AlwaysOpen

As you continue to play your hole will open and relax more and more. Just as when you eat , your belly will grow and get soft and flabby. So, what do you do when you eat? You exercise and tone up the gut-- same trick to your hole- exercise it and work the ass lips and surrounding muscles- kegels are one exercise that can be done, clamping your hole and squeezing and then relaxing it. You might just discover that by working your ass muscles while sitting at work or home on the sofa vegging out in front of the TV, that over some time you will have a power hole that can open to take a fist, and then clamp down on a 6 inch pencil dick and still squeeze a load out of him. I am impressed by your flexibility, being able to work 4 fingers up inside- send some pics along when you are flexible enough and relaxed enough to get your own hand all the way IN !!

AlwaysOpen, on 18 Jul 2015 - 6:47 PM, said: It is definitely easier on the budget-- but here is the deal :: a bed in a gay complex even mid week is going to be 3 or 4 times what a budget motel room is. The gay resort will be very lightly rented, so you may not have anyone to play with for all the extra money.The Motel on the other hand--may have construction crews bunking in there during the work week ( everyone's fantasy).It also has drive up and walk right to the room availability- in other words, the locals all know each other- and the gay resorts make the visitor sign in and get escorted to the guests room. And the gossip begins... a mainstream motel, locals can hookup on any of the sites with you, drive over, pull up in front of the room, walk in from car to cunt in 20 seconds, and no one knows , so you have a higher chance of a partnered guy slipping out and in (you) than if you were at a resort. The resorts ARE great on weekends--and def worth the extra money- but maybe not so much so when the town is empty

Well guys, as if I really needed to back up my lamenting that this town has gone sex dead (egads!!) ..I just totalled up my July loads, and I now know for sure the gay squad will be around to tear up my gay card. For all of July--even with the addition of a blue moon-- all I scored was 11 loads in my ass, and 5 fistings received. As August begins, my year to date-with July's pathetic numbers included- 83 loads in my ass, 22 loads down my throat, 54 fists ridden for 5 minutes or longer- some, much much longer---ahhh! and just 2 piss play sessions. I posted to my Tumblr blog the other day a screen capture of a Quick connect page on BBRT- for here in Ft Laud-for last Thursday. When the guys list themselves as Top or Top/vers, or worse, use that in their screen name, then advert they will be on all 4's lubed and ass up looking for loads-- it explains why I am not being bred more !! (BTW- if it is legal to, my Tumblr is FuckMeDeeplyPlease- sacastic and sometimes slightly twisted thoughts based on the fleshy pic I happen to be posting at the moment. And will try to post that screen grab here- but if it bombs- should be viewable on the Tumblr

For those not familiar with Palm Springs, I have to say it is def much more a weekend destination- Fri thru Sunday the gay resorts are full,and active. During the week tho, the guest houses can be very sparse--the various resorts do have special events during the week, but as a rule there is only 1 "hot" resort on any given weekday, so I have taken to staying at a Motel 6 right in the heart of the gay area during the week for about 1/4 the price of any room at the gay places, then moving to the gay places for the weekend

After a long string of weeks not having my fist coach use me, I got used again yesterday-- he opened me up pretty fast and played up in me, but of course not as long as I would have cared for. He cleaned up and left after a couple hours, and I hoped out of the sling and back online- a spun top that has fucked me b4 hit me up ,he was 10 minutes away and wanted to play, so I told him I was fresh from the sling and well fisted open, still greasy hole. He showed up and stripped, I went to my knees and began sucking his cock- he got a little hard, and had me get on the bed, head over the edge and he went back to feeding me cock as he pinched my tits and then slipped one hand to the hole and began fingering it. Then 2, 3 fingers in as his cock went soft in my mouth. He had me stand and bend over the bed, and once I was n position he pushed in with his fist, popping thru easily- then went on to fist me for 20 minutes before pulling his hand out, wiping it off with some paper towels, dressing and headed out the door. As he was dressing he said he would look for me online later to come back and use my ass some more. But, that didn't happen- not sure if he spun all the way out or if he landed else where--so I went out and had some cocktails and returned home and crashed myself

Why in the hell is a bottom bent over in a bookstore with a dirty hole? As a person who is 110% bottom,and has service better than 10,000 different cocks in my life, I would NEVER go to a bar bath or bookstore not totally flushed out and ready--and yeah, maybe an accident can happen, but I am totally aware what my ass is up to at all times. Even the slightest slippage and my hole would have been closed until repairs were made. Not to mention the shit on the tops cock ( disrespectful) stinking HIS cock up, it is also going to stink up the booths and any play other men may want will be a sex kill once they step into that booth or put their face near that glory hole ! Someone like this really needs a weekend in a dungeon somewhere learning respect and manners <g>

Abort abort abort-- dude, this guy is doing the silent treatment on you in a dating setting, do you have any idea what his behavior will toll on you should you live together?? Fuck him and his attitudes- but I would suggest you might want to explore why you are drawn to guys who are such shits to you. I do not know you or your personality, but maybe you could find someone to help explore what is driving you to men who end up in jail or abusive to you, and modify whatever it is

Just a heads up - the Dudeload url is no good-- either it was a tongue in cheek post, or , based on the fact the profile only posted 1 time on this entire site- some sort of BS link

I must be doing something wrong. For all I know, I may have been fucked by POTUS and would never have any idea-- I am available to take a nice deep fucking from a horned up guy who cannot get hole at home for some reason. I do not do a resume review, and do not get into their personal life during or after sex. Most of the guys actually do like to have some quick chat but prefer not to get too deep into their lives- which is fine by me. But for those of you who do explore the guys fucking you- do you find it awkward when asking guys what they do or about their life outside your bedroom? I am guessing you have a different way of asking or approaching them than I might ask--

Personally, it is very rare that i ever get off during sex- all my focus is on the tops cock and the degree of grip he wants from my hole. And even after sex is done, i don't really jack off. But for those 20 yr old guys who have to jack 3 or 4 times a day, i would suggest they ought to jack off into ice cube trays and freeze their loads ( a thin layer of coconut oil over each layer of cum will keep it fresher) then , the top can have him insert one or more of his own cumsicles up his hole a little bit before the top arrives, so all he has to do is slide right in and fuck his superior cum over the bottoms. Def no sense in wasting the bottoms cum- another option would be to pop 2 or 3 frozen cum loads up the bottoms hole, then taking him out for the night to the bar or long walks in cruise parks or nature trails, with his loads melting and trying to bubble out- esp if the bottom knows that his loads will be the only lube he will be getting for any and all fucks he is given thru the night

Made another 3 day weekend ( Thurs thru Sat) and about noon on Friday a guy who has bred my hole in the past hit me up- I had already begun hosing out, and told him I needed a little more time to be sure there would be no surprises for him- he was about to hit the gym and would check with me after he finished. I used the garden hose (private back yard) and got really deep and drained clear- then decided to mow the back yard(naked) as long as I was there- finished mowing, used the garden hose to rinse off ,gave a light rinse again and it was spotless still- got online and let him know I was good. About 5 minutes later I heard the mailbox chime on the site, checked and it was him- fresh out of the gym and about 4 minutes away. He arrived, pulling up the drive to the bedroom door, walked in and I began sucking him . He seemed a little spun, but was able to get hard, and once he was good and hard, I spit on my hand and wet my hole- he began fingering it and then stood up from the BJ chair, I moved to the bed and bent over. He slid in and pounded about 5 minutes before shooting, as he pulled out I went back down on his cock and sucked him clean of the traces of cum. When he dressed and left, I got back on, and had another couple of guys looking- trying to get them to come was a challenge- one was very eager- but when I tried to get a commitment form him, he stopped e mailing ( fucking jacker !) The other guy then said he was headed to the pool for a swim and would look for me in an hour. I kept hunting, but there were no guys looking. About an hour later, the guy who went swimming came back on, and I hit him up- he wanted a fuck and go, and wanted me in a blindfold ! (I had seen his pics, so that was a little lost on me..) But, I had played with one of my anon buds on Thursday, and had the blindfold out and handy, so I gave him the address, and he said he was on his way. As he came down the street, I slipped on the blindfold, got on my knees, and popped the bedroom door open . He pulled up, a minute later I heard his car door shut, and then he entered the room. I fumbled and found his groin, worked his cock out and into my mouth, and sucked him down until he was hard. I had poppers and lube out, and I heard him hit the poppers- he face fucked me a few more times before telling me to bed over the bed. I still had the earlier load in me ,and with some spit from my mouth he pushed in my ass, moaned, and began fucking, telling me to push my ass out-not sure if I was pushing the other guys cum out or if it had pretty much absorbed, but the guy was really into fucking, and kept putting the popper bottle under my jockstrap band as he rutted. He seemed to love an open and sloppy hole, and I did my best to give him what he wanted--and all too soon, he grunted and gave me what I wanted--pumping a load somewhere into my guts. Ashe pulled out, I slipped back to the floor and fumbled my way ( I was blindfolded after all) back to his cock and sucked him for a good minute,savoring the cum and ass slick on his cock,before he pulled out and pulled up his shorts, and left. I waited until I heard the car start up, then got up and removed the blindfold, locked the door, and got back online--but there was no one else ready and looking. A little after 5p, and a local bar was doing $2 cocktails, so I headed off and hung out there fro a couple hours, totally forgetting about the 2 loads in my ass. Ran into one of my fist tops there, and we chatted and talked a bit-he had a friend with him-non-English speaker- so after a bit, I wandered off and mixed with a few other guys-but no action. A tad buzzed, I left the bar and went to dinner at a pizza place, then returned home and back online.Still no action-even BBRT was calm-only 6 bottoms ass up looking for anon loads ads were in the hook up now section. Needing to piss, I got up and wandered outside to the yard, and I let a steady stream fly. Zipped back up and started back inside, and realized the leg of my shorts felt wet-thought it was a little piss, but once back in the chair, I realized from the smell it was old cum. I sort of wiped off my hole with the cum streaked shorts, and since it was late gave up on any more play and went to bed. Woke Saturday morning, and decided I would get some yard work done fast and early- so headed out for a fast cup of coffee- about halfway to the donut shop, I farted out another load of very old by now cum-- so it was drive thru only for me--and then home before my car reeked of old fish ! LOL

My favorite WAS Whthole4U-- was, because he was suddenly banned a few weeks ago over the "My name is Mikey" writing in the chem fiction section. Not when he first posted it, but long after the various chapters went up and had been up If there had really been issue with his writing initially, why wasn't he approached then-- just seems, especially since RawTop let go of the reins a lot and has become focused on other projects, that this site has had a lot of sideways slippage. If you go back thru all the writings of WhtHole4U, he contributed a crap load of content. I have not ever had a drink with him, he is not my ATM or bestie- but his writing was definitely some of the better content (for me at least) . I wish the site could get a second wind, and get back to its original roots...but maybe, like all the hook up sites.. the road has just about run out of surface

Well, I expect a knock at the door any day now from the Slut Squad, coming by to revoke my slut card..Another very frustrating month in Ft Lauderdale-- I have been making 3 day weekends to try and get bred more, and all too many days, I can be on and not hear anything form any of the sites ( I have a similar thread going on the site here asking if your city has gone sex dead recently; and it seems sadly a LOT of places have lost their sex vibe) So, for all of June, I was only able to get 12 loads in my ass, 5 down my throat, I was fisted 5 times and not a single guy- again- was into watersports I start the 2nd half of 2015 with the following stats-- 72 loads in my ass, 22 down my throat, 49 fisting sessions (as bottom) and just 2 piss play sessions. Hey, I get that guys out in Moorhead Iowa (USA) go months on end without any connections-- but for fucks sake- this is Ft Lauderdale--and a huge gay population and even larger gay tourist population.... and things have been quiet.

I put a lot of time in getting my hole ready for use, and take pride in it being spotless and ready for as much pounding as any top can give it. As a rule, if I am playing with a top in a 1 on 1 setting, where ever it may be--my sling/bedroom, the tubs, bar patio--once he is hard and is in my hole, I point blank tell him it is HIS hole, and to use it as he wants to achieve his orgasm, and to tell me if I need to tighten/loosen/ push back/lay still, etc- it is HIS chance to have a great orgasm. Now, sometimes that can cause discomfort for me- esp if he is really into a rough fuck or has a huge long cock-- but when that happens to cross my head- I switch over to thinking about some of the fiction<?> written on here, and what those characters can endure ( yeah, I know it is fictional writing and not reality- but when I think of it, my hole accepts and conforms more to the fuck down I am receiving ) My biggest regret tho is I cannot seem to find those men with the 10+ inch cocks here in Ft Lauderdale that want hole-- I would love to have about 5 or 10 of them who want to use,shape and make my hole adapt to their massiveness for regular service. .But , just seems like so many bottoms here all have the same dream <g>

Well, moved the slut dial a little this past week- had one of my regulars wanting my hole, but couldn't give it to him when he wanted- just as well; I began hosing when he hit me up ( about 30 minutes b4 he wanted it) Not happy with the hosing process, I suggested maybe later at the end of work (his) would be better--and cleaner. About 4p he msgs me asking if I was FINALLY ready for him--sort of an attitude and it sort of pissed me off, but I was starving for cock and cum, and indeed the hole had fought me all afternoon,each time I thought it was good it would fail the hose test.But I felt good finally, and set up the room and he showed about 50 minutes later. As I was sucking him, I could hear the pig oinking on BBRT telling me I had messages, so I got up off my knees and we moved to the bed, he fucked my ass and unloaded in it. He got off my back and went in to the toilet to wash off, then dressed and split. I checked the messages, and there were 2 guys chasing- one from earlier in the afternoon. I sent a message( I thought) to the newer messager-but in fact had sent it to the guy who kept messaging and dropping earlier. He came right back and wanted sloppy seconds. Gave him directions, and eventually he made his way to the house (after going to the wrong address at first--almost lost his cock to a neighbor!!) After a quick call, and redirecting him to the house, he showed up- short Asian guy, kind of hard to understand and he seemed pretty skitterish, especially when I stripped in front of the living room window--so I moved him back to the bedroom and sling- and began undressing him--he had bandages in several areas of his stomach, ,and his cock had a PA in it with 2 pointed cube ends but it was a cock and a potential load, so I went to work on him, getting him hard and working the points of the PA around to where they were not hitting my tongue as much. He began trying to fist my ass as I was sucking him- the only wetness was the previous mans cum, so I moved him to the sling, where I had more lube laid out and several dildo's. He shoved the cock in my ass,just the cum for lube and I could feel the PA scraping as it worked in- but I gave in to the moment and he fucked for a few minutes,pulling out and jamming back in, before he got some lube and began fisting my hole, then he proceeded to try to work both hands up into me-still not enough lube but he was pretty persistent and came pretty close.He then shifted and had a hand in my hole and pushed his cock in , and I could feel him working his cock around inside my hole with his hand, He used a vibrator on my cock with his free hand, and made me cum ( a rare event) before he too shot his load. As he was wiping off the lube from his hands, I asked about the bandages- he was about 10 days out of gallbladder surgery! (and then he proceeded to show me the incision areas--eww!) After he left, I did a fast check, but there was no blood , so I guess either the PA was tucked safely, or my hole has gotten tough and can take a scraping and still remain intact. Def would not have played with this guy in a sex club or tubs- esp with the gauze all over his gut- but as cock crazed as I was- he filled the need

I have never been into eating , licking or anything oral with hole--mostly because I am totally shut down at the first whiff of brown in play. As a bottom, I may spend 2 or 3 hours ensuring my chute is spotless , and have cancelled fucks if I cannot have it clean for my top. Now, I have NO problem taking the mans cock in my mouth and sucking him clean of any lube and ass /cum juice--if it is from my hole. But there is only the smell of his cum, and my lube on his cock. I understand the ass is designed to pass shit thru it, and all that --but it doesn't need to smell like it during sex. ( And that applies to anything near the hole-- I once played with a couple- was really getting into being the middle of the action- until I went down on the one guys cock and as I bottomed out in his pubes, I could smell the leather cock ring he was wearing stunk of crap-probably had been wearing it while douching out, or maybe when fucking someone else earlier or the day before...as hot as the action was, it ended play for me- choke me on a big cock, not a smell more associated with an unflushed toilet in a gas station)

BTW-- to all-- if you have taken the precautions and did the planning for your health care in future days towards the end of your life--not particularly an end of your life from ANY virus or illness- but in the known fact we will ALL expire one day-- if you have appointed a friend or family member to act as your power of attorney for health care {POA}-- PLEASE do them a huge favor-- they will be the person the medical staff will turn to to decide end of life care for you ( such as hospice care with only palliative care ( which means pain meds but no food or water until death occurs) Now, while you are well and have a sound head- come up with a really wrong question for your POA to ask you when the day comes--something such as" Wasn't Ms Kitty your favorite hedgehog?" when in fact you never had a hedgehog as a pet-- this will be a coded conversation between you and that person- when you are asked, you know the end is near; the person you have put all faith in is having to make some very hard decisions on your behalf, and when you answer YES!!, it will let him know you are aware; you support his decision, and YOU can begin your own process of saying goodbye. Often, esp with gay men, family may not want to let go and might even resent the suggestion-or be unwilling to hear the words yet- but the coded question is known to the 2 involved. AND- the person making the life ending decisions for the ailing person will have the mental relief after death occurs of knowing the dying knew and more importantly agreed to the choices being made. BTW part 2--if you have not done power of attorney, wills, do not resuscitate orders, and the like yet--do it now--NO one has ever lived forever--and damned few people knew exactly when and where they would die. Now, enough about death- everyone should be out fucking and living TODAY.. but do get things in order for those left picking up your dirty jocks long after you have gone