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PhilUrass

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  1. If you're out and about, try wearing your keys on a belt loop on your right hand side...some guys still know what flagging is. If I'm in a sauna, I tend to assume that if a guy is wearing a towel and showing some butt cleavage, he's looking to get fucked. Speaking personally, I don't make an assumption about which position a guy prefers based on his looks.mannerisms. If you're finding tops aren't hitting on you at the rate you'd like, why not be a little more agressive and approach them...?
  2. I like a loose hole, so that I can spit on it and slide right in without the guy I'm fucking needing me to go gently. Best is when the guy knows how to work his fuckhole, squeezing it tight and then loosening it as he rides, so that I don't have to do the work and he just milks that load out of my nuts like a hungry lil whore.
  3. Dude, run, don't walk, away from this mess. The guy is nuts and you're harming yourself by maintaining any contact whatsoever, let alone trying to do the FWB thing.
  4. PA & septum are the piercings I find sexiest on a guy. I find scorpions & biohazard tats kinda tired. Sexy ink is unusual and tells a story, IMHO.
  5. Correction, we're the new safeR sex. There is no such thing as safe sex (apart from masturbation). The risk is teeny tiny. But not 0. As long as they understand that, I have no qualms breeding neg guys. If I felt the risk was significant (eg I wasn't on meds), I wouldn't do it.
  6. If your meds are causing side-effects you're not comfortable with, maybe look to change them.
  7. Sorry, but I disagree with that tactic, of just trying to slide on to it. Before I was poz, I was very much into safer sex (though not 100%, given that I'm poz). If a guy tried sliding on to my bare dick, I'd have more than likely pushed him off. Then you've wasted your time and his. Be a man, grow some balls and be honest about your desires. If you can't be honest about them, there is no point entering into a relationship (as you're going on a date, I'm assuming that a relatioship is a possibility).
  8. Yes, there is a chance. Not having a guy cum in you lessens the chance, but as HIV is present in pre-cum, there is still a risk. As the previous poster suggests, familiarise yourself with what is safer (ie getting fucked by a an undetectable poz guy vs a guy whose last test was negative), as well as PrEP.
  9. What's the problem with telling him outright "I want to go bareback", if that's what you want. However you phrase it, he's either into it or he's not, surely...?
  10. 4. Tell him how much you loved seeding his hole last time and that if he comes over, he's gonna be taking another load. There's plenty of great ass out there that's hungry for seed.
  11. I have a weakness for septum piercings and PAs...love seeing a pierced cock bouncing around as the dude's riding my pierced dick. I used to have lots of piercings but took them all out excpet for the PA.
  12. If you're anxiety is around/due to HIV, then playing bare with neg guys on PrEP, being on PrEP yourself or playing with an undetectable poz guy are all safer sex and you're highly unlikely to serconvert. As outlined by tallbttm, playing bare with a guy who tells you he's neg is risky sex, so if you do it, make peace witg the fact that you may end up poz through doing it.
  13. It takes 7 days to build up a recommended level of Truvada for PrEP PEP is usually drugs more than just Truvada, I believe. Agreed - if you're undetectable, the chance of you infecting this guy is almost non-existent. I breed neg guys with no qualms, as long as they understand it's not 100% safe, but that it is a form of safer sex.
  14. No, I don't believe in it. My other half will want to fuck around. I believe that love shouldn't be a prison in which to trap someone, but it should give them the strength to lift their wings and fly.
  15. Best advise I got when I used to bottom - make sure you douche thoroughly and then as your fuckhole is being penetrated, whether a dildo, cucumber or cock, push on your hole muscles as if you're trying to take a dump. As you've already douched, no need to worry about actually shititng anything out. This relaxes the sphincter muscles and well make entry a lot easier. A lot of it is about getting relaxed...find a top who is willing to take his time - eating your ass out, then opening your hole up with a finger, then two, then three. And use plenty of lube. I always let tight-assed bottoms know they're in control and that it's at their speed, let them sit down on my dick or back on to it, taking it in as their own pace, until they're ready to hand over the reins to me.
  16. Any cock looks good with a PA. Just make sure you stretch it out to a large gauge, otherwise it's pretty much decorative. Back when I bottomed, I dated a guy with a pierced dick, 0ga, and it was an amazing sensation. I'm uncut and have never had any issues. I now wear a CBR with a screw-in ball, so that I can remove it if I want to skullfuck a guy. I've tried curved barbells and circular barbells, but found they moved around too much and would dig in, especially when waking up with morning wood.
  17. Being a bear and getting crabs is not fun. I've gotten the clap from getting blown more than I have from fucking. Only way to avoid getting STDs is to avoid having sex. They're generally a minor inconveneince. Playing bare puts me at higher risk, but that risk is worth it for the pleasure of skin-on-skin fucking and leaving a thick load in a hungry hole. If I have symptoms, I go get them checked and then don't hook up until the infection is cleared. I get a check-up every 3 months, just in case I have something and don't have symptoms.
  18. Kick him to the curb, Olly. He's had a year and a half to inform himself about HIV, what undetectable is and what the risks (if any) are. If he loved you in a healthy way, he would have done the research. There are plenty of men out there looking for love, who kiss phenomenally well, will suck every drop of cum out of your dick and will make love to you. I've been in an sexually unsatisfying relationship...he wasn't a great kisser, didn't rim and rarely sucked me. It ended for various reasons, but I'm grateful it's over. As the song goes, 'It's in his kiss'...
  19. I've had a couple of guys ask on Grindr ask me how I can breed if I'm undetectable, so for some, breeding means seroconversion is the objective. For me, and most of the guys I talk with, breeding and seeding just mean that cum is gonna be left inside a fuckhole.
  20. Depends, if I'm pounding his ass, then I prefer him to stay still as a slight movement can change the sweet spot. Happy for him to squeeze his fuckhole after I've cum to drain every drop. If the bottom is milking my dick with his hole, then I want him to keep moving and squeezing and riding until he's coaxed every drop outta my balls.
  21. I've been single almost the last 5 years and have happily spent most of my adult life single. I'm in a place where it would be great to have a partner, but it's hard finding guys to date...I don't live in London (an hour train ride away, so not far), I only fuck bare and don't drink or use drugs and am not interested in a monogamous relationship, so that all narrows the field down considerably. I don't need a relationship to validate myself, so I'm not going to settle. But hoping to one day meet a cute lil barebacking bottom that doesn't need chems to get piggy and who will let me whore his ass out, or chill with me on the sofa after a great meal, watching the Walking Dead as I knit him some socks...and if I need a pee break, he'll be down on his knees, mouth open...
  22. Have found that over the last 4 years, I've morphed into being a Daddy...hope to find a boy to call my own some day, as long as he is happy with me whoring his ass out and watching as a bunch of tops unload in him, until his hole is dripping with cum for me to use as lube.
  23. Sometimes I want nothing more than a BJ, but more often than not, I wanna fuck, too...and if I'm fucking, I wanna cum in a fuckhole...if the guy is really eager to taste my cum, he can lick my dick clean after.
  24. If I'm heading into a privat cubicle with a guy in a sauna, I will tell him that I'm poz/undetectable and only fuck bare. If I'm in the dark room and a bottom is bent over, I take it as an open invitation to breed. I've seen some guys check for a condom on the anonymous dick they're about to take, and I've also seen guys taking condoms off. If a guy is taking loads in a dark room, I assume he knows full well what he's doing and that he's either already poz, doesn't care that he might end up poz or is actuvely seeking to become poz.
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