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I was talking with a friend about starting a gloryhole. I will be moving, hopefully within the next 6 weeks to my own place again, and thought it would be a cool thing to start doing. I'm use to having guys over and sucking them, but I know a lot of guys like their privacy and use gloryholes so the sucker won't know who they are, which I am fine with. I've been checking out a few sites to see the best way to get one set up. I've seen some with cloth hanging between the two and others made from wood, which I will probably use. I've already seen my place, the downstairs bathroom is right off from the living room. Thinking of having them just show up, knock and walk on in and over to the hole. I won't have to go searching for them and they will have their privacy. I posted an ad online earlier to "test the waters" and within 30 minutes got a reply. Now I wish I was already at my place! Any tips or suggestions?

If it were just random hook ups, I would say no. However, if they are a couple I would agree, they should have had the talk already. However, being a bottom the risk is very low. I don't feed into the BS when people say HIV can be transfered through oral. Even my doctor agrees with me when I mention that, and I don't think there's been any proof HIV has been transfered by oral only, and even if one were to say it was, who's to say he didn't take it anally some other time? If the posotive one is only a bottom, I say you have nothing to really worry about. I've taken loads in my mouth from positive people before and after I became positive. No biggie for me.

My boyfriend who is in jail called me today. He says he got to see the HIV specialist this week, and the doctor said his blood work shows he is positive for Hep C! Okay, he had a test before going to jail, he was negative for Hep C, all he had was HIV. He was tested while in jail before, only positive for HIV. Since that test he was moved to a different county jail, and back to the original jail. The second jail he was in had in house doctors giving him shots for an illiness. The first jail never gave him any shots. Does Hep C automaticly show up if you have it? If so, the only place he could have got it was from the second county jail giving him shots. I am a llittle worried, and a lot pissed off. I don't know much about Hep C though.

These days it's not even safe to judge someone, as to if they did or did not disclose, because even if they did disclose, who's to say the people who reported him didn't lie afterwards? Wanting to get poz or just the fantasy of wanting it, or wanting fucked by a guy who is poz can lead to bad things afterwards, especially if the person who is at risk or got poz doesn't know the facts and how it can change your one's life. If the person did lie to them, I feel sorry for them, but only if they asked before hand if he was postive or not. I don't side with "victims" anymore who refuse to ask and still go bareback. It's on them, in my opinion.

He wasn't on meds at the time of his arrest. I'm not sure when he stopped, but he said it was because insurance wouldn't cover meds when he was working, and when he moved here he never tried again, just assumed the same result would come. It wasn't until I got involved and got Poz that I was able to find out who to see here about getting me started and him back. He was arrested 4 days before he was to start treatment again. They said they would make sure he seen the doctor and got his meds, they never did, and didn't until I believe January after I spoke to the local news and they did a report. They want me now to pay them (the jail) $100 per visit to his doctor for gas. I laughed at the though. I have been in contact with Lambda, but their specialist lawyer can't do cases in Missouri, but they were very helpful with speaking with his former public defender about getting his treatment started again. I try to keep them updated, like they asked me to do, but as of late they seem to have gone mum, not replying to my emails. As for ACLU of Missouri, I contacted them last year in November, and had nothing but a run around with them. First they sent a letter saying they couldn't offer any help for his case, and on the same day I got a call from them saying to ignore the letter and they were able to offer help, but needed more info... was told to call back a month later... calls never got returned, and in February received the same letter saying they couldn't offer any help. Then again last month, I received a third letter saying they couldn't offer any help. Not sure why they continue to send the same canned response letters when I even gave up calling them...

Has anyone here had someone in their life that has had to deal with the law and how they were unable or able to prove whether or not they disclosed their HIV+ status? I've shared my personal dealings with the law on this before, some of my very firsts posts here, but just wondering if anyone else has been or knows of a friend who has been in the same boat? My boyfriend goes to court today, and it still doesn't look good. He has been in jail since August of last year. They have not offered him anything else - just count B felonies, open. They said if he were to accept the deal, it would be up to the judge to decide his punishment, up to 30 years. The shitty news about that is they also said the judge would not get to hear evidence in his case, that supports him - which would be from 3 witnesses that were against him, one admitted to lying when they took his testimony, the second admitted to lying to the first witness, then skipped town before they could serve him his subpena, and the prosecutor and public defender both said they are not worried about finding him, and the third witness that filed charges said he only did so because he would never sleep with a known positive person, but afterwards he went online trying to get me to have sex with him, knowing I was the guy's boyfriend and was positive. He and the second both admitted to me they lied to police because my boyfriend would not allow me to take part in a 4-way with them. How can they not let information that helps him be given to the judge? The prosecutor and detective on the case have had it out for him since the beginning, and me as well. You think by finally telling the truth it would help, but it doesn't seem like is helping at all. He is on his third public defender, he currently has the main defender over all defenders in our area, but that doesn't seem to be helping. It took me months to get the jail to take him to a doctor and get him back on his medication, and after they did that they refused to have his prescription filled for a week, and more recently, refused to take him to see his specialist, even though the sheriff's department told his case manager they did take him. It took me telling her they didn't for her to contact them again for the truth, in turn made them end up taking him to the doctor. It seems like when I get one thing accomplished, two more things come along and fuck it all up again. I just want my guy home, but I fill like I will never see him again unless it's a mugshot on the fucking news.

It would be hotter if I were the bottom in that video, and Pablo and the chubby daddy were taking turns on me. Sigh!!

Nothing needs to be discussed with me because I hate condoms. I usually make it clear I want it raw in my ads, so they already know. If I don't it's really up to them. If they pull out a condom, so be it, if they don't, even better.

I've never had anyone be loud enough that it annoyed me. I've seen porn where the top was so damn loud, it makes it unbelieveable. Then again, that is porn, so...

I've always left that up to the boyfriend, and he always used Astroglide. When I play alone I just use spot. However, I did buy Gun Oil recently, though have not been able to use it yet, hopefully my ass can test it out next month when I move. Hope it enjoys it!

All I will say here is "no comment" - make of that what you wish. However, the local news reported a few days ago about a man in another state who posted an ad on CL for a woman and a K9. Woman got him over to her hotel, and as he was petting her K9 she arrested him. I seen many K9 ads on CL in our area. Not me of course!

Yes, it's me, and thank you, even though I don't think so.

Yeah, I shouldn't have directed as being too old. The last guy I was with was 22, and couldn't get it up when it came to fucking. I am just tired of people who lie just to get you to show up in hopes of getting the opposite out of you. Saturday night I had a guy make a 2 hours drive, he was in his early 50s. He was honest up front about not being able to fuck, so it was cool with me, I still sucked him off. It was great because he was honest. These others are either lying or too needy. What is so hard about finding dick that just wanna fuck you like a cheap bitch and be done with you? Where are you toppers at?? Can you hear me??

I'm 30 and love fucking with older guys. I never had a thing for the younger guys, never had one. If I had the chance, I wouldn't refuse, but I love the daddies. When I post an ad on Craigslist for a top lately... and I mean since February... all I get are people who claim to be tops... then when I get there or talk to them, they pull the "Oh, I can't get hard" shit and I am just left speechless. This should be something you mention up front, but I think they think they can get you to turn around and top them, don't think so! I'm just tired of getting the old men that can't put out... or are fucking clingy!! This is why I try to stick with the married men... they don't want anything but an ass or mouth to dump then, then run back home to the wife and kid. I got a hit on my ad tonight... this guy says he has fucked me before, but clearly not since I had no fucking clue who he was. He gives me his number to call, thinking I'm bout to get my ass pounded, and what happens... a straight out homo... trying to get me to drive almost two hours away for a dick that rarely gets hard... and then he springs this "I'm lonely, I need a partner, a relationship" bullshit on me. His phone went dead, Jesus answered my prayers and I didn't answer when he started calling again! He called like 5 times in a matter of minutes... then started texting and emailing demanding me to call him. I tell him I have a boyfriend so that relationship shit ain't gonna fly with me. Just because my man has been in jail for a year don't mean I'm letting that thick Mexican cock go so easily!! HELL NO! Sitting here looking at my Gmail tab, since I started writing this he has sent me 5 emails... make that 6 now!!! Here's just some of the emails I received within the last 5 minutes!!! "do you have pictures on your computer you can share" "my freiend you have to start thinking good things about you and if you are like me you are so lonely and need to just lay in some man's arms and yes our meeting will be very discreet" "you there" "please talk to me pleae I know how that feels I am told the same thing so pleae do not stop talking" "or did you find someone else" "well I was hoping to meet you ven if is after the first of the month but I guess you have different plans"

I LOVE getting fucked by married men... they claim to be "straight" because they are married... and I play along just to get that dick. Most of them though, have said it's because their bitch won't put out, so of course, I do.

I love doggie, but the boyfriend always has me down on my stomach, on top of me when we fuck. He's the only one that does it, and I don' care for it either.

Started texting with an older guy on Craigslist a few days ago. He ended up driving almost 2 hours away tonight, meet and I sucked him at the dam. Loved his talking during it too. Suppose to meet up with another guy later tonight, get a room and whatever, but I have a feeling he will be a no-show. He did this before, but he doesn't know that I know it's him again. I will play it cool and not say anything until I see it's actually going to go down. Also got a "straight" guy who's been texting me off CL. He is engaged with a child. He's so "straight" he sent me two dick pics, then two more, then another over the course of 3-4 days. He also sent me a video of him jacking off... he said he would be by earlier today, but never showed. I don't actually expect him to, but it's fun chatting with him.

I don't think the top should have to ask. The bottom knows a dick is going in there, and if there's not been any talk about scat, assume they don't wanna play in shit. No matter if they are a bottom "whore" or a virgin taking their first dick. I quote whore because if you don't clean out, you aren't qualified to be a bottom whore in my book. I, as a bottom, always make sure I am clean when sex is planned. If I am on a cock sucking job and there was no talk about fucking, and I'm not clean, I will refuse and tell them why.

Tell me about it! I figured it was for the best though, he wasn't all he was cracked up to be. A 5 minute sucking is better than blowing him all night.

22, and was a member here, too. Lol

I love verbal tops, but it's hard to find them around here. I have had one and that good, but didn't do much, he tried though. I tend to get the ones that wanna talk like we are best buds afterwards, when I'm trying to get them to either get the fuck outta my house or get our of their car. Tonight after I blew some random, he just starts talking about how he knew the people that lived there, there and there, years ago... I was getting out of his truck like "Yeah, yeah, okay, later". Lol

After my last FWB went crazy on me and sicked his mother on me in May, I haven't been active. Kinda decided to stop looking and wait til my BF is out of jail. Well, this week took its tole, and I needed a load... or two... or three... or 100. Posted ad on CL and got a few replies... one wanted to meet from the town over... then he said I was too far from where he was sitting... didn't happen... he tried the next morning but my ass wasn't getting out of bed! He tried at 3 this morning, but I was already in bed. Finally got suck his load out tonight. Went to the local boat ramp... people were there fishing, so we pulled out and I blew him right there on the side of the road. Fuck that cock tasted so fucking good, and I got all but a small squirt down my throat. Decent pay off for walking for about an hour waiting for him to find me, he got lost at first.

I don't care for having it done to me, but I love to eat ass. The first time I did it was in February and the guy asked me if I had done it before, and I said no. He said it was as if I had done it for years. Lol I did it two other guy two months ago, but not for long since he hurry up and shot. Both were married, the only way I roll.

Any cock works for me. I could give a shit less what they look like, as long as they know how to work it.

Honestly, I can't win for losing. As I started to accept my grandpa was gone, now baby I've had for almost 7 years has to go in next week for surgery to remove a tumor. Vet said he got this tumor because he has never "been laid" ........ which is true... but damn... I never knew of that... When you need someone to hold you and they can't... he is 20 minutes away... so close... yet so far away.