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I've written elsewhere about this, but I think there are definitely preferences for top/bottom along a continuum. In my experience, it takes extra confidence in ones "topping ability" to take on the top role, especially with strangers. Versatility definitely gives one more options for fun. And, a few of my "total bottom pals" have also really enjoyed topping once they actually tried it. Personally, I ❤️ to bottom -- nothing better than feeling an above average dick stretch my mouth/throat and ass open and ride it to passionate breeding . However, I also really enjoy sliding my raw cock deep inside my a warm, welcoming hole, too! I keep a script of cialis on hand for when I really want to be in top stud mode -- maybe we can all start playing "the guy with the biggest dick gets to top?"

I'd say puberty. I had sex play with neighborhood kids and cousins of both sexes growing up, but age 12 when I was able to shoot my own load is when I began to actively seek out sex. At that point I absolutely wanted to suck dick, get mine sucked and enjoyed the feelings associated with intercourse.

It seems to me that most of my Millennial and Gen Z pals lean toward being versatile -- willing to fuck or get fucked depending on what the situation requires. I think that so many of us over 35 defer to full bottom-hood because of performance anxiety. I know I went from total top in my 20s to total bottom by mid 30s and have since worked myself back to truly versatile in most situations (especially within relationships) and I have lots more sex options because of that and feel equally masculine in both roles. Just a curiosity, I wonder if the desire to be TOTAL bottom or TOTAL top is more about fear (fear of not being masculine if I bottom, fear of not being a good top, whatever) instead of what really feels good, after all we all have the same plumbing and potential. Maybe the younger men have it right?

Agreed -- hot story (although you can't rape the willing, especially when he's bent over in an open-ass towel at a sex club - lol); I've been fucked by a cop and 2 USMC studs -- none of them were overly hung, but they were all damn good fucks!

I would have been terrified at 18, but what a HOT story! Love that they saved the best for last (BBC) and that you got to WATCH -- mirrors, video feed make sex even hotter with groups.

I think it would be hot as fuck to be whored out -- have a trusted pal handing me poppers, opening the door, doing some videoing, etc... so I could be blindfolded and and enjoy the anonymous action all night. I've participated in this as a top, but want to be on the bottom side taking as many loads as possible never knowing who any of them are -- strangers, pals, co-workers, fuckbuds, customers, family...

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Is it a turn on to have your fuckhole referred to as a pussy/cunt? Do you not care one way or the other? Do you hate it? Very hot when a hung top calls my fuckhole a cunt/pussy. Adds to the submissive tone and helps me get into hungry bottom, service mode Is your pussy/cunt your primary sex organ? Unfortunately, no. While I love dick and cum in my mancunt, I'm not fully satisfied until I shoot a load from my cock. Do you have internal orgasms? Yes, this is the absolute pinnacle of hot sex when I bottom -- hung men can make me cum without touching myself and it's pure delight. I can also do this when I sit on and ridge medium to large size docks -- the key is keeping contact with the P-spot Do you like getting bitched out? N/A Does your cock get hard when you are getting fucked or does it flop around like a useless appendage? YES, gets rock hard while I'm getting fucked unless it's taking huge dick or DP -- overtime the stretching out will impact my erection, but for normal hookups, I'm good to go. Is there any point to getting fucked if you don't get the sacred sperm? No -- cum belongs inside the cunt! I feel sad when cum is wasted.

I have a husband and boyfriend with average size cocks (6, 6.75"), so when I'm looking to slut-around as a bottom, I'm usually looking for something larger... they don't have to be 9, 10 or 11 inches, but longer than 7/7.5" is preferred, thick is nice too. Luv to be stretched out and then filled with cum.

Yup -- I've fucked bareback in every workplace or office I've ever had -- super hot!

Having a secret can be very erotic and fun. I wouldn't confront him, but may look for the opportunity to introduce a 3-way and see how he responds. This definitely gives you the green light to continue getting some on the side until you officially open things up. Just remember that you both need to keep things fresh and invest (sexually and otherwise) in your relationship, too...which may require you to work through some jealousy issues.

Woof - hot! I also love lunchtime sex and usually get a dick in ass or load a hole weekly. I'd love for that to happen more often, but so many people don't officially take a lunch break or have lunch flexibility.

For me I always tend to look for sex partners who are +/- 10 years. Occasionally, I'll hook up with someone in their early 20s or late 60s, but those are not the norms. I have pals in their 50s who still will only have sex with 20-somethings so their sex life has become largely nonexistent . I luv getting fucked by men older than me and breeding younger ones, so that's been a win/win so far. Hope it continues!

You'll have to post pix and details of your experience. As a versatile dude, who loves big dick in his ass, I'd jump at the chance for near, non-stop "semi-public" sex in a situation like this!! X will help you stay awake for long periods of time I image -- hope you get to take it outside and fuck outdoors , too.

I've enjoyed several 10-11" thick cocks (all BBC, and one white guy). And, gratefully just had the pleasure of sharing one of my favorites with my boyfriend this past weekend. I'd been friends and fuck pals with "Rob" for over 14 years and had long ago lost count of the number of loads he had filled me up with. My bf on the other hand had never been with a black man or anyone with more than about 7.5". So Saturday night, Rob invited me, my hubby and our boyfriend over for drinks and play in his fuck-room (complete with sling, rim chair, fuck chair, bed with latex sheets and large screen TV). A couple of hours in we were all naked and the play begin... at first a round-robin of making out, sucking, and so forth. A bit later, I made myself another drink and sat on the fuck chair letting the dildo fuck me while I watched Rob begin to work our boys ass as hubby made out with them both on the bed. Later hubby started fucking boy on the bed and Rob got me into the sling where he worked my ass for an eternity and then fed me his delicious 10-thick inches of pure joy that I lust after so much. An hour or so later perhaps, we took a break to catch our breath and have another drink. After that it was boys turn in the sling -- he took turns sucking hubby and I while Rob alternated between eating his ass and working his hole with a cone-shaped dildo from Ft. Troff. Needless to say our boy was in heaven. The pace, poppers and sexual tension continued to build and before long Rob stood up and placed his huge dick at the boys well-opened entrance -- with zero pain or resistance he slowly slid all the way to the hilt in one long stroke. Our boy was amazed at how easily he took the largest dick he'd ever seen and how full and awesome it felt to be wrapped around so much cock that is stayed in constant contact with is P spot. Shortly, he gave himself to full abandon and enjoyed the ride of his life, while hubby and I stepped back to watch and enjoy the show. Half an hour later, we all started swapping out -- tag teaming our sexy cockhound until we each took turns unloading deep inside our boys manhole...of course Rob came last (and probably most too) -- pushing all 3 of our loads deeper inside our boy than they'd ever been before. What started at 8:30 pm with drinks and conversation ended at 3:30 am with cum, kisses and a little felching... definitely he best FOURGY I've ever been a part of. So, GO FOR IT -- big dick rocks -- just prepare accordingly. :-)

Probably the best story I've ever read! Bravo!!

Use daily and find it very effective, if I'm hot for the prospective bottom dude. A fuck bud of mine uses it am and pm on weekends when he wants to blow multiple loads and stay hard. I have horrible headaches and stuffy nose with V. Good luck

Just had raw sex with #95 and #96 -- I prefer repeat and regular fuck pals

Hot concept - sign me up!

Growing up I had sex and sex play with male and female cousins and it was great fun. To my knowledge no one was damaged physically or psychologically and we're all happy, productive adults today -- both gay and straight. I don't know about parent/child, etc., but one step away was hot and fun!

In my relationships I tend to TOP, when I'm being slutty with fuck pals I tend to bottom. When bottoming, I too go for older/hung tops, but prefer to breed men my age or younger. A clean hole is preferred (accidents happen), but I enjoy rimming before, during and then felching after I breed when it's clean. I prefer a hole that is smooth and moderately tight but am also fine if it's loose and filled with cum so that I can add sloppy seconds/thirds/fourths. I enjoy controlling the poppers for my bottom and don't use them much when topping as they tend to make me crave cock/cum :-). I'm happy to share bottoms too -- tag team or double penetrate can be hot with the right men. I always want to cum inside the bottom! Not down his throat or across his back, but as deeply as possible in his ass cunt and I want him to keep it inside him until its absorbed if possible.

Hot! Would luv to have my own Str8 BBC dude that whores me out to his pals like Walt does :-)

Sounds hot to me dude! I tend to prefer cum in my ass, but also enjoy swallowing a tasty load. I don't know a man (str8 or gay or bi) who doesn't enjoy a good blow job. I'd think you could easily get one to 3 a day without working too hard.

Damn, you've inspired me to try and break my personal best of 7!

Agree w/ the other posts here. You seem to have lots of rules about sex -- relax and enjoy, the rest will take care of itself. Many men enjoy a good long fuck and bottoming might make you a better top. I had a boyfriend who had this same issue. Dirty talk and more risky (public, outdoor, with friends and family close by, etc.) sex would make him cum fast vs. fucking in a bed. Eventually he was able to be more versatile he also became a more educated top. Today he can fuck like a champ and also enjoys a good stiff one up his butt every now and then. I saw him fuck 5 men and take a hung black guy the last time he was in town. Good luck!!