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For me, a cage, or any other 'toy' or sex implement, only works if it's connected to a Top. Self caging has no appeal to me at all, nor does self penetration with a dildo. i want/need the desire, lust, need of the Top to energize any of those things. i do jack off and cum, but it's always a disappointment when i do because in my ideal world the only orgasm i want it the one a Man gives me. And even that is tricky. i can go without having my own orgasm if i am getting enough orgasms from a Top inside of me. i like the pent up need, the lack of refractory, of not cumming. It makes my connection with a Top more intense, complete. If i happen to cum from being fucked, that's a great and rare event, but not a necessity for me. For me, an ongoing connection with a Top Who breeds me frequently and doesn't want me to use my penis to cum is it's own form of chastity, no physical cage required... His desire is cage enough. The key to that cage is His Cock.

Not to mention that his mind got that ponderous tome wrong and he recalls, to this day, that it was "Dick in Jane."

"Donald Trump insisting that he has no connection to Project 2025 sounds like your angry old uncle showing up hungry for Thanksgiving dinner while proclaiming that he has nothing to do with the family as he prepares to eat. Sure, he probably didn't lift a finger to help prepare the meal. That doesn't mean Trump won't pile his plate high with it if he wins a second term as president in November. Trump has a strong motivation to put as much distance as he can between his campaign and the controversy swirling around Project 2025, a 922-page government policy wish list from the hard-right Heritage Foundation. A new poll shows swing voters seriously dislike the plan. And they don't believe Trump when he claims "I have nothing to do" with it. Trump repeated that claim during Tuesday's debate after Vice President Kamala Harris went on the attack, calling Project 2025 "a detailed and dangerous plan" that Trump "intends on implementing if he were elected again." Trump tried to cast Project 2025 as full of "some ideas, I guess, some good, some bad," while also claiming "I haven't read it. I don't want to read it." That part rang true. Does anyone believe Trump would read 922 pages of policy? He'd use it, sure. But read it? No chance." [think before following links] https://www.yahoo.com/news/trump-claims-nothing-project-2025-080237915.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&segment_id=DY_VTO&ncid=crm_19908-1202929-20240916-0&bt_user_id=rBJM3ZURyQwvApYd%2FmpqIi7K56W3Q7Mjpn2I9aJGGuPVP4s%2FH7rVKsUyGY3dFVG4&bt_ts=1726489442418

Reads to me like he might be homophobic and closeted.

When, in the history of humankind, has ignoring an egomaniacal wanna be potential world leader ever worked as the best policy? History is replete with examples of too many of the general populace just looking the other way when yet another crazy comes on the scene and wants to be in control. We're not talking about something as benign as a meal on a plane, we're talking about putting someone in power who would effect the lives of millions of people for more than 4 years, and could potentially affect the course of humanity and life as we know it.

This hits home as someone who has been arrested and charged with a felony for being gay. And it wasn't that long ago. 1998. It was in Virginia and the law used to charge me was almost 100 years old (a "sodomy" law). The cruising park was routinely patrolled by undercover cops pretending to be gay and entrapping gay guys into asking them if they wanted sex. Of course, the same police methods were not practiced in the hetero environ. You'd never find an undercover female cop in a straight bar or __________, pretending to be straight to try and entrap a guy if he came on to her. It was obviously a policy against homosexuality and homosexuals. One doesn't have to search too hard to be aware that there is a strong anti gay element in the republican party... hello Pence, hello Johnson. Not to mention agenda 2025: "It calls for barring transgender people from the military and to stop what it considers the “toxic normalization of transgenderism” across the government and American society. It seeks to abolish the president’s Gender Policy Council, “which it views as promoting abortion and the ‘new woke gender ideology,’” Accountable.US notes. The next Health and Human Services secretary, Project 2025 recommends, should reverse what it calls a focus on “‘LGBTQ+ equity,’ subsidizing single-motherhood, disincentivizing work, and penalizing marriage, replacing such policies with those encouraging marriage, work, motherhood, fatherhood, and nuclear families.” [think before following links] https://www.advocate.com/politics/project-2025-anti-lgbtq

i call it a hole, because it's a neutral term and i never wanna turn a Top off Who wants to breed me. i'm sorta bummed that culture has only evolved slang terms for straight culture and guys who fuck with guys end up borrowing from what's available. When it comes to what a Top calls it? Depends on His attitude and the vibe behind it. "Pussy" is usually one of my favorites when it's used by the Top with burning lust and desire, but really what ever word He uses, it's more the erergy and attitude behind it that i feel. i'm wired total bottom with a fair amount of sub, but i'm not of the type that wants/needs meanness, bullying. So, a Top (or anyone) using any descriptor using it as a put down, it a turn off to me, not someone i wanna be penetrated and bred by, not someone i want to absorb. The reason i think "pussy" can be so powerful for me is not because i identify or want to be identified as a woman or even necessarily 'fem.' That said, we are culturally conditioned to consider our anus and rectum as waste disposal organs, often along with feelings that they are dirty and disgusting. The thing is, all sex organs have a dual purpose of waste disposal. A woman's vagina has a seven day waste removal about every twenty one days (aka "a period"). But heteronormative society doesn't treat a woman's vagina like a dirty waste removal hole, but as sexual organ. As i relate to it, my hole is more for receiving a Mans cock than it is for waste removal, so when a Guy calls it a "pussy" in a lusty, "that's where My Cock goes" manner, it has a level of affirmation to it, that He sees it and me how i am, not how heteronormative society has generally conditioned us.

Right? And frankly, if anyone does a good job (read "exhaustive") of "point by point," it's BootmanLA. He didn't "deflect," he identified the flaws in the examples of "faults" given. No doubt there are faults in the Democrat party. i was struck by the commentary i watched on the "liberal media" that fact checked and identified the wrong stuff Harris said in her nomination acceptance speech.... was that "fake news?" Nah, i think the press did their job. Voting democrat is not a tacit full endorsement of the democratic party. At this juncture, it's pretty much the only choice over having an egomaniacal crazy in the highest office of the land.

Meme from pantsuitnation: "My immigrant husband"

"Former President Donald Trump's recent acknowledgment that he lost the 2020 election has rattled prominent far-right figures, with some saying they will lead a campaign to keep him from being elected in 2024. At least three times in recent weeks Trump, the 2024 Republican party nominee, has acknowledged that he lost in 2020 "by a whisker." "He beat us by a whisker. It was a terrible thing," Trump said of President Joe Biden during a 45 minute interview Aug. 4 with podcaster Lex Fridman. He used similar language at an Aug. 30 Moms for Liberty summit and an Aug. 23 press event at the Southern border. Despite frequently and falsely claiming that he actually won the election and making the issue a central point of his 2024 bid, Trump has occasionally over the last few years admitted that he lost. Trump lost the popular vote to Biden by 7 million votes and the Electoral College by 74 electoral votes. His effort to overturn the election culminated in Jan. 6, 2021 attack on the U.S. Capitol by Trump supporters hoping to stop the certification of his defeat. The reaction to Trump's most recent comments from some far-right activists and influencers has been unusually stark. White nationalist Nick Fuentes blasted Trump Sept. 4 for admitting that he lost the 2020 election, and said that he will work to get voters not to back Trump. "So, why did we do Stop the Steal? Why did did anyone go to Jan. 6? Why did any one go to jail? ... It would have been good to know that before 1,600 people got charged," Fuentes said on his podcast, referring to the criminal charges for those who invaded and ransacked the Capitol. "It would’ve been good to know that before (I) had all my money frozen, put on a no-fly list, banned from everything, lost all my bank and payment processing.”" [think before following links] https://www.yahoo.com/gma/trump-admits-lost-2020-leading-192730313.html?spot_im_highlight_immediate=true&spot_im_reply_id=sp_Rba9aFpG_f18f1714-13c9-3b18-b348-5a85722416cb_c_2lff0F0LeWFfQTJXSvgsf4oqoPH_r_2lk23HqSlALpL4bFKAkyJ6TiW0V&utm_source=spotim&utm_medium=e-mail&utm_campaign=liked-message&spot_im_redirect_source=email "Why?" indeed Nick. That's the question the non fringe part of the country has been asking for years. Why would you, or anyone, chose to disbelieve all the systems we have in place to ensure fraud and stolen elections don't happen. Instead believe all the people running those systems are part of a conspiracy, and not one of them is going to blow a whistle. Instead you believe one guy who needs a thesaurus and isn't very good at lying? In trumpland, everything you lost is just a "whisker."

my sweet FB, just left. Called me while i was making dinner, so i ended up getting desert first (cream pie).

Just left...after 4 years, He owns a piece of my heart. i have no idea if He realizes it, i think He likes me, but mostly i'm convenient sex. And that's fine, sex is better when it's convenient and available. He owns my hole and can have it whenever He wants. It had been a couple of weeks, then last night He called after i had just gotten home from a 13 hour shift at the end the hospital. i didn't get the first call, but He called again. He said: "I know you don't usually do anything cause youre tired at the end of work, but i really want it." i responded: let me prep for you and i'll text You when i'm ready. i sucked Him, and He was very horny and vocal, then wanted to breed me. Damn, it was so good. Creamy and gaped, on His way out He asked if He could come by today... and He just left. Again, i'm full of His seed and gaped.

26. For me, it was not a question of "bravery" but had exhausted my ability to suppress my need/desire. my first sexual attraction to a boy was at age 7. He showed me an enema nozzle and was excited, explaining to me where it went. i already had a crush on Him, but at 7 neither of us had a clue. As soon as i got home though, i fantasized about Him and put our enema nozzle in my ass. i grew up religious though, and conditioned against being gay, so i resisted sex with guys, got married to a woman at 21, tried to be straight, all the while knowing i am attracted to guys. ironically, my first time was when i was spending the weekend on a missionary hospital ship in port, helping do repairs. They roomed me with one of the missionary crew members, and late that night when we were in the dark and pretending to be asleep. He was masturbating. It was so dark, i couldn't see, but i could hear the sex sounds, so i made some sexy sounds back. It seems we made those sounds for hours, never saying a word. i finally got up and wen the 4 or 5 feet to His bunk, and He wordlessly offered me His cock. i sucked it with a lifetime of repressed desire and need, and He came quickly. my first taste of semen, swallowed every drop with no thought of spitting it out. He rolled over without a word and went to sleep. The next morning when i got up, He was gone... and i was in love lol. After that, there was no stopping me. i still was religious for many years and still tried to be straight, de-gay myself... didn't work, but finally processed through it all and came to a place of peaceful self acceptance. But it was never fear of guys or having sex with them, it was fear from my religious conditioning that i was somehow violating 'god's' rules.

❤️ i, on the other hand, am not too fancy.

Oh, yeah, i can see where a whole sector of guys is going to miss out on what you are trying to convey. i think you're way to fancy and eloquent to get the attention (and comprehension) of as many of the guys on prime time hook-up sites as you can. Maybe a simpler alternative? i want to be fucked in the ass or mouth by any legally aged guy with a cock that gets hard. Race, body size and age do not matter to me.

It's strange though, eh? It seems that they'd be hugely frustrated, that that is totally self defeating behavior?

That is curious to me when that happens. i wonder if with some, it's just that they want to have repeat affirmation? i too have wondered with some guys if they are illiterate? Seriously, not kidding. But then, they seem to know enough to be able to write the questions, so it seems they should be able to read and comprehend the answers.

This part: "...and words mean what people use them to mean" (5:36) That to me underlines the importance of listening and asking the word(s) user what they mean vs running away with our own idea of a word or label. and as i wrote that, appreciating Viking for asking.

Just now seeing this thread, so a bit late to the convo. i'm not MAGA, but was in the conservative camp for a big part of my life, so i think i can give perspective? One of the biggest objections i think that group has to "woke" is they associate it with stuff they deem wrong and/or immoral. In their context, it's irrational, but also emotionally charged. Since this is a gay site, "gay" can serve as an example. There is still an element of society that truly thinks/believes that there really is no such thing as being gay. They think it's a sickness or "sin" and many equate being gay to addiction or alcoholism resulting from 'bad' choices and/or bad upbringing. They consider those who are "woke" to be deceived or deluded, at best. Or worse, they think gays are purposely choosing to be evil by simply being who and how they are. In a way, i think they consider themselves to be "woke" and and everyone else is asleep. They object to the notion that others with an opposing perspective would even question them. i think a big anti woke element has religious factors. Going back to being gay, many believe that it's "God" who says being gay is wrong. There's a detachment that happens when a person attributes a believe to an all knowing being who's supposedly in charge and cannot be wrong. These people do not consider their views to be be views or beliefs, but take a position that their beliefs are knowledge: "truth." "Woke" often means seeing and accepting something or someone who violates their notion of "Truth."

Agreed. There is a radical and influential element of the Republican party that believes simply being LBGTQ+ is "an actual problem."

Never piss, just cumming hands free. But i think part of the appeal of WS is pissing has some similar feelings to orgasm. i've had Men Who pissed inside of me tell me that "it feels like a long orgasm." i remember the first time i had an orgasm at age 14. i was humping my mattress and as i started to cum, i panicked thinking i was going to pee and wet my bed. i got up and ran into the bathroom and discovered i didn't have to pee at all, that just some white stuff came out, and it wasn't as much as pee. The first time i had a hands free orgasm from getting fucked, the Top knew exactly what He was doing, and i didn't have a clue. i had no idea a guy could cum from being fucked. He started out simulating my penis and getting me horny, then flipped me and started fingering my ass. He was putting more fingers in, and when He got to the 4th finger, i turned my head and asked what He was doing? (i didn't know about fisting at that point either). He said nothing, pulled His fingers out and plunged His cock in. At that point, He had me where He wanted and i had a huge orgasm. But i didn't realize what was happening and i had the same panicked feelings i did as a kid the first time i came while humping my mattress. i thought i was going to pee in His bed. Even though i panicked, i was lying prone and He was on Top of me and not about to stop, so i left a puddle of cum on His mattress, and He was happy with the results. i was a little confused and newly enlightened realizing He'd made me cum from fucking me. Now, i know what's happening, but in that moment of orgasm, there are similar feelings as when starting to pee.

Hmmm, i'd say: "fuck that." Was he wearing a crown? Was he king of that cruising spot? Did he have a badge indicating he was officially in charge of enforcing the rules in that cruising spot? Did he point out the officially displayed list of cruising rules posted for everyone to plainly see? Or, was he just being presumptuous and ego centric assuming what he liked should be universal policy? Frankly, i don't think i would have wanted his seed at that point... don't wanna absorb 'no fuck' energy from anyone.

Though we use terms like "hard as a rock," a Mans Cock is still flesh and blood, not stone. The texture is soft, even if it's throbbing erect. As a bottom, seeing a Mans Cock throbbing hard speaks to me of His excitement and need/desire to penetrate and breed, and has the effect of connecting to my own lust/need to be penetrated, fucked and bred. Seeing it opens and penetrates me psychologically, i cannot imagine a Mans Cock that is too hard, that to me is like saying "He wants to fuck too much," and as far as i'm concerned, You cannot want/need to fuck "too much." This isn't universal, but a lot of the time i can tell when a Top is getting close to orgasm because His Cock swells a bit more, gets even harder before He shoots. It's a really hot sensation and overwhelms me with anticipation of Him having HIs orgasm inside of me.

Maybe there's just a higher degree of illiteracy among guys who have sex with guys? Before apps, if i wanted sex, i went to __________ and i got fucked. If i wanted to get fucked more, i just hung around _________ until i got fucked as many times as i wanted. If that cruisy place was slow, i'd go to another cruisy place, there were several. We didn't have to write or read anything, just a gesture like touching ones crotch or ass, or often just a look. i used to stand on this cruisy pedestrian bridge at dusk and if i saw a suspect Guy approaching, i'd turn my back and pretend to gaze out at the water below... and hike my shorts down so a little bit of ass was showing. More times than i can recount, a Man would walk up behind me, wordlessly lower my shorts, slide His cock into my hole and wordlessly leave me with cum inside.