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I've never been able to understand chasers mainly because the fetish is finite and it ends once you poz. Unlike the fetish of being a cum-hungry bottom that can last for ever. You can poz and keep taking loads in your cum-hungry hole. I'm no fan of pozing because of all the issues stated by bottomBBboi. Yes, once you poz the idea is that you are free to have sex but that's only true of you forget about all other STD. In terms of the cost, sorry to tell you but the problem is that you live in the US, the so-called most powerful country in the World. I live in Canada and have watched in amazement how so many Americans associate Universal Healthcare with a lack of freedom, and thus reject it. I would think that most people who live in developed countries think of Americans as crazy for being so gullible and for believing that insurance companies have better intentions than the government.

A guy who never wants to top should not complain about a lack of tops. At a bathhouse or group sex situation even a total bottom when he has finished bottoming can make another bottom happy by finding a hole, fucking it, breeding it and then go home. As I've said before, some bottoms give as an excuse for not topping that their cock is too small or that they cum too quickly. If that is the case, let the guy you fuck decide because I know there are many bottoms who don't care about size or length of fuck because all they're hunting for is some cum in their hole.

How to convince tops to bareback? At the bathhouse I tell them that in terms of HIV, the top is at a much lower risk than the bottom. I then go on to say that in terms of other std fucking bareback is as risky getting sucked. This usually works because most guys are very turned-on by raw sex but are afraid and all they need is a bit of encouragement. I also find that taking dirty talk can work because again, all they need is a bit of encouragement from all possible angles. My most memorable convincing act was when I was on a sling at the local sauna and a young guy from another area of the organization I worked for showed up and recognized me. We had been in common meetings at work and I had noticed that he had liked me. But we never really talked, until he show up at the sling. I was right that he had the hots for me because he did not hesitate and quickly had a hard-on ready to go in. But he pulls out a condom and starts putting it on, but I stopped him. Tried convincing him to go bareback, but he decided to leave. But he has just left, when he came back, fucked me bareback, bred my hole and left. So hot!

Your profile (versatile/bottom) suggests you may occasionally top. So you must have fucked and bred a hole. To keep up with the topic, versatile bottoms can still tell us about what they like when they fuck and breed a hole.

My fantasy is the same many guys here have: being the bottom in a gang-bang. I've managed to do it with a small number of guys and never being sure that it will work. Everyone at a gang-bang has their own fantasy that may not exactly fit with what I want. I found a guy in Chile who offers an apartment with a sling and organizes a gang-bang. He takes care of finding the guys I want to fuck and breed me and I decide on the number. I was there last November and had some fun but limited because I was afraid of HIV. I'll be going again in January but this time I will be on PrEP so I'm prepared for the real thing. I already chose one top that is a bit older (37) and another who is actually a bottom (24) but who likes to top in a group sex situation. What is nice about it is that I don't have to worry about security as guys come in and go. I'm very excited but I only hope PrEP won't give me problems when I start in December. I hope to have a video of the action and be able to jerk-off watching it later. I find that as I get older I get more slutty but also it becomes harder to get what I want. So I'm willing to pay. I've see some hot young bottoms in a bathhouse getting fucked by several guys. But I'm no longer young and hot.

I think that fuck benches should be reserved for slutty take all-loads bottoms and not for bottoms with conditions, either age or safe-sex only. Not cool because that picky bottom can free the spot for another bottom willing to be the slut that other guys in the dark-room expect. I was at Steamworks-Toronto a few years ago and when I walked into the dark-room there was a hot bottom on the bench. I said, "That's great" so I approached him and noticed that he was asking for condoms. He was a hot young bottom and next to me there was a guy with a huge hard-on, probably on Viagra, letting me know that he wanted to fuck bare and breed that hole. He then pulls out a condom and bites the tip of it, puts on the condom and pokes the bottoms hole. The bottom checked and felt the condom so he let this guy fuck him. I knew what was going on but I wasn't going to get involved, plus the whole thing was turning me on, so I just encouraged this guy to keep fucking him. When he let out a loud moan, he pumped for a few more seconds, pulled out and disappeared into the darkness. It was so hot to feel his sloppy hole, then someone immediately, with a condom started to fuck him but I knew he was churning a nice load. Not sure if he realized what had happened, but it was hot. If he discovered later that he had been stealth maybe now he jerks-off thinking about this incident.

I've always had a thing for taking loads from bottoms but I don't hear guys saying this too often. I remember reading it in another post here. You should top more often especially because you are still young. After all, fucking bareback a hot hole is very nice, not to mention the breeding. I know because I have fucked holes but also from the reaction of the guys fucking me. When a guy is fucking me I can't really tell if he's a top or a bottom, other than when a bottom cums too quickly, which I don't mind. And both a top or a bottom enjoys the breeding when it's a nice hole. I can understand a very fixed role top/bottom in a one-on-one. But in a bathhouse where there is so much sexual stimulation, there are no good reasons for shooting your load, taking a short brake, and be back on the action. And this goes to both, tops and bottoms. It's good for a bottom who's taken a few loads to breed another hole, take a brake and then go back to taking loads. Or a top, back to fucking and breeding holes. So many guys at the bathhouse are "saving" their load for later without realizing that it's sometimes better to shoot your load and then go back to action, 10-15 minutes later. Exactly. And I'm sure that when those bottoms were fucking you it felt the same as if a top was fucking you.

This is a hot breeding video, mainly because the top guy has a huge cock. Too bad it sometimes goes off screen. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/tampa-big-white-dick-32683662 Tampa big white dick Hooked up with this guy via Grindr. I was looking for a pump and dump. I didn't expect this big dick.

bbicurious, the initial poster, is concerned about all STI, not just HIV. PrEP protects only against HIV. The only strategy that I know and use that can help with other STI is safestsex.org. Unfortunately not enough people are members and don't know about this site. They have an interesting concept that is based on Mutual Monogamy, recommended by CDC, as they explain in their site. The claim they make is that members can achieve a risk level close to monogamy. So in theory, members can have all the anonymous sex with a very low risk. It's an interesting concept that I really like. I will now be combining my safestsex.org membership with PrEP for a few months because I will be going on a sex vacation. At least now I know when my latest test were performed because they are recorded in safestsex.org. As a member I could ask sexual partners to have their test results validated by the clinic. But to do this I have to first validate by results with my clinic. So far I haven't been able to convince my clinic to partner with safestsex.org because, erroneously they think that they need to disclose my test results. I've tried to explain it to them but clinic are too paranoid with confidentiality.

I've always preferred anon sex over any other kind. I started having sex with guys at the YMCA/NYC dormitories and then continued in bathhouses. The problem with anon sex is it's reputation which is why I like the piece by SafestSex.org on anon sex. It presents anon sex as a normal need (http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php) that men have and I like that. Most sexologists keep talking about "healthy sexuality" which excludes anon sex. I'm now convinced that men can make great friends but after having anon sex. First have anon sex, repeat it if both like it, and then if interested they can meet and have a great relationship. Instead of meeting first for coffee.

I like to watch a real Hunk breed a twink's hole so I liked this a lot: Deep breeding: 12:45 https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/hunk-mercilessly-barebacks-twink-with-sound-32507442

So far I haven't heard of any loving and romantic encounters where Spacey is involved with. All we've heard is Spacey chasing young cock. I don't like the "gay" identity for men because it hides what it's really all about: SEX. In my case I prefer to describe myself as someone who prefers anonymous sex and because women suck at NSA sex, I prefer sex with men. In the mentioned piece (http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php) they mention an interesting warning from Kinsey: What Kinsey says is that it "would encourage clearer thinking on these matter" if people were not classified as gay or straight. It's not about who you are, but what you do. A boy can play only with other boys (Kinsey 6) but it should not determine his identity for ever. Later on in life he may get married to a woman and be classified as Kinsey 0. This is similar to the issue of lying: "He's a liar!". A more accurate statement would be that he sometime lies. "He sometimes has sex with men" instead of "He's gay".

So true. That's why now that I'm older I find that the best way to get guys to fuck me is to present myself as a very slutty bottom. At the bathhouse I use my glow-in-the dark signs with slutty messages and it works. I'll be going on a vacation and ahead of time I created a very slutty profile and lots of guys are interested in what I will offer: a sling and gloryhole in the apartment.

I used to have a fuck buddy with a great 8.5" cut cock that I enjoyed sucking and taking up my hole. We always fucked bareback but every time he started shooting his load his entire body would become very sensitive and he would ask me to please not to touch him. I always open up my hole once I notice the top has started to shoot because most guys' cocks get sensitive. But not their entire body.

I've read a lot about homosexuality trying to understand it because it's never made any sense to me. This discussion reminded me of a paragraph from the book "Homosexual Matrix" (Tripp, 1975). He writes: This comment caught my attention when I read Homosexual Matrix because I had felt that affection when I had gone to bathhouses. In the same book the author brings up the issue of NSA sex and wonders about the motivation for anon sex. I also wondered for years until I found this piece about anonymous sex: http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php.

Taking loads from bottoms it's always been a huge turn-on. I have an idea why but that's for another time. When I was young I used to workout a lot and was quite muscled. I enjoyed hooking-up with bottoms and the challenge was to leave with their load deep in my hole. All the touching and kissing would turn them on and once they got a hard-on and found my lubed hole, they quickly became tops and ended up fucking me and breeding my hole. I remember one telling me "You tricked me" but I never felt bad because I would hear them moaning and groaning as they pumped their load in my hole. How could I feel bad after all that pleasure. At the bathhouse I like staying late enough to get loads from those bottoms who after taking loads need to quickly find a hole to unload. Never a long fuck but I don't care about that. So many bottoms assume they can't fuck because their cock is too small or because they cum too quickly. So, I'll be going on holidays to a Spanish-speaking city where the apartment has a sling for my use. I already created a profile in a popular site: I've received messages from more than 50 guys! Some are strictly interested in the anon action, walk-in, etc. This kind of anonymous action is not yet common. They've seen it in the porno but they like the "walk-in" idea. Others have written because they are interested in being the bottom on the sling and take anon loads. The deal I'm making with them is that first they come and fuck me and breed my hole. We then agree to meet another time. All bottoms who have answered to my profile have agreed to first breeding my hole. This idea that bottoms can never fuck, sort of like women, is ridiculous. Total bottoms can occasionally enjoy breeding a hole, especially at a place like a bathhouse or sex-club. Being a bottom just means that one is not a good top who can fuck for a long time and control when you shoot. I know I would love to fuck for hours staying rock-hard while you fuck.

I want to mention the YMCA in NYC (West Side, 5 West 63rd Street ), where I first had sex with other men. In the early/mid 70's one could rent a room in one of the men's floors (something like floor 10 and 11). Rooms were small and smelly but the action was very hot. That was my first time I spent one night in my room with the door ajar taking loads. I was in my 20's and guys would line up.

To me it depends on how anonymous the situation is. I have the same opinion about stealthing because I have no problem with anonymous stealthing. It would be fun to see a guy on a public sling at a bathhouse being repeatedly fucked and bred while almost passed out. Some guys need to be really high or drunk in order to take anon loads so this guy on the sling may be one of those. In terms of the issue of consent, getting high or drunk on a public sling at a bathhouse can be easily be interpreted as consent for anything.

Kevin Spacey wrote "I have loved and had romantic encounters with men throughout my life. I choose now to live as a gay man" Really? No cock sucking and no anal action with men ever? How about wanting a 14 yr-old cock? Is being gay is all about love and romance? The whole thing about being gay has never made too much sense to me and I find it all very confusing. What's the difference between a straight man "experimenting" with sex with men from a gay man? Why can women be touchy-feely with other women but not men? It all made more sense when I came across this piece on Anonymous sex: http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php It interested me because the only thing that could "makes me gay" is my passion for anonymous sex and made me review things. The self-portrayal of "being gay" is to me a cop out and a way of cleansing all what goes on in terms of sex between men. For example, I have read about guys whose only sexual activity has been to go to a bathroom at a local shopping mall and suck cock and maybe get fucked. Never a lover, man or woman. If he was asked for instance "Don't you have a girlfriend?" he would probably respond "I'm gay" because I doubt society is ready to hear his story. But I have changed and if asked I start talking about my passion for anonymous sex. I usually say that if women were into heavy anonymous sex, dark rooms, slings, etc, I would probably be straight. It's not that I like men more than women but that I like the way men have sex rather than the way women like having sex. Too old for flowers and dinners.

Thanks for your comments. But I'm curious about "[Truvada] known to have a favorable side effect profile".

On Friday got a call from the Sexual Health Clinic that my results were back and everything was OK. Today Monday I got a call from the specialist to offer me an appointment for this Thursday to discuss PrEP. All I need to bring is a list of medications and my Health Card.

Canada is a wonderful country! Same-sex marriage, medical marijuana and soon its legalization. And now getting PrEP seems fairly easy. The sexual health clinic that did the testing called me back and told me that once the HIV test result comes back negative, they will make an appointment with the Dr that will prescribe the Truvada. Because I'm in Canada all they needed for the Dr's visit was my Health Card information, zero co-payment or deductible. I'm not sure what will happen with the price of the drug itself. My insurance would probably cover it once it's prescribed by a Dr. It HIV blood test comes back poz, then obviously no PrEP. Although I'm not a chaser and I have no interest in pozing I would be able to console myself by having lots of slutty sex while in vacation.

Yeah, there is information in the site but I wanted personal experiences from anyone on PrEP who is on Methotrexate. From what I've read, the problem is that both, PrEP and Methotrexate can be bad for the liver. But then I wonder how do poz guys who need Methotrexate deal with the HIV medications.

I've never been a huge fan of PrEP because I don't find it to be a good sustainable solution for STD prevention. It only protects against HIV, long term side effects not really known and many times financially inaccessible. I would have to be having the amount of sex I used to have up to a few years ago to justify ingesting a powerful drug like Truvada. But on my last STD checkup the Dr who did the examination suggested I go on PrEP. I mentioned that I'm not having lots of sex but that I was afraid about an upcoming holiday and the opportunities for sex that I will have. The Dr told me that many older guys are going on PrEP and we don't have to worry about the long-term effects because they go for shorter treatments. I never thought I was going to consider going on PrEP but this Dr. made me change my mind because I would be interested in going on PrEP for 3 months, with enough time before and after my sexual contacts. But now my concern is that I'm on Methotrexate for to inflammatory arthritis which is now under control and I have no pain. So the Methotrexate is working. I get blood test done every 6 weeks and I haven't had any issues with this drug. I found a Support group for people who take Truvada and Methotrexate (https://www.ehealthme.com/support-group/truvada-and-methotrexate/) and will find information about any drug interaction. Does anyone have any information on this?

Same here. I'm not having much sex partly because of HIV. I can't see myself on PrEP in a long-term basis because I wouldn't be able to justify taking the drugs if I'm not having enough sex. I'm planning a vacation to a Spanish-speaking country in a couple of months so I have enough time to decide and start with enough time. I'm staying in an apartment where the owner provides a portable sling. I setup a profile where I advertise myself with a sling and interested in anon sex, pump & dump type action. In spite of being older than 60, I've received tons of winks and messages from guys who want to stop by the apartment for anonymous action. From the responses and previous experiences there, it appears that many of these Latino guys are into mature guys. I love Latino guys! This made me think about PrEP. I'm not a big fan of PrEP because it does not protect from other STD and I know that being on PrEP I would want to have more anon sex and other STD would show up. I also have a problem with PrEP because I don't see it as a long-term sustainable solution because of money and long-term side effects. But I woulkd like to go on PrEP for maybe 2-3 months. A few weeks to get used to the drug and evaluate the side effects and then for the rest of my 6-week holiday.