Mayhem

Never done it, but always thought it was hot to have a running tally marked on your ass so guys will know just how big a slut you've been and then they can slide right in and add their sperm to the sloppy mix too.

For me toys have only ever been useful strictly as a tool (so to speak) to train my hole for taking real dick. As other have mentioned, they're far more rigid when compared to an erect penis and I don't get any real pleasure when I've used them. A hard dick still has a decent amount of give so that it squeezes into the walls of your ass much easier, whereas a dildo, etc feels a bit more like a battering ram lol. More than that though, a dildo can't throb and pulse as it shoots squirt after squirt of hot sticky cum deep inside you, and you just can't beat that feeling!

I've participated in and enjoyed plenty of 1-on-1 and group sex sessions, and could never choose one to stick with for good, but I think just in terms of simplicity 1-on-1 would be my "preferred" type. Groups just by their nature can be exponentially harder to put together, in terms of finding the right number and types of guys to invite as well as just pulling the whole thing off without any other hassles or unforeseen issues popping up. At the same time, if everything else goes off without a hitch then groups definitely have the potential to be the most fun (piggy!) option. One of my ultimate fantasies is to be in a group where everyone is completely versatile and open to fucking and/or getting fucked. No worries about total tops who get paranoid if a finger brushes past their ass crack, or total bottoms who have no interest in breeding some ass after theirs has been loaded up. No hole would go unfilled.

I'm generally not too picky when it comes to ass...if it's right in front of me and begging to get filled with cum then that's good enough for me haha. But my ideal, favorite kind of hole is definitely hairless -- shaved/waxed or natural doesn't really matter as long as it's nice and smooth. I love eating ass so the less hair the better when I'm pigging out on a hot hole. I've always loved how much better a smooth hole feels around my bare cock too compared to a hairy one, especially if it's already wet and cum sloppy by the time get to it. Yum!

Ever since I first saw it in porn, I've been really curious about DP (both giving and receiving). The thought of having two bare cocks rubbing together inside my hole until they both start throbbing and pumping my ass full of their cum is such a turn on, and I also really want to see how it feels to share some ass with another top and both fill it up with nut at the same time.

As a fellow hairy guy, keep in mind that you might be questioning this decision after the first couple days lol. The initial stubble and razor bumps will be annoying but once you get the hang of it and have a sense for how sensitive your skin is there you'll get used to it. If you shave on a regular basis also the irritation and stuff won't be as bad each time you do it.

I never really understood the mentality of being resistive to what you really want, especially when it comes to sex. Let women play the stupid mind games, we're guys! We don't need to play hard to get with each other, we should take advantage of the fact we can sneak away for 5 minutes, bone, get each other off really quick and be on our separate ways with no baggage or feelings attached. If the other guy doesn't know what he wants, I sure as hell won't either and I don't feel like wasting time trying to decipher it! On the other hand, it is possible to be TOO eager. Having to deal with a fussy or pushy guy isn't much better, so somewhere in the middle is ideal I guess, but leaning more toward the eager side -- because it's always hot when a guy shows his slutty, piggy side and is really craving bare cock pumping his ass with cum, or stuffing his own cock in a hole and flooding it with jizz!

It usually depends on what I'm doing, but in general I'm either butt ass naked when I top (maybe starting out partially clothed and undressing during foreplay, etc), or at most I might have on a jockstrap if I'm gonna bottom and take loads. Eventually though that will come off too and I'll be nude from that point on, both for easier access and for overall comfort since things are gonna get hot and sweaty

As little as possible really, since I mainly do my cruising at bathhouses or sex clubs. I tend to start off wearing underwear or more likely a jockstrap, and usually a cockring. If I'm at a bathhouse I might carry my towel with me depending on what I'm doing, but I rarely cover up with it and just have it over my shoulder. After a while though the jockstrap will most likely end up coming off too and I'll just leave it in my room and cruise naked the rest of the time (especially if I've been really slutty that night lol).

I'd never be that selfish haha. Gotta make sure our cum hungry bottoms are well fed with as much jizz as possible, right?

I don't usually get into the more vivid details of my sex life with most of my friends, so the select few that do also know I bareback. It just makes it a lot easier if I'm telling them about a hookup and I don't have to leave anything out or magically insert condoms for their protection lol. Of course these are the friends of mine who are the least judgmental so I know I won't have to worry about a lecture or anything. In fact one of the reasons I can tell them and not hold anything back is because they all think it's hot too, even though they may not have necessarily taken that plunge themselves yet. If anything maybe I can inspire some of them in that way haha.

**Move along, nothing to see here...after reading some more replies my question has been answered! N00b Alert Canceled** Sorry for sounding like a total n00b, but is anal masturbation basically fingering your (or someone elses) ass? When I hear "masturbation" I automatically think of the kind that involves a hand around a dick so it's kind of throwing me off

*checks date of original post* Ok good, April 1! I've seen more than my fair share of messed up fetishes on this site, but if this were a real thing...seriously, what the fuck?

Don't let it discourage you, it's perfectly normal to be into bareback but not drugs at all. Though it does seem like the two go hand in hand more often than not!

Never really timed it, either giving or receiving, but I do know that burying my face in a plump, round, smooth ass and making out with that tight, puckering hole is never something I'd want to restrict with a time limit. Especially if it has a few fresh cumloads dripping from it!

"And then it hit me: What if the guy I was playing with was not in it for the same reason I was? What if he was in it developing his skills, fine tuning his game to prepare himself to actually do it? That I was not "saving" a victim (if any) by being the virtual victim, but I was actually stimulating the other to make a victim..." This is exactly what has never made sense to me when it comes to a lot of the really extreme fetishes and fantasies. Though personally if I'm really not into doing something at all, I'm probably not going to be able to "fake" it for some role-playing or sex talk -- I'd have to at least be somewhat curious for it to go anywhere -- it seems like sometimes guys that are into the darker and more twisted stuff don't take into consideration the consequences of actually acting on those urges. There's a reason some things are better left as fantasy, because some things, if done in real life, you can't come back from or reverse!

I prefer a decent balance between verbal and quiet -- the top should definitely make some noise, because total silence would not only be weird, but I also get off on knowing that he's enjoying fucking my ass and cumming inside it. But, I also don't care for the overly chatty guys who can't shut up and just savor the moment for a minute or two. It's especially a turn off if they inisist on using corny porn dialogue or slang ("Yeah, take my fuckstick in your mancunt!"), or being verbally abusive ("faggot", "bitch boy", etc). Also, never, ever, EVER call my ass a boipussy or something similar lol. Such a mood killer!

Haha interesting twist ending, like if M. Night Shyamalan directed porn. I was really hoping i would end with the final top taking off the condom and fucking you bareback in the final stretch so he could breed you good, but still a pretty hot story!

Considering your follow up email, while I wouldn't necessarily call it a "scam" of some kind, it's at the very least spam/advertising designed to bring traffic (and subscribers) to their website. You might also be a good idea to report the profile to the Adam4Adam admins so that they can block it any other similar fake profiles.

Now that's impressive! My hero lol. That's by far the ultimate fantasy for me, to just be a total slut taking bare cock after bare cock, and having each one pump my ass with nut til it's leaking and sloppy. Fuck yeah!

Not really sure what raised your suspicions that this might be "spam or phishing", so my guess is as good as yours at this point. Though I can tell you it's unlikely to be a phshing scam (at least for now) since this isn't how those are typically done -- they usually start off as a fake email asking you to verify secure info by telling you to log in via a link the phisher provides to you. It actually could be a spambot though, which is just an automated or fake profile that sends autoreplies when contacted, and usually pointing you to a website that likely will require a paid membership of some kind (notice the mention of waiting for you to become a silver member so that you can meet and chat with the other guys he talks about). If you're not sure, it's suually best to be on the safe side and not give out your email address or any other sensitive info. If you can't fight the urge though and want to contact him via email, make sure it's an account that either has good spam filters in place, or create a new email to use so you avoid possibly bombarding your account with junk mail.

I've never been one to fetishize things like ethnicity (though I am more attracted to non-white guys), and I never really understood it either. It seems to me if it does feel taboo or wrong to do it then there might be some deeper underlying issues that might need to be dealt with. EDIT: I'm seeing quite a few "Yeah, I love black cock" responses, so with those guys I'm curious: is that response actually because you're genuinely attracted to black guys, or is it strictly the supposed "taboo" that's turning you on?

For real life and for porn, I agree that orgies are much hotter than either a small group or a gangbang. It's of course always hot to see one guy get filled up with load after load til his hole is leaking cum, but I've always been a lot more turned on by the idea of everyone getting in on the fucking. The only thing better than barebacking a slippery, well used ass is getting to fuck several in a row!

I also find it kind of strange how you seemingly post about these situations seeking advice of some kind, but as soon as anyone offers some -- and so far, it's all been pretty on point advice! -- you immediately go on the defensive. Useful, worthy advice requires complete honesty first; if you need everything to be sugarcoated for you, then you're certainly not going to get any meaningful answers in return! Then there's your seeming non-commitment to how you've presented his supposed treatment of you. You claim that his "analysis" of your suggested you like being abused, and you thought that might be true...but then you turn around and say that you're not trying to make it seem like you're the good guy and he's not. You claim you're not trying to suggest he treats you badly...but then say he can be inconsiderate towards you. Then you say he's actually a nice guy...but you don't like how he makes you feel. So, if you want us to take you seriously it would help if you were at least honest with yourself first, and get over this inner conflict you seem to be having over whether or not he actually is a good guy. Coming to terms with that first is crucial here. So, I know you'll hate this answer since it's already been suggested several times, but counseling of some kind is probably your best bet, especially since you don't seem particularly capable (and I really don't mean to be insulting in any way, but there definitely seems to be a pattern emerging based on your posts) of coming to terms with this issue yourself. It's really pretty simple: you genuinely hate feeling conflicted over him and need someone to really show you that yes, you absolutely must cut off all ties with him if he's making you feel this bad or torn over it, OR you subconsciously DO enjoy the abuse and don't actually want to move on from him (even though you still should do so). It's ultimately all up to you, man. You can keep playing these mind games with yourself and let the cycle repeat itself over and over, or you can get serious and actually do something about it.

This is one of my ultimate fantasies too. Just the thought of a room full of naked, horned up men all engaged in sweaty, skin on skin fucking and the sloppy, cum-filled holes that would result from it is insanely hot. The only thing that I think could make it even hotter is if all the guys were versatile; no strict tops or bottoms, and every guy would be willing to either breed some asses or get their own filled with jizz. Heaven! I have a question though for the guys who have organized these kinds of parties before, just out of sheer curiosity: Do you generally stress to the attendees that it is a strictly bareback, no condoms allowed party? Or do you tend to merely encourage raw sex, but not actively enforce it and allow condom use for those that choose to? And are there ever any rules in place about breeding vs pulling out, or is it left completely up to the guests where their cum ends up?