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Awhile back I posted about fucking a black college football player down in Indianapolis. Well, it turns out his grandmother lives in my town, and he was up here for a few days visiting and taking care of her. So, another daddy bear top and I tag teamed him at my place on Friday. I unloaded in him, daddy bear has a psychological thing (couldn't seem to cum in the boy's ass but had no problem jacking off after the boy left). Later that night, a bi guy that came over once before about a year ago was in town and had had a few drinks at the local Irish pub. He wanted to come suck my cock...and I had been wanting to get together with him for awhile, so I told him to head over. I had been edging all evening, so my dick was a little tired and not staying completely hard the entire time...but it worked out as we kept a running convo going the entire time anyways. He's one of those guys that I don't think has any interest in dating men, although he loves sex with men...which is shame, cause he's the kind of guy I could really get into. We even talked about being slutty and enjoying life and keeping an open mind towards relationships. Did not end up getting off with him, but was a good time nonetheless. A couple hours later, my latino jock buddy (the one that could be an underwear model, from previous last load stories) came over and took a short pounding and my load. Quick in and out as usual. Here in the midwest (as in other places) we got some snow on Friday and extreme cold settled in on Saturday and is lingering. That prevented me from going down to Indy on Saturday for some bathhouse action. I had posted a party ad on BBRT and everything, but I knew that if I was debating going out in the cold, other guys would be debating as well, and that the wet area of Club Indy is drafty and that cold air would not have been fun while sitting in the hot tub. Oh well...maybe next weekend I can get down there before the spring semester starts. No action on New Year's Eve - met a guy from Grindr to go see a movie, but he was about what I expected and I'm not really interested in him for sex or dating. After midnight, though, I had some first fun of 2018. A younger (27) married guy got in touch with me and said that his wife was working and he was horny. This was a married guy that came over last spring/summer and what was supposed to be him sucking me off or taking my dick before I went to dinner with a buddy turned into an amazing passionate makeout session for a good 20-25 minutes. Amazing kisser! Anyways, we hadn't gotten back together since...mostly because he wants to be super-super-safe about things due to his marriage and...well...let's face it, I'm not exactly super-super-safe. LOL We had talked recently about getting together to watch porn, jo, and makeout...but I'm sure you'll understand why that wasn't as high on my priority list as breeding a raw ass instead. Anyways...he asked if I wanted him to come over, watch porn, makeout...and I was hesitating a little (it was late and I was getting a little tired). Somehow, we came up with the idea of finding someone to come suck us off while we made out. We both looked around for awhile, but no luck, so he came over, got into bed with me, and we kept looking. At one point I sorta gave up and started to cuddle him a little, but he kept on his phone. I think he was texting the wife a little bit too. (No, she doesn't know he's bi at all). Eventually we got a latino boy (24ish) to come join us...a guy that used to come over and suck me off often. He got here, and everything got started...latino taking turns sucking both of us, married buddy and I making out, etc...eventually the married guy fucked the latino (condom) and I even took a turn (condom also...ugh) since EVERY time I had tried before with this kid he was so freaking tight that I couldn't even get my head in. Only lasted a couple minutes before he pulled himself off me and I realized the condom was dirty, so that ended it for me. Latino sucked off my married buddy, and pretty sure he spit it out in the bathroom, then came back and got my load (and also spit it out in bathroom....lousy). Neither of them took much time to get dressed and get out (to be expected). So, at least the making out was hot?

I trim around my crotch. I'm sure some people that like fire bushes would prefer I didn't, but I just think things look better when it's trimmed and anyone who's going down on me won't have to stop to pick out hairs. Like @bbaremich mentioned, I prefer smooth or shaved hole to eat, though.

I like reading about how some of you are in relationships where both of you are slutty and bring loads home to each other and such. So I'm curious as to how those of you in open relationships met and developed your relationship. Was it a hookup turned regular-thing turned relationship? Did you meet at a bar/online/app and date and start off monogamous and then open it later? Do any of you have any rules like "don't ask don't tell" for playing with others, or do you only play with others together, or do you share all details when you fuck after coming home with loads?

I think my count would be about the same. I agree with @justsexnowatl that I'd probably start going to Cumunion parties and seek out more group stuff like that, but I generally will fuck any willing ass at a bathhouse nowadays anyways without any questions asked. It's not that I don't worry about STIs, but I'm educated enough to know that most are treatable/curable and I know what to look for. The 3-month PrEP checkups help keep them in check also...that's the worst part, my doctor judging me each time I get one (which has been more often over the past couple years unfortunately).

I actually really like Vapors, I think it's a nice setup and the hot tub is great...but I've heard that the locals just don't go. I had a good time once or twice there but another night that I thought would be hopping was dead and I barely got any action at all.

I'll add my thanks also. :-)

I was just up in Chicago and stopped in at a store called "the Mens Room" and they had some t-shirts like NLBear posted above...some that were more blatant about raw sex than others. There were a couple that could have been worn out in public without attracting too much attention from non-gays, though. Unfortunately they are not on the store's website, or I would've posted the link.

Decided to end my stay with my parents today and drive back to where I live, 2.5 hours away. But before I left the town where my parents live, I managed to get a 21 year old to invite me over. We had talked earlier in the day, his profile said he just wanted to suck. I told him I'd prefer to breed. Some back and forth about what we would do if we met up...but I essentially told him that I was horny enough to just get blown, but that he should consider taking my load up his hole. Messaged him right before I left my parents and he said he had just gotten out of the shower and gave me his buddy's address where he was cat-sitting. Less than 10 minutes later I was at the door and he was letting me in and waiting for me to get my coat and shoes off to join him in the bedroom around the corner. I was still under the impression this was just going to be a suck off, so I didn't undress, just pulled my jeans down and let my cock free for him to suck. Within a few minutes, it was clear that he was open to fucking...he asked if I only fucked bare (which we had talked about on Grindr) and I said yeah, and that I was on PrEP. He barely hesitated at all and made some comment about how thick I was and how it was going to hurt. I took that as a clear signal that he wanted fucked, so I told him to turn around and put that hole in my face for me to rim. Did that for a few, then he told me to grab the lube next to the bed and he got in position. He was freaking tight, hadn't been fucked in a year he said, but eventually I worked my way in after a couple minutes. We got to the point where I was ramming into him, he was grunting with every thrust, and I unloaded a several day load inside him. Kept fucking him too...thought I could go again, but after another 5 minutes or so my stamina gave out lol. I'll keep in touch with him for the next time I go home to see the parents. Drove home, unpacked, was sitting in my recliner with my laptop and phone, and I said hello to a younger (21) top that I had chatted with before on Grindr. Reminded him of who I was and asked him if he knew of any bottoms we could tag team. Within a few minutes he said, "I think I found one", and it turned out to be my married buddy that I've fucked a few times. Married buddy had also chatted with me earlier in the evening and wanted to wait until tomorrow to fuck around, but I guess the threeway idea got him going. Married buddy went and picked up the 21 year old and brought him over. The 21 year old gave Married buddy a load down his throat while I was initially fucking him...I was enjoying it and could tell I was going to last awhile, so I just kept a steady rhythm going until the 21 year old got hard again to take a turn on the ass. He took his turn while Married bud and I made out, then I got behind Married bud again and went to town. Was still taking my time for a few minutes, but then I was getting close to that point of no return and unloaded. The 21 year old got behind him and pounded him until he also blew a load. Then they both got cleaned up and left...married guy was short on time. Married guy messaged me a few minutes later while I was in the shower and said "damn you were hard tonight"...lol...that's what you get when I don't jack off at my parents for 4-5 days.

I'm at my parents for the holidays, so this will be a short re-cap of my 2-day trip to Chicago (written while mom isn't hovering behind me with the ability to see my screen LOL) Arrived in Chicago on Friday morning around 10am on the train. Walked to hotel and I couldn't get into my room until noon. Sat in the lobby for a few minutes, cruising the apps, and found a short twink Middle Eastern guy that wanted my load. Told him I didn't have my room yet, and he was on a work break, so he suggested we meet in the fitting rooms at the big Macy's store on State Street. And we did. I found him in the last fitting room in the sports apparel area, got my cock out and he sucked for awhile, then got him turned around and tried to finger him, but he was tight. Neither of us had lube, so I tried to slick up with my spit as best as I could and then sort of forced my way into him. Didn't last long, both because of his tightness and the novelty of where we were fucking. As soon as I pulled out of him, I fastened my pants again, and left him there....and went down to the lower level to wash up in the restroom and get lunch in the food court. He had messaged me on Grindr again and said "that was hot". Got into my hotel room after that and was cruising the apps for awhile. Had a few show interest but didn't follow through. Eventually a chaser type hit me up on Growlr (he had messaged me when I was up there before also), and came over. Had to meet him in the lobby since the elevators were key controlled. Brought him up, got naked on the bed, he sucked me, I rimmed him, he had brought some lube packets, so we lubed up and I slid inside...he was tight as hell also. That must be a Chicago thing lol. Fucked him for quite awhile before giving him my load. He washed up and left after some short small talk. I took a quick shower and then decided to take the subway a couple stops up to the Magnificent Mile area where another latino bottom was hosting ass up in his dark hotel room. Got there, found him ass up in his room as advertised, ate his hole a little, then stood up, spit on my dick, and slid in. As I was fucking, he got looser and looser and it was starting to feel...sloppy...in there. Was hoping it wasn't shit. I faked my orgasm after a little while more (it was loose enough that I wasn't going to cum), and then wiped off in the bathroom (not dirty, so maybe it was just lube that was sloppy in there or something). After the latino in his hotel, I stopped for dinner on my way back to the subway, then went to the Nutcracker ballet performance that night (always nice to see how the tights on the dancer guys emphasize their ass...it has to feel like a constant wedgie the entire time though). After the show, I wasn't really planning on having any more sex, but some guys on Grindr hit me up, including one married guy in my same hotel. A bottom chub/cub wanted to come over and get used by me and the married guy. It was alright...the cub couldn't handle my cock and kept pulling himself off of me while I was fucking him doggy style. It was annoying and I didn't cum. The married guy was totally into it...in that married guy kind of way...but he wasn't letting the cub suck him or stroke him much. I called it a night after that. On Saturday, a buddy from downstate took the train up and met me at my hotel. We got some brunch at a place I like to go to up there and then headed to Boystown. Stopped at the Men's Room store to browse a little and then went to Steamworks. It was my buddy's first time there, so after we got into our rooms and into our towels, I took him on a little tour of the 3-floor facility and then we agreed we'd check in with each later around 5pm (we got there around 12:30). It was a great crowd, I think there was an announcement made at one point saying that there were over 100 bears checked in, and pretty diverse in terms of ages, races, and body types. I had plenty of fun. I fucked guys on each piece of public "equipment" (two fuck benches and the sling) with other guys either watching or taking turns with me. One guy was getting on one of the fuck benches as I was walking behind him, so I just followed him and started feeling him up. Got him to suck me for a minute and then slipped in and gave him a good fuck and load...later, as I was showering before leaving, I was next to a guy that was cute and he leaned over and said "thanks for earlier"...turned out it was the fuckbench guy (I only saw the back of his ass earlier, his front side was hot too lol). I also fucked a couple guys in my room, a couple in their rooms, and a little play in the steamroom. The hot tub, which is fairly large and sort of maze-like, was full of bears the entire afternoon...to the point where it wasn't easy to just sit there and relax. Overall, I probably only shot 3-4 loads, but the number of mouths and asses I was in was probably 3 or 4 times that number. My buddy said he had a good time, he is more of a voyeur and wanted to watch more than play - and there was plenty of public action for him, I'm sure. I may try to get up there more often for those bear events. Hope all of you are having a nice Christmas/Holidays, either visiting with friends and family or getting laid all over the place!

I messaged you privately about letting me know when you're coming to Indy again. I tend to stick to Club Indy, but could try The Works again sometime.

Happy to read some of these replies. I'm not a chub by any means, but I'd consider myself a cub (tummy, some hair). I personally am not into chubs, but bring on the bears/cubs! There's obviously a gray area between bear/cub and chub...and what that gray area is for me will be different for someone else. It depends on the situation too...if presented with a big guy on an app or website, I may turn him down...but at a bathhouse where the clothes are off and he's ass up in his room, I may just drop my towel and slip inside for a bit. All that being said, I do enjoy fucking twinks/otter/jock types too.

I tend to be a fairly quiet top, but I'm trying to be more vocal. I like my bottoms to moan/grunt and tell me how good my dick feels inside them. I don't like them to be too pushy/demanding...I'll fuck you harder when I want to fuck you harder. And while I like a good daddy/boy scene in terms of me being a hairy cub daddy type fucking a twinkish younger bottom, if the bottom gets too much into the "daddy fuck me" or "is my boyhole tight, daddy?" kind of talk, it gets annoying.

I have some catching up to do. Last week in Vegas, I had a couple come to my hotel room for some fun. The top bear hubby and I were going to tag team the smoother bottom hubby. Lots of hot making out with the top bear while the bottom sucked me. Top and I took turns on his ass, and despite being rock hard the entire time, I couldn't seem to cum - it felt great, but I'm thinking it had something to do with the large glass of wine I had at the conference reception before they came over. Couldn't believe I fucked that long without unloading, but it was still hot. Going to keep in touch with them for future trips out there. Saturday night I was down in Indianapolis, and went to the bathhouse around 10pm. I had posted a party ad on BBRT, but as far as I know, only 2 of the 10 guys that signed up were actually there (might've been more that I just didn't recognize). It was a pretty decent crowd, mix of older/younger/bears/average/slim. Won't go into too many details, but here's the short list: - latino muscle jock that I've fucked there before - fucked him hard, but he asked me to stop due to his overuse of poppers - ass-up slim Latino(?) guy in his dark room - he sucked me, I fingered him, I fucked him with the door open while a couple guys watched, bred him - bearish white guy in steamroom - saw him in there a little earlier and moved away when he reached out, but the next time I was in there I moved up to him and let him suck me, thinking that's all he wanted. But, after a minute or so of sucking, he turned around and presented his hole, so I slid in and fucked him for awhile until the steam got to be too much for me. - cubbish white guy from BBRT - first fucked him in the dark room, then a few minutes later we met upstairs in my room and continued - he also asked me to stop, but said that I had been hitting him just right and made him cum twice while I was pounding away - hairy white muscle daddy - he had sucked me a little in the steamroom, but then came up to my room later and asked if he could ride it, of course I said sure and I eventually got him on all fours and gave him a good fuck. - white beefy bi jock - he had sucked me in my room a bit earlier, and I had told him to come back so I could fuck him, and he did. Beautiful beefy/jock body and ass, gave him a good fuck and bred him, then we chatted a bit before he left my room and again down in the shower area. Turns out he's a bi guy around my age (mid 30s) with a 22 year old girlfriend who he does gangbangs with around the area. - white bear from BBRT - we had been chatting off and on throughout the night, touched each other a little in the steamroom at various times, but he finally came up to my room and came in to play, started with sucking me, but then I asked if he wanted it somewhere else and he said sure...his hole was tight, and my dick was getting tired at this point, but we fucked for a few minutes before I gave up - ass up guy in jockstrap in his dark room - the room was dark enough that I had no idea what this guy looked like, other than seeing him getting fucked when I walked by a little earlier. Went in, he sucked me for a few then turned around, and I slid in and fucked him and gave him whatever cum I had left. ...there were other guys there in the last couple hours that I would've liked to play with, some muscular black guys with hot asses and some white twinks, but I'm guessing I wasn't what they were looking for. Sunday night I responded to a CL ad for a cumdump in a local hotel. One of those places that looks like it's from the 60s/70s with outdoor entrances and such. Drove over, went into his room, dropped my pants, rimmed him for a minute or two, slid in and fucked him, unloaded, pulled out and wiped my cock off on the towel, then got my pants back up and left...didn't even take off my winter coat while I was fucking him. He emailed me again last night saying he was in the same hotel and wanted used again, but I didn't see it until this morning. It's finals week at the university, so I'm already seeing some extra posts on CL saying "I need fucked between studying for exams" and such...so we'll see if I can get some more over the next couple days.

I think most of what needs to be said has already been said. On a similar note, though...I think it's interesting how people look at pictures on the apps and sites. I use the dick pic you see here (my profile pic) on the apps and websites. There seems to be a 50/50 chance that I'll either get "that's too small for me" or "that's so thick!" In addition, I'm not the most photogenic, so when anyone ever asks for a face pic, I often get turned down also. It sucks, but then I'll go to a bathhouse or a bookstore or something, and I get all kinds of compliments about my looks and my dick. Just last night at a bathhouse I had numerous people stop by the doorway of my room just to say "hey, that's a nice cock, do you want company?" Now, I'm not saying this to stroke my own ego or anything, I'm just pointing out that as the gay hookup culture moves more and more to online/apps we are relying more and more on the quality of our pictures to "sell" ourselves. This is unfortunate, as there are people who look great in pics but horrible in person, and those that look not-so-great in pics and are gorgeous in person (I've met both kinds). On this site, there tends to be a lot of acceptance of all different types - and people who say they will fuck anyone and everyone, no matter their looks. The same attitude somewhat exists at a bathhouse...last night I played around with twinks, cubs, daddy bears, a bisexual muscle hunk, and a few "average Joes" and it was great. I just wish we, as a community, could be a little more open-minded and accepting in general, without being too hung up on pics.

I have also found that aloe, as opposed to other lotions/moisturizers, tends to work best...at least for me.

Boxer briefs day to day, either Hanes (on colder days especially) or MeUndies (Spotify kept sending me their ads a few years ago, so I gave in and did a trial pair and really liked them). I have been steadily growing my "sexy" undies - several briefs and jocks from NastyPig, some Full Kit Gear stuff (from a store in Chicago), a Pistol Pete boxer brief with snap access, etc... and I've been thinking I need to start wearing those more often. I used to just wear sexy stuff for hookups, but nowadays I'm naked when my bottom walks in to find me in bed, so.... ;-)

I saw your party post on BBRTS also...if I can get over to the strip from where my conference is, I'll let you know.

Anybody? lol

I'm heading up to Chicago on Dec 22 and staying over until the 23rd, and I purposely scheduled my train home later in the evening on the 23rd so that I can hit the "Bears Baths and Beyond" event at Steamworks that afternoon. Anyone else going? I'm hoping it's a nice crowd on the holiday weekend. I'm also up for some fun on the 22nd, of course. Can host in a downtown (loop) hotel or travel on the CTA.

For those of you in the US, you may be familiar with Nextdoor - it's sort of like Facebook for your community. You can join your subdivision or apartment complex, etc...and people can post things like "selling my gas grill" or "there have been some car breakins lately on such-and-such a street" or "looking for recommendations for _____". I don't log in very much at all, but I get some emails when someone posts about activity in my apartment complex. Got an email today about a post that said something like the following... "There's a registered sex offender working at the KFC nearby, you may want to reconsider eating there..." It sort of pissed me off. First, I want to plainly say that I'm not in favor of illegal sexual activity. I like fucking younger guys, but I haven't ever fucked anything underage and don't intend on doing so. (I'm assuming the sex offense is something of this nature, which may be wrong) I think it's the fact that this person is encouraging others to abandon the business because of one of the employees being a sex offender. The employee has registered as a sex offender, so that's a good thing. And really, is the employee going to seduce a kid to join him in the bathroom or something while he/she is working? I'm sure there are safeguards in place preventing that (i.e. other employees would know if the employee in question is not at their station or what not). Also, if there is anyone underage, wouldn't they be with their parents or an adult anyways (unless they're 16 or 17 when they can drive themselves, and then that's a gray area where consent can be achieved)? It's almost like saying, "don't go to Walmart anymore, I hear they hire recovering alcohol/drug/sex/food addicts", which is stupid. If it wasn't an underage thing...what else might it have been? Exposing oneself in public? Rape? Again, I don't think either of those would be possible in a fast food restaurant where there is management and other employees around for safeguards. Sex offenders may have done something wrong/bad, but they deserve a second chance like anyone else, and they have to make a living somehow. Thoughts on this?

Was home for a few days for Thanksgiving. The last few times I've been home, I haven't done much on the apps because it usually never works out. But today, I was browsing Grindr most of the morning, and by the time I was getting ready to leave my parents' house after lunch I had a black jock that had invited me over for a fuck. Drove to his place in the ghetto area of town, walked in and found him in his jock on his bed. He sucked me hard, then I got him on all fours at the edge of the bed and slid in. Slid in and fucked him for a good 10 minutes or so before shooting a huge load in his hungry hole. Wiped off my cock with a towel, and went back out to my car and got on the road to drive home. I was still horny, though, so I had Grindr going while I was driving. (Yeah, probably not the safest thing to Grindr and drive, but...) When I was approaching another college town, I noticed this one profile and "tapped" him. I thought I had passed him, but when he asked what was up, I replied "driving on I-74 and horny" and he said "same here". Turns out we were both driving a couple miles apart going the same direction. I asked him if he wanted to stop at the adult bookstore up ahead and he said he had already passed it. Then I suggested the rest area at the Illinois/Indiana state line, and he said "I could blow you but I'm not feeling up for fucking/BB" to which I replied I was cool with that. A few minutes later, when I was about 2 miles from the rest area, he said he was there. Told him I'd be there in a couple minutes and messaged him when I parked. He said he was in the right side of the restroom (there are two doors) in the last stall. So I went in and found him sitting there, got my cock out, and he started sucking. He was good and got me hard fairly quickly, but it was taking me a few to cum...probably because I had fucked that black kid about an hour before. He kept checking his phone, which I thought was odd, but didn't seem distracted or anything. He was definitely cuter in person than his pic...a good looking cub. At one point he stood up, we kissed a little and he asked if I was close...I said "getting there" and asked him if he was also, to which he said yes. So I bent down and sucked on his a little and he started cumming, so I lapped it up and swallowed his load. Then he sat back down and went down on me again...within a minute or so I unloaded into his mouth, and we both put ourselves together again. I stepped out and washed my hands at the sinks since there were a couple other guys in the restroom at the moment, and as I was drying my hands I noticed my guy walking out. I then walked back out to my car and I saw him getting into his car...IN THE PASSENGER SEAT! It looked like he was with an older lady (mom or grandma?). He obviously had made some excuse to stop at the rest area just to get my cock and cum....probably why he was checking his phone. So I messaged him again as I got settled into my car, told him thanks and that we'd have to do that again sometime (at some point he had told me he lived in Indianapolis). He said "I'd love to meet up with you again". Later, when we were both at our respective homes, we chatted briefly on Grindr again and exchanged numbers. I'm about to text him now. ;-) I had looked around a bit more this evening, but ended up jacking off to some daddy/boy porn. We'll see if any of the college boys log on later and are wanting some cum.

I posted yesterday morning (see above), but have a couple more to add from last night. Had an undergrad from campus come over late afternoon to fuck. Mixed race jock type. Nice body, decent cocksucker, tight hole. He was so tight that I sort of had to force my way inside him...asking him all the time whether he was ok and wanted to continue and he kept saying yes. Once I was in, we both only lasted a couple minutes. It was alright, not sure if I'll have him back or not. Later in the evening I got on Growlr and saw this hot 54 year old muscle daddy bear. He and I had chatted before when he was in the area but didn't hook up. This time, though, it only took a few messages back and forth before he agreed to head over. He was hotter in person than in his pics...muscled arms and legs, beer belly, fur everywhere. We got into some pretty hot and heavy passionate touching, kissing, licking all over each other. Then he went to the bathroom to prep his hole and a few minutes later was back in bed for more heavy making out and frottage. Got him on his stomach and rimmed his hole for a good 5-10 minutes, then lubed up and got inside. He was pretty quiet, but I can't complain since I'm fairly quiet as a top too, but his hole felt great and we were both doing poppers and getting fairly intense. Blew a load and stayed inside while he jacked himself off below me. We laid around chatting and watching porn for awhile...maybe like 30-45 minutes, before I initiated some more licking/kissing. We fucked again, I was a little surprised at how long I lasted for it being a second round (and already fucking two other guys during the day), and he jacked off again while I stayed inside after having my orgasm (which was probably dry at that point). At this point I was done, but we were both still laying there - sort of that awkward moment when you don't want to be an ass and say "ok time for you to leave" but after awhile he started talking about how he should get going, and asked to take a shower before he left. He travels a lot for his job, but perhaps he'll be able to stop by again sometime for more.