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I think part of it is that many guys have all the best "intentions" of playing safe. I know for me this used to be my modus operandi. I'd meet a guy and when it came down to it, we just never got the condom on. I know I meant to do it before the heat of the moment, but then the "ah, fuck it" thing happens. I have since become more honest with myself. But, had you asked me a few years ago, I would've probably answered that survey as "I only bareback sometimes" when I probably couldn't remember the last time I put on a condom.

Yeah, young blond (or red, yum) smooth twink hole is nice - but masculine hairy hole also has its appeal. It really depends on my mood.

I hadn't heard about the "Kink Aware Professionals" list before but that's awesome. Now, if I just didn't live in the boonies of the bible belt.

Nice - I wanted to go next!

The last word one of them says sums it all up: Lovely http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=WNS0D-G176-

I don't think anyone should judge you. This was your *personal* experience. Nobody has the right to tell you how to feel about this. Someone else mentioned "abuse industry" in here. I agree with that thought, to some extent at least. You did say your first experience was horrible but you went back. Do you know if you went back because you enjoyed the attention he was paying to you or because of the actual sex acts becoming more fun? I'm not questioning your motivations, just curious. Nothing sexual ever happened to me as a young kid. I am pretty sure I would've enjoyed some things when I was as young as 10 or so. I don't think I would've enjoyed getting fucked (still not a bottom today), but if an attractive guy in, say, his 20s would've wanted to kiss and make out and do oral, I would've loved it. I mean I looked at gay porn as soon as I could get my hands on any. LOL. I have a friend who had sex with his uncle when he was a young teen. He still relishes the experience and he doesn't feel abused in any way. It hasn't made him into a predator or pedophile either (in fact, he's a bear-lovin' bear). So, everyone's experience is different. That all said, I don't think we can conclude from this that age-of-consent laws need to just be abolished. Their reasoning should be that children don't have the capacity to give informed consent to being sexual with an adult. I will disagree with anyone who says otherwise. I mean, this is a forum with a lot of discussions about HIV and other sexually-transmitted diseases. Far be it from me to tell an adult he can't be an informed-consent bug chaser, but does anyone honestly believe a 9 (or 10 or 11)-year-old has the capacity to decide it's OK to have sex and, for example, take the risk of contracting an STD? Again, I don't want to tell anyone who has a sexual experience with an adult when they were a kid that they were abused if they themselves don't feel that way. Far from it. There is too much misery in the world, why artificially create more? But, just because some people had a good experience doesn't invalidate the whole idea of consent.

And another "aftermath" vid: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=MFlPq-G435-

Unfortunately sort of begins at the end, but I do really like the "aftermath"... http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=k8lCp-G573-

Oh, that's a tough one. They can both be nice. A guy that shaves completely ass, crotch, balls, etc. can be hot. On other guys, a hairy (especially blond or red) hole is very sexy. For me it depends on the guy. I've shaved a few guy's holes before. That gets me good and hard for sure. Sorry I wasn't more specific. Show me a body/hole pic and I'll tell you if I'd prefer you shaved or hairy I guess.

He managed to get a really hot guy as anonymous top! I wonder if he knows his face is all over Xtube now LOL.

Point taken. Though it does not appear that this guy was/is his boyfriend or committed partner.

That's sad. He's cute but a hypocrite.

Apparently he and his BF just got engaged. Maybe they're open... I certainly wouldn't kick Danny out my bed. http://m.nydailynews.com/1.1308818#bmb=1

Yeah, it's really not a big deal among heterosexual men. Otherwise there'd be no pregnancy tests. BTW, one of the main reasons Andrew Sullivan's ad raised eyebrows was that he was advertising for BB sex and he is poz. I don't recall if this was made clear in the ad.

I have no problem with the idea of incest. I'd love to play with a young dad and son.

True. It's an attitude thing. I don't really care if a guy calls me daddy or whatever (I don't mind either). It the attitude that I'm after, the sort of playful submissiveness to an older more dominant partner. I like the feeling of the other guy looking at me for guidance. If you want to call that dad/son then that's what it is.

This daddy bear would love to fuck a cute cub boy.

So, what age do you think is te minimum to qualify as a dad? Im turning 40 this year and would love a young son to pla with. Biologically, I could easily have an adult son by now.

Hehe - nice post for the first day of this month.

Well, there are neg tops (like me) who prefer neg bottoms, as well. I have a feeling that the new OraQuick test will be a game changer for barebackers. It's no guarantee, but it's a bonus.

I guess it'd would be too difficult to write a law that didn't have a cut-and-dry age of consent. How would you gauge maturity level objectively. Eighteen is a pretty arbitrary number. Before the industrial revolution, most girls were considered ready for marriage after their first "flowering" and nobody paid much attention to the age of a boy. What standard should we use? Your prefrontal cortex, the seat of your complex decision making skills and possibly also of your personality, doesn't stop maturing until around age 25. Should we set that as the consent age? Puberty now sets in 1-2 years earlier in girls AND boys than it was generally accepted a few decades ago. By 16 most everyone is fully matured sexually. I would think that's a reasonable cut-off for age of consent and is practiced in many countries and in some US states. That said, I know this forum is concerned a lot with things like bug chasing, etc. Is a 16-year-old boy capable of making an informed decision to expose himself to HIV? Is a 16-year-old girl capable of weighing the consequences of getting pregnant? Who knows...

I'm a guy with a big belly - what seems weird to me is that most skinny/fit guys expect big guys to be bottoms. I'm a total top though. It's probably because a lot of bigger guys either seem to have small dicks or their dicks "hide" in their fat. I'm lucky that I don't have that issue