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No probs. I'd always assumed that drugs, booze and being fucked raw weren't really that good for you (as I once moronically pointed out to a doctor who'd just fucked me). Nice to know its really the processed meats and chocolate eclairs.

Pride or worse, competitive. My friend fucked me the other day. As usual bare.. As usual I'm told I only smile with cum inside me. As usual I try to sound serious as I say "fuck off". Fun over, I go home. That's it for the night. Only to get a message from a "straight" friend I've not seen in months. Can I meet him at 3am? He can sometimes be a bit on the friendly chat side but not much risk of that at 3am. Sure - I'll be there.. Only problem - what to do about the load already in me? - Ask straight guy? No - he will be turned on by the cum but turned off coz its tranny cum (don't ask me why - he fucks guys, he fucks girls but has a thing against trannies) - Clean my hole? Obviously the sensible choice - but I'm not feeling sensible. As my tranny friend annoyingly points out I like it in me. - Keep it in and see what happens? Could have been a disaster, as it turned out was super hot. He fucks my tranny friend's cum into me and I'm super happy. He seems a bit puzzled that hole seems a bit wet and that he has to dry off periodically but doesn't say anything. What puts him off isn't that but a call from his wife saying she'd be home shortly. Shame didn't enter my mind for one minute - nor any other emotion which stops us doing stupid things. I like the remark about cats - but had no idea it was just cats. I thought it applied to the entire animal kingdom - that lack of opportunity or - in humans only - principled behaviour - was the reason we don't get bred by everyone. U mean it's sometimes lack of desire? ...wow.

Tough one - my imagination says one thing, my diary says the opposite. A bird in the hand.... etc

"Natural and normal" doesn't exclude "sleazy" does it? I'd be surprised if anyone was ever turned on by how "normal" something seemed. I can just about see "wow, your ass is so white" as a compliment even if I shudder at the thought and not my desired look ( fake tan , photoshop, and complete darkness all good answers). Blue eyes? (I have them, but to me a good reason for blindfolds) We have different tastes. But "normal"? As a turn on? It probably all is much more normal than we think - but does make it a turn on? Many are turned on by big cocks, some are turned on by really small ones. Some (me included) have no preference. Does anyone get turned on by their normal-ness - how close the cock seemed to mean, mode or median?

Tempting us into things we’re not allowed to mention? Lick holes? Me? ...guess. Sorry, boring and obvious, I know.

Married (to a woman) for 20 years. Been with bf for 10. Not strictly a slut by your definition but that's just lack of opportunity. Anything's possible in a relationship - they're all different. The Only thing that can't work is a belief that something can't work. For example, I'm lucky - wife doesn't mind me being gay/living with bf because she knows it's not about her (and so not a problem for the relationship in the way another woman would be). Bf on the other hand gets turned on when I'm slutty - so he gets jealous but getting turned on wins. Remember what their hopes/fears are likely to be not just yours. That said, I don't tell either of them every detail - but I would if they asked. And also, obviously "possible" and "easy" are not the same thing.

Reminding your visitors when arrival is imminent that you're putting the blindfold on - they can have you wearing the blindfold or on whatsapp but not both.

I've been cured since Craigslist went. I want it back.

Conviction seems one of the least surprising bits of news I've ever read; sentence perhaps a bit steep. The texts after were both nasty and super stupid (most burglars, muggers etc know not to do that). Not what he was thinking but it did, presumably, mean the guys could go to the doctor asap. Obviously it's deplorable - crimes tend to be. Doesn't mean you throw away the key.

According to the FT A Lancet commission on healthy diets from sustainable feats food systems estimated in January [2019] that unhealthy diets account for 11 million avoidable premature deaths globally each year, posing a greater risk of illness and death than un-safe sex, alcohol drugs and tobacco combined. (Andrew Jack, 11 March)

If u were any nearer I’d volunteer if u wanted to make sure. Like others have said, answer is of course (and offer stands if you find yourself in Hong Kong)...

Married 21 years. Bf for ten years. All good - except that Christmas lunch, table for three shortly after I’d told her and started going out with him was maybe a bit over ambitious.

I don't think it has to be an escort. Just find someone who's up for it but doesn't mind doing it by your rules. If you find escorts best, cool - I won't interfere. I just think there are plenty of others who would be up for it too. Don't be afraid of laying down the rules - if it turns you on, it's almost certain others will find it hot too.

A straight guy visiting Hong Kong asked one time if he could see what it was like to fuck a guy. He'd been here about 3 weeks with work and it was his last day. He just didn't want to see my face or him to see me - was a bit complicated to arrange (I enter through one door, put on blindfold, etc leave by other door). Was super hot - cum within a couple of minutes. So I'm guessing he liked it - but obviously left by the other door without looking around..

I'm too quiet. I know the tops all love it but I cant make fake noises. Sounds stupid too but I find it difficult to think when I'm being fucked - so ends up being "cum inside me" or something super unoriginal like that. Eye contact is another matter...v hot when it works.

"Hello this is James - we met a few years ago. Do you remember me?" The honest answer is: "No - not a clue who you are - but wanna fuck me anyhow?" Is there a better way of saying it? One that makes me sound less of a rude slapper?

What’s straight about losing the mood? I know I do it. It’s why I’d often rather not cum. I’d be pretty surprised if I was straight though.

Threesomes never work. Super-hot post though. I’m guessing this guy doesn’t mind the long game that doesn’t plant the orchard either, just so he can eat an apple. You must say what happens when he comes back for more. And that’s the thing about hypnosis. You can be made to do what you really want, not what you think you want. I remember a guy who used to fuck me and all I would reall remember was waking up when he said his magic word. I had a sort of half-memory of what he’d done while I was under. It a real turn-on even if I would have let him anyway - and would certainly have remembered it better. We hadn’t talked about hypnosis either. He had somehow just done it. I’ve no idea how.

Sorry my spell check doesn’t seem to know “pre-cum” in case anyone’s wondering about “presumption”

It was late at night and I was horny. I did what I sometimes did when I just needed to be fucked. I posted on Craigslist (as you could back then). The post was simple - too simple said the CL computer. The stupid automated message said it needed more words and description or the post wouldn’t get replies. How often does it get raw fucks in the early hours? Smooth white hole. Blindfold and anon. Fuck, cum & go. Condom or cum inside. Up to you. This last bit got me past the minimum word nonsense but it was a bit disingenuous. I had done this three or four times before and and it wasn’t really a choice. Or at least time of day, it was always the same. There were one or two replies from the usual fantasy brigade but then one popped up that I didn’t recognise. It asked for a face pic. I said I couldn’t not. He didn’t need it to fuck my hole and it was dark anyhow. “No face, no fuck” was his immediate reply. So obviously i sent it. I needed his cum and he knew that too. It might be stupid to send the pic but couldn’t say no. I needed it too much. About twenty minutes passed with nothing. I didn’t really give it much thought - not his type, another fantasist, blind drunk and now asleep, who knows. 4 out of 5 responses to this sort of post don’t happen so nothing new. But hopefully there will be someone else. But no - something like 20 minutes later came a reply. This was unusual. For this sort of thing you get a reply immediately or not at all. Why the 20 minute wait. His email just said. “Hi Alan, but I know you.” My first reaction was fear. I knew this could go badly wrong and now it had. This wasn’t such a good idea. Not the slutty post but the face pic. That was really stupid. And then - who is it? My mind runs through the worst - the complete mingers, the ones who would use it to bully me, close friends who I could have shocked.... or just not knowing. Am I going to spend months trying to work out who knows and seems a bit off? If I am going to do this sort of thing why do I have to do it so badly. I know I am desperate for cum but it’s really stupid to show it - with the face pic. But then my need for cum took over again and I started to feel quite good again. It’s 3am on Friday night. He’s awake, looking. I know I still want it. Who cares who it is - the whole point of blindfold and anonymous is you take it from anyone. Lets be honest too I’m not fussy when I can see. If someone makes clear they want to fuck me it’s about when and how. Not whether. Also it took a little while but this guy - whoever he is - has replied. That can only mean one thing. He knows who I am and he wants to fuck me. It was now starting to turn me on. I really needed it. “U wanna fuck me even so? btw who are you? No need to say if you’d rather just fuck.” This time it was an almost immediate reply. It was X. I won’t give his name. X was the boyfriend a really lively fun guy in our group of friends but while my friend was always fun and good company, X was not. It’s very hard to describe but it was as though he enjoyed being awkward just to make people uncomfortable. At first I’d thought he was shy but it wasn’t that. He was super self assured and really intelligent too. It was as if he was being forced to mix with people he didn’t really like or weren’t quite up to his standard. He certainly didn’t mind if we knew it. Say something stupid and he’d correct you. Otherwise he’d just say silent. I will admit he was physically quite hot too in a peculiar sort of way but there was no way I would have demeaned myself by letting him know that. If he was at one end of the table tried to make sure I was at the other. He was too obviously playing some sort of game. I no idea what it was and didn’t want to waste an evening trying to be polite to a tosser. I could not begin to see what my friend saw in this very odd cold fish. So - back to 3am. I got it now. Bet my lively friend took it raw too. He rose in my estimation . I was enjoying this now. So I think was he. He knew I was a slut and I knew he wanted to fuck me. It was probably some weird power thing - but I didn’t care. Also, I suppose he did have power, so no point pretending otherwise. “I want your cum inside me.” Again slightly pointless. He knew that already but I thought he’d like me to say it even so. I also gave him room number and the address of the hotel room where I was (until I became a slut I had no idea you could book after midnight any time even up to 5am). I made a makeshift door wedge with folded paper so he didn’t need the key and I’d chosen a hotel where you didn’t need one for the lift. Hope nobody else pushes the door instead - but at 3:15am it’s pretty likely. “20 minutes - blindfold and ass up” was his reply. I knew he was not messing around. It was more like 15. I heard the door open. I heard him take off trousers and briefs. Clothes on the top half small stayed on. Then I felt a damp and very hard cock inside me press against my hole - he was in. Not that big a cock for anyone interested- if it works and can reach, that’s all I care about. The presumption and the hardness left no doubt about it working. I love anonymous but being used by this guy who doesn’t like me was so much hotter. I made a slight noise when it went in. I was never in any doubt about his choice. Even if he was normally good, I knew I was going to get it raw. Funny really. I was whoring myself to someone who would enjoy the power it gave him. And I knew he would view me as dirt and a whore afterwards too.I didn’t care - one for another day. Right now I just wanted his cum. That was very obviously what he wanted too - this was going to be a quick one. No more than 3 minutes and he’s making the noises. I knew he was close. Breed me. I need your cum. Oh! And you can fuck me raw any time you want. I’ll take it. I knew he wouldn’t - this was almost certainly our one and only fuck but it was true so no point pretending . It seemed to do the trick. Almost immediate groan and felt his cum shooting deep inside me - not actually that much for one who was so horny. Not that I mind. I’m happy now. He didn’t pull out immediately but just lay still on top of me for a while, motionless at first and then pressed his weight down super hard for on me a couple of last time and clenching his cock muscle as he did it. As if to make sure I took every drop and that it was as deep in me as it could be. I had what I needed and was super happy. One of my regular fuckbuddies says I only smile when I have cum inside me. It earns him a “fuck off” but I caught myself doing it now. Face down in a pillow of course so it didn’t matter. I also knew the the routine for anonymous fucks at this point too. The braver ones might have a very quick shower but X would do up his trousers, maybe slap my butt cheeks, say a “thanks” or a “see you” and be out of there as quick as he could. Less than a minute I reckoned and I’d be alone just with his cum inside me. But no. With me still fully naked lying on my front, him fully dressed, standing up and looking down at his cum in my hole he starts to speak. You know, you really make shouldn’t make a habit of this sort of thing. It’s not good for you. What does your boyfriend think of this? You’ve probably had too much to drink too. Most of your lot do. It’s not attractive - you do realise that? You really should give some thought to your health. Short silence while he ties a shoelace or something. It’s a small town. Everyone knows each other. It’s not London you know? Another pause. While I thought “ah so that’s the chip on your shoulder - or at least one of the extra large order” he wasn’t finished guess I’m now going to have to get myself checked out too. You should too. I won’t do this again by the way so don’t email me. And make sure you get yourself to the doctor too. I’m a fairly confident sort normally. I don’t get “lost for words”. I can always find something to say if I have to. Not now - though I could still think. Half of me was angry thinking “you sanctimonious little tool - have u got the memory of a goldfish? You didn’t seem to mind 5 minutes ago.. Tell you what when I’m down at the STI why don’t you you have a word with the shrink? Oh and by the way if you don’t like sluts my advice would be don’t go and fuck them bareback at 3am” was what half my mind thought - the other was still super happy. It just thought “ Haha - look at where your cum is” What came out was an inarticulate grunt - which annoyingly made it sound like I agreed with his little homily. I then feel him prod his finger - quite roughly up my hole (who knows what that was about? I wasn’t joking about the shrink). Then the door shuts and he’s gone. Thankfully friends changed and so I only saw him a couple of times after that. If he was odd and silent before, he was the same but worse now. But for the fact that they don’t go out fucking in the early hours he could have been a Trappist monk. He hardly said a word to anyone and nothing at all to me. Just the odd look of disgust in case I had forgotten or had misinterpreted his silence. I hadn’t but I could see that one of the problems of his “let’s make everyone feel ill at ease because it’s fun” routine must be that that there’s not much left in your repertoire if you actually are being quiet for a reason. I’m sure everyone else thought I wasn’t on top form but he was just being himself. When I did catch him looking at me in that disgusted way I just would flash him a super quick “fuck me” look - a bit of eye contact to make clear he knew he knew I meant it, that what I had said was true. It was. He could fuck me any time wanted but he could still go to hell if he thought he was going to shame me. A super superior disgusted look told me he he understood perfectly but was quite definitely not in that mood right now. I doubt the others noticed anything. As I said, sitting in the corner and and looking sour was just what he did. And if I was down that end of the table for once maybe I was being nice and making the effort like I was always being told to. I don’t know anything about power games or whatever his emotional issues were but my game is simple- being fucked so by my rules at least I’d won. I then realised that for the first time ever i was really enjoying his company too. I didn’t feel at all awkward now. He could sit there silently looking at me any way he liked, I lowered my eyes a fraction, catch his for the millisecond it took for him to get what I meant, smile inwardly and think of his cum. I like this. And let’s be honest. For all his condescending advice and contemptuous looks,he might need a late night whore again. He hasn’t yet but I bet he still has my number.

What cities in China are best for bb and other such fun?

A bit off topic, but I've never really understood the "sexual racism sux" thing. If that's right, why are sexual ageism and sexual sexism any better? Aren't they mixing up two different things - who you invite to a job interview as opposed to who you want to fuck? And unless you'll do anything that draws breath aren't you bound to be a bit sexually racist/ageist/sexist? I heard of a guy whose ideal guy would be an FW de Klerk lookalike. I'll be honest. FW doesn't really do it for me. Is that really unacceptable? It's bound to be a bit unfair too. SWC is never going to have quite the same appeal . For me cock size doesn't matter - as long as it can get in but if some guy only likes black guys with big cocks, I don't see the problem. He's the one missing out. Unrelated but I think porn definitely has ugliness to cock size correlation - the uglier the guy, the bigger the cock - particularly for the white guys. My complete favourite is who you would think are stereotypical bottom guys, especially asian, who are in fact super top. So hot! And the angrier they get about this sort of stuff, the hotter they become...

Boring hookup - more talking than fucking solution - guy with little/no English Really boring hookup - more Google Translate than fucking

It seems to me 100% obvious even if we are just criminalising ordinary human behaviour. In the case of theft it isn’t even hot either. But I’m probably just being unimaginative. I’m sure the room can do better than that.

From the time when I did safe only I seem to remember the trick was not to say anything. Just cum really quickly, without any obvious build up then leave ASAP. Leaving thinking - did he just do that...?