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Geeze- you are missing the bigger picture here--- OK- you are in a strange city, and you post an open invitation to use your ass on a wide open forum. The guy- you have no idea of his history- hits you up and wham he is on his way.You have an open door in a public access building and you wrap your head in a shirt with the lights low. He walks in and fucks you and splits.--- how lucky Rewind and play it again : your ass is hanging up and he walks in. After a little diversionary play, you are suddenly slammed hard in the back of your covered head by a bat this creep has carried in with him, knowing you would not know he had it since you promised to be blindfolded. His 2 friends come in, tie your ass up, and after they make you give up your valuables you have secured so "safely " in the room safe, they head off to the ATM to drain out as much cash as they can.One stays behind to make sure they have the right pin number, and to fuck you up a little, since they really are not into you anyway. The buds get back and they have $400 of your money, but the ATm would not give any more. Pissed, the crack you a few more times with the bat, then run out the door and away into the night. You are found by housekeeping the next day hanging on by a thread..... I would say an anon video on XTube is far and away a much better outcome-- anon seems so hot in writing and reading- but without some sort of safeguards- esp in a strange city- man, you got off scott free in this one

BD- I was out in PS for the Nasty Kink pig party over Memorial Day weekend- got out to the city the Tuesday before the weekend- and rather than pay $150 bucks or more to stay at a gay resort mid week with only a few rooms rented, I stayed at the Motel6 for $48 a night. Rooms were fine for sleeping, and if you want to have locals drop by ( off BBRT or a CL ad for example) the Motel 6 offers very easy access for the guy to drive in, up to the room door, walk in fuck and go--without you having to escort him or sign him in; which you would have to do at any of the resorts. ( and if he has a BF or husband and is a local- that might slow him from wanting to come to you- esp if the guy working the front desk knows him and the hubby!) During the weekend, def do a gay place- they will be crowded and cruisey. NKP used All World Resort, and I spent Friday thru Tues morning there and it was great ! They have 4 properties interconnected, and a pretty busy day pass . I went to CCBC on a day pass on Wed- they do half price passes on Wed with a BBQ from 11a-1p. I had a pigfest that afternoon. If you will be there Tues, Helios has a senior afternoon for $10- it has a draw of 40 or 50 guys- most are retirees- but I had a piggy time in the sling room there . If you want any other info, PM me or ask on here-- if I don't answer it just means I missed the ??- shoot me a tickle in PM and I will get back on here with more info if I have it. BTW- non-sexual--if you love to hike- the Nature Conservancy bought the old trout fishery at the top of Whitewater Canyon just north and west of Palm Springs-- while the Whitewater Canyon used to be very cruisey along the stream- it is all fire zone closed and the BLM people patrol the road- ther eis no parking anywhere going up.BUT-- at the very top- you can park in the Nature Conserv lot, and hike as high up into the mountains as you want-- or hike a short hike to the stream and wander along it--very very quiet and serene , you can actually HEAR the air lifting and moving on the currents and thermals

and in the diet book- not just the food side-- I hate a guys piss when he drinks diet soda with all that fake /chem sweetener in it-- it passes right into his piss. As a non smoker- not sure if it in the piss itself or if the guys cock is just coated with the tars and nicotines- but a smokers cock can be a real gag off for me- give me a cheesey cock anyday over the ashtray smell

maybe you could share this with ArGearCub on WarpMyMind and he could put it up as a MP3 file on the site- I have a couple of his hypno tracks on my computer and listen to them-- he prob would be willing, I am guessing

Sweet - was this at Club Z? I have a week off in September, have not been to Seattle in almost 20 years, and was thinking about seeing the great NW again. Or is there an even rawer club now in the area? ( gawd knows, sometimes things in the gay sex/bar business changes in 20 years time)

I do not use it or poppers, but here in Ft Lauderdale there seems to be a major supply disruption. A bud who uses both reported to me that when he was at the tubs yesterday they were selling the small bottles of poppers at the counter---for THIRTY dollars!! No Max Impact avail anywhere in town, just some other can , and it was about $10 more than the old Max Impact used to sell for. I am fortunate- even the discount store for poppers here has upped their prices- used to be 7 bucks for the small bottle, now 10, and the larger bottles went from 15 to 20 according to him- I hit the discount store just b4 the shortage and bought 2 small bottles of Hell Fire for the guys who come by to use my hole, and got it at the old prices Somewhere I read or heard something about the feds raiding a major manufacturer of the poppers, not really sure thats the cause- or if it is just urban myth getting spread

As a fist bottom, I can take a fist for anywhere from 20 minutes to 2 hours. All really depends on the setting, the man , and the body. One thing my Alpha trainer did that really helped me out was banning poppers from the action. No other drugs or alcohol either. When I take a fist, most of the time it is cold stone sober and focused. When I did poppers, I would cramp after 20 minutes and play was done. Since dropping the poppers, I have had men use my hole for 90 minutes at a stretch, most of that time punch fisting my hole. I think the desire of the bottom to GET fisted hard and long is the first step in longer play. I was fisted out on the patio of a latin bar last week- the 1st guy who fisted me had been in my hole before and knew his way around. He passed my hole off to another guy, who got in and played, but a tad awkwardly - more due to the angle of his hand entering as he stood off to the side of me while I was between the legs of the original fister sucking him off. Since the 1st guy was using me, I was totally open and accepting of the other guys fist and later found out it was that mans first time ever fisting- if I had known that prior to play I might have been tenser and the action could have been less- but since my headspace was to be in service to the 1st man, my level of adaptation/relaxation was higher and , in fact I took the newbie in my hole again later inthe evening One big thing- make sure you have GOOD lube- I have been using the fuck out of Grease by Swiss Navy recently after testing it for them. I also rely on J Lube. But if you try to go cheap and use KY or something like baby oil that has fragrance blended in, you may be irritating the bottoms hole and after 10 minutes a raw or tender spot from friction or the add ins to the lube like preservative or scent will bring play to a fast end. Do you use dildo's before fisting? I have a few a regular uses on me- but if I have not really rinsed the Dawn detergent off them from the clean up after last play, I find my ass shuts the door as fast as they go in. And then I have 1 I used to use, but something has been absorbed into it or a chemical change has occurred to it- it no longer is in the play chest- just pushing it in caused my hole to spasm and cramp and stop any play- after the 3rd time it happened I made the connection that it was THAT dildo, and it has been retired Hope this gives you some answers- if not hit me back and I will try to stumble thru and answer for you. A good connection makes both men very happy

I posted in the CumDump Network listing- in my orig post ( page 10) I listed as being avail all day on Tues and Weds- but now, beginning Aug 19, my days off will shift to Wed and Thursday-- I know posts can be edited for a few hours, but is there some method to adjust or correct CumDump posts- I would think others who have posted there have a similar need to revise availability-- any thought or suggestions?

LOL- you are in Berlin, a gay mecca- and want to go somewhere on vacation. And I am in Ft Lauderdale, another gay destination, and on vacation the 16th Sept for a week and trying to decide where to go -- seems like everyone is restless in their own bit of paradise. So where are you thinking about going-- and what part of September ( please tell me you don't have a full month off from work !!)

Hey TotalAssPig- you need to do a little charity work and let spunkdump tag along -- or at least let him know where you won't be so he has a chance at some of that NYC cock meat ! LOL

OK men- for those who have been logging your totals- time to put up !! So far , as of July 31st, I have had : Anal raw loads 99 Oral loads 66 Fist ( taken) 41 Piss (taken) 18 I had to miss my weekly cum pilgrimage to Miami last night- to hell with worrying about STD's- 3 out of the 5 people on my work team all came down with a cold or flu this past week , and of course, none stayed home sick, so while I was hoping I would avoid it, woke up yesterday achy and stuffed up- as the day wen ton and the allergy/cold medicine got into my system all I wanted to do was sleep and stay in bed. And what really sucks is a FF bud is in town this week , I even took an extra day off from work so I could get very used by him-- guess thats off !

Thank you for being a responsible fuck. I worry with every raw cock that I take that I will end up having to do the STD clinic routine - if the process was quicker and not such a sit and wait process maybe more guys would just casually drop in for regular testing and the cycle could be broken. At least my GP knows me well enough to run a RPR ( syph) test with each quarterly blood draw- but that still leaves 89 days of possible exposure , and in my case as a bottom, exposing others , to it.

Be sure to go to Open Mind- great sex venue on Calle d Arago in the gay Eixample-- I think they open 10 or 11p, great kink and great men

Hey Guys- anyone know how to go in and edit a Cumdump posting? I have been posted with Tues and Weds off, but as of 19 Aug (2013) my days off shift to Wednesday and Thursdays-- the orig post is on page 10, but does not show an edit post icon on the ad- perhaps it is only editable for a day or two after posting?

Uh oh !!! BringIt has gone into a void again-- I think he was typing too many installments a couple of weeks ago and strained something ( broken boner perhaps??) Someone stop by his place and give him some physical therapy so he can get back online and put up a few more chapters --PLEASSE!!! LOL ( No, seriously- someone spur him back to the keyboard-- my nuts are bluer than an old ladies hair !)

I picked up a trio of hollow butt plugs from , I think- Ft Troff a few months ago. 3 sizes in the assortment, and I began immediately with the smallest one. It went in easily, but then would slip out when walking. I pushed in the medium one ( the hollow core makes collapsing them a lot easier so they can go in a hole smaller than the plug is) What I finally discovered was I needed to use almost no lube - and then to use WATER based when I did use lube- after getting the medium one into a dry hole, I let the little bit of lube used absorb or evaporate- then the silicon plug becomes more one with the hole and I can go about the day with it in ( one caveat here tho- it pays to put a rolled up paper towel or wad of fabric into the hollow core so your hole doesn't drool/leak out from the center)

Lets face it- gay men move from site to site as a new option hits, hoping there will be fresher meat hanging on it. ManHunt was big 10 years ago, then slipped with alarming speed as BBRT and then Grindr and Scruff ( and others ) came along. So any new site needs to be a hit quickly to grab on, and then either needs to focus on staying fresh ( think what BN SKin dropped into) or it will become yesterdays hook site in a few months. As far as a name- I would suggest , especially for a sense of community or connection, that it be something that can identified by those in the know, and yet semi innocent for the mainstream folk. I have a couple of the BBRTS white t shirts with the polygon logo shape and the BBRTS.Com under it- and wear it out to Starbucks and the grocery store all the time - guys who know know what I am out for. However, the BBRT guys did a black T shirt, and instead of a subtle logo patch in the upper left like the white shirt, the black has a chest wide design with BAREBACK across the logo in bold -- while I am not shy, it is way too in your face for the average daily running errands wearing-. So, while the ads will make some money, add on items like a t shirt for $18 or ball caps , etc can also help defray costs for you- but need to be a tad bit polite- so , I guess a shirt with BBBuds would fly far better than BAREFUCKSEXFORME.COM would. Both would def get the message out- one a little less sledge hammer to the face tho

Hmm, everyone BUT the original poster has a location in their profile -- maybe the orig poster would boost his action if he updated where he is- must be lots of guys in his area looking.... just saying....

Not to be outdone, if you come up short on ex porn stars in Palm Springs, come east and hang out in Ft Lauderdale-( well, Wilton Manors specifically)- seems like every bartender or waiter here has a film history LOL. And the few who don't probably are trying to break INTO the biz

Thanks RawTop- got my package today in the mail- can hardly wait to charge up the luminous one for the next trip out onto the patio of the latin bar in Miami next Tuesday- just to make sure the men can find my slut hole in the dark corners <g>

Hey Breeder- I hope you made a piss- or pit - stop in at Boots and Saddles--. I have /had a unique tie to that bar, as it turns out. Early 70's, 2 guys came in to my Dads grocery store in upstate NY- they had been directed there by my grandmother. Seems they had spotted some old horse collars hanging in the open garage of my grandparents house as they drove past, and wanted to buy them! (My grandfather and father had broken wild horses in the late 30's for the military, and these were relics form those days) My Dad couldn't understand what they would want to do with them- the leather had split some of the stitching and the straw filling had poked out- but he agreed and sold them for some stupidly cheap price- i cannot imagine he got more than $20 bucks for the lot. Fast forward 4 or 5 years, and I was off to college in NYC- and finally got my balls and went to a gay bar in the Village--Boots and Saddles. As I sat there nervous and inhaling my cocktail, my eyes taking it all in, I spotted those damned horse collars on the back wall by the toilets-- and had to laugh! Never did tell my Dad where those funny boys from NYC ever used the collars-- but to this day I laugh when I think of it. And I hear the bar ain't what it used to be, now doing drag and the decor changed- - I just wonder where those collars are now ?? ( Maybe some dungeon in the Hamptons?? LOL)

Hey guys just put up a post in the blog section about my Tuesday breed a thon/fisting play day. All told, I got piss a couple of times, fucked 3 times, fisted 3 times, and fed loads a couple of times- most at my favorite latin bar in Miami .

Yesterday ( Tues) was my work week Saturday- spent the day online and only had 1 semi regular anon FB come by and fuck a load into me. It was fun, but 1 load is like 1 potato chip ( or crisp for those of you in the UK)- you have 1 and want a lot more. So I gave up on the internet and went south to Miami , to my favorite little latin bar with a patio .. Made it in time for a couple of happy hour beers- and sucked a short nervous latino off during the 1st beer- he had the look of a laborer- dusty work boots, jeans and a t shirt- nice cock , but as soon as anyone else got near he would try to put his cock away ( hard to do with my mouth locked on it- but I will give him credit for trying) Moved him to a corner bench, nice and dark, and he slipped his pants down and let me go down on him-his ass reeked and made blowing him harder - it was better when he had his pants up and cock out thru the fly- but i wanted his cum and focused on that. As I was doing him, a guy behind me began working a hand into my shorts , and a finger or two into my hole. I felt my shorts being pulled down and soon was having my hole eaten, then fingered, as this was happening the latino blew a nice load into my mouth and quickly (thankfully) pulled his pants up and split. The man eating my hole began exhaling his lungs into my hole, inflating my gut-, and would jam his cock in the inflated hole as the air farted out around it- I immediately recognized the action as a dom who had used me in the past at this bar, and relaxed and gave up my hole to his use. He continued blowing my hole and fucking it, then switched over to fisting me- I at this point needed more than spit, and handed him some of the Grease I have been testing for a lube company. He gobbed up my hole, lubed his hand, and pushed in. After he had his fist in and seated, he began using my hole, pulling out and punching back in- slapping my ass with the other hand every so often to be sure and draw the attention of any of the guys on the patio looking for sex. About 10 minutes in, he told me to grab my shorts ( I had slipped out of them and was in just a jock and wife beater T shirt ) and to follow him- so I did- to the far corner, where he positioned me with my ass facing the area men would have to walk in to join us- and then he had me go back down on him. A few seconds later a hand was on my ass feeling, then a couple of fingers entered my ass- I knew it was a new guy since the dom had my head between his legs and was holding my head from both sides. Quickly, I handed whoever it was the jar with Grease in it, and he gobbed some on his hand/my ass and handed me back the jar, then pushed in and entered my hole completely. All the time, I was lodged on the dom's cock, held firmly in place by him. The guy fisted me for about 5 , maybe 10 minutes while I sucked cock. By now, my legs were cramping and I really needed a break, so I pulled off and told the dom what was happening. We all broke , I went in for a fresh beer and to stretch out my legs a bit. The little latino came over, and asked when I would be back in the bar- so I now have a promised load waiting for me next week. Then, as I relaxed and sipped my beer, a white guy step up and thanked me- and said it was really wild and cool fisting me ( Ah, so thatwas the hand man in me out back !) Turned out, he had never fisted anyone before and I was his first- so I guess I got his cherry! LOL. I told him he did a great job for a virgin, and to feel free to do that to me anytime he saw me. Finishing up my beer, I headed back out to the patio. The dom was out there still- he saw me return and led me back to the corner, whipped out his cock, and told me to strip down again ( I had put my shorts on for the inside bar) Instead of throat fucking me, he just slipped his cock in about 3 inches and stayed there- I knew what was about to come, and soon enough he was pissing down my throat. As he was finishing up, and old man joined us, and despite both of our efforts, the old guy would not pull his cock out, only wanted his tits sucked and too quickly the dom figured out the guy was a time waster. We picked up and moved around the back patio- him dressed , me in a jock, until he found someone to be an active player- again the dom whipped his cock out for me to suck, the other guy began stroking and as soon as there was a half hard on, the dom pushed me onto it. I was sucking the man , and he was a good 8 inch semi thick cock when hard- the dom was fingering my ass and using his fingers directed me to move my hole around for the guy I was blowing. The guy quickly took the hint, and sunk his cock in and fucked for a couple of minutes, then pulled out, so I swung around and went back down on him. We had a small audience, and repeated the ATM action about 25 or 30 minutes, before I needed to stretch out my legs again- told the guy what was up, and he took my ass 1 last time and power fucked me for a minute or two before feeding a load somewhere up inside me. I wandered around the patio trying to unkink some calf muscles, and ended up in the back dark aisle again- the dom was back there, and guided /pushed me over the bar top , then put his cock against my ass and started pissing on and into my hole. As he finished up, a hand moved back into my hole and fisted me for another round. I could tell it was the virgin- so I guess he was taking me up on my offer ! After he finished up on my hole, I was really beginning to feel worn out and worn down, so I went back in to the bar for the air conditioning and to honestly chill out. A new wave of men came in the bar, so after regaining some energy, I went back out on the patio- the dom was busy, so I walked around- a couple of guys gave me their cocks to suck, but never rewarded me with cum- I guess they were sort of fresh in and wanted to save their sexual energy for a while. I spotted the dom, thanked him for the night, and let him know I was shot and going to head out. He told me to look for him next week - so now I have a full dance card for my next weekly trip to the bar in advance ! Sweet!!

You don't have a location in your profile on here- might help if you do that along with many other steps. If nothing else, it may let a guy also in your city know you are a possible date, or at the least a fling.And if you were living in S Florida when all the crap happened- welcome to the circle-- it seems almost everyone I know down here has had their turn in the turnstile with either a user or a psycho --mine was 13 years ago,( I got the psycho!) and I still find it difficult to find anyone to date- but lots of partnered guys willing to drop by and play now and then--. Maybe you are in a different city, and the guys are a little different - rely on your friends, and keep things lite for a while- someone may know a man looking for a guy just like you

Man4Man- while scanning the hands of all the potential fisters to break your cherry-- don't focus on one because it is skinny and bony- a few fist buds and I were comparing hands we love, and the guys with a little fat/padding on the hand {WARNING: BAD PUN AHEAD} won our love Hands down! Seems like a bony paw can be too-pokey stabbish while slithering around inside, while a guy with a nice medium hand that has a layer of padding is less stressful on the inner lining of your gut