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Yesterday on Grindr I arranged a hookup with a young guy but he kept giving excuses for not getting to my hotel at the agreed times. When we gave up for the day I was, fortunately, able to arrange on BBRTS for another hookup albeit that the next guy got a message and had to rush back early to his bf. I gave the Grindr guy the benefit of the doubt and messaged him last night inviting him to get in touch to reschedule- and I’m glad I did. This evening we got together and I was able to fuck his beautiful young black ass. He begged me to cum inside and I was pleased to oblige. It was worth the wait.

Flew into Hawaii and turned on Grindr just after getting into my room at 8.30. Lined up my first hookup by 9.30am and had him in my room naked by 10.30am. While I made it clear I’d take him raw he asked for a condom. I carry a few for such hookups, though I don’t bring them out, and they are large to accommodate the thick base to my cock. Far too big for this young Asian guy who had a beautiful cock of decent length but quite thin. Still he wore the rubber and pumped my ass valiantly then took it off and came on his chest (to my disappointment as he’d said he’d come in my mouth). To make it up a bit I licked the cum off his smooth chest.

Local Cruise club - saunas, especially when travelling - Grindr - BBRTS - orgies - outdoor cruising: probably in that order at present. I’d like to do more cruising at gay beaches but get limited opportunity.

Had an accident on my bike and haven’t been cruising for two months but my ankle is now pretty good. So last night went to my local cruise club to see what action I could get. Unfortunately quite quiet for a Saturday night. Started with a few gloryhole sessions both sucking and being sucked. One guy with a beautiful long, hard and thick uncut cock kept coming back for long sessions which was nice, if tiring, but unfortunately he’d neither fuck me (merely whispering in my ear, ‘you’d like that, wouldn’t you boy?) nor near to coming in my mouth. I moved on to cruising in the dark rooms and corridors for guys looking to fuck an found a near-naked Chinese guy in a room face down so I slipped in, stripped off, lubed up and got on top. I fucked him bareback for some time on top, then moved him to stand by the bed bent over for my doggy please and pounded away some more. When I opened the door of the room I was met by a couple of guys who’d been standing listing to the quiet moaning of the Asian guy, the thudding of our bodies and the slapping of my balls. One guy followed me to the bathroom where I washed off my cock and begged me also to fuck him so I took him to a room decorated as a kind of mechanic’s workroom and bent him over a 44 gallon drum and lubed up. He offered me a condom but I told him no thanks and, at his request slapped his ass and moved to get started. At this point he reached around and started unrolling a rubber onto the head of my cock. I stopped, got dressed and stepped back in the corridor, bare only for me. After more group sucking action, I caught up again with the Chinese guy in a dark room this time- couldn’t see him particularly but could recognise by touch and was soon fucking him standing up. After a while I moved him to side of room so he could lean on the wall. Several other guys came and went reaching under to cup my balls or finger my ass. He was using poppers and after a long time I had a sniff to hasten the session end. I was disappointed that as I came I wasn’t able to come inside him as he swung his ass away at the last second but a guy standing by and groping me saw his chance and pulled my cock into his mouth to take the load. Although I was disappointed not to take any loads myself this at least provided a nice end to the session and has got me back in the saddle after 2 months.

I find it interesting to see how many guys report they’re shown their face in videos and not regretted it - that’s encouraging. But I see a couple of guys have done so with regrets. It would be helpful if guys could share their experiences e.g. what reactions have they encountered favourable or unfavourable, what are the main worries or positive rewards?

It looks from the replies so far that a lot of guys have changed behaviour after going on PrEP- barebacking when they weren’t before - not surprising I guess, but interesting.

Eros wired makes a good point about uncertainty, unless you check what’s on the other guy’s phone or you controlled the filming you won’t know if your face is shown. I’ve seen some videos where an attempt is made to pixelate the face but it’s often a bit hit and miss. On the other hand, while it might be a bit scary to have an identifiable video out there it must be some kind of thrill to find thousands of guys had jerked off watching you!

Making sex videos can be scary or hot. Ever done it? To improve on an earlier poll I’ve tried to list all the options though I bet some guys have done extreme things I somehow hadn’t thought of ... For me, I have been filmed once (no face), don’t know what the guy did with it - he let me check it before he left to ensure I couldn’t be recognised and said he just kept it for himself, but I fantasise about doing it again but better next time and maybe seeing it online. What’s your experience?

Sorry about the survey design, it should have been multiple choice, it was my first try at doing a poll and I actually thought I had set it up that way. I know better now and will do better next time! I’m wondering how people manage to get the good camera shots - a selfie-stick maybe? I expect that concentrating on fucking would throw out my cinematic technique... I’ve even found taking still pictures quite tricky. A few tips appreciated!

Like many gay guys who started their sexual life in the mid-1980s I’ve used condoms for much of my life. I became less consistent in using condoms in the last 7 or 8 years but until I started on PrEP about 3 years ago my starting point with sex was usually to use a rubber unless the mood or the other guy pulled me in the other direction. I didn’t plan to change my behaviour when going on PrEP- I just saw it as protecting me from my erratic use of condoms and the increasing risk of being stealthed in gloryholes etc. I told the doctor who prescribed PrEP as much and I wasn’t trying to deceive him, I was deluding myself. Once on PrEP I’ve gone 100% bareback - and it wasn’t gradual but virtually overnight. This wasn’t the plan and despite a few STIs I’ve no regrets. I’ve surprised myself so much by the change that I wondered whether the experience of other guys has been.

A while back I was surprised to find that a Grindr hookup who was fucking me doggy-style had grabbed his phone and was videoing his cock plunging in and out of my ass. He didn’t ask or tell me but after a brief shock I felt incredibly hot and a bit flattered. He promised not to photo or film my face and let me check his phone and delete anything. I entered the spirit and helped hold the phone to get some shots and also when we flipped and I fucked him. Since then I’ve fantasied about doing it again but so far have only taken a few still pictures and had another guy take a photo fucking me. Although I’ve seen lots of these videos online I wondered how common this actually was so hope guys will complete the poll.

I’ve found BBRT and Grindr equally useful. More guys on Grindr but you can spend a lot of time there waiting or chatting, BBRT more likely to get down to business. But I’ve had flakes on both but mainly on Grindr. Less time wasted with guys who seem only to be intent on collecting pictures with BBRT as you can post explicit photos in advance. The other thing is if you do a lot of hookups while travelling that Grindr is a bit more universal so I want both available.

Elbow grease.

I recently had an accident on my cycle and it was immediately clear that I wasn’t going to be active for a while with my severe ankle sprain - I had to immediately cancel a two week holiday in Japan which was due to start 4 days later (dammit I was really looking forward to some hot sessions at the famous Tokyo 24 Kaikan - hoping more Japanese guys and taken up barebacking since I was there 2 years ago). I,ve been on daily PrEP for a couple of years now initially having bought it online on prescription but for the last 18 months on a medical research trial due to run for another 6 months (during which the Truvada is free). As I was on a sponsored trial that requires me to take a dose every day I have continued to do so even though it was obvious I wasn’t going to be fucking around at my local cruise club as I usually would every week. It got me to thinking though - this was a case where I knew I’d be having no sex for at least 5 weeks - in such a case I guess it would be safe to stop taking the pills for 4 weeks and then restart for at least a week to get the medication back in the system before hooking up. Is that what other guys on PrEP would do if they ‘knew’ there was no chance of sex for a month?

I’ve found lots of action in Bangkok, Singapore, Macau, Hong Kong and Taipei. Totally unscientific- and may just be impressions formed from luck on recent visits - but I have the impression that guys in Singapore and Taipei are keen to bareback.

I usually strip off in hotel rooms as soon as I arrive. Don’t get many opportunities for going nude but always on the lookout for nude beaches on my travels: enjoyed nude sunbathing a few times in Portugal (beach 17 I think it was called), Italy and New Caledonia and - most times also scoring some sex in the dunes or forest as a bonus. Also enjoyed the clothing optional accomodations at Fort Lauderdale and Palm Springs (sex included of course!) My only true entirely non-sexual and genuine naturist experience was a week at a gay Hawaiian banana plantation nudist retreat on the big Island. I was alone on the huge plantation as it was low season and staying in a yurt. Great experience, beautiful setting, nice hosts, I really enjoyed it. Only wore clothes if I took my car out for the day for a visit. By the end of my stay it seemed more unnatural to wear clothes ...

The turning point for me was a really sexy hookup while I was in Singapore on business. The guy fucking me reluctantly used the condoms I had with me. Each time we paused he’d take it off as I sucked him and then he’d start fucking me raw and after a few minutes I’d cajole him to put a new condom on. This went on a few times for half an hour time he came and then left. The opportunity came up to hookup again a few days later but he responded that he wasn’t able to as he had to get up early the next day. I had already reflected on his reluctance to use a rubber and what a nice guy (and great fuck) he was and was planning to surprise himself by inviting to plow me raw and so was hugely disappointed he said he wasn’t available. I told him so and that I was going to let him bareback - he told me that actually he didn’t want to use a condom and came over to my hotel after all after midnight. Great session! It wasn’t my first raw fuck but it was my first time I had positively decided to go bare and as soon as I got home I researched PrEP and got a prescription and bought a supply online. Never looked back and fuck bare only now.

So many favourites! 24 Kaikan, Shinjuku; Bangkok Babylon; Kaiserbrundl, Vienna; 357 Sydney city steam; would be four of my faves.

I hooked up on Grindr with a guy at Lima’s Jorge Chávez International Airport once. He turned out to be gate staff and the flight he was responsible for wasn’t departing for an hour, shortly after my own. He knew the place to go and had obviously done this before! With a few false starts as he dealt with passenger queries at the gate we slipped off to a disabled toilet. I had to keep quiet as I fucked him as there were members of the public coming by occasionally- luckily no one in a wheelchair was waiting outside!

Since I went on PrEP I’ve become a little more self conscious when asked what medications I’m on. It’s not all that frequent but happened several times recently. I guess I’m conscious both that Truvada is used not just for PrEP but for HIV treatment (and PEP) and also PrEP itself isn’t so well known. Just giving the name of the drug may not suffice as it might be assumed that I’m on treatment for an infection which may mislead a treatment provider. I was asked by a dentist recently and felt compelled to give a little explanation about PrEP in the presence of her assistant. No problems and all very pleasant and professional but not quite expected by them or me. I could imagine some closeted guys simply not revealing the medication but I’m always straight up with healthcare providers. More interestingly perhaps I had an accident on my bike last night. I was helped to the side of the busy road and laid out on the pavement before the ambulance arrived. A group of about 5 very kind strangers stayed with me while waiting first for my partner to come and later the ambulance. Amongst the strangers was fortuitously a doctor and, though I didn’t realise it at the time, also a guy on his way home from the emergency department of the hospital I was shortly to head to! (Also present the guy I’d collided with and a young woman who wanted to share her bottle of water - I almost cried at the kindness of strangers!) Anyway, the health professionals asked me about medications and once ago I needed to explain about Truvada, this time also in the presence of members of the public. I was asked again three times when at the hospital- this time the doctor mishearing PEP for PrEP requiring clarification. Anyway, these cases slightly reminded me of earlier time years ago when coming out or mentioning that your partner was the same sex or the notion or fear of risk of HIV arose in the context of healthcare. However the comparison with the past was only fleeting and I was pleased at how those old stigmas have disappeared in my country. While PrEP itself may be unfamiliar in the general community I felt no embarrassment on my part or these various professionals or bystanders at these revelations either of the medication or the gay partner. i hope other people’s experiences have been as positive.

In my country the government pays for PrEP on the public health system. Guys get a prescription if they’re at high risk of hiv and it costs $5 for a 3 month supply. To get a repeat prescription you get tested (free) for STIs every 3 months. So it is quite affordable for young guys fucking around raw to afford PrEP. Parents won’t be told anything of course as to do so would breach medical confidentiality and privacy laws.

For me it was long and gradual then a sudden switch. I was scrupulously safe for years - from the very first time I fucked a guy about 30 years ago in the mid1980s. Most of the guys at saunas I’d hookup with were the same. But in the last 5 or 10 years I found that guys in cruise clubs weren’t quite so well behaved- especially in glory holes when I found condoms being slipped off me when I topped and being removed when I bottomed. I was a good boy and would replace them but the pattern would repeat or guys would leave. So I increasingly I’d go along with it and if I fucked safe 4 or 5 times in an evening at a cruise club I’d willingly fuck raw once or twice. I started using apps only about 5 years ago and the same pattern emerged. It came to a head with a guy I’d hooked up on Grindr in Singapore. We had a great session at my hotel and he’d fucked me several times, sometimes with the condoms I’d brought, sometimes when he complained he didn’t want to use them, without. I thought about what he wanted and how great the sex was and tried to hook up again two nights later planning to tell him he could take me fully bareback. Initially he said he wasn’t available and I messaged to say that was a #hame as I was looking forward to raw sex. He. Then replied he was available but only do B.B. it was after midnight but he. Came over and bred me properly. I decided then and there to find out about going onto PrEP and go fully bareback. Still safe as I’m on PrEP but more realistic as most guys now B.B. It’s not a decision I’ve regretted! I’m now on BBRTS and seek out raw encounters and have refused on several occasions to use a condom on offer.

Last Sunday afternoon at a naked afternoon session at my local cruise club. In the dark, smooth bubble butt during breaks in a fuck session.

Escorts who lurk on hookup apps and don’t disclose their status. I’ve been caught out several times and this has made me more wary than I’d like to be. Some reveal themselves after a hookup is set up, which is irritating but retrievable. However, I’ve had guys turn up on several occasions and demand money once they’ in the room, sometimes after sex. This can be more than embarrassing but downright dangerous.

Naked session at local cruise club Sunday afternoon is all naked at my local cruise club as I learned to my delight when I turned up in frustration when a scheduled BBRTS cumdump orgy failed to eventuate. I stripped down and headed into the dark passageways and before long found a smooth young guy in complete darkness in a back room. Completely hairless, smooth, small body, protruding nipples and a bubble butt - I discovered all this by touch and couldn’t believe my luck; exactly my type! I inched my cock in, a tight fit, stopping occasionally to pull out and rim his perfect ass. While I was pounding away various guys came by and some cupped my ass, caressed my chest, but one older hairy guy caught my attention with his hard thick cock. I steered him with my hand in the dark to bring his cock to my hole. He tok the hint and started to shove it in which was a little painful as my first of the day. I added a bit of lube and he began again and was soon humping away while I kept the other guy entertained with my fingers and tongue. Before long I took the older guy’s load and I again began fucking the young guy. Meanwhile the cum was drippping down my leg and continued to do so during the afternoon as I kept it in as long as I could. Later in the session I fucked several more guys, including one who insisted on lighting up some drugs while I was plowing him. All sessions raw of course.