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I see this topic began in 2012 -- we're definitely there. I don't know anyone who has used a rubber in the past 5 years or longer... gay str8 or in between

I THINK that I prefer younger bottoms and older tops, but my reality is 90% of my regular top pals are under age 35 (and I'm rounding the 5-0 mark!)

I was ac the Covent Gardens gay sauna a few weeks ago and didn't see a rubber in sight!

I'm the worlds worst 'flirt' -- as a naturally upfront and gregarious guy, I don't do it or read it well, so online or going to a very sexual place like a sauna tend to work best for me...or just texting all of your fuck buds and hope some show up LOL

I used the Ft Troff CBD suppositories last weekend -- zero issues taking a big thick BBC right off the bat, followed by 4 other pals. So, I'm a fan!

Blindfolds can be fun, but generally I think watching in the mirror above my sling or across the room or in my top's eyes as he breeds me is hotter.

I have a very sexually active buddy who is on Doxy daily for a dermatology issue... he says he has not had an STD in almost a decade of using it! After hearing this, I got a script from my doc and used it during a slut weekend when I took a dozen loads from strangers in Ft Lauderdale -- the verdict: ALL CLEAR! So, I will try this again in the future. I think the caution would be constant use isn't good for the liver, kidneys and of course could cause resistance. Hope the research continues!

How was is man? I'm visiting Sydney for the first time soon and am curious about where to get good bare dick... seem like lots of options.

As some of you know, I am a huge fan of sex with black men. Had I discovered this at a younger age, I probably would be married to one (one who would share me with other black men, of course!) As it is, 85% of my fuck buds are black or interracial -- I love the way our skin colors look together when we are fucking, I love the extra thickness of their skin, most of my pals are uncut 😋 -- these men are seriously into ass too -- they are not shy about playing with it, eating it, fucking or breeding it, sharing it, etc... Most of my pals are adventurous and willing to fuck outdoors, in public with groups and push limits. While I've enjoyed black cocks ranging from 5-11 inches, the vast majority have been in the 8-9 inch range. I can't get enough! If you're a sexy black man visiting Atlanta and need a hot, welcoming and appreciative hole to enjoy and nut in HMU!!! I'd luv to taste you, service you and worship your dick and cum. 🕳️💦🍆

In ATL, I find about 80% of the tops will not host -- some are married or have girlfriends/boyfriends, or on the DL. I don't mind, but it does increase the likelihood of hook-ups if they are willing and able!!

Great poll - I usually have one slut weekend each month where I focus on sex 5-6 hours on Friday and Saturday nights, bu the rest of the month it's hit or miss with a couple of sessions each week.

Ran across this research a while back and found it interesting. I personally don't know any healthy, sexually active man (gay or str8) who isn't open or cheats beyond 8 maximum years of monogamy >The Monogamy Gap shows how, after the intense and passionate sex of the early relationship fades, cheating functions to keep monogamous couples together. Thus, Professor Anderson finds that men cheat not because they fail to love their partners, but in order to satisfy their sexual desires without desiring to disrupt their emotional relationship. Rather than break up with their lovers so they can have meaningless erotic sex, men cheat as a rational solution to the irrational expectations of monogamy. However, these men still want the cultural capital given to monogamous relationships, and they therefore find themselves living with competing emotional and sexual desires: wanting monogamy, but also wanting recreational sex https://www.oxfordscholarship.com/view/10.1093/acprof:oso/9780199777921.001.0001/acprof-9780199777921

A mix is great -- I enjoy connecting with and learning to please a man over time, but the thrill, hotness, risk of first time encounters are fun and the stuff we fantasize most about!!

Agree both are hot -- I have a buddy who is always quick to nut, so I invite him over to eat my hole and drop a load early so I'm pre-lubed for the next round. If it's a one-then-done situation, I definitely want it to last a while, but if it's a group or serial 1/1 opportunity, all are welcome.

Slammer's Club = hot raw sex!!

I was 11 -- my hot, 14 year old, football playing cousin (Rob) and I had spent a hot summer's week at my grandmother's house doing some chores around the farm and just generally hanging out and horse-playing. On Tuesday, I lost a wrestling bet with him, to which he responded "you owe me a blowjob." I laughed if off ---but couldn't get the offer out of my head. (I'd already been playing with my own dick by this time, plus stealing looks at my Dad's Penthouse magazine that he kept hidden in his "mancave/shed." Occasionally, I'd also have the opportunity to explore the boy and/or girl "parts" of willing neighbors, friends or distant cousins, but that was mainly touching and a little masturbation, with maybe a rare lick or two 😋 --but sucking a dick seemed adult, scary, like something I'd be grounded for life for). Well, Rob continued to find a reason to say "you still owe me that blow job" at least once a day and to say I was becoming obsessed with fantasies of tasting his dick would be an understatement! On Wednesday, we ended up at the outhouse (yes, grandma still had ones in the 70s!) at the same time, so while we pissed, I got a really good look at his huge, black bush and soft dick that looked twice as big as mine. On Thursday, we went swimming at a little "swimming hole" at the south end of the farm. There my cousin Rob took all of his clothes off and jumped in naked, while I was changing into my bathing suit. He persuaded me to skinny dip with him, saying he did that with all of his football buddies from high school. I have to say that even though I was intimidated, I loved being naked outdoors and in the water -- a passion that still persists today! After some 'accidental' tug and touch at the swimming hole, and seeing Rob exit the water with a full-on 7" boner, I decided that I needed to at least fully touch (and maybe lick) his "pee pee" before I lost the chance for another year. My plan was to wait for him to say (again) that I owed him a blow job and then I would respond with an "OK" and go from there. As luck would have it... he didn't mention it! Damn it! And, almost 48-hours later it was growing close to time for goodbyes. Feeling defeated, that I'd waited too long to agree to blow him, we settled into watching a movie in the den or parlor, while our parents, grandparents and neighbors mixed an mingled in the living room and kitchen. About half way through the movie, as it was getting dark (outside and in the room), I began falling asleep and eventually leaned over to lay my head on Rob's shoulder, then later fully laid out across the sofa with my head in his lap. As things quietened down with the adults, Rob woke me up shifting around in his seat. It was then I noticed that his jeans were unzipped and his semi-hard dick and massive bush were only 2 inches from my face (I could smell it! And, he had no underwear!) I looked up at him, then back down at his dick... as if time stood still, I knew what I wanted and I opened my mouth and engulfed my first real man sized cock -- Rob reached for a pillow to cover my head in case anyone walked through, but they didn't. I ended up sucking him for less than 5 minutes when he shot his load in my mouth - another first! I was scared, but swallowed it anyway -- how could I explain running into the kitchen to clean up cum from my face, hands or mouth? After he came, he tucked his dick back in his jeans and zipped up. He leaned down and kissed the top of my head and said "NOW, I OWE YOU!" But, that's another story that I had to wait almost a year to experience. LOL

They have great sex clubs - I'd just go there honestly! But, I've never had an issue with any hotel as long as it's not too loud.

The actual orgasm itself doesn't feel any different to me, just the build up sensations, ergo focus, control, etc as noted above... definitely enjoy all orgasms beyond the crotch area. Variety is the spice of life as they say!

I ❤️ and thoroughly enjoy all orgasms!! Love the feel of my dick squirting cum deep down a man's throat or ass-cunt or across my chest when I'm being fucked and flooded. AND, love it when a big dick stays in constant contact with my prostate and causes an anal orgasm. What feels "unique" about the anal orgasm is that I am less in control of it -- e.g. rather than me stroking my dick or fucking a hole, my top is driving the orgasm and I'm receiving intense pleasure just from letting go and allowing him to pile drive me (something I imagine women feel as they approach vaginal orgasm instead of clitorial?) -- so the recognition of that, the build up and eventual release is more of a focus factor... rather than thinking about my partner's pleasure and how to keep it all moving forward, my brain relaxes and just enjoys the sensations -- "oh, damn, what was that? am I going to cum?, fuck, I think I might, damn, that feels good, oooooo fuck yea, don't stop -- YESSSSSSS" LOL

I like natural or clipped personally, but have several black top pals that want their bottom's hole 100% smooth -- a couple of them won't put their dick in a hairy hole period.

Men of a certain age were taught rubbers were to prevent pregnancy, period. My experience is that they hate them as much as we do. Many of my married pals are now secretly on PrEP or go for men who say "safe only and negative" in their profiles. Either way they bareback and breed when the lights go out. A couple have told me that if the "gay guy" they are hooking up with is willing to wear or receive a covered dick and has them available/nearby that makes them feel more comfortable going raw. As gay men, we wear our sluttiness as a badge of honor, but I think that sometimes scares married men (at least in the beginning) ergo more sex equals more risk of STDs, etc. One example is a super hot, younger (mid 30's) black fuck buddy... he has kids and a wife at home, but really prefers fucking male ass. He secretly went on PrEP to protect himself and his wife. Then took a traveling job which now affords him the opportunity to fuck pretty much whoever he wants, whenever he wants. He is always surprised at how many men are willing to bend over for a handsome face, great smile and 9 thick bare inches, of course I'm not. I think he finds "dominating" and breeding a "submissive man" and over all sport sex much hotter than his wife honestly. The other day he invited me to DC for an upcoming "boys weekend" -- his wife has long done a semi annual girls weekend of shopping and pampering in NYC and such, so he's decided to follow suit -- only his will be 2 nights and 3 days of hot, raw sexcapades and breeding with 5 of his favorite fuck buddies (with the sports channel blaring in the background rather than gay porn)....this man says he has never had a condom on his dick and never will, which I think is a grand gift for all of us lucky enough to have tasted his nut directly from our own assholes!!

Sounds hot, and like lots of effort. I miss the days when logging into BBRT almost always meant you were getting laid within the next 2 hours and probably by more than one horny man. 😋 Today it can be like orchestrating a broadway musical, where only 2 supporting actors show up and they're late/too drunk to get hard - lol 🎭 -- glad it worked out!! Lately, I'm finding that mid-week action is better than Friday through Monday.

I think there is something primal, psychological about being ALL IN (e.g. balls deep) during a fuck -- maybe a sense that there's a more genuine or deeper connection. When I bottom I definitely want my top to push as deeply as possible when he floods me with his cum. Otherwise it's up to him how he fucks me. I think really thick cocks can even feel better than long ones, too. As I've written elsewhere, I've had the good fortune of a thick 11.5" dick fuck me full of 4+ loads before. Each time he nutted he pushed so deep that it hurt -- of course I rose to the challenge and begged for more because the connection was so hot. As an average dicked guy, when I top I'm always trying to pound the prostate and stretch my bottom's hole in different directions to maximize his pleasure, but at the end I hold my dick as deeply as possible to breed! (All the time hoping that my cum absorbs into him or serves as lube for another stud).

My limited experience says to also get a load before you go... showing up with fresh cum in your hole makes one feel less desperate for that first fuck and more in a mindset to relax and enjoy the game. The attitude, wet hole and hint of cum/sex smell is a winning combination. I had 3 loads i me when I went to Slammers club in Ft Lauderdale July 4th weekend. They don't rent rooms, so I just wore shorts, shoes, t-shirt and jock and walked around slowly eyeing potential top men and watching the fucking going on in public play spaces. 30 minutes in, a sexy black man walked by and rubbed my ass (shorts were unlatched so you could see the top of my jock). 2 minutes later we popped into a dark room for the first suck, fuck and breed of the night. (My 4th total). He was very pleased to find me 'pre-loaded' as he fingered my "white pussy" while I was on my knees getting him ready. He fucked me with his 8.5" while we shared poppers for about 7-8 minutes before blowing a big load in me. I left the dark play room without my t-shirt (which is becoming a tradition there) and without zipping up or fastening my shorts... instead i walked around loosely holding the front of my shorts together so they wouldn't fall down -- I think this sent a "fucked and ready for more" signal because I took another half dozen loads in short order. (Side note -- go late! No one wants to give up their load before midnight or even 2 am)

I'd love to try the "mirror on the ceiling" thing, but a black top pal turned me on to mirrors about a decade ago. He had a big headboard with a built-in mirror that allowed me to watch myself get fucked when in doggy or face down positions. Later he installed a large wall mirror and a standing mirror, so you could literally watch yourself have sex all around the room -- SO fun and hot. Add some poppers, bareback porn and another man or 3 and it was even better! While it didn't make me feel more submissive, It did make me more aware of how to position or pose my body for better mirror and camera angles... nothing like being the star of your own porno and watching while you feel every delicious stroke!