barecubtop

Quick post before I go to a church service with my parents for Christmas Eve..... hehe Fucked a cub from Grindr after I checked into my hotel on Saturday morning in Chicago. Then I went to the bear day at Steamworks for the afternoon. Fucked probably 4-5 guys but didn't really breed any. Had a handful of guys suck on me throughout the afternoon, but didn't unload in any mouths either. Some handsy action in the hot tub from a couple guys. So you might be wondering...what's the point of this post? Well...this "total top cub" (me) ending up letting two daddy bears fuck him! It was the first time I've let a guy inside me in a few years. Both were just really hot and bringing out the pig in me after oral and making out and such...licked the one guys rank pits even. Only one of them bred me, but it was hot seeing him slam into me (I was on my back and he was holding my legs) and hearing him groan when he unloaded. Not going to be changing my position to "vers/top" anytime soon, but if the right daddy bear types come around again.... ?

A near fantasy come true last night. Hit up an 18yo otter the other day on Grindr. We chatted back and forth for an hour or so, got each other all horned up talking about he was going to be a good boy and take all of daddy's loads, etc...but then he wasn't able to come over for whatever reason and he asked about maybe another night. In my experience this usually means "hey, enjoyed the hot talk, but this really isn't going to happen in person." Last night, I said "hey" to him, he said he was busy but asked would I still be up later (around midnight). I said sure and he messaged me back around 11:30 or so, asking if I was still up and whether I wanted him to come over. I said yes, but still wondered if he'd actually show. He lived outside of town and said it would take him about 45 minutes to get to my place. I got the bedroom ready just in case, and sure enough he arrived right when he said he would. Got right to it, had a fairly long and intense first fuck...cuddled up for a few minutes after and he asked if I could go again. Uh....yeah! So I worked my cock back up to hard, got inside him and pounded away for awhile more...but just wasn't getting close to shooting. So I pulled out and said I needed a little break. Got on Grindr and looked for another top to come tag team him with me since this kid was so eager for cock and loads...and definitely into the daddy/boy scene (which was so hot). Only other guy we found that late was some drunk guy who was going to need to Uber over (and he eventually stopped responding), but I had gotten rock hard again while discussing the tag team, so I got the boy on his knees again and slid in and pounded away....gave him load number two of the evening around 2am. After not finding anyone else on Grindr to come over, I played with his nips while he stroked himself off (one of his shots hit my cheek, impressive), and then he promptly got dressed and left. He's home on break from college and won't be going back until mid-January. I said we should do it again and he responded "maybe I could spend the night". So, here's hoping for more of that boy ass in the new year after my Chicago exploits these next two weekends!

I'm heading up from Indiana this weekend and next (22/23 and 28-30). Hit me up on here or BBRTS and let's chat about getting something set up in Chicago or Indy sometime.

I'm down to breed that this coming weekend or the weekend after. PM me.

Yeah, I'm one of those guys that secretly wants this to happen if I'm honest with myself. I'm a romantic at heart. It's the holidays and those damn Hallmark and Lifetime movies have me sucked in like they always do. Granted, after having done so many hookups for such a long time, I'm probably more interested in trying an open relationship now than I ever have been before...but I'd love some kind of connection/relationship. Hell, I'd just settle for a nice dinner date sometime, even if it's just a one time thing.

Been awhile since I posted on this thread...I've had some fun here and there over the past few weeks, but nothing I felt was worth posting. Yesterday I went down to Indy with the intent of having some fun (next weekend I'll be back down there, but with a female friend to do all the holiday shopping/shows and such). I attempted to line up some fun in advance, but of course nobody would commit to anything. I had signed up for a BBRTS party on the north side of town, and CumUnion was also happening that night...so I figured one of those would work out if nothing else. Grindr came through for me, though. Awhile back (maybe August?) I went down to Indy on a Sunday and within 30 minutes of sitting at a fast food place eating lunch, I lined up about 3 hookups in a row for the afternoon before I drove home (posted about it on this thread). Yesterday was almost a repeat of that. * First guy was a hot daddy type on the west side of town. I had talked to him before I got on the road, but didn't officially decide to go over to his place until I was almost down to Indy. He was recently out of a LTR and turning slutty. He was very verbal, kept saying how good my cock felt in his hole. Bred him and stayed inside for a bit until I went limp. Had a nice, intelligent debate afterwards about open relationships...good guy. * Went downtown and was sitting at a Starbucks and sure enough Grindr started exploding a bit. Had about 3 options to choose from, two of them had given me addresses that were within a 5 minute drive from where I was. Picked one, drove over, walked up to the apartment building door and was messaging him that I was there - radio silence. (and it was freaking cold out too) He finally messaged something like, "roommate came home unexpectedly". *eyeroll*...I've heard variations on this one quite a bit. Thanked him for wasting my time and asked the other guy if he was still free. He said yes, went over there, he sucked me for a few minutes, then turned around on his bed and I slid in and fucked a load into him. He was also on BBRT and we talked about the party that night - he wasn't able to go because a friend was coming into town. (looked up his profile later and saw that he was vers top...he had a great hole for being more top!) * met up with a buddy that I had met at CumUnion the previous month at his hotel - just caught up socially, had a snack at the hotel's happy hour, and then we drove up north to the BBRT party. My buddy wasn't feeling it, but I was. About 8 guys (out of the 25 that had signed up)...4-5 bearish types, a couple BBC, and a hot white otter type. Got my dick into 3 asses, sucked one of the BBC, ate out the otter's hole...but didn't cum or eat any loads. My dick wasn't cooperating very well, probably because of the action earlier in the day. Buddy and I left to go have dinner, and we heard awhile later that the party sort of fizzled out soon after we left.

I think @BBBoyfromTN is on the right track about the re-infection part. I'm not a medical expert by any means, but I'd say I have an engineering/scientific frame of mind and I think about it this way: The STD is inside you. The antibiotics kill off the STD (and other "good" bacteria), but they don't necessarily "build up" inside you (from what I understand) like PrEP does, for instance. That's why the instructions for taking the antibiotic say "twice a day around the same times every day" - so that when the first pill is "done" doing its thing, the second pill picks up where it left off in the killing process, etc... At any point, if you have sex and get more gono/syph/chlaymydia back inside you again, then the antibiotics just have more to kill. So like, BBBoy said, if you're nearing the end of your course of antibiotics and suddenly you get more of the bad guys inside you, you won't have enough antibiotic left to kill them off and you'll be reinfected. You could wait for the treatment to be done and on the first day after treatment you could have sex and be reinfected too...but that's just the risk we take from enjoying BB so much. :-) Short answer: I do what the docs say and use my hand until done with treatment. (easier said than done, though...when I had syphilis a year or so ago, that second week of holding off from sex about killed me lol)

Send me a private message if you'd like. I'll be up in Chicago the weekends before and after Christmas and will be looking for some fun either at Steamworks or in my hotel room. I have family in Bloomington, so I visit several times per year...would be nice to have someone to breed on my way in/out of town on those visits also.

This just seems to be karma at its worst...when you most want to hookup (i.e. when you're horny as hell and just need someone to bust a nut with), you can't find anyone. And when you're not horny or unavailable, you get all the guys that want to fuck right now. Same with setting up tag teams...when I have a bottom that wants more than one top, finding another top is like finding a needle in a haystack...but when I have another top or two that wants to tag/gang a bottom, there are no bottoms in sight. There have been some days where I will leave Grindr open while I'm reading or working or something...and I may get a message here and there, but often it's just the radio silence. Other days I'll only have to be on for 5-10 minutes and find someone to hookup with right away. To follow-up on my original posting and some of your replies... I just had a guy who I exchanged pictures with and he seemed interested. Then he got insistent on knowing how thick my cock was, so that he wouldn't be "disappointed", and he said something like "that's why I took a picture of my cock next to the beer bottle in the pic I sent you." I saw through it right away and said "Good luck to you. Nobody's been disappointed...but I've found that guys like you tend to be disappointing on my end". He replied with something about doing his "due dilligence" and I just replied that "my pics and my statement that I'm thick has been enough for plenty of other bottoms who have enjoyed my cock in their mouth and ass and I'm not going to go out of my way to take more pics or 'prove' anything to you if that's not enough." His loss, but I feel better about the way I handled it instead of chasing something that ultimately would be a disappointment.

Looking forward to seeing you again, @latinocumwhore1. Perhaps we can find some more horny Chicago guys to join us for some fun.

Same here. I've had several good fucks from guys that had stopped on their way through for gas or food or something. Had a daddy bear type stop by on his way through a few months ago for some hot making out and oral. Tonight, he stopped by again and I got in his hungry raw ass.

I think there are some cultural/community influences at work. For instance, monogamy. Do we think that the LGBTQ crowd or the hetero crowd practices this more? Just a thought. When we gay men "come out", some of us go through a "slut stage" to make up for what we've been resisting, right? Heterosexuals don't necessarily have this. The gay community has places like bathhouses and sex clubs where we can go pretty easily to easily find sex. The corresponding equivalent would be swingers clubs in the hetero world. However, in my experience experimenting with the swinger crowd, it doesn't seem as though they are as "easy" as a bathhouse would be (i.e. a couple at a swingers club may still want to flirt with a guy and talk/dance before they take him to a private room...I've never really heard of a woman laying in a private room with her legs spread willing to take on anyone, like a bottom at a bathhouse can do - but I may be wrong). As someone else mentioned before...hetero sex can lead to pregnancy. We gays (and lesbians) don't have to worry about that, thus I think we're more likely to do unprotected sex (both straights and gays have the STI's to worry about, though).

I enjoy rimming (and felching if there are loads in there)...but I've had some bad digestive experiences that I assumed were due to rimming. Both happened in the course of 6 months, and one led to the emergency room to get rehydrated after so much...well, you know. It's interesting that this topic showed up in my notifications this evening, as I'm having some upset stomach over the past couple days and wonder if I've picked something else up again. ? Since then, I always ask a guy if he's cleaned down there (or do a touch/smell test) before I go anywhere near. As a top, I enjoy rimming as foreplay to get him nice and wet and relaxed - usually in a 69 where his ass is in my face while he's sucking me hard.

Visiting Chicago both weekends before and after Christmas: Dec 22/23 - going to Steamworks bear afternoon on the 22nd, no other plans Dec 28-30 - no plans yet I'm open to fun, of course, but grabbing a bite/drink would be cool too, if anyone's interested.

Went to my first CumUnion party in Indy last night, after dinner with someone who was also going. Unfortunately, it didn't seem to be a great crowd (more than one guy told me that previous parties were much better). I got to meet and chat with @ErosWired for a few. I only fucked a couple guys, though..and only bred one. I actually spent more time making out with a couple fellow tops (the guy I went to dinner with and a buddy from BBRTS). I'll have to try it out again sometime.

It's interesting that @Dee82 just wrote a negative experience about Phoenix. Where were you earlier this week?!?! I was out in Phoenix from Saturday evening through Wednesday afternoon, and I had a blast. Lots of hot bears/cubs/jocks that were not only into me but also willing to meet up! So different from where I live where it's like pulling teeth to get someone to follow through on a hookup. I tend to get wordy with my last load posts, so rather than go into detail about all of the fun, I'm just going to do some bullet points: Saturday evening Sucked and swallowed loads from two older otter types (3-way) in nearby hotel tried to fuck a cub from BBRTS at my hotel, but he couldn't handle it, so I sucked him off instead 69'ed with a hot beefy guy and swallowed his load daddy bear showed up right as the other guy was leaving; was totally into my cub body and red fur, told me to not use deoderant next time, and rolled over to let me mount him and breed him Sunday Anon cumdump "boy" in a neighboring hotel in the afternoon - supposedly set up by his "daddy" but the boy was alone in the room when i showed up another daddy bear came to my hotel in the evening to get my load in his ass Monday evening - another conference visitor and I shared an Uber to Flex bathhouse (turned out it was half-price night, so there was a good crowd) sucked and swallowed a daddy bear type tag teamed and bred a hot latino jock sucked and swallowed three cub types in a row fucked another latino jock in his room Tuesday evening one of the cubs from the bathhouse the night before came to my hotel for a repeat (me edging him until I swallowed his load) the guy I 69'ed with on Sunday night came back for me to face fuck him until he got off I had so many other offers, but not enough time or energy to meet up with all the hungry bottoms. Would love to go back again sometime to have more fun and maybe see more of the city/area LOL

I'm developing an interest in "dirty" jocks and underwear...in terms of sweat/cum stains and ripeness. I haven't gotten my hands on anyone else's or anything, but wouldn't be opposed. I need to start wearing my jocks more often...and apparently stop washing them altogether. ?

I've had some success with partial face, either mouth down or even full face with sunglasses on, on the apps and sites like BBRTS. I agree it's a personal choice and it may depend on where you live, your privacy concerns, your comfort with being out, your profession, etc....

So far I've only had one referral that told me he had been referred to me LOL. A married guy thing...I had sucked off one of his coworkers or something, they talked, and then I got a text out of the blue from this other guy asking if I was free.

I'm a silent type...just the way I've always been. But I try to make up for it by touching the guy while he blows me - caressing his arms, or tweaking his nipples, etc...to show that I'm enjoying it. My breathing will change as I get closer to cumming, and I'll usually say something about being close also. I do enjoy sucking off certain types of guys too, and some of them have been pretty silent until they suddenly announce "I'm close", which is such a turn on to know I've gotten them there. I also look for the breathing changes or their balls drawing closer to their body, etc...

(for @Ranger Rick also) I agree with both of you to some extent, but it all depends on the context. For some guys that I'm just not sure about (for instance if I'm going to have to drive out of town or meet in a public place or something) I'll probably suggest a (short) phone call to get a sense of personality and compatibility. Other guys say that they're low on messages or something and I may be willing to exchange numbers with them if they seem legit. Usually if I text someone and it either doesn't go well or nothing comes of it, I haven't had any problems with them spamming me or anything - we just delete each other from our phones.

I haven't seen it referred to in the sense of hookup apps and such like the article talks about, but several years ago I read the book, "Paradox of Choice" (I think I still own it, unless I lent it to someone). It's a good read.

When in December? I'm trying to plan a December Chicago visit also.