hungry_hole

When I was young and had a hot muscular body, and I was horny and looking to get fucked, I used to pretend that I was looking to fuck a hole and then the challenge was to trick and get the other guy to fuck me. It worked most of the time and it was so hot to leave their place with their load inside my hole. There was nothing to feel bad about because I had just witnessed what a good time they had while they pumped their load in my hole.

ffff I really meant guys wanting to breed a hole and fill it with his cum at a bathhouse or at a sex event. I generally refer to these men as "tops" because at the time they are topping. But they may even identify as bottoms. I can understand someone becoming a bottom for this kind of reason. But what about guys in their 20's and 30's who are completely healthy? It makes little sense to hear a 21-yr old guy describing himself as a total bottom? Isn't it a bit premature to reject something like topping at such young age? Any total bottom in his 20's could answer?

My question here is: Does it make sense for a bottom to complain about the lack of tops when he himself is contributing to the lack of tops? I have no problem with "total bottoms" but I think is not fair for bottoms to complain about there being so many bottoms. Myself, I prefer to bottom and in fact don't get much out of fucking, so I understand where bottoms are coming from. But I would never complain about there being so many bottoms at the bathhouse because I know that I'm contributing to the lack of tops. That is my point.

We sometimes hear women complaining of the lack of men to date. But, do bottoms have the right to complain about the lack of tops when by refusing to top a bottom is contributing to the lack of tops? The usual explanations are that "I was born a bottom" or that "Being a bottom is in my DNA". We know none of them are true. Some bottoms say that because their cock is too small or they cum too quickly they never top and breed holes. I understand that in a one-to-one relationship a bottom may have trouble topping. But what about at the end of an evening at the sauna after taking many loads? Why not look for a hole to breed before going home? I don't think that bottoms have the right to complain about the lack of tops unless they top once in a while.

Some guys have very strong orgasms and they find that a mouth would add unnecessary stimuli so they prefer to pull-out and jerk-off by themselves. I had a long-term bareback fuck-buddy who when he was shooting his load would tell me not to touch him because his skin hurt. It didn't bother me because I was used to him, I wouldn't move, I wouldn't touch him. Got to enjoy just being a hole for him once he started to shoot.

I'm on vacation in Santiago, Chile, staying in an apartment with sling inside the apartment. The first few days I hooked-up with several guys who wanted to try a walk-in scene, door unlocked. Strangely, from what I see, there is a high percentage of "tops", guys who define themselves as "100% top, I don't bottom". I don't know why, but I've been able to enjoy it. It helps that I speak Spanish. I then took a 10 day break because the apartment was booked with a guy from overseas. I came back to the apartment that also has a Gloryhole. I opened a profile announcing the Private Gloryhole and many guys wanted to try it. Some guys had told me they only wanted to get sucked in the gloryhiole but once they were horny they wanted to fuck me through the gloryhole. So hot! Many of the guys arrived with a hard cock already, I guess excited with the idea of having their cock anonymously. I will continue hooking up with guys using Grindr or Manhunt but I find that the problem I'm having is not finding tops but being able to respond to so many guys who are interested. I've had at least 50 guys contact me on Manhunt and when I turn on Grindr I always find messages from guys interested. When I'm home I plan the diet and prepare myself for a fuck. But here I find it harder to clean my hole and be ready for the amount of guys who are willing to fuck bareback. But here guys want to get sucked and fuck me right away but I can't plan with such little time to prepare. Next in the agenda is an organized gang-bang that the guy in charge of the apartment/sling/gloryhole offers as a service. I will have to prepare well for that event because I'm really looking forward. I have no problem having one guy in the apartment servicing his cock but I would be worried with more than one guy going in and out. I will schedule a gang-bang with 3 guys but I can also ask guys with whom I've already hooked up with to come along. So it could be a lot of fun because there will be someone to control guys going in and out. While writing this a guy on Grindr wanted to come over to get sucked and breed me using the gloryhole. I had tpo say no because my hole wasn't ready and I have to go out soon. Too many opportunities is my problem...

One of the things I like about men cruising for sex is that we can be honest about what we want without having to conform to any social norm. Forcing anyone to like older men under the pretense of ageism is like forcing men to like women for sex under the pretense of sexism. Guys have to be free to choose whose cock they want to suck and who they want to fuck with. It is not stupid not to want to have sex with older than 45 but it is stupid to say that "age is just a number" because everyone knows it's not just number.

I really liked the way the top keeps pumping his load until he's done... https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/stuffing-stockings-33124622

By age 55 I guessed that I had taken at least 1,500 loads. For many years I had a private gloryhole which provided me with a lot of action. I started barebacking when the norm was using condoms and being open about being a barebacker who took loads also helped. Raw holes were not easily available so I remember many guys contacti9ng me just to breed a raw hole, something rare those days. Same thing at the sauna where I was able to take 15 anon loads in one night.

I agree and I'm glad someone here is speaking the truth about glorifying poz status and calling it a brotherhood.

Sex with men is such a different experience that I have trouble calling it "cheating". For me sex with men is mainly anonymous/NSA and not much different from watching hot porno videos but with touchable actors. The main issue for me when a man who is married/attached to a woman and having sex with men are STD.

The need for "meaningless sex" in anon hook-ups has nothing to do with a need for a close emotional relationship with another man. The solution is to find someone for emotional closeness without expecting that all your sexual needs will be fulfilled with him. Then find together a way to deal with a sex: open relationship, fool around together, etc. By the way, I don't agree with referring to anon sex as "meaningless" or "sex without emotions" because those statements assume the only emotion with meaning and value is love. Anyone whose been cruising for anon sex will experience lots of emotions. Not love, but LOTS of other strong emotions.

In preparation for my sex-vacation in Chile, yesterday I took my first PrEP pill. So far so good, but I'm feeling a bit worried about possible side-effects because. If I'm not feeling good I don't feel like having sex so then there is no point in taking PrEP.

I've been reading the responses and I can understand someone who's 100% bottom like myself. I don't expect bottoms all of a sudden to become tops in a relationship. What I'm talking about are bottoms topping at the sauna or at a group sex session after they have finished bottoming and are horny as hell with all that cum in their holes. Before going home from the sauna many bottoms go to their room or wait until they are home to jerk-off. I suggest that if a bottom is horny and has to go home find a hole and breed it. You will make another bottom very happy and maybe one day it will be your turn. Instead of jerking-off, breed a hole. Why not?

The bareback scene in Santiago is quite large by which I mean guys bareback everywhere. This is backed up by statistics which makes Chile the country in Latin America with the larges increase of HIV infections: 40% in 3 years. I'm having a guy in Chile organizing for me what he calls a gang-bang event. He provides the apartment, the sling, let's the guys into the apartment and makes sure things happen. Lots of bareback action there. Back to the topic of too many bottoms: not in Chile. In preparation to my trip I've found that there are lots of guys who wanna top bareback and like the idea of anonymous sex on a sling. The walk-in scenario is a big turn on for many there. The other curious thing is that in Chile there are many more young guys interested in older men than in Canada, and is not because of the money. They enjoy sex with older men.

The anon stealthing going on in bathhouses is a bit different from the one mentioned in the news. First, it's difficult to bring charges against someone when nobody knows any names and they will not see each other again.

Very well said. I have trouble understanding the chasing fetish because once you poz, then what? It's hard to predict what will be available in the future to prevent HIV. What if something like PrEP becomes available, that also prevents other STD? I would discourage chasers from pozing because of the dependency on the health system but also because it will complicate your life. Ongoing blood tests, drs visits, having to reveal your status, when moving to another country. Being poz may sometimes complicate your life, simply by closing options. A guy who's in his early twenty's becomes a cumdump, then a chaser, poz by 25. Nobody knows what will be in store for this guy in his late 20's. I've read about guys who were describing their recent pozing experience and who mention not being able to be a father as one of the issues they had to come to terms with. A request for fathering a baby for a lesbian couple would have to be rejected. I think you can "wash" the sperm or something. Being sick has never been better than being healthy.

I know that a Thank You is many times well deserved. But for many in the the mood of Being a Hole sometimes complete silence after the delivery of the load is much hotter: slowly pull-out, clean, get dress, and leave without a word can be extremely hot. A Thank You makes me a person and I wanna be a hole.

I liked this video because it's a German guy fucking an American. I found it hot to hear the German guy as he shoots his loads. Really hot, in English with German accesnt. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bareback-creampie-1-32947822 bareback creampie 1 fuck a american man bareback and cum in his hole By Sucker333

I'm planning a trip to Santiago (Chile) so I've been manhunting, actually using Manhunt site. It's very popular en Chile.. I've been surprised by the amount of tops who are looking for anon action with mature men. In Manhunt I must have close to 100 conversations with guys who are interested in meeting for bareback sex as a top. I will be renting an apartment for someone who specializes sex-vacation because he not only offers a portable sling but he also organizes gang-bangs. Gang-bangs are difficult to organize but this guy does all the work. All I need to do is to jump onb the sling and feel my hole being filled. Apart from the possibility of the gang-bang I've been hooking up with many others who like the idea of the sling. Planning to be on PrEP for the trip, so I';m very excited.

This is something to keep in mind when you are having sex in a park, because being seen having sex is quite different from being filmed having sex.

I once asked a woman friend in her 60's how often did she think of sex. She answered "How many times a month I think about sex?" I just laughed because as a man if I could count how often I think of sex it would have to be how many times I think of sex in an hour. When asked, most women say they like sex but I have my doubts because I think they like sex as part of a relationship. Sometimes young women are a bit more crazy with sex but not once women are 50 and 60. As a man I keep getting as horny as I did when I was 20. We've heard of lots of older men accused of sexual harassment. But I would like to hear about a woman in Congress or in Hollywood. There have been some cases of female teachers sexually abusing teenage students. But I don't call that abuse because those teenage boys probably love being abused by a hot female teacher. Seeing a woman in her 50's or 60's who is into pure sex would make me change my mind regarding women and sex.

Right on! I always question the motivation of social movements, such as the gay movement, that focus and dwell on victimization and oppression. Instead of interpreting something like Homophobia as an oppressor-victim dynamic look at it as a victim-victim dynamic. I don't see any oppressors because to me there are all victims.

Overweight people like eating. Smokers like to smoke. Alcoholics like to drink. People play X-treme sports for the fun of it. None of them is looking to get sick. Chasers are.

Universal Healthcare is not free, but healthcare is one of the best candidates for "entitlements" because with the exception of "chasers" most people avoid getting sick. Many entitlements provided with tax money are subject to abuse but not healthcare. I know Americans are proud of their freedom but I prefer to have less American-style freedom and live in a country with Universal Healthcare.