number??
  15. ellentonboy
    So relieved I got the first of the two shots today, another 28 days till the second. Funny, being in a room filled with guys wondering, "have I hooked up with any of them"????? The required masks kept that question from being answered, and so many couples, hmmmmm. I wonder what that means????🤔 I have a new found appreciation for the health department, as opposed to those calls from ten years back when they were calling me about a possible gonorrhea exposure.🙄
  16. ellentonboy
    That has not been my experience here. The moderator that I have had interactions with has been helpful. He hasn't agreed with me on every situation, but that doesn't constitute bullying. I only wish the same could be said in other forums where I post, where mods use a heavy hand in editing what members contribute. Those Forums are not even of a sexual nature. I can only imagine them here, their head's would explode.
  17. ellentonboy
    All the more reason to vote in November. This particular ruling will be the first of many if we don't raise our concerns to elected officials and those running for office. I think for many of us these stories "fly under the radar", but they will have implications in our lives down the road. Keep you eyes open to media reports, and vote for candidates that will protect your rights for things as crucial as PREP. If lawmakers or judges begin to side with those who want to restrict our access to medical care, it's only a matter of time before they try to go further.
  18. ellentonboy
    No, the Geek Squad is not part of the list of customer service representatives that I have slept with. I do, on occasion, ask people what they do for a living before and after sex. Actually, you and I have a common denominator based on a previous thread regarding interaction with the police. It has to with our current or former employer....do you recall?😉
  19. ellentonboy
    Yes that rules out all the Spectrum employees that may show up, but not Geek Squad from Best Buy. They charge a small fortune, so they are usually punctual.
  20. ellentonboy
    If the guy has been at my house four or five times and says "On my way", I am pretty certain he is going to show. My time is as valuable as his, and the guys I play with know and respect that. However, if it's a "newbie", a "first time fuck", I want an exact time, not a range of "Oh I will be there between 11:00 pm and 1:00 am". NO YOU WON'T. You don't get to monopolize two hours of my time, when I could have someone else come over. This is not "Anytime Dining" on a cruise ship for God's sake. I have made a deal myself, I don't give my address out immediately. I tell them the area I live in, and ask that they text me when they are in the area and within ten minutes of my location. Only then, will I give out my address. I am not about to sit and wait for some unknown quality guy when I could get a buddy who is reliable and shows up at a mutually agreed upon time. Have some consideration for your fellow man, "newbie's take note".
  21. ellentonboy
    I happen to be the poster that opened this thread back in April. I can tell you my reasoning for doing so was not because I am white. I asked BZ members about a number of different scenarios, my main interest was actually the inclusion of different races in group settings. I am surprised this thread got so much traction - it was if I had "poked the bear". If you have time you will see there's a wide variety of responses in this thread, i don't agree with making sweeping generalizations like "white men only prefer white men". Some guys were kind enough to share their experiences, which is what I was hoping for. I have been involved in these types of activities for a number of years, I have experienced all kinds of reactions from people I have met and interacted with. I just wanted to get feedback from members, I wasn't running a poll on white men's preferences.
  22. ellentonboy
    Having sex with clerks at bookstores in the Tampa/St Pete area allows behavior that would normally have you thrown out, or worse, arrested. I won't "name names" but those clerks who work close to the now defunct Rainbow cabaret area, as well as the two story bookstore that charges a 10 dollar fee to go to the second floor, will accept head (or more) if you are willing and they are interested. It's not a matter of saving money, but rather the freedom to do what you want, and where you want, on the property. If you want to take all your clothes off, if you want to be vocal and actually solicit guys, having sex with clerks allows you that opportunity. The best perk - they usually have an a knowledge if the place may have undercover cops, or are aware that undercover police will be there that evening. It's a great way to have a blast, and stay the hell out of trouble. No matter what city you are in, no matter what behavior you exhibit, having a "friend" at the front desk of your local (or not so local) bookstore is an incredible advantage. If you frequent these kind of establishments, I think you can appreciate what I am saying.
  23. ellentonboy
    Did you just mention A&P? I lived near one in Philadelphia, my friend from high school who was gay worked, and then managed it. There were so many gay men coming into this "family" area of NE Philly, it was a great place to cruise and I literally just had to walk a few blocks. THOSE were the days!
  24. ellentonboy
    I still wouldn't feel bad or be embarrassed because you didn't know all the "in's and out's" of Grindr. Everyone was new at some point on that app, they probably had questions like you did (i.e.how to turn the damn buzzing sound off). It's not as if it comes with some nifty training manual where you can sit down in your office chair and learn all about the bells and whistles (literally). You download the damn thing, get some kind of picture uploaded (should you desire, highly recommended) and make sure that picture does not violate any of the rules and regulations of the app. If you have never used it before it is like the Wild, Wild West. Yes, it can be embarrassing if it goes off at an inopportune (sp?) time (like waiting it line at Publix) but generally what I have found is the only people who recognize those sounds are those that are already on the app. So what if some guy smirks at you, it's probably happened to him at some point. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.......
  25. ellentonboy
    Maybe it is just down temporarily? New version coming in the future? I haven't seen any kind of announcement is was discontinued, it could be it is just being worked on...

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