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This can be a touchy situation. IMO, if sex is integral to your love for him, and that need isn't being met then it needs to be addressed. We all have things we like/dislike about current or former partners that we compromise on, Sex shouldn't necessarily be one of those things. Even if it's once every 6 months. Now if you're comfortable with the lack of sex from him since you do have an open relationship, that may be another story, but since you asked the question I have to believe it's a problem. Have you discussed your need to reconnect sexually with him? It sounds like he may not fully realize that his lack of sex with you is causing stress in the relationship. I think a discussion needs to take place either with or without the help of a counselor.
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Just to add, make certain that if you are unable to sterilize in an autoclave that you at the very least wash the sounds very thoroughly with hot soapy water, rinse very well and allow to dry, then wipe with alcohol pad prior to use and use gloves when possible or at the very least wash your hands before starting. It might sound like I'm trying to scare you, but your working in an environment that requires complete sterility, and the last thing you need is to introduce bacteria. Bladder and urethral infections are no fun at all! As a side note, go with the sterile lube packets as Arcaner suggests. Tubes of sterile lube must be tossed if contaminated and packets guarantee sterility with each one.
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well, if what you're saying is accurate, it doesn't sound like he's been too subtle. Your last description sounds like he was doing everything except taking his cock out and putting it into your mouth to get you to respond.
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Well, my thought on taking action while he's jerking off might be a little forward if he's not doing it to get your attention. I had considered having you mention hearing something but again, you probably don't want to scare him. But, if you feel comfortable making a comment about hearing his activities in the bathroom, perhaps an offer to help could be added. Since no one really knows whats going on in his thoughts, it's difficult to know if he's being subtle, or just not aware that his activities are having such an effect on you.
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I could see where some of those signs could be taken in the affirmative that he's interested. If the subject comes up again where you are talking about cousins being too aggressive or really in general anyone being too aggressive then perhaps make it known that you respond best to someone being direct, even if just in a casual "hey, maybe we could try that sometime". Maybe the next time he adjusts/grabs himself when he notices you looking, you might try returning the gesture and observe his response. He might just be doing guy things, but I'm thinking it's possible he's trying to show interest in the best way he knows how. Not all guys are good at indicating to others, especially other guys that they are interested in playing. Most particular guys who have no or little experience successfully cruising.
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What were you guys talking about/doing before this occurs? He might be trying to be obvious enough for you to hear, but it may be possible he's a chronic masturbator and isn't aware that he's being loud enough to be heard. Being that we know next to nothing about your cousin it's difficult to formulate a way for you to approach the subject. I guess for body language, perhaps look for signs that he might be thinking about you sucking him off....look of lust, maybe a little touchy-feely, providing you with clear view of crotch/open legs, etc, grabbing himself or touching himself while looking at you. I guess some of the more classic cruising signs one might look for. Subtle, yet definitely showing some sort of interest.
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To me, I'd much rather see the aftermath in the form of cum dripping out of a hole. I know that studios want the viewer to actually see the cum when it's being shot, but I find watching the top while cumming is all the proof I need that it's real. The involuntary twitches, groans and facial gestures are difficult to fake and combined with a top balls deep in the bottom when that's going on is in my opinion the real money shot! I shoot more loads to watching guys breed the bottom than any pull out and push back in porn.
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I tend to agree with pozguyuk. When the right mood strikes, make it known that you are open to the idea of helping him out but do so in a manner that doesn't leave him wondering if your putting him on, or he might be misunderstanding what you're saying exactly.
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I really was completely surprised that my viral load was still so incredibly low, especially after intentionally attempting to contract new strains during the year between no meds and my first monitor test to see where my levels were. Even the doctor expressed some surprise since he knew what my original numbers were and was treating me during the first couple years. I go back later this month for updated numbers and I'm sure I will post about those. I will be floored if I still don't show any significant VL increase especially considering I've been with several guys since that have unmedicated loads.
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unfortunately no. HIV is very weak outside of the body. My understanding is that by the time the cum freezes, any hiv that may have been present is dead.
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I never bothered to test regular and actually had my first test many years after becoming active which naturally came back positive. I started immediately based on the recommendation of my doctor. I was told at the time my numbers appeared very close to full blown conditions (221, 4K, 13%) and in fact even after starting meds my cd4s dropped to about 140 for about a year. I have since made the decision to stop treatment after nearly 14 years on meds. Never had any complications from the HIV and have been med free for about a year and a half at this point. I've only had one test since and was still maintaining a 540 cd4 (from 700's on meds) and a mild 3881 viral load.
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Catching HIV really is the luck of the draw. Generally speaking though it's a pretty good gamble that if you slut around you're going to catch something however keep in mind those who have absolutely NO desire to catch HIV and that one time the condom broke, they got pozzed. I know we've all read posts about guys questioning "why me" when it comes to HIV, both in getting it, as well as their apparent inability to get it. I've always looked at it in the sense that getting HIV, if intentional, should be a milestone, not the purpose of being a slut. Enjoy the journey and all that comes with it. I got pozzed pretty young, confirmed at 24 and no telling how long I'd had it but suspicions and situations lead me to believe I got it around 16. Although it's had the unexpected side effect of allowing me to enjoy sex far more without fear it was never something that I looked for. I know that for some, it's about removing that fear just as it did for me however that begs the question as to what would change in your own personal behavior if you should suddenly become poz? Would you be more of a slut, less of a slut, about the same? Being that I wasn't a chaser at the time it had a profound effect on me and I actually swore off sex for about 2 years after I diagnosed. That has since changed but when I look back I definitely remember feeling "lost" but I don't think it was because I was scared of being poz but more scared that the fear was gone and I had trouble dealing with my newfound freedom.
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Being truthful to your doctor/nurse?
pozpig replied to jtmtl91's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
There is a scene in a video called Hole Wreckers (satyr films) that includes a snake. Interesting to say the least. -
Being truthful to your doctor/nurse?
pozpig replied to jtmtl91's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I try to always be honest with my doctor. They need the information as accurate as possible to adjust treatment as needed. I always keep in mind that those who are treating me are professionals that have vastly more experience in the field than I do, and although you might think you "get away" with lying, you generally aren't since they've almost certainly seen other patients with similar symptoms that were truthful on how they got to the point they're at. Of course they have to take you at your word but the evidence almost always speaks for itself. -
Unfortunately it's all for show. Studios want people to see the piss and drinking from the tap can make that difficult. Personally I would rather see a few drips and dribbles from a bottom on video drinking rather than the gushing piss that makes it so obvious that they're not drinking any. At least with a few drips, it's clear that most is going down their urinal throat. I guess for me, it's the completion of the visual, and knowing that when someone is emptying down a throat it's going to be a stream and not a few dribbles. Seeing the few dribbles definitely makes it more realistic they're drinking the bulk of whats being offered, and leaving evidence of what they just did by showing a few drips.
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BDSM has always given me lots of mental pleasure when I've had the opportunity to explore. Reading this article as well as others reaffirms to me the mental benefits of such play. I know many whom have learned of my own pleasures involving BDSM have come to me asking the usual "you actually like it when someone beats on you?" and other naive questions. I always take the opportunity to engage them and correct misconceptions that society has "taught" about BDSM and educate them that it's more about making a mental connection with others and building trust to know they aren't doing it to intentionally inflict pain just for the sake of hurting. It can however teach you trust and understanding both for yourself and your partner which can extend outside of the bedroom and bring strength to a relationship that might not otherwise be found. I also make sure to drive the point that the difference between BDSM and abuse is CONSENT!!!! Any BDSM scene will always have the consent of all involved.
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I went once a few years back. Having never been to Hawks on a normal Saturday night I can't comment on how different it is on a cumunion event but it seems like a typical saturday should probably be. Decent enough crowd (100 guys maybe?). The clientele seemed somewhat varied but weighed heavier toward the younger crowd. I found a bit of action in the dark room and the glory hole room. Otherwise it looked like most play took place in private rooms. I remember getting there around 9-9:30 and leaving probably around 1 or so. Being a 24 hour facility in Vegas I don't think it really thins out as much on the weekend but I could be wrong.
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How much piss is safe to drink? (urge to drink ALOT)
pozpig replied to Sub-Cocksucker's topic in Watersports Discussion
I personally don't see a problem if you want to exchange all fluid intake for an exclusive piss only intake. The only problem I MIGHT see is the potential for dehydration. Although piss has a lot of water content, it does also include waste fluids which will reduce the amount of water available for your body to process out of it when compared to pure water. That said, definitely would encourage you to do so as long as it doesn't start impacting health. -
I'd suggest checking out the teampig party this weekend in Silverlake. It's always a huge success. There are a few postings on here, and they have a party listing in the LA section on BBRT. If it's loads your looking for, you definitely won't (shouldn't) be disappointed if you attend.
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Promising news for defeating prop 60! https://globenewswire.com/news-release/2016/10/21/881758/0/en/FSC-Voters-Turn-Against-Prop-60-In-New-Poll.html Looks like voters may be waking up to how damaging this piece of legislation can/will be.
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I would imagine the only possible way would be to use a proxy server which is what I use when websites don't allow users from US IP's (online gambling mostly comes to mind). As for protection, I truly feel that should be up to the individual. Granted, I'm sure there is a level of pressure from the studio, especially if they focus on barebacking videos, but lets face facts, you're not going to get into a production with say TIM if you only play safe....Their core audience chooses their videos exactly for the reason that they depict REAL sex as it was meant. I truly feel that if initiatives like this pass, it's only a matter of time before actors are required to don hazmat suits.....and not because they're filming a fetish scene.
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I would imagine you can do the same as those of us who can vote on it. Get the word out to vote NO! The more people who are aware of how broad stroked this proposition is, and how it effects ALL Californians negatively, the more likely it will fail to pass. I know so many people complain about government intrusion into the bedroom and this is a direct example of their attempts to do so.
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For me, there is a guarantee that I will enjoy the fuck, regardless. It a top cums deep inside, it's definitely a good fuck. If a top adds a lot of verbal, gets a little rough and treats me like I'm just a fuckhole to be used before cumming inside me, it's a GREAT fuck.
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I don't personally think this is always the case. I'm not into drug use, and in fact have never done any illicit drugs. That said, I'm incredibly happy on the rare times I do get to enjoy a nice gang bang, especially from anonymous guys. As for being spun to not care, again for me, not the case. Perhaps I'm just not in the "normal" camp in that aspect.
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Try chaterbate.com.
