barecubtop

Heading up on Saturday the 22nd from Indiana. Plan on going to Steamworks that afternoon for the bear day, unless other options come up. Will have plans Saturday evening from 7:30-11pm or so, but otherwise open. Have a hotel room in the River North area. Any bottoms want to play? Or any tops want to meet up and find some bottoms to tag team?

I've had some fun lately. 1) Guy on Fetlife from a town about 45 minutes away. He was going to be in town on Wednesday to pick something up from a friend, and wanted to know if I was free. He came over around noon. I could hear that he was doing something in the hallway when he let himself in (I could not see from where I was on the bed), but then when he walked into the bedroom he had a leather harness on and a full leather mask where the only openings were for his eyes, nose, and mouth. He gave me some not-so-great head for a few minutes and then moved into doggy style position. I took the hint, lubed each of us up, and started to fuck him. We both used some poppers and a few minutes later I blew my load in him. We didn't talk at all post-fuck, and he just got his clothes on and left. He texted a couple times afterwards and said he enjoyed it and would be open to doing it again. He had a nice beefy body and a nice hole, so we'll see. 2) I had been chatting with a younger guy on BBRTS for awhile but scheduling never worked out, until last Sunday. He said that he was getting stoned and relaxing. I asked if he wanted company, thinking it would probably end up being the usual flirting with nothing coming of it, but he said yes. We talked a little about finding another top or two to join, even putting up a quick connect ad on BBRTS, and I said that he should look around while I was driving since it would take me an hour to get to his place. We got along really well. He has a nice young cub body, very experienced in both oral and anal, and very expressive with his moaning and body language. I fucked him, bred him, and then we cuddled and chatted and kissed. Then we went for round two, followed by more cuddling/kissing/chatting. Then we got dressed and headed over to the building next door (apartment complex) where he knew another bearish Latino guy. They smoked a little more pot while we all chatted, and eventually we moved into the bedroom where we got into a tag team where he took a load from the neighbor guy. Then we (bottom and I) went out to get some dinner, and we made out in my car in his parking lot when I took him back. He plans on stopping by my place on his way home tomorrow. He also said I could set up whatever I wanted - meaning inviting more tops to join us. 3) On Thursday night, another top buddy and I were in the mood to tag team some hole. So I messaged a couple bottoms on Grindr, being very blunt and asking "want tag teamed?". Two guys in particular responded and said yes, and we exchanged pics and everything. The first bottom flaked out and made some excuse about his sister dropping by his house. Other bottom showed up, took a quick shower to clean out, and then he came into the room and we got the tag team going. He was definitely a power bottom, fucking me back while I was trying to fuck him. I left a load in him and then my buddy took over...not sure if he actually came in him or not. Afterwards, as bottom guy was thanking us and making some small talk before leaving, he and I just sorta got to chatting about stuff...barebacking, bathhouses, reasons for being slutty, etc... and it was really nice. I enjoy hookups that can turn into a conversation after. The other top eventually left, but bottom guy and I kept chatting (eventually moving to living room, opening a bottle of wine, discovering we had a lot of common interests and views on things, etc...) Long story short, we ended up back in the bedroom where we had this insanely intimate fuck. We did some fuck/cuddle/fuck/cuddle for awhile and eventually ended up spooning and chatting until about 3am. Unfortunately he's not local, but will be back in the area next week, so we've already set up plans on Monday to see each other again.

Some of the "fraternity type" guys on my university campus will walk around in their basketball shorts or sweatpants and show off their meat swinging around. And for me, as a top, it's always nice to see a hot ass outlined in those sweatpants and shorts too!

I can go for a few days without. Just depends on what's going on. When I go visit my parents for a weekend I won't jack off, but then I usually try to find someone to fuck in their town as I leave (or someone back where I live when I get home). Or if I'm overly busy with work or something, I'll hold off. The longer I do hold off, the bigger my next load is, of course. I've always been intrigued by people who say they need to every day, or those that say that they get overly horny when they do hold off. Even when I have held off for a few days, I don't feel like it makes me any hornier than usual.

This sounds right...most cities will have programs that focus on the high-risk groups. When I first started PrEP in Indianapolis, an HIV+ friend of mine referred me to a particular clinic/program that offered all the testing and clinic visits for free (because they were supported by a grant at the time) and had I not had insurance I think they would've helped me get the meds for free/reduced cost also.

Mixed experiences here. I always mention that I prefer bare when I chat with someone. If they insist on safe only, unless they're hot, I'll decline. If they're hot, and the chemistry is good, I'll use a condom the first couple times and hope that they stop insisting (this has happened with a couple guys) A few hookups have said "safe only" in chat, but when it comes to in-person they'll just lube up and slide down on me bare with no discussion.

After several days of being catfished, ghosted, and generally being played on Grindr (I only say that for context of how worked up I was getting), I finally got some undergrad ass tonight. A 20yo Asian I chatted with the other day. One of those situations where his profile said "around my age only", but I hit on him anyways, sent him my pic, etc...and this morning he said "wanna meet up tonight after 8?", so I said sure. He had only been fucked once before with a condom. He is now a fan of both bare and poppers. After I unloaded inside him, he asked to lick me clean (uh...yeah, go for it), and then we made out some more and cuddled and chatted. He said this year was going to be a sexual exploration year. As we were chatting, he asked my age...when I said 35, he flipped out a little and called me an "old fuck" LOL...but then admitted that my pic looked younger like 25 (and I guess that means in person I look younger too - I've heard that from several people actually). Not sure if I'll be invited back, since I'm now the "old fuck", but could be fun if he does.

I haven't posted for awhile because this summer has been relatively slow, or just not very good, in the sex arena. A couple experiences that stand out... 1) I was staying in a hotel near the Indianapolis airport one night and was browsing the apps. A jockish Asian flight attendant was staying at a nearby hotel on a layover and said he'd take my load. Went over there, got to his room, stripped down and got on the bed where he started sucking me and I got him turned around to rim him. As we were about to start fucking, the hotel fire alarms went off. He just assumed everything was fine and we started fucking, but it was slightly distracting to have the alarm going off while we were going at it. The alarm did eventually stop. He had a great hole...he probably gets fucked on all of his layovers lol...and was very passionate. If I hadn't been so tired, I would've stayed for another round. 2) I spent quite a bit of time on campus this summer doing research for my thesis, and it was pretty quiet with all the undergrads being gone (and all the other grad students slaving away in their buildings also). But, there was a university staff member that I met on Grindr one day that sucked me off in a unisex bathroom (lockable door) in one of the older buildings on campus. First time we met he asked for a facial, the second time he blew his load (and got some on my shorts) before I did, and last time he took my load in his mouth but I think he spit it out (he had a meeting to get to). He's a cutie, would love to get his pants down and fuck him, but he seems to be into the anon blow-n-go scene only. 3) There has been this 20yo Latino guy on Grindr lately with the usual broken English. When we chatted, he gave off the impression he just wanted to suck me off and not fuck. He looked really cute in his pics...boyish face and jockish body. And since I haven't gotten much this summer anyways, I was open to just getting a load sucked out. A couple of attempts to get him to come over didn't pan out, but as I was leaving campus yesterday I saw that he was online and asked him if he could host. He said that he was able to for about 45 minutes and did the "pin drop" location thing. I asked for the actual address and he said something like "only here for 2 weeks, don't know the address"...he also admitted that he spoke no English and that he was using Google translator to chat with me. I was tentative about how this would go down, but I went for it anyways. Got to his apt, dropped my pants, and sat on the couch to let him do his thing. He did more stroking of my dick than sucking, and at one point he spit on the floor next to me (no idea what that was about). He then asked me something that I didn't understand...it might've been something about a condom, because right after he got the rest of his clothes off, turned around and sat on my lap. No penetration this first time, but then he took some more hits of poppers and spit on his hand and rubbed his ass, so I knew where this was going. He lowered himself on my dick and got down to the base...and then just sorta ground himself on it for a bit. That does nothing for me, so I eventually lifted myself off the couch to a standing position so I could actually fuck him. He was moaning and his ass felt good, but he eventually grabbed his phone and did the translate thing to say that his friend would be there soon. That ended up being the end of it...didn't get off. Wouldn't mind another chance at him, though. Other than that, nothing much to report. I still want to get up to Chicago for a Steamworks visit sometime soon. All the undergrads are coming back to campus this week, but they're bringing all their attitude with them on Grindr *sigh*

hmm I'll have to keep an eye on hotel prices this week and see if I can make it up there....sounds like a good time.

I was thinking about coming up for Market Days, but hotel prices seem pretty steep when I've looked on Hotwire. Anyone on here planning on going? I've got it in my head that it's more of a street festival, but I've heard others say it's better than Pride in some ways. What's the draw? Is there a lot of sexual stuff happening during the weekend? Just a lot of drinking and partying?

So, any report of how it went?

I also use the silicone Gun Oil sometimes. It does last awhile without needing to reapply, but that also makes it a little harder to clean off afterwards, as with any silicone lube. Lately, I've been using FuckWater water-based lube for most of my hookups. It looks like cum, nice and slick, easy to clean off, but will need re-applying since it's water based and absorbs into the skin.

Thanks @swrdswlr and @scott0882. I had plenty of interest on the apps (Grindr, Scruff) while I was down there. A buddy who lives there took me to Alibi and Rosie's on Monday night and showed me around the gayborhood. Then on Thursday I managed to get away from family for the late morning and afternoon, so I went back to Wilton Manors and did some walking around and found a couple asses to breed along the way. Unfortunately I got a sunburn at Hollywood Beach the day before, so I chose to avoid the bathhouse (where I would've wanted to use the hot tub and steam room - not a good idea with a burn). Inn Leather would've been a short walk away from my hotel, but didn't manage to get over there. As for non-sexual things, we did the Jungle Queen on Monday, Ft. Lauderdale Beach on Tuesday afternoon, the moonlit turtle walk offered by the DIscovery and Science Museum on Tuesday night (well worth it if you've never seen a loggerhead make a nest!), and Hollywood Beach on Wednesday. My family did the Discovery and Science Museum on Thursday while I did my whoring around ;-)

I've done a couple slutty nurse types and one cub in medical school up in Chicago that likes me to hit him up when I get up there.

I watched this a month or two ago, and drscorpio's review is spot on. As someone who was a kid during the 80s and 90s, I always enjoy documentaries like this that help me to understand what it was like.

As a top, I enjoy rimming certain asses before I fuck them (sort of depends on the situation and the body type of the guy I'm rimming, etc...). I do not enjoy being rimmed myself, although I won't stop someone if they insist. However... Last summer I had several digestive issues resulting from parasites and infections, ultimately resulting in my doctor wanting to do a colonoscopy to check things out. Everything checked out fine, and I've been a lot better since. But...thinking back on when those issues happened, I think it's safe to assume that the issues MIGHT have resulted from rimming and felching I had been doing. So, nowadays I haven't given up on rimming, but I'm more careful about asking if the bottom has cleaned out/showered or sniffing/feeling things out down there before I dive in. It's hot to do it, but a couple of those periods of digestives issues had me wanting to die...so...I'd rather be more careful/selective now. Perhaps that's why you're seeing that rimming as foreplay is not as prevalent?

I was up there the weekend of the parade last year...did the bear event at Steamworks on that Saturday afternoon and had fun. So is Steamworks also busy during the actual parade on Sunday then? Or just in general all weekend?

I'm curious about the Pride weekends up in Chicago. I see that the "festival" is one weekend and the "parade" is the next. Any locals have suggestions on finding action either of the two weekends? Are there bigger crowds for the parade weekend than the festival, i.e. more potential at Steamworks that Saturday before the parade? Or vice versa? Anybody know of any orgies or sex parties held either weekend that are open to visitors? Or...is it better to come up to city later in the summer to find fun at Halsted Days or something? (context: I'll be flying back into O'Hare on the 15th from a vacation...debating whether to take the train home that day or stick around for the festival weekend)

If you do go talk with your doc, I'd be interested to hear what he/she has to say and whether it helped with your concern. I've been on prep for about 4 years now and haven't had any bad side effects (other than maybe some nausea for the first couple weeks I was on it). But, I'm also young enough that if there are long term side effects that have been documented for sure, I'd like to know about them.

A good 4-5 years ago at a bathhouse in Indianapolis. I'm not a huge fan of darkroom sex, I guess I'm more of a visual guy. But, back then I would wander through occasionally, see if there was anything happening. One night I wandered in and it was packed full of guys...I squeezed in along the wall and realized that some bottom, seemed like a younger twink, was bent over and being fucked while all these guys watched and touched him (enough light to see that at least). So I dropped my towel and started stroking...and this guy (might've been whoever brought the twink) reached over and felt my dick, and he must've liked it, because he pulled the twink's ass over to me and backed him up on me....I fucked and unloaded pretty quick (was really turned on), and then left the room. Since then, the bathhouse has changed the darkroom...they made it larger, which you'd think would be good, but for me it has had the opposite effect and I rarely go in there anymore.

35 This would have made a good poll question, so we can see the skewness in the age distribution (as you can tell already, there are more guys responding so far that are 40+ than under 40). It's interesting that sites like this or BBRTS where men openly talk about or look for raw sex is sort of like the crowd at a church - mostly older, more established. We all know that there are plenty of younger guys in their (legal) late teens and 20s who are open to and looking for raw sex (hop on Grindr late on a Friday or Saturday night), but I sometimes wonder if we need to be encouraging them in some way to seek out sites like BBRTS, this site, or bathhouses. Or would they care about being in more of a BB community like this? Thoughts?

How far are those places from the area where I'm going to be staying? 5, 10, 30 minute Uber rides?

I'll be down in the Fort Lauderdale area June 11-14. Unfortunately I may be with family (sister and nephew) for most of the time, and I won't have a rental car (I plan on using Uber if needed). We're staying sort of near the airport by the convention center. Questions for those that live there or have visited there: 1) We don't have many plans other than my nephew's competition at the convention center on one of the days. What are some things (touristy, kid-friendly) to do around the area? I've heard there are good boat tours/swamp tours? 2) If I get an afternoon/evening away from family (I know I will need it), where are the nearest places to find some adult fun?