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I like men aged 18-70. As a submissive bottom, I find that men over 40 often have a more masculine air. Men become more masculine as they age - more body hair, increasingly rugged features and balding increase with age and they are all MASCULINE features. I like guys 18-70 but it's masculinity that I find attractive and older guys are often more "manly".

I think it's always wise to bear in mind the "business suit" or even "polo shirt" rule. Only have tattoos in those areas that will be covered by those clothes. You never know what kind of employment you might need to apply for in the future.

EXTREMELY HOT videos SIR!! Many thanks for reposting them SIR!! As a neg submissive cumdump I can understand some of that sub's anxieties. There are still serious downsides to being poz. Not everyone responds well to the drugs and I believe that HIV poz people are denied access to certain countries. I am torn between my sexual urges to be a "No questions asked. No cock or load refused" cumdump and worries that I might be wrecking my health and jeapordizing my life. I've already reached the "No questions asked" stage. I figured that as I take random loads at saunas and a sizeable proportion of poz guys will lie about their status to get a casual fuck, the only thing that asking status does, is to create an awkward pre fuck atmosphere. I want the cock and load anyway. I am almost at the "No cock or load refused" stage, but I still have a couple of reservations about that. I agree that the best slaves "never say no" and it follows that poz slaves have fewer worries and therefore find it easier to service any cock without reservation. They have less cause to say "no". In that sense, poz guys can be seen as more desireable slaves. As someone with some experience of the S/M scene, I see a strong ( but graded ) distinction between a submissive and a slave. A submissive can set hard pre agreed limits before a session - particularly with a casual Master/Dom/Top. A submissive has the right to negotiate limits before a scene, but it is clearly wrong to change those limits during a scene. A slave has no rights ( in theory ). In practice most slaves have a contract or understanding with a Master defining what is acceptable. I would consider entering into a formal Master/slave relationship. Because the Master's sexual pleasure is central to the S/M relationship, I believe that a Master has the right to bareback his property ( irrespective of his status ). I also believe that a Master has the right to whore his property out to positive Tops and others. The Master's pleasure is what is most important. As a submissive cumhole, I still have rights, choices and limits. I'm not obliged to simply obey every guy who calls himself a Master or Dom. As a slave in a formal relationship with a Master, I obey His orders. To answer RawTOP's original question, I think a "true submissive bottom" is unlikely to stay neg for long. The mindset of the submissive bottom is a drive to give Tops what they want. I have that drive. I started barebacking again three years ago. I'm still neg. Perhaps I've just been lucky. So far as I can tell, all of my ancestors have been living in the British Isles for at least 400 years. Maybe I have the CR5 gene?

Raw. It was 1984. I was 16. He came in my ass twice that night. The age of consent in the U.K. is 16. I had started going to gay discos in my nearest city at 16. Quite quickly I met a 40 year old guy who invited me back to his place for "coffee". I went. I'd had a few drinks and he barebacked me ( my first fuck ever ) without mentioning condoms. I was too horny to discuss HIV - I'm not sure we had those initials back then. In those days GAY HIV was seen as an overwhelmingly North American problem. I had friends whose safe sex strategy was to refuse to have sex with Americans. Quite often if safe sex was discussed someone would say "I'm ok. I don't have sex with Americans". The 40 year old guy barebacked me again the following morning. We became lovers and had frequent bareback sex for the next three years ( in a monogamous relationship - well on my side at least ). Regular readers of these threads will have read this story in other posts - sorry for boring you. The story doesn't vary, because it's the truth.

You look hot! I could easily see you in the "daddy" role in porn vids - a bit like a younger Jake Cruise. I think several gay guys have crossed over from making amateur porn vids on xtube to paid channels. That might be an option for you. I'm based in the U.K. so I don't know much about U.S. porn studios.

I would have posted earlier but I just discovered this thread today. I would like to thank RawTop for all the work which he has put into his sites. He is an incredibly sexy guy and I appreciate all his efforts.

My ideal sexual encounter lasts for several hours. I like to relax with a Top, share some booze and watch some BB porn. The booze releases my inner slut. Then I like to get into long blow jobs, rimming and piss play followed by a hard fuck or two. Tops usually need some time to recover before the second fuck, so breaks for more booze and porn are fine. I've described what I most enjoy, but as a submissive cumhole, it is always the Top who decides what we do and for how long. I'm fine with that.

On the health issue: the piss of a healthy man is harmless. It is sterile and mildly antiseptic. There are problem areas if the pisser has a sexually transmitted infection. Also, drugs are excreted in urine. I know that some piss Tops have had to stop doing it because of meds they are on ( beta blockers being one example ). Shit is a separate issue and it is seriously hazardous to your health.

Congratulations Sir! I agree 100,000 readers sure is a "buttload" of people! Here's to your first million!

I enjoy piss play too. The bath and shower are the best places as you can rinse it away and clean up easily. I enjoy getting pissed on and in my mouth. I ALWAYS swallow and I love to drink directly from the cock. I haven't had anyone piss in my arse yet but I'd love to try it - all Tops are welcome! To the original poster: with regard to the taste, you can always piss in a glass and taste your own.

I've never seen enemas/douches on sale where I live. Also there are problems with postal deliveries, so buying online can be a problem. I discovered that a large squeezy plastic dishwashing detergent bottle holds 750ml of liquid. I rinsed one REALLY thoroughly and now, before a date or fuck or trip to the sauna, I use it to clean out. I add about 700ml of luke warm water - NEVER warmer than body temperature ( 37c )and I lie on my back with a towel under my butt and press the nozzle to my hole. I squeeze around one third of the bottle into my ass and hold it in for 5 minutes or so. It helps to raise your legs in the air ( prevents leaks ). Then I empty my ass over the toilet bowl. I repeat this process twice. That's three lukewarm water rinses of around 5 minutes each. I find that leaves me clean to get fucked and rimmed deep without problems. Some guys like to add soap or other chemicals to the liquid. My view is that is unnecessary and potentially harmful. Your rectum is lined with a delicate membrane. It was not meant to be exposed to soap and it absorbs chemicals. Both hot water and ice can cause SERIOUS burns. I know that shower attachment douches are popular, but they run two serious risks - both the temperature and pressure can vary dangerously. I have a nurse friend who knows guys who have scalded their insides. The advantage of a bottle is that you can test the temperature with your finger or a thermometer. The water shouldn't be warmer than your own body temperature ( 37c ). Finally, I'm 42 and I've been getting fucked regularly since the mid 1980s. My experience of the British Isles and Europe is that anal douching only became common in the late 1990s. It is still not universal. None of the great homosexuals in history had douching facilities. It is a modern phenomenon largely inspired by gay porn ( in my view ) - directors didn't want shitty cocks and asses on film. Previous generations of Tops regarded shit as an occupational hazard - they weren't precious about it. If you stick your cock in someone's arse, you might expect a little mud. As a submissive cumdump, I respect my Tops' right to a clean hole. The process I described works well for me. No problems so far.

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Hot pics!! Aren't some people kind?

Typing at this time, the poll shows 6 bottoms and 1 versatile Top. My experience of the gay scene and the S/M scene is that bottoms greatly outnumber Tops. I would have put it around 3 to 1. Given those facts, Tops can afford to pick and choose. Tops get to call the shots. Bottoms who want to get fucked regularly learn to give the Tops what they want. I'm a submissive cumdump who gives the Tops what they want. I'm moving toward a position of being a "no cock or load refused" cumdump. I have a big uncut cock and I do fuck occasionally, but I'm not interested in hearing from other botttoms looking to get fucked. In an S/M relationship, I fuck guys at my Master's command. I do have hook ups with versatile Tops, but only where we swap fucks. I dislike being pushed into topping all the time. I might upload some pics of my cock to my album.

Hot story! What does "sawed off" mean?

Not a simple answer. I find BIG cocks a tremendous turn on visually and I enjoy servicing them orally, but they can be uncomfortable anally. For that reason, average or small cocks can give me a more enjoyable fuck. I find thick cocks more comfortable to take than long ones. I seem to be able to accommodate width more easily than depth. I'm just about to buy two dildoes. One is 40cm long and I intend using it to train my hole to take long cocks. The other dildo is incredibly thick and I intend using it to stretch my hole a bit: http://www.dildos.co.uk/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=1001&zenid=oug4l7a5p0ipl0jtouai2dj145 As a submissive cumdump, I'm pretty much at the stage where I let any man who wants to fuck me, fuck me. I want the load and if the fuck is uncomfortable, it's my job to accept it. I'm hoping that the dildo training will allow me to take the bigger cocks with ease.

The British Isles and Europe have a well developed gay sauna and sex club scene. People go there to have sex and the porn, darkrooms, public play spaces, glory holes and slings add to the cruisy atmosphere. I have most experience of the Belfast and Dublin saunas. My experience is that in around 50% of the Irish saunas I visit, bareback is simply assumed. Both of the Dublin saunas are VERY bareback friendly ( "The Dock" especially so ). Of Belfast's two gay saunas "Outside" is INCREDIBLY bareback friendly and "Pipeworks" is less so. When I feel horny, the easiest way to get loads is just to have a few drinks and visit the saunas. Wearing a jock and kneeling on all fours or lying face down in a cubicle lets Tops know that my arse is available. I leave lube sachets close to my ass and the Tops just push their cocks at my hole. Many of them try without lube too. I average around 4 loads per night. I could take more if I visited the darkrooms and just took every cock offered. The big advantage of saunas is that the sex is guaranteed ( at least at busy times ). The problem with net hook ups is that Northern Ireland is a conservative society with a lot of closeted fantasists. I'm sure we've all experienced the endless ping pong of messages/e-mails from faceless guys who fail to turn up. It's too time consuming and frustrating. Even in successful 1 on 1 hook ups, the average Top is only good for two loads. Saunas are where I score most loads.

Hi guys! I'm considering buying some dildoes. Any advantages of rubber over silicone? I think I have a rubber/latex allergy - hilarious I know ( me being a condom free zone ). Maybe I have a legit excuse to bareback? Interested to know if rubber dildoes have any advantages.

LOVELY bookmark/page turner there! Aren't some people kind?

It has become a standard practice in most bareback porn that after the fuck, the bottom sucks/licks clean the cocks of the Tops who fucked him. Some Tops like to switch their cock back and forward between the bottom's arse and mouth during the fuck. As a submissive cumdump I'm happy to provide those services to my Tops To Tops: what are your thoughts on ass to mouth? Do you like to change holes during a fuck? Do you insist that the bottom cleans your cock with his mouth after the fuck? Are you happy to kiss a guy who has just licked his ass juices off your cock? To bottoms: are you happy to suck your ass juices off a cock that has fucked you? Are you happy to have a Top switch his cock between your arse and throat during a fuck? I am!

The age of consent in the U.K. is sixteen. I started attending gay discos in my city at sixteen. Quite quickly I met a forty year old guy who invited me back to his place for "coffee". I went. He took my virginity bareback that night and barebacked me again the following morning. I'd had a few drinks and his cock was just a bit larger than average, so I didn't experience any pain. We became lovers and spent each weekend and one night per week at his place. I told my mother I was staying over with a school friend. He always shot his spunk in my arse or mouth - usually four times at weekends and twice ( night and morning ) of the week night. I was taking six loads per week between the ages of sixteen and nineteen. Our three year relationship ended when I left for university at nineteen. He always used Johnson's Baby Lotion ( a pink lotion in a pink plastic bottle ) as lube. I guess it was less embarrassing to buy than Vaseline. Every time I see or smell that product it brings back happy memories of my first fucks.

Hot, well written story!

I've been barebacked and spitroasted in the public areas of gay saunas quite often. The U.K. police/courts can take a very harsh view of public nudity and sex, so I don't do that. I came across the xtube profile of a German barebacker who has hot vids of him getting fucked on European gay beaches. Scroll down the profile for his vids. Passers by in some shots: http://www.xtube.com/community/profile.php?user=tovomas

A recent thread "WASTED CUM" made it clear that there are plenty of cumhungry bottoms and plenty of frustrated Tops who have trouble finding a warm wet hole to unload in A lot of cum is being wasted RawTOP said he would regularly use a cumdump in his neighbourhood - if there were one. My solution: THE CUMDUMP NETWORK The Cumdump Network is a network of bareback cumdumps devoted to the worship of and relief of cocks. Their philosophy is that all cocks and cum are sacred. No cock should ever be without a warm wet hole to cum in. No man is ever refused entrance. No load is ever refused. The network is primarily concentrated in the major cities. The reality of working life means that most cumdumps can provide at least two hours service per week, or per night depending on other commitments. Cumdumps within a city or rural area agree a weekly rota system. In very large cities they might be able to provide a round the clock service - depending on the number of volunteers. Tops who want to unload simply visit the website, type in their area and find the stats and mobile phone number of whoever happens to be on duty at that time. It would make sense for a serving cumdump to have a friend in the house to answer calls, open the door and provide a degree of security. Cumdumps may agree to specific requests ( as to clothing for example and whether they accept piss and other games ) in advance, but the basic scenario is that a Top turns up and finds the cumdump naked on the bed, arse up. All Tops are entitled to both oral and anal service and of course it is ALWAYS for the Top to decide where he chooses to dump his load. There may be a small glass jar or bowl beside the bed for tips, but tipping is completely optional. The services are ALWAYS free. Any tips would help towards the cost of laundry, lube and poppers ( if used ). I can foresee circumstances where a Top might be refused admission on subsequent occasions ( theft or violence for example ) but the over riding philosophy is that the service is freely available to ALL men. No cock or load is refused. Being a dedicated cumdump is a vocation. It is a form of self sacrifice. Cumdumps risk their health to provide pleasure. It can have a spiritual component. I already have large brass and silver candlesticks for a phallic altar. I just need to find a suitably attractive phallus/dildo to place on it. Not all cumdumps need to buy into the religious component, but an oath to serve cock can help to reinforce commitment. Some cumdumps just want the regular no strings sex and that is fine. Just a few thoughts of mine. I know that Ted's Cumwhores operates on a similar basis. Comments welcome

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