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I used to think I was straight. One of only two in my (boys boarding) school in my year who didn't play with guys - the idea of it really repelled me. Took me ages to work out (a) I did like sex and (b) wasn't straight. Another friend of mine knew he was straight but decided guys were better than nothing. 400 times he reckoned when it was guys or nothing. None since. I don't really see what the the problem is here either. If that's what you like, go for it. I wouldn't worry too much about the theory of what they "really" are. Just see what you like and do it.
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play it by ear, I reckon - don't make other people's decisions for them and see what happens. Fucks that become friends is possible. So is friends deciding to fuck - the latter can be v hot. If you're on this site then the "normal" boat has already sailed - at least most people's idea of normal. So what? Far better to get what you want than be "normal". Nobody tells their friends/family the details of their fucks anyhow. For what it's worth my bf is turned on by my being slutty. My wife doesn't know...
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I'd like to think so, but truth is i don't know. I'm a complete slut - but I make an effort to ensure that only those who need to know that. Sure I did once get fucked anon by a guy who I happened to know who responded to my very slutty craigslist post. The fuck was hot - it was the lecture about my sluttiness afterwards that I found a bit hard to take. So if almost none of my friends knows of my sluttiness chances are I don't know about theirs. Sure there might be the odd exception who doesn't seem to care - I'd heard of of but never actually met a character at law school known as the "cottaging fascist" - a young man with pronounced right wing views who would go to formal dinners in the Inns of Court and tell everyone how he liked to spend his spare time. I - like most others - are not quite that brave. As with so much else, it seems best not to make comparisons but just to work at it and do the best that you can.
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My question would be "Anon sex - how do I get some?" Used to be easy with Craigslist. My main fear is never having any again...
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Running Into A Hookup When He's With His Wife
gwmxyz replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
A bit off topic, but I once bumped into my wife's most hated work colleague in a sauna. That good stuff about no reaction/saying nothing when surprised wasn't really his style - would have been far hotter if he'd fucked me. As it was I sat there in Waterloo chariots answering stupid questions ("are you gay?") . Wife's reasons were presumably a bit different but I did start to see her point. -
Does size really matter? + Advice for smaller guys
gwmxyz replied to Txyyxxxb's topic in General Discussion
Agree with the last on dominance - I'm just not so sure it's linked to height & muscles. In my experience the super-dominant ones are rarely the big muscled ones. That lot are too laid back. The ones who are super to slightly scary dominant are usually much more average, or smaller. Real turn on to me is typical bottom types who are actually top. That lot get v angry for some reason. So cock size doesn't matter to me - a load's a load (. Small cock myself - yet never had anyone say no (on the rare occasion I fuck). Sure, they might like big cocks - but if small's what on offer, they'll take that too. -
Do what makes you feel hot. Do that and they will fuck you. Hairy and they can decide to have a go themselves, bringing a razor to the hookup (and if my experience is anything to go by making a complete hash of it). Shaved has the advantage that they can't make you put it back.
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What about the "more pics" brigade? I know 100% for sure and without any exceptions that anyone who isn't sure after seeing pics is not going to meet. He asks for more but the answer is always "no" in the end. The only question is how many messages you have to exchange to get there. So has the the penny not dropped with him? I'd reckon it's not the first time he's asked. Has it never occurred to him that it never actually happens. Honestly, I'd rather they told me to f off because I was a minger. I wouldn't say I'm too fussy about who fucks me - but this is the one absolute rule I have. Why? Let's assume I send him more pics (which I wouldn't) and let's say they tip the balance in my favour (which they never do) and you do actually meet - it's still going to be crap, isn't it? Can anyone hookup knowing that the other person thinks they're borderline do-able?
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I'd put it the other way round - what's the point of being gay if you're a top? I mean, you're going to be doing al the fucking anyway - and as the saying goes, you don't look at the mantelpiece when you're poking the fire. The only obvious one is availability - thousand times easier, I guess, for gay tops to get fucks than straight guys. But then, I'm not a top, so there's probably some bit of it I've missed.
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Anonymous hookups who end up wanting to date you
gwmxyz replied to AriesBB7's topic in General Discussion
Worst one I had was a top who gave me a load and then tried to persuade me to invest in his business.....not sure it was quite the right moment. -
why married/straight men hook up with fags
gwmxyz replied to constructionguy's topic in General Discussion
Like others have said, the main reason is they're not getting any/enough. Second reason, laziness. So much easier to get a bottom guy to fuck than a woman. Third reason price - the women who do what bottom guys do, no messing around tend to want cash in hand. Fourth reason, discretion - their fuck is very unlikely to be friends with the wife. Fifth, like others have said, they're really gay and are just pretending otherwise at home ( which is probably just about do-able for fucking but gets a bit tricky to fake enthusiasm much beyond that). -
...if I'd been more switched on, I'd have asked for her profile so at least I knew when I was being stalked :-)
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My wife was once convinced she''d found me on gaydar. No idea why - it wasn't facepic and at the other end, they all look the same to me. Was tempted to pretend it was for a while - but felt sorry for the "lookalike" who had done nothing wrong and who it would probaby freak out - funny as it might be. As for my bf, no. He knows everything.
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Can't seem to get any right now :-(
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Pakistani dom looking for whores to breed.
gwmxyz replied to horny4holes's topic in The UK & Ireland
Up in Aberdeen in ten days time. Would happily make a detour for u to fuck me... -
Maybe its not the spell check. Dark forces etc. Can I say Beelzebub or Lucifer? I'd always imagined the forces of darkness to have a little more up top Ms Palin
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Rather bizarrely my spell check substituted "Sarah Palin" for "Sarah Palin" - love it. Much more fun than what I had actually written.
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If there's no such thing as being gay, then presumably we are all the same. Should we ever meet Mike Pence, we'd be in with a chance. He might use one set of words to describe it and we might use another but the point would be the same. We couldn't be respecting his heterosexuality because our sexuality and his are the same. If ours broke, got perverted etc etc, who is to say that his won't too? I am not saying it seems likely, still less that I'm tempted, just that his reasoning (if that's the right word) seems to invite advances. Sarah Palin, I understand, comes to tempt us. He cant really do that, can he, with something we don't want to do?
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The risk if you don't is some guy won't like it, grab a bic razor and set to. If it's the other way round and he prefers it hairy, tough. He can't do the anything to bring it back. Like others say, do what makes you feel best - its just that a cut, a shocking rash and some bits of hair that have been missed isn't that for me.
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There was this Japanese guy I met a while back who was really into biting. He spoke almost no English but the one word he definitely knew was "pain". His eyes lit up as he said it. My nipples were his fave. Normally, I think I'm into whatever the other guy wants. A sort of demented competitiveness takes over and make me think that if others can do it, I can too. Trouble was, that pain really doesn't do it for me - and it was clear nothing less than the real thing was going to do it for him. It ended up a rather unsatisfactory sort of bargaining process - "ok, two more bites then I get to suck you, right?" That I then agreed to meet him twice shows only how stupid I can be. He still looked hot, but it still wasn't any better - it was the same or worse. I couldn't stop myself from being turned off by the only thing which turned him on. I even felt sorry for him because his interests obviously meant he was going to struggle and as I might have mentioned, he was good looking. All I can say from that is that if lust doesn't get you there, pity certainly won't either.
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Tranny who fucks me quite often did something similar a while back. Gave me these frilly looking panties and told me to wear them. I did really just from from politeness. I doubted I could even fit into them they were so small and thought I'd look absurd if I did. Turns out no - a bit small, but they fit and however I look, I like it. Doesn't hugely surprise me either that she should have worked this one out long before I did.
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I guess it has to be the first time I got fucked raw. Twelve years on he's still my bf - and to this day he doesn't believe it. He thinks I'm just saying that - I was such a slut, that can't possibly be true. So I guess there's no point trying to explain why I take that as a compliment too...
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Does anyone else feel the need to be a cumdump all the time?
gwmxyz replied to LoadMyHoleSF's topic in General Discussion
I wish! Trying my best but if I'm being honest, all manner of dull stuff can sometimes get in the way. When it does, what matters is not to let to you and, to quote Churchill a little out of context, never never give up. If anyone's in Hong Kong and thinks they can help me stay focused on what matters, please say. -
I am a bottom and I do have the right to say no!
gwmxyz replied to cumdumptor's topic in Toronto Metro Area
As any lawyer will tell you, it's enforcing your rights that matters. Having a right is pretty pointless if you can't. -
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