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I agree that it's as much about the control as the sex. The only time I've done something like it is when my bf as a surprise arranged for four guys to fuck me and then he did last. Our tastes are quite different. Made it extra hot that it wasn't my choice (and woldn't be either). He's also good at sifting out the crazies. So they all came and went just as planned. Is funny coz he's quite jealous and likes to know my whereabouts (Life360 anyone?) but he's also turned on by me being slutty - as long he knows I'm doing it, so it worked quite well. I know if I tried to organise it for him it would end in tears - more accurately loud Barbra Streisand (guys that don't get the hint get Babs).
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Luv it - and of course no units of exchange. I'm a lawyer. I'm hardly going to let someone literally whore me out.
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Looks like u got a bit of fucking to do...but if u ever in Hong Kong...
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Apologies coz I know I've mentioned it before - it was still the hottest stealthing ever. A guy my bf fancied invited me and my bf to play with him and his bf - all safe fun -which we did. At the end the other two went downstairs to get some food leaving me with the host. He then said "can I put it in bare - not to fuck but just to feel it inside?" I was sure he wasn't going to stick to that - but I said "ok" thinking I could tell him to stop when he started to fuck. To my surprise he didn't. He just put it in and kept it still - no movement at all, for what felt like 5 minutes. Then suddenly still no movement - but I just feel his cum shooting inside me. "I've cum" he said (something I had already worked out). I pretended to be annoyed - found my bf and said we were leaving. But of course went back for more. Still don't know how he did it though.
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We're also not talking a crime like murder, stealing, rape etc. I don't see what's wrong with prostitution. The arguments against prostitution usually come down to other crimes? So why not prosecute them instead? If some guy who has not been trafficed, has plenty of money but decides to be a hooker - because he likes it - what's the problem? It's like banning cars because people get run over. For what it's worth, I don't pay for sex (not for high moral reasons but because the sex is crap when you charge by the hour - it's a little dispiriting to see them glancing at their phone for the time). That said the two who fuck me most often are or were "professionals" I met through Craigslist (doing, I suppose a bit of pro-bono work). I don't see any good reason for it's being made illegal.
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Apologies if this is the wrong place for this, but is it possible to post a list of links or do they have to be done one by one? I've made a list for myself which others might like and might them some time - but it would take an age to put them in one by one. In case it matters, it is a list of the links in the "hot audio videos" thread which are still working/haven't been password protected (ie nothing new, just bringing together earlier posts - it's about half of the videos discussed).
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Yes, always.
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When I first came to HK, for a few months before my bf came to join me, I met a guy from Philippines. He said he was top but first time I fucked him - safe. After that every other time he fucked me - not safe. Sorry -- super thick but it's only just occurred to me typing this what that was about -- Anyhow, I was going to agree with those who said there's no set rules, let alone the full order of service as some guys seem to want before meets - but I probably haven't chosen best example. The guy ended getting on really with my bf too - and quite often took turns (bf torn between being jealous and being turned on - with latter always winning). Never fucked the guy again (nor my bf in 12 yrs). So I guess I do give loads in one sense, but certainly not the other. Just like women - I'm sure I could. I just don't seem to these days. Luv the statistical approach too - we need more of that. Vancouver too....
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The fact that nobody actually does this is the complete answer to this one. It shows - thankfully - that we do all know where reality ends and fantasy begins. It also makes it unnecessary and a little pedantic to point out that choosing the ethnicity of the assailant rather misses the main point about rape.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
gwmxyz replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I agree with the remark that requiring pictures is daft. It should be obvious to anyone that there isn't a picture and just obvious what the solution was. If they refuse even then, its still your choice. For me, I don't see any harm in meeting. You're bound to see what they look like then and it's always going to be actual looks, not the pictures that matter. Only once have I thought that appearances were the reason for there being no clear photo. The guy was a thalidomide victim. I admit I would have been unlikely to admit if I'd first seen a picture. I'll admit too that it worked - by which I don't just mean that we met. As for facial hair, I am probably one of those with the strong views. The answer seems the same. I can't imagine trying to compromise by saying at least whether he had a beard - although I am now tempted, just for a laugh.Scouring the profile for the beards and moustaches and hoping its accurate fails for the same reason. It's the actual look overall that matters - mingers might tick all the right boxes and yes, I will admit it, others look good and have beards. -
What are our thoughts on the current Nazi Usurpation of our democracy?
gwmxyz replied to a topic in LGBT Politics
Theories which are big on who the bad guys are ("the rich and powerful", men, gays or "the jews) and why it was they did it - the rewards of their dastardly deeds but low on every other detail (precisely which gays, Jews, did precisely what where and when) are always worrying. They look very much more like appeals to prejudice than expressions of genuine concern. Genuine concerns, whether right or wrong, would usually have something to say on on the points of this sort (it can't have been all gays, jews), what they had did and to the extent it was not obvious why conspiracy and wrongdoing were to be inferred. They believe the facts support their conclusion and so have no problem pointing them out or allowing us to make our own minds up. What one tends to get instead with a charlatan is the suggestion that everyone with real world experience knows this. Only the unsophisticated could think otherwise. With wrongdoers this powerful there would never be that kind of evidence. Asking for it is naieve if not downright disingenuous. In fact the opposite is true. Nothing screams out louder "I'm a fool" than an improbable vast conspiracy for which one has no evidence. Nothing screams "I'm a bigot" more than if the bad guys being are already unpopular (...the bankers, the catholic church) and nothing screams "I'm a charlatan" than continued assertion as if certain, long after such defects have been pointed out. History may not repeat itself, at least precisely. The repertoire of tricks we fall for still seems wearisomely small. -
Not - I'd say. But beard if you have to - please let's not have the moustache fashion again
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Ditto - in the very unlikely event that you're in Asia/
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What will make you say no to a hookup?
gwmxyz replied to hornycumslut91's topic in General Discussion
“More pics?” Nobody who asks this is ever serious about meeting. They either like what they see first time or they don’t. I don’t mind if them thinking I’m borderline - but if they are stupid enough to say it it I can save everyone’s time. -
Long shot, but if you ever travel to/through Hong Kong...
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Tall or fat chinese guys - super sexy. Failing that anyone with brown eyes. Failing that, anyone.
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My friend Anthony is only into white guys. It's easy to tell his type: white, not American (bizarre, I know) and alive. Anyhow he's chatting online one day to this guy who fits the bill and Anthony agrees to go to his place. He opens the door and is the guy is Chinese. The pictures he sent were not of him and the description all made up. When Anthony points this out the guy says "well you're here now, you might as well fuck me anyway". Or I once took a 45 minute cab ride almost to the Chinese border with this guy who was chatting the whole way. Except when I was 2 minutes away he switched his phone off, leaving me to take another cab back. It doesn't really bother me. I feel more sorry for them that they feel they can't do what they plainly want to. I wasted two 45 min cab rides. I bet the other guy had wasted years. There are good surprises too. I've also met guys who put their worst pics online - so that nobody is disappointed on the day. And as for growing old, I can see that it might get a bit harder but that's not to say impossible. I was at Uni with a guy whose ideal man was FW de Klerk (looks, not politics/achievements) - while to me (and I don't mean to be offensive) that's what blindfolds were invented for. As Randy Crawford said, "men will want you because life don't haunt you". WIth that and taking loads bb you'd seem to have most of what guys are looking for.
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I put it in the same category as foot fetish - ie I will do it but don't really get it. Sex for me isn't about cumming - and my cock's not big so it's not too uncomfortable. My main problem is that for other some other play you need to be horny to be into it and that means hard. There's a guy who likes to put a sort of cross between a birdcage and a padlock on my cock but then wants me to do other stuff too which is much easier if your hard. I not quite sure what the cage adds or what it stops. I can also think of quite a few unchaste things you can do while wearing it.
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Never really thought about it but I agree with most of what's been said. Bottoming, BB, the kinky stuff we aren't allowed to talk about on here all seem to me to have similar motivations. I'd be a little surprised if anyone actually liked the taste of piss. They like it because of what it is. You wouldn't buy it if it was made in factories and sold in Tesco. Does anyone find a super reasonable/considerate/chatty top a turn on? ("would you be more comfortable with an extra pillow down there....etc) It's why I always rather like a top who's a bit nuts - or even better a language barrier (as long as you can keep them off the Google Translate).
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Some tops do have a tendency to lecture you on the evils of what a few minutes ago they seemed to be quite enjoying. I just look earnest, nod a little and wait till they're back looking out for insatiables to fuck. So no, I don't think you're hurting your chances. And if you are insatiable, what's the alternative? A fake "I don't often do this" act"? So yes, I think it's a great word. True, there are plenty of others but few are what would usually be seen as compliments (though in this context they probably are - or at least is how I take them). Insatiable on the other hand sounds genuinely good - like an insatiable desire for the truth. A slapper for the truth doesn't quite do it. Maybe others react differently (or maybe not on this site). I saw a profile the other day for "slimybottom" or so I thought. I only later realised it was a "v". He was was slim and presumably fucked a bit too. All too late by then - the slime had put me off. It doesn't sound to me like "insatiable" is doing that for you.
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FileMaker database...?
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I like the theory. I just find it difficult to do both - a sort of Gerald Ford chewing gum and farting problem. I love either and the tops can decide which and when. It’s just both. Teeth. Always worried an unexpected thrust at one end might impale me at the other. I dunno how Gerald resolved his problem. Mine usually seems to end with cum in my hole.
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So, do we discuss Kevin Spacey here - or ignore him?
gwmxyz replied to edward21uk's topic in LGBT Politics
Ok, I was sexually active at 26, even though a dozen or so of the teaching staff at my school have done time. Was I ugly or something? (my equally unmolested straight friend says you're not meant to say that...still you do wonder). Sorry if it sounds a bit old fashioned or pompous - but the short answer to the question is, I reckon we should leave it. Presumption of innocence and all that. Of course - as some bonehead politician has pointed out - being presumed innocent is rather different from being innocent. We can go further - it's exact opposite most of the time. The rule is about about where and how it's done. Other points. While I admire the courage of those who stand up to those who took advantage of them, there obvious problems where it's not admitted. If you say I raped you last night, I can show I was otherwise occupied. If you say it happened on an unspecified day ten years ago, you're in for a much easier time in the box. It's not always truth and lies either - mistaken identity is possible too. Does anyone reckon Lord McAlpine would have been acquitted if he hadn't been able to prove his innocence 20 years later? And yes, back to the teaching staff, I think there's a massive difference between consent (of any age or however overawed or unfairly pressured) and non-consent. I'm not saying they're not both crimes. I just suspect the former is a lot more common than the latter - also explaining why me and my friend were left alone. They knew then answer they would get ("..I was so much older then..."). At least that's the way I'm going to look at it. -
Roof of a Hong Kong appartment building - in full view of countless others (assuming people have nothing better to do than look at their neighbours' roof in the early hours of the morning). Only problem was that I didnt know the door was a one-way fire exit that had to be kept open (neither me nor my tranny friend who was fucking me lived in the building). So when Tranny asks me if I shut the door I say "yes of course" - we realise we are locked on the roof. It's about 6am and we realise that we need to find a friend to come over and let us out. Embarrassing, but less so than the alternatives. We do - though before she arrives we worked out we could step over onto the next block and get down that way. I was up for finishing what we'd started when we knew that. Tranny had rather lost interest by then.
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I was sent out to buy a packet the other day. Turns out the guy wanted to blow smoke into it - share it and make it go further. Why it had to be a condom not a balloon I didn't ask.
