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We all owe our lives to bareback sex.
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What do people think "discreet" on grindr/scruff means?
gwmxyz replied to valldelxeno's topic in General Discussion
There was a straight guy a few years ago, visiting HK for a week or so who said he wanted to try bb for the first time with a guy - a claim I'd usually take with a pinch of salt. This one, however, was so strange; I suspect it might have been. Anyhow, he needed to be discreet, and so I had to agree to his instructions precisely. They were essentially to go through the whole hook-up pointing in the same direction. So I - entered the room at his place from a door at the back; - got on my hands and knees, put a blindfold on; - all in incomplete silence throughout; - he then fucked me bb cums very quickly - no more than a couple of minutes (which again had a ring of truth to it); - I then take blindfold off, get dressed (all facing forwards) and leave the room by the other door at the front. So not looking backwards or in his direction at any point. Odd, I know, but if it is that sort of discreet, I highly recommend it. -
I remember at school being having this old monk (nice old boy but 85 if he was a day) lecture us on the evils of mah-sterbation. Nobody quite knew where to look. Never quite seen the religious objection to it either - but sure as hell wasn't going to ask.
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Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?
gwmxyz replied to bbicurious's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Even when I insisted on condoms - which I did ( in a way that now makes me laugh), I always realised that bare would feel far more natural and better - in a way which would really turn me on. It was just that I feared what would happen if I didn't. For a while the fear and the turn-on were in an uneasy tension when I started to bb. Now, the fear's gone now, the turn-on remains and I can't imagine ever going back to condoms. But even back then it was like facemasks - worn because they seemed necessary, not because I would otherwise out of choice. -
Stealthing is obviously not ok. Like others I've had it done on me and like others I found it incredibly hot. It still doesn't make it ok. It's a bit like spiking a drink. Even if I do enjoy a drink it doesn't make it ok to spike them. I'm also not quite sure what "explicit consent" means or how it works. "May I unzip your fly?" "And now may I suck your cock?" "What if I lick your balls?" Most consent in sex is implicit. It is for the person to say if they don't like it. It should only be sexual assault if they don't stop. Stealthing's different because they don't know it's happening.
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Lawyer, of sorts. I was super-flattered the time someone thought I was a hooker though.
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I like black guys. I just like the look. Cock size doesn’t bother me and as for manner, my biggest turn-on is stereotypical bottom types who are actually tops. There’s this clever test by Harvard, the Implicit Association Test that people think helps you out on whether you’re racist or not. I’m not sure it does. I think it tells you who you’re into (and if fucking had any bearing on prejudices, Donald Trump couldn’t be sexist). When I told my wife my result of taking the IAT, her reaction was “obviously” - but not in a impressed or surprised sort of way. I just find white guys a bit ugly. It took me years to understand that some guys actually prefer blond/blue. (As an aside I’ve noticed too with Chinese guys, that the ones who dye their hair blond seem to like to fuck guys with that hair colour too. Makes it nice and easy). I’m not sure it makes much difference in the end though - coz anyone can fuck me.
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I’m guessing you don’t live in Hong Kong then. But I know what you mean. The thing that gets me is spending hours messaging online guys it would take 20 mins just to go and meet - and get a much better answer to all the questions. I can’t say I’m too picky myself. My question is usually just “Will you fuck me?”
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Lying During Sex / Honouring Smaller Dicks
gwmxyz replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
Dick size has never bothered me - if it can get the cum inside me, I’m happy. I don’t think it bothers the tops either. Whatever size it is, they’re probably used to it by now. And so long as they cum inside, they seem to be happy too. Then again, I don’t speak much when being fucked - sounds stupid but I find it difficult to do two things at once. -
Does wanting to BB mean you have to take loads?
gwmxyz replied to ScaredAndShy's topic in General Discussion
No. You could do it to meet people or to keep fit. You might even see it as more environmentally friendly. My money's still on the hot load. -
I've done blindfold on my own tons of times without any problem at all - but I guess it varies from city to city. One practical point if you do - remind them that you can't reply to texts when the blindfold is on. Seems obvious, but people can be remarkably stupid. Also, don't try and make bookings ahead of time - make it "now only". Too many who reply are flakes and time-wasters - which isn't too much of a problem it they fail to show up now (you can just get someone else round instead). Blocking out future time, on the other hand, expecting them to show up, is likely to be a frustrating experience: the further away the meet-up time is that they propose, the more likely it is they will not show up at all.
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bareback What do you do when the top wants to use condoms?
gwmxyz replied to a topic in General Discussion
Like others, I let them. It's one thing to say they want to use condoms, another to actually do so. Also, full condom in bin once they've gone isn't exactly the end of the world... -
I quite often explain the hoarding and say that the flat is a tip but if they don't mind that they can come over for a fuck. Funnily enough, they've always felt able to cope with it. Admittedly too, its not a toenails in the bathroom tip. More a sort of can't move for unnecessary possessions piled high sort of tip. Fuck too vigorously and I might get hit by a twelve year old laptop or a box of old Nokia phones sort of tip..
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There was this guy who didn't admit being a thalidomide victim - or some very similar looking disability. I actually thought fair enough. If he'd sent an accurate photo, I wouldn't have agreed to meet. As it was, I sucked him off. At the other end of the scale , I also once met this really hot guy who deliberately used unflattering pictures. Apparently, he was terrified of seeing disappointment in people's faces when they met. I have to say I can understand the first guy much more than the second. I wouldn't mind if they burst into tears when they saw me - as long as they recovered sufficiently to pull their cock out and fuck me. That said, it's easiest to be yourself - not least because they are the best judge of what they find hot. There was this top who always used to get so turned on by the whiteness of my bottom and would say so; while I'd have felt so much sexier if he'd lied and said it was a bit tanned. If i'd fiddled with the white balance in Photoshop to make myself look what I thought was pleasingly orange, I could have done myself out of a fuck altogether.
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I was trying to persuade my top friend how hot a blingy jewel of some sort in the navel was that some guy was wearing in the porn. He kept saying it wasn't very manly. Body piercings, tatoos, pierced cock, obviously - although, I'd say all those are. Then again, my biggest turn on of all is campy stereotypically bottom types who are tops. I cannot explain why it is so hot. My bf does this completely fake sort of super simpering thing when he's trying to be really polite. It's so fake, so not the real him and so stereotypical it wouldn't be out of place in a "Carry On" film - and I know lots of guys would find it "too gay" (whatever that means). No such thing to me.
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Slight tangent, but can anyone suggest a slutty sounding answer to the "how many loads" question when the sad truth is none? Trying to sound like it's a lie is the only one I can think of. It's flattering, I know, but you're being suspected of doing in afternoon what you'd struggle to do in month under current conditions. Or at least I seem to...
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Of course - an escort can do anything that an accountant can do so why should it matter? Two of my longest standing and most regular FBs are - or at some point were - escorts, as it happens both trannies. I''d go out with either like a shot, other than with a wife and bf already, it might look a bit silly/greedy/indecisive. What I can't see being an issue is if they weren't much help with the tax return. A useful skill, obviously, but not really central to the relationship. Call it vanity, but your reason for escorts being a good thing, is exactly my problem with it. It doesn't work if they are not into me. Thankfully, they were off duty (or decided to give something back) when they answered my, er slightly slutty CL post - so no worries on that front. In theory that would also be the problem with the straight guy - if I thought he was really straight. Only if spent all day filling teeth, I'd find it hard not to suspect he was a dentist . What definitely doesn't work is for an escort or ex-escort to whom monogamy does not appeal to have a super-jealous boyfriend (to whom it does) and a slightly stupid fuckbuddy who is crap at the whole subterfuge thing. That one goes very predictably wrong. I mean I know the suspicious always find what they are looking for - just not quite as easily as that.
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I'd say 16 - and for everything (buying booze, driving on the public roads, voting, getting a job, not having to go to school, flying planes, serving on juries etc etc). Nice and simple, absolutely clear. The Ghisliane Maxwell case amazes me. At 16, i knew what sex was and whether I wanted it. I didn't need some friend my parents' age to cast some magic spell. A few introductions wouldn't have gone amiss, mind. Could have saved 8 years. The only time recently I was worried a guy might be under-age he turned out to be 26 - which actually probably is about my lower limit. Any younger and I start worrying they aren't into me. That or they start talking about how they were born after I left university etc. It's much more relaxed to be fucked by my tranny friend and have a combined age over 100. Who knows maybe 200 one day... Or just a thought - but what about an exam? Multiple choice and if you pass you can fuck? It would make schoolwork a bit more interesting.
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My bf is a hoarder - he owns every piece of clothing he owned since he was 16 - but by the sounds of things, that's still quite a mild hoarding. I'd still rather get a hotel room. Note to self, definitely no cat.
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
gwmxyz replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Name - Alex Cell number - +852 9072 6915 - WhatsApp Location - Hong Kong (Sheung Wan or can travel) Times - Evenings usually, other times sometimes Age - 50 Height - 5' 10" Weight - 80 KG Ethnicity - White I won't say no.
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Because the get the opportunity? Because they can? Because they like being fucked? Maybe it's just me. I know exactly what I like. I haven't got the first clue why.
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I never give other people's numbers out unless they've asked - if in doubt I assume they want things kept private slightly inconsistently, I don't mind at all if they give my number out
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Do you find out the names of guys you hook up with
gwmxyz replied to BB4fking's topic in General Discussion
I never ask, but almost always end up find out somehow - certainly if it's more than a one-off. It's usually for practical reasons - eg hotel receptions usually expect you to know the name of the "friend" whose room it is you are visiting. -
This is why all your tube videos were deleted
gwmxyz replied to rawTOP's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
You put it so much better than me. In fairness, it's probably a bit difficult to work up much chemistry if you're having sex in those circumstances - even before we get on to the question of whether they look creepily similar to you or have the compulsory stubble/beard. I sometimes think I have no imagination. Studio porn is a great reminder that there are people out there with even less. -
Also, is it just me who seems to get hotter guys to fuck me blindfold on than with my eyes open? Funniest one was this guy who answered my "all loads" CL post. He asked for my pic (I obviously didn't ask for his) but then said that he knew me. "Oh", says I "Do you still want to fuck me?" "Yes" says he. (which I had sort of guessed from the fact that he had sent me a reply at all). I'm not sure he'd quite understood how blindfolds work, though. He could have just fucked me and I'd have been none the wiser.
