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The need for "meaningless sex" in anon hook-ups has nothing to do with a need for a close emotional relationship with another man. The solution is to find someone for emotional closeness without expecting that all your sexual needs will be fulfilled with him. Then find together a way to deal with a sex: open relationship, fool around together, etc. By the way, I don't agree with referring to anon sex as "meaningless" or "sex without emotions" because those statements assume the only emotion with meaning and value is love. Anyone whose been cruising for anon sex will experience lots of emotions. Not love, but LOTS of other strong emotions.
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In preparation for my sex-vacation in Chile, yesterday I took my first PrEP pill. So far so good, but I'm feeling a bit worried about possible side-effects because. If I'm not feeling good I don't feel like having sex so then there is no point in taking PrEP.
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I've been reading the responses and I can understand someone who's 100% bottom like myself. I don't expect bottoms all of a sudden to become tops in a relationship. What I'm talking about are bottoms topping at the sauna or at a group sex session after they have finished bottoming and are horny as hell with all that cum in their holes. Before going home from the sauna many bottoms go to their room or wait until they are home to jerk-off. I suggest that if a bottom is horny and has to go home find a hole and breed it. You will make another bottom very happy and maybe one day it will be your turn. Instead of jerking-off, breed a hole. Why not?
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Too many bottoms: Not in Santiago, Chile
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
The bareback scene in Santiago is quite large by which I mean guys bareback everywhere. This is backed up by statistics which makes Chile the country in Latin America with the larges increase of HIV infections: 40% in 3 years. I'm having a guy in Chile organizing for me what he calls a gang-bang event. He provides the apartment, the sling, let's the guys into the apartment and makes sure things happen. Lots of bareback action there. Back to the topic of too many bottoms: not in Chile. In preparation to my trip I've found that there are lots of guys who wanna top bareback and like the idea of anonymous sex on a sling. The walk-in scenario is a big turn on for many there. The other curious thing is that in Chile there are many more young guys interested in older men than in Canada, and is not because of the money. They enjoy sex with older men. -
The anon stealthing going on in bathhouses is a bit different from the one mentioned in the news. First, it's difficult to bring charges against someone when nobody knows any names and they will not see each other again.
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Very well said. I have trouble understanding the chasing fetish because once you poz, then what? It's hard to predict what will be available in the future to prevent HIV. What if something like PrEP becomes available, that also prevents other STD? I would discourage chasers from pozing because of the dependency on the health system but also because it will complicate your life. Ongoing blood tests, drs visits, having to reveal your status, when moving to another country. Being poz may sometimes complicate your life, simply by closing options. A guy who's in his early twenty's becomes a cumdump, then a chaser, poz by 25. Nobody knows what will be in store for this guy in his late 20's. I've read about guys who were describing their recent pozing experience and who mention not being able to be a father as one of the issues they had to come to terms with. A request for fathering a baby for a lesbian couple would have to be rejected. I think you can "wash" the sperm or something. Being sick has never been better than being healthy.
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I know that a Thank You is many times well deserved. But for many in the the mood of Being a Hole sometimes complete silence after the delivery of the load is much hotter: slowly pull-out, clean, get dress, and leave without a word can be extremely hot. A Thank You makes me a person and I wanna be a hole.
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XTube link collection - breeding videos
hungry_hole replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I liked this video because it's a German guy fucking an American. I found it hot to hear the German guy as he shoots his loads. Really hot, in English with German accesnt. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bareback-creampie-1-32947822 bareback creampie 1 fuck a american man bareback and cum in his hole By Sucker333 -
I'm planning a trip to Santiago (Chile) so I've been manhunting, actually using Manhunt site. It's very popular en Chile.. I've been surprised by the amount of tops who are looking for anon action with mature men. In Manhunt I must have close to 100 conversations with guys who are interested in meeting for bareback sex as a top. I will be renting an apartment for someone who specializes sex-vacation because he not only offers a portable sling but he also organizes gang-bangs. Gang-bangs are difficult to organize but this guy does all the work. All I need to do is to jump onb the sling and feel my hole being filled. Apart from the possibility of the gang-bang I've been hooking up with many others who like the idea of the sling. Planning to be on PrEP for the trip, so I';m very excited.
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This is something to keep in mind when you are having sex in a park, because being seen having sex is quite different from being filmed having sex.
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I once asked a woman friend in her 60's how often did she think of sex. She answered "How many times a month I think about sex?" I just laughed because as a man if I could count how often I think of sex it would have to be how many times I think of sex in an hour. When asked, most women say they like sex but I have my doubts because I think they like sex as part of a relationship. Sometimes young women are a bit more crazy with sex but not once women are 50 and 60. As a man I keep getting as horny as I did when I was 20. We've heard of lots of older men accused of sexual harassment. But I would like to hear about a woman in Congress or in Hollywood. There have been some cases of female teachers sexually abusing teenage students. But I don't call that abuse because those teenage boys probably love being abused by a hot female teacher. Seeing a woman in her 50's or 60's who is into pure sex would make me change my mind regarding women and sex.
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Right on! I always question the motivation of social movements, such as the gay movement, that focus and dwell on victimization and oppression. Instead of interpreting something like Homophobia as an oppressor-victim dynamic look at it as a victim-victim dynamic. I don't see any oppressors because to me there are all victims.
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Overweight people like eating. Smokers like to smoke. Alcoholics like to drink. People play X-treme sports for the fun of it. None of them is looking to get sick. Chasers are.
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Universal Healthcare is not free, but healthcare is one of the best candidates for "entitlements" because with the exception of "chasers" most people avoid getting sick. Many entitlements provided with tax money are subject to abuse but not healthcare. I know Americans are proud of their freedom but I prefer to have less American-style freedom and live in a country with Universal Healthcare.
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I've never been able to understand chasers mainly because the fetish is finite and it ends once you poz. Unlike the fetish of being a cum-hungry bottom that can last for ever. You can poz and keep taking loads in your cum-hungry hole. I'm no fan of pozing because of all the issues stated by bottomBBboi. Yes, once you poz the idea is that you are free to have sex but that's only true of you forget about all other STD. In terms of the cost, sorry to tell you but the problem is that you live in the US, the so-called most powerful country in the World. I live in Canada and have watched in amazement how so many Americans associate Universal Healthcare with a lack of freedom, and thus reject it. I would think that most people who live in developed countries think of Americans as crazy for being so gullible and for believing that insurance companies have better intentions than the government.
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A guy who never wants to top should not complain about a lack of tops. At a bathhouse or group sex situation even a total bottom when he has finished bottoming can make another bottom happy by finding a hole, fucking it, breeding it and then go home. As I've said before, some bottoms give as an excuse for not topping that their cock is too small or that they cum too quickly. If that is the case, let the guy you fuck decide because I know there are many bottoms who don't care about size or length of fuck because all they're hunting for is some cum in their hole.
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How to convince tops to bareback? At the bathhouse I tell them that in terms of HIV, the top is at a much lower risk than the bottom. I then go on to say that in terms of other std fucking bareback is as risky getting sucked. This usually works because most guys are very turned-on by raw sex but are afraid and all they need is a bit of encouragement. I also find that taking dirty talk can work because again, all they need is a bit of encouragement from all possible angles. My most memorable convincing act was when I was on a sling at the local sauna and a young guy from another area of the organization I worked for showed up and recognized me. We had been in common meetings at work and I had noticed that he had liked me. But we never really talked, until he show up at the sling. I was right that he had the hots for me because he did not hesitate and quickly had a hard-on ready to go in. But he pulls out a condom and starts putting it on, but I stopped him. Tried convincing him to go bareback, but he decided to leave. But he has just left, when he came back, fucked me bareback, bred my hole and left. So hot!
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Your profile (versatile/bottom) suggests you may occasionally top. So you must have fucked and bred a hole. To keep up with the topic, versatile bottoms can still tell us about what they like when they fuck and breed a hole.
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My fantasy is the same many guys here have: being the bottom in a gang-bang. I've managed to do it with a small number of guys and never being sure that it will work. Everyone at a gang-bang has their own fantasy that may not exactly fit with what I want. I found a guy in Chile who offers an apartment with a sling and organizes a gang-bang. He takes care of finding the guys I want to fuck and breed me and I decide on the number. I was there last November and had some fun but limited because I was afraid of HIV. I'll be going again in January but this time I will be on PrEP so I'm prepared for the real thing. I already chose one top that is a bit older (37) and another who is actually a bottom (24) but who likes to top in a group sex situation. What is nice about it is that I don't have to worry about security as guys come in and go. I'm very excited but I only hope PrEP won't give me problems when I start in December. I hope to have a video of the action and be able to jerk-off watching it later. I find that as I get older I get more slutty but also it becomes harder to get what I want. So I'm willing to pay. I've see some hot young bottoms in a bathhouse getting fucked by several guys. But I'm no longer young and hot.
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I think that fuck benches should be reserved for slutty take all-loads bottoms and not for bottoms with conditions, either age or safe-sex only. Not cool because that picky bottom can free the spot for another bottom willing to be the slut that other guys in the dark-room expect. I was at Steamworks-Toronto a few years ago and when I walked into the dark-room there was a hot bottom on the bench. I said, "That's great" so I approached him and noticed that he was asking for condoms. He was a hot young bottom and next to me there was a guy with a huge hard-on, probably on Viagra, letting me know that he wanted to fuck bare and breed that hole. He then pulls out a condom and bites the tip of it, puts on the condom and pokes the bottoms hole. The bottom checked and felt the condom so he let this guy fuck him. I knew what was going on but I wasn't going to get involved, plus the whole thing was turning me on, so I just encouraged this guy to keep fucking him. When he let out a loud moan, he pumped for a few more seconds, pulled out and disappeared into the darkness. It was so hot to feel his sloppy hole, then someone immediately, with a condom started to fuck him but I knew he was churning a nice load. Not sure if he realized what had happened, but it was hot. If he discovered later that he had been stealth maybe now he jerks-off thinking about this incident.
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I've always had a thing for taking loads from bottoms but I don't hear guys saying this too often. I remember reading it in another post here. You should top more often especially because you are still young. After all, fucking bareback a hot hole is very nice, not to mention the breeding. I know because I have fucked holes but also from the reaction of the guys fucking me. When a guy is fucking me I can't really tell if he's a top or a bottom, other than when a bottom cums too quickly, which I don't mind. And both a top or a bottom enjoys the breeding when it's a nice hole. I can understand a very fixed role top/bottom in a one-on-one. But in a bathhouse where there is so much sexual stimulation, there are no good reasons for shooting your load, taking a short brake, and be back on the action. And this goes to both, tops and bottoms. It's good for a bottom who's taken a few loads to breed another hole, take a brake and then go back to taking loads. Or a top, back to fucking and breeding holes. So many guys at the bathhouse are "saving" their load for later without realizing that it's sometimes better to shoot your load and then go back to action, 10-15 minutes later. Exactly. And I'm sure that when those bottoms were fucking you it felt the same as if a top was fucking you.
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XTube link collection - breeding videos
hungry_hole replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
This is a hot breeding video, mainly because the top guy has a huge cock. Too bad it sometimes goes off screen. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/tampa-big-white-dick-32683662 Tampa big white dick Hooked up with this guy via Grindr. I was looking for a pump and dump. I didn't expect this big dick. -
Cautious barebackers: How do you stay "safe"?
hungry_hole replied to bbicurious's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
bbicurious, the initial poster, is concerned about all STI, not just HIV. PrEP protects only against HIV. The only strategy that I know and use that can help with other STI is safestsex.org. Unfortunately not enough people are members and don't know about this site. They have an interesting concept that is based on Mutual Monogamy, recommended by CDC, as they explain in their site. The claim they make is that members can achieve a risk level close to monogamy. So in theory, members can have all the anonymous sex with a very low risk. It's an interesting concept that I really like. I will now be combining my safestsex.org membership with PrEP for a few months because I will be going on a sex vacation. At least now I know when my latest test were performed because they are recorded in safestsex.org. As a member I could ask sexual partners to have their test results validated by the clinic. But to do this I have to first validate by results with my clinic. So far I haven't been able to convince my clinic to partner with safestsex.org because, erroneously they think that they need to disclose my test results. I've tried to explain it to them but clinic are too paranoid with confidentiality. -
anonymous hook up vs interaction
hungry_hole replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
I've always preferred anon sex over any other kind. I started having sex with guys at the YMCA/NYC dormitories and then continued in bathhouses. The problem with anon sex is it's reputation which is why I like the piece by SafestSex.org on anon sex. It presents anon sex as a normal need (http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php) that men have and I like that. Most sexologists keep talking about "healthy sexuality" which excludes anon sex. I'm now convinced that men can make great friends but after having anon sex. First have anon sex, repeat it if both like it, and then if interested they can meet and have a great relationship. Instead of meeting first for coffee. -
XTube link collection - breeding videos
hungry_hole replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I like to watch a real Hunk breed a twink's hole so I liked this a lot: Deep breeding: 12:45 https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/hunk-mercilessly-barebacks-twink-with-sound-32507442
