OK, here is the thing. I have been giving up 1 day a week at work to make 3 day weekends,Thurs thru Sat, with the intent of getting used more. I was online here ( Ft Lauderdale ) all day Thursday and got zero action--checked in with a vers buddy who is a sex pig too, and he was also getting nothing. Friday I gave up after 3 hours of putting offers out there and went to a local bookstore near a strip club- it was just about 3p and I assumed the construction workers would be getting off around 330p, and office guys at 5p, it being a Friday and maybe payday, thought the place would be hopping. Well, I did get to suck off 4 men in 3 hours, but at 6p, there were 3 of us in total in the booths-a guy I had already blown, a little bottom boy doing leg stretches <WTF??> and me. Waited an hour, and no one came in, so at 7p I split. At least I got to suck off 4 guys. Saturday, some guys were lurking online, but damned few were hooking up - so I ended up heading out to the baths-CumUnion was going to be happening there and I hoped it would have a good vibe and active guys. I was amazed- lots of nipple play last night , a little cock sucking, but no loads. And, that seems to be the norm at these parties ( well, maybe not the extent of tit work, but the lack of cum) I guess if you pay $7 for a porn booth, you do not mind dropping your load in 30 minutes or less, but if you lay out 25 bucks for a locker at the tubs, you hoard your cum shot for the night... maybe I am over thinking this, but it seems like a "straight" guy has a plan and purpose when he hits the porn store- get what the wife will not give him and get out. Meanwhile the gay men at tubs,bookstores or elsewhere treat these places as the endless buffet, and do not want to bust a nut for fear they will lose their drive - or worse- Mr Perfect will come in 2 minutes after the cum flies. O h well, still spring break season here, and Ultra music festival going on in Miami- maybe some of those folk will begin drifting online in the next few days and refill my chute with fast fucks or full on sessions