Since this about fantasy, i would have to select men that i fantasized about in my days before I ever had any experience with men.
I have a very clear memory of a man in a movie that I saw when I was 17-years old. I only saw the movie once. I never checked out who the actor was. So i just did a Google search because I have never forgotten the title of the movie. I was kind of surprised of who was the actor I lusted after.
The movie was « Mandingo » and it turns out the actor was Ken Norton; yes the boxer. His role was that of a black slave seduced by his master’s wife. I think this movie may have awakened my attraction to black men. His role was in no way gay. But I couldn’t believe how much an effect he had on my imagination. Having a beautiful black man taking control and having hot torrid sex with me.
Five years later when I had moved away from home and had discovered those great gay magazines of the 80s, I discovered and became entranced by Jeff Stryker. Perhaps the most famous not-really-gay actor in gay porn! The photo shoots with semi-storyline settings... that gorgeous 10-inch cock. The biker leather. The strong silent top. The fantasy of having Stryker putting you on the back of his Harley. Driving up to the desert mountain top. Getting you stripped and then submitting to his hungry desires. Those were still the days before the HIV epidemic and the sex was gloriously bareback.
And finally the actor that makes you think about falling In love. Beautiful, sophisticated. He plays the strong stable character in The Talented Mr. Ripley. A supremely talented musician, He played the tragically doomed Peter Smith-Kingsley. Jack Davenport is the actor. You never see him naked. But you melt (I do) 😉.