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If you stick at it long enough, you'll find almost ALL the guys fucking you are younger than you are. Trust me, I know...🫣

I did like a search - something like "gay porn stars who have died". I may have used the words "from AIDS", but there were several out there. One in particular is good, it gives their approximate date of birth and death, and their cause of death. I am terrible at this online stuff, so if I can find it, I am sure you can. Good luck, it's rather sobering because you see faces and you're like "oh, I remember him". SOOO many from the 90s, most of them did pass from AIDS. The more recent deaths are from a variety of reasons I mentioned in the earlier post.

No, I didn't say that the CoR was required to keep up with the "location" or "occupation" of former performers once the video was completed. What I first pondered was what were these guys doing today. The CoR only had to verify their age and citizenship information. The citizenship situation became an issue for one major studio whose CoR was an acquaintance. I never thought he needed to keep a forwarding address, just that he had accurate information AT THE TIME OF FILMING. What I was pondering, and other posters did as well is - what are these guys doing today? Obviously people "age out" or go on to other things in life. But my imagination wondered and I often asked myself how often they are recognized, what they do for a living now, things like that. In other words, what was life for them after porn. I know I have seen on U-Tube more than one "memorial" so to speak, of former porn performers and when they passed, and if a cause of death was determined or mentioned. I wasn't being morbid, it surprised me that many passed away from things unrelated to AIDS or drugs, some died in car accidents, or by suicide, I even saw one or two that had been murdered. Again, my interest was what life was like after the cameras stopped rolling. Oh, finally, sorry for "biting your head off" so to speak - I just spent a good bit of time with someone who was a CoR and I saw what his daily duties were, pretty mundane stuff.

I thought with someone as popular as Drew Sebastian, you might be able to look back over his video history and go to the very first videos he has credits listed. Years back, there was a site under the name "Naked Sword" which listed a performer by name and every studio they worked for and the name of the video itself. I understand now "Naked Sword:" is just another porn studio. But I believe you can find this video, unless by chance, it was left on the "cutting room" floor and someone uploaded this clip and did not credit the studio, or Drew or his co-performer. I bet, there is SOMEONE (a Floridian I sometimes chat with) who has a lot of knowledge of performers in porn and who they might have worked for and with. I think if you leave this up for a while, someone is going to recognize it. I would say maybe 2000, or before, easily. Good luck, I know what it is like to be thirty for a particular scene or video.

I am well aware of what the duties are for those who hold the position of Custodian of Records, Everything you said in your first paragraph I am well aware of, I worked for the Federal government for many years, I know what the rules and laws are. You are correct, Raging Stallion did have lists of both top and bottoms they could call on to use. They also checked them for visible signs of STD's and if they showed signs a camera would detect, they were not used. I had a very uncomfortable flight with a RS "model" from San Fran to Tampa who didn't have time for the removal of his anal warts to heal. I won't discuss HIV testing, but for the majority of the time RS used condoms until it was no longer a wise financial decision. Thanks for your tutorial on the duties of the custodian of records. I am well aware of what they are......🙄

1. My tennis coach 2. My AP Calculus teacher 3. My AP English teacher 4. Any student at the University that I was going to attend in the upcoming fall who had his own room and his roommmate had not moved in yet. #4 - got me alot of dick. it may have been fast, but it was good....

My experience is similar to @partying.hard. My doctor, who specializes in Infectious Disease, has a base of patients that are primarily gay men. He has told me just how difficult it is to get HIV, but the other STD's are out there, and easy to catch. I haven't had herpes, but I have had the majority of the rest, once or maybe twice and I think that's almost inevitable if you play weekly. I am been active, a solid thirty years, in various large, metropolitan areas. That is alot of weekends, a lot of guys, not including trips that were specifically for sex, like going to San Fran and Palm Springs. Though I didn't manage to avoid HIV, it's been my good figure that the Health Department does not have my phone number on speed dial. Granted, Monkeypox scared the hell out of me, I knew it causesd permanent scarring and I wanted to get to the front of the line for those shots. But you would think I would have become infected with the more common STDs, for me, it just hasn't happened. When you do the math, and you add up the number of contacts, I have been incredibly fortunate. Maybe it's just dumb luck, but I haven't had that many issues. My T cells have been low, and my viral load has been off the charts, but that's because I didn't cooperate with the drug regimen. However when it comes to other STDs, I have been very fortunate.

I would not recommend Manhunt if you are poz. I didn't look too closely at your profile but that site gives off a definite anti-poz feeling. In addition, they usually are more "window shopping" than looking "for now". Most want to set up some time to get together later in the week. I have had more than one ask to meet for drinks before making a decision. Meet for drinks? WTF? This isn't "speed dating", this is "speed fucking". If I wanted to "meet for drinks" there are bars within driving distance I could get to, and probably my selection of hotter tricks would be greater. If you are asking why I was on Manhunt to begin win, another site or someone gave me a free 30 day trial period. They have added a section where you can turn on your web cam. Still, as hook up sites are concerned, I would not recommend Manhunt.

Well I would privately, but I would not post it for all to see . I value my time here, so I don’t want to face the ire of the moderators who have been very understanding when I have screwed up royally in the past. we could chat privately, but now where everyone can see…

Yeah hit me up on a private message 🧒 I will be glad to share my experiences with certain HDK performers

Hot Dessert Knights? It was one of the first bareback video studios, even before Treasure Island Videos. I haven’t looked at your profile but you must be about, what, 20? it was one of the first all bareback studios, if you can find clips of it on various sites you should consider yourself lucky. Again, no disrespect meant. I have personally met some of the performers who worked for HDK’s, some were nice, some were not.

Agree! If they talk about all these different fetishes, but they don't talk about fucking or sucking, I am out of there. You can usually get a sense of their interests within the first few minutes of chatting with them or messages you receive. I have passed on some encounters with some very handsome guys because it wasn't really about sucking or fucking but some obscure fetish. As of late I have noticed a number of men wanting guys to wear female lingerie. I know this is nothing new but it just seems to become more main stream in recent years. If you want me to wear women's clothes then go fuck a woman, that's my response. I am just a guy who likes guys. Sure, leather and harnesses, jockstraps, arm bands, that works for me. But there is no way in God's green earth am I going to put on panty hose cause it gets some guy hard. Sorry, move along, just move along.

Thanks for the update. I just found it odd that he was everywhere in the early 2000s, I actually got sick of seeing him. The new blonde hair didn't help. Also, listening to him stumble through some sales pitch for an upcoming video or some type of sex toy was nauseating. I was not aware he was an AIDS denier, but by the time I really started looking online and paying attention to those who work in porn he seemed to disappear. It's a shame he felt that way about medication. I know the porn industry is known for using guys up and then spitting them out, but he was in a number of flicks and usually got "top" billing, though I never really found anything about him to be exceptional. I hope he's alive..

I have said it before and I will say it again - stay away from Jeff Allan. He liked me, I was one of the fortunate ones. But if he doesn't, or something pisses him off, watch out. The man needs to be medicated. He can be a great fuck, as was the case with me. But for those who happen to be around while he is there, watch out. Cause he can be a real SOB. There are plenty of other guys who do porn who are not jerks in real life. Jeff is a jerk, trust me.

Does anyone know what happened to him? Was he deported? I remember when he was a "big" star like in the early 2000s and then just disappeared. I remember him with both brown hear and then he went blonde (mistake). I even heard him speak while he was promoting either one of his tapes/dvds or some kind of merchandise. Not sure if he is of Mexican decent or where he was from. but I sincerely doubt he's from the US. Is he in jail? Anyone know?

A guy wearing a diaper under his "shit and tie" work attire was among the most horrific. I laughed and he walked out my door. The other one that really gets me is the "sweaty sock" scenario. The guy is cute, at least in the photos, but he wants me to wear sweaty socks for like three days before he'll have sex. Forget that, I am too hygienic and I don't want "athlete's foot". Then he tells me he can't host, he wants to pick me up, take me to a motel and have me wearing the socks along with sneakers. This request started over the warmer months (which is mostly the entire year where I live in Florida) and I finally told him no. "But I have a huge cock" is what he last stated to me. I had to block him, it just was not worth it.

Isn' there a joke "What do you get when you cross a six-pack with a straight guy"? Punch line - both of your pans down around your ankles. I have heard other versions of that joke, substituting different ethnic groups with "straight guy" but I won't post them because I don't want to be banned.🤐

NONE. The guys that are on the pay apps generally are on the free apps as well. I know with Sniffies it is advantageous to use the upgraded pay version, but I really see no difference. If you pay for BBRT that will give you unlimited messages in a 24 hour period, but I believe you get 35 a day with the free version. I figure if I can't get laid after 35 messages I have a problem. I usually ask guys to email me (using my whore email, not the one that has my legal name in it) or, if it looks like there is going to be a connection, I ask them to text me. I then sign off. Grindr is getting more and more expensive and it was difficult for me to cancel it, I had to go through apple to get it off my phone. Again, those same guys were on BBRT or NKP so I'll keep my debit card or credit card information to myself.

Bottoms, at times, can get a bad "rap" on certain apps and with gay men in general. Without a bottom, there is no place for the top to put his dick or have his dick serviced. Tow bottoms, I have always thought, gave the top or tops some variety - and some bottoms are better at certain things than others. Two bottoms, who like each other, play well with each, can really entertain another top and have a great time together. Once that tops cums, and then leaves, it's shower time and on to round #2. I have heard this saying "the only guy who dislikes a bottom is another bottom". I don't agree. Another bottom can be just as fun, you can compare info on other guys who you may know or WANT to know, and I have been given some great advice on who I should hook up with and who to avoid. Another bottom can be an endless source of very useful information and can become a close friend.

I know Jeff Allen personally, have spent time with him at his place and he has been at mine. He is no "peach" trust me. He happened to like me, but he was nasty to almost everyone else at my place , and his place. Not a nice guy, unless he happens to take an interest in you..

I know this is silly, but I often wonder what happens to guys who we see, maybe once, in a fantastic video, and then we never see them again. Did they go to grad school, are they working somewhere in retail or a waiter, are they now on OF or escorts. I have so many questions.....are they in prison. I know the custodian of records is responsible for keeping that kind of information, at least they did in the late 90s and early 2000s at some of the major studios, I knew the C.O.R for Raging Stallion and he had the 4-1-1 on all the "performers". But I don't know if that is the case at T.I.M. or some of these more "risqué" video companies. I wonder how many of these guys make one movie, get paid little or nothing, and if their escort career doesn't work out, they take a bus back to their home towns. Even Greyhound isn't what it once was.....

Generally, I have found slings to be incredibly comfortable, and in most instances you can adjust the height so that the top has direct aim at your hole. I had a friend who gave me just the leather portion of the sling, I guess you would call that the seat. It was really comfortable. We didn't have the remaining pieces so we went to Hope Depot, got the remaining parts, and attached it to the ceiling in his hallway, which lead from the living room back to his bedroom. There were four of us, two of those guys who I had never met before. The one total top was very hot, never would have thought he was gay. He asked if I wanted to be the first to try it out and he would fuck me. I happily agreed. Now, he's big, he's really going to town on my ass. Then suddenly, the metal rods we used to attach the sling (or rather the seat) to the sealing suddenly came off. He had to catch me underneath, with his dick STILL in MY HOLE, and lower me gently on the hardwood floor, where he finished fucking me till he shot his load. Now, I am not sure if I was embarrassed, or afraid that I would break some bones in my back or crack my dumb ass head, but he continued on, and did a great job. When he finally shot his load, the other two guys were laughing their heads off, as I laid there on the hardwood floor, with my ankles now wrapped around his shoulders. That 'drop ceiling" did me in", and for the rest of the weekend, we had to maneuver around the sling, now on the floor, to get to the bathroom and bedroom. The guy was not pissed off, he was big enough and strong enough to hold me and still manage to keep his dick inside me. Funny follow up, the guy who "gave me" the sling had gone to Federal prison. That same weekend, his MOTHER called me and said ">>>>>>, do you have >>>>>'s sling? I was polite and respectful and said he owed me money and he would not be getting the sling back once he served his four years. It was very funny, talking to some kindly woman about her son's sling. I did not tell her it came out the drop ceiling with some guys's dick up my ass. I love slings and to this day, I fondly recall the day one became dislodged with a random dudes dick up my ass. Fun times!

I have been there, but it was years back. Very active, even during the day. Many people who just happen to be driving by stop in. I am originally from Philadelphia, so for me to be in that area is not surprising. What did surprise me is that management didn't seem to care, they looked the other way. As long as you spent money in there they didn't care. List I said, it was busy during a week day. Some guys who may be traveling for work drive by and others who may live within 30 to 60 minutes stop in. It was worth the drive for me. To answer the one poster - I didn't see a dirty mattress, but I got off almost immediately the few times I have gone in there. I think it is worth the trip....

You have a beautiful cock man, thanks for the post!