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atlfukbud

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  1. I have a buddy in this situation and it works for him and his long term partner... he lives with his husband and they have a great relationship, sharing lots of interests, finances, and traditional roles. Plus, he is in a 3-way relationship with another couple (while his hubby has a girlfriend on the side). This has been going on for years and seems to be that everyone is happy, healthy and productive. They rarely all connect as a larger group. For me a Triad type situation could work, but I wouldn't be happy to be sharing my husband emotionally with someone else unless it were mutual.
  2. I think rawcumhole has some excellent points. In my conversations with men, I don't think many of us are truly 'total bottoms' or 'total tops' for that matter -- while many ENJOY bottoming very much, I don't know a man who truly doesn't enjoy the feel of his cock inside a hot, warm mouth or arse -- it is more about the psychology of it and falling into roles and stereotype and owning them vs challenging them. I truly think if performance concerns were a non issue that 80% of us would be versatile (or at least vers/btm, vers/top)
  3. I used to fuck women in high school and college -- would LUV to breed a sexy FTM dude!
  4. I think it's largely mind over body -- do your mental work in advance, think about how much you desire the top inside you -- how good it feels to you and him and therefore the longer, the better. When I get together with my favorite two men, it's not uncommon for us to fuck for 2-3 hours, but that's a lot of swapping off and positions with no one having a dick (or 2) in their arse for more than 20 minutes at a time. Poppers are great, but like many have said -- I use them in the beginning and at orgasm time or spread out -- hard to sustain heavy use without a headache and limp dick.
  5. I think some people just have a natural inclination toward one position or another...maybe it's lack of confidence as a top or experience or simply genetics? Personally, I LOVE to bottom and am probably better at bottoming than topping -- but I also love the feeling of my dick in a dude's arse, and pumping him full of my creme rocks! I say enjoy it all! I know "total tops" that also bottom every now and then -- I think it makes them better lovers actually.
  6. For me -- cuddling is for men that I have an emotional connection with -- lovers, boyfriends, good friends -- otherwise, it's just good, hot bare sex and breeding for sport
  7. One of the hottest! I have had cum leak from a sexy bottom arse and run down my dick a few times -- VERY HOT!
  8. I've always spread my legs -- but now I have to try it with them together! Thanks :-D
  9. Was in Berkeley recently (on a saturday night) -- there was some good bareback sex and breeding going on at SteamWorks!
  10. Depth is the key for me -- I want it so deep it will absorb fullly into my boy!
  11. Nothing better than interracial sex! I have been a fan of Machofucker since the beginning--- nothing gets me in "bottom mode" faster, plus my hot, hung, top black pals seem to really enjoy fucking and breeding me when a Machofucker dvd is playing in the background -- just raises the bar on HOTNESS!
  12. Move to ATL stud -- I haven't heard anyone over 30 ask about status in the past 5 years.
  13. My guess is your bf knows and IS fucking around behind your back too -- I know a couple of men in relationships who have similar set-ups -- "don't ask, don't tell," everyone knows whats happening, but keeping the "little secret" makes it hotter for them.
  14. Heading to Berkeley/Steamworks on the 26th--fingers crossed!
  15. My goal once inside a sexy hole is to pump it full of cum and get my btm man off too (ideally bending over and swallowing his load as I continue to coat his interior walls) -- if I'm bottoming I want his load too! I know younger men who play these games--- they really want the loads, just not the responsibility of asking for them and want the top to take charge and 'accicentallly' seed them so their conscious is clear "it's not my fault, I asked him to be safe and not cum inside me" == whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the night I guess?!
  16. I prefer cum to be deposited in my bum or in the bum of the bottom I'm fucking -- however, I do enjoy swallowing the loads of my close fuck buds.
  17. 11 x 7" -- struggled greatly to get about 10" down my throat...but once opened up my arse enjoyed it (and 4 loads) very much!
  18. I have a pal who uses C - 5 mg -- he takes one every afternoon. Said it took about 4-5 days to have enough in his system, but it helped a lot. Sometimes he will take another one at night if he's planning extended play. Your brain still has to be engaged for it to work -- e/g if you're not into the guy or horned up the C won't make your dick had regardless.
  19. I agree -- you'll know when it's right for you. Perhaps start with a trusted friend and experiment from there. I grew up fucking and getting fucked bare, so wearing condoms never felt right or natural. Still, I had some initial fears when I began breeding with men I didn't know/trust. It's defnitely a personal journey.
  20. I'd say flush out with some warm soapy water till it runs clear, put some coconut oil or your favorite lube in there and then relax and enjoy his tongue, fingers and cock opening you up--- don't over prepare or you'll miss out on the sensations that make the first time special.
  21. I'm with BadInBrooklyn on this one -- I want to fuck a man who wants to be fucked -- gets off on feeling my dick in his arse and is an active participant. If he acts like he's hurting or it's too much fuss it turns me off...not the reverse.
  22. When I bottom, I love keeping every drop inside of me until it's absorbed -- however, I'm also cool if someone wants to rim/felch some of it out, too... When I top, i want my bottom to let it absorb inside him, unless I have a taste or feed him some of it...
  23. he's right -- you'll both want it raw from now on!
  24. I've continued to get into triad sex over the last few months -- and agree with Caliber26 -- luv watching, split-roasting, double penetrating, triple making out, felching, etc... 3-5 sexy, naked men in bed having bare sex has unlimited potential for fun and satisfaction.
  25. Did my first Double Penetration as a top last night -- WOWZA! Amazing. HOT. And, can't wait to do it again! My partner and I started out by tag-teaming our favorite mate, then after about an hour, as I was lying down and our bottom boy was riding my cock while holding on to the headboard of the bed, my hubby came in from behind -- handed him the poppers, and after a deep snitt gently leaned him forward and proceeded to push his bare cock up his tight hole alongside mine. It took a little time to adjust, but soon enough we were both balls deep and gently rocking back and forth inside this amazing man --- a few minutes later all 3 of us blew our loads -- 2 deep went inside our boy and his load shot across my chest, on my face and into my hair. Damn!
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