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Frustrated as I was to have been flown to Tokyo to speak at a symposium that got cancelled a few days before I was due to go. I was looking forward to several visits to‘24 Kaikan’ sauna in Shinjuku, which is one of the sexiest bathhouses I know with a lot of dormitory group sex, and was also already arranging BBRT hookups. A fear of coronavirus was the reason for the cancellation.
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anon hookups: do you worry about getting filmed?
BB4fking replied to BadInBrooklyn's topic in General Discussion
I’ve been surprised a couple of times to find guys filming me while they fucked me. First time I helped the guy get some better angles and checked his phone afterwards to ensure my face wasn’t shown. Another time i was being fucked in a bush in a park a few metres from a public path and I was surprised the guy was able to operate the camera one handed or had the presence of mind to whip his phone out in a spontaneous and risky set up. The one time I’ve done an anonymous hotel hookup I was blindfolded but asked in advance when making the hookup if I could film and was firmly told no, I had planned to set up my iPad on a shelf before he arrived but I didn’t do it since he said no. I presume he didn’t film me but I wouldn’t have minded if he had. I wondered later whether I should just have just not asked after all I was vulnerable with the room unlocked, me naked with ass in the air, blindfolded, all at the guy’s request. Having asked I felt ethically bound to respect his veto, but if I didn’t ask the ethical position would have been a bit more ambiguous. -
What makes you go bareback?
BB4fking replied to WildBreed's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I started barebacking occasionally because guys I wanted to fuck me asked to go raw and sometimes because actually while fucking guys would slip the condom off and I was too far gone to actually want to stop. However my actual decision to bareback full time was prompted by a hot guy who I’d hooked up with refusing to meet a second time unless I agreed to go raw. Once I’d made that deliberate decision- rather than the spontaneous horny heat of the moment ones - there was no going back. -
I fucked 34 times in January but only took 5 loads up my ass and deposited 1 load in another guy’s ass. Must do better in February.
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A lot of downtown saunas have closed these days, but back when there was one 6 or 7 minutes walk from my downtown office I used to take a long lunch hour and go to the sauna. Sex was a good stress reliever so I probably was a better worker as a result.
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Can’t say that the gyrating bottoms have caused me much grief, but I seem to have been doing a lot of fucking in recent years standing up and since I seem to be a little shorter than many of the guys I’m fucking it’s often me rather than the bottom that is in muscle straining positions - literally on tip toes almost! So I’ve found it frustrating when despite my efforts to bend them over they keep rising up and I lose my rhythm or my cock slips out. I’ve given up a number of times when the bottom has done this 2 or 3 times on me.
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I was reminded of the first time I ever fucked by another thread on this forum and that involved slipping away from work. I was working in a law firm but completing some requirements at university before being fully qualified as a lawyer. Some evenings after work I’d cruise public toilets and one time I was passed a note under the stall saying ‘meet outside’, I did, and the guy gave me a phone number to ring if I wanted to meet and fuck. A week or so later I was at work and gave the excuse that I had to meet my university supervisor and instead went to this guy’s place. As my first time I was very nervous and it didn’t help that the guy had a woman there, a work colleague I think, who we had to wait to leave without really explaining why I was there. He laid out a rubber sheet on the carpet (yes, really!) and I fucked him. In an attempt to be polite he said it was fine but I know I came really fast. He was surprised I used a condom and would have preferred bare which was a bit surprising for 1986. A man ahead of his time or, regretfully, probably a man running out of time. Then back to work, or a quick dash to my dissertation supervisor, that bit I don’t remember.
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Funny I have a clear recollection of first guy I fucked (he passed a note under a toilet stall wall and we met up a few days later) and first guy I fisted (hardly surprising it was only 6 months ago LOL). But I’m a bit hazy on who first fucked me. I remember several cases where guys tried but didn’t fuck me. When I was cruising in evening while I was on a university summer job down country and a guy rubbed his cock on my ass and asked and I coyly said I didn’t do that (In my regret went hunting for him a week later and never found him). I remover asking a near-boyfriend of a few months while we were in bed one afternoon to fuck me and he refused (he was a schoolteacher in a girls school, with a GF, then a real closet case while I’d been out for a month or two!). I remember a hookup in San Francisco in the mid1980s, a few weeks after asking that other guy to fuck me, dropping me at my hotel and attempting to fuck me unsuccessfully due to my tight ass and inability to relax for him. i think my first time was a few months after that SF episode with my now partner of 30 or so years whom I met In London. Despite his long and very thick cock he managed to ‘deflower’ me by patience, gentleness, guidance and persistence, definitely persistence. I’m not 100% sure but think it may have been in a small tent on a trip to Brighton as while I remember sucking sessions in his car, no fucks. Later we got a tiny basement flat.
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Do You Wish You Had Started Barebacking Sooner?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I’m pretty happy to have taken the decision to bareback “full time” in December 2015, 4 years ago. I can be precise because I recall an ultimatum from a cute Chinese guy I’d hooked up on Grindr on a business trip to Macau refusing to come to my hotel a second time unless I barebacked. On his first visit we fucked with a condom for a while, he’d take it off and keep fucking me which I liked but I’d then put a new condom on him and restart. I had reflected on it after he left and decided as my ‘gift’ to him to let him bareback the next time. However, when I connected on Grindr on my last night in Macau he said he wasn’t available. I replied that I was disappointed as I wanted to surprise him by barebacking. Suddenly he was available and mentioned he simply wasn’t going to come over and use condoms. We had a great session that night and I decided to get on PrEP which I did on my return home. The timing was good for me. I didn’t start anal sex till after AIDS was known about so I used condoms from the get go, I didn’t miss what i’d not tried. I did have a great bareback night on a trip to Sydney with a guy I met in a sauna in the 1990s but otherwise didn’t ‘lapse’ from condom use until about the last 5 or 6 years. However, these lapses caused some worry which detracted from the enjoyment. However, the availability of PrEP changed all that. So I’ve now been on PrEP for 4 years and having plenty of raw sex. The time was right for me. -
Slow start to the year but I took two loads yesterday, and one the day before, taking me to 4 loads taken and 1 load deposited for January out of 13 fucks.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Hit the cruise club last night. Went straight into a cubical which I usually do to let my eyes adjust to the dim light and to warm up with some glory hole sucking before heading into the maze, rooms and dark room for cruising and fucking. Started sucking a guy with a big cock, really thick. I could tell by some subtle thrusts he made after a while that he was up for some fucking (funny how attuned we become to body language when we’re horny). I had been fucked a couple of hours earlier by an Indian guy on a Grindr hookup with a smallish cock so was partly loosened up but it was still a stretch. he fucked me for quite a while with me letting out small groans of pain with most thrusts. My bent legs were almost giving out with the awkward angle so I manoeuvred him cock to a higher gloryhole and continue until he came. I topped another guy later but things were pretty quiet so I went home. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Grindr hookup with a top who messaged that he’d run out of condoms so we’d not be able to fuck but only cuddle. Fucking was my bottom line (so to speak) so I supplied him with s condom. LOL he didn’t use it but bred me raw anyway. -
On a Grindr hookup this afternoon the top messaged to say he’d run out of condoms and so we’d not be able to fuck. I wasn’t having that so I said I have some but we didn’t need them as I’m on PrEP. After a non-commital answer I rummaged around to find a condom and set out. I handed the condom over on arrival, said again he needn’t use it, and he put it next to the bed. After the preliminaries he entered me raw and fucked me bareback, no attempt to use the condom. Not sure what the deal was but it’s very rare these days that anyone asks me for a condom.
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Sydney’s sauna 357 has a fairly good dark room which has two entrances, but one is down a dim passageway and the other through another smaller dark room. To keep dark rooms dark they need a semi dark entranceway like this or else they’d light up every time someone entered. The other nice feature of the 357 darkroom is a huge circular ‘bed’ as the centrepiece. Lots of guys would sit on the edge to suck passing cocks or bend over hoping to be fucked.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Felt like a drought has lifted as I hadn’t fucked for two weeks. My partner left at 1pm to go to a folk festival for the weekend and I was online with a fuckbuddy as he drove out the gate. The good news was he was available within the next hour, the unexpected news was that he couldn’t host, as he did two weeks before. So I arranged to pick him up and bring him home to fuck in my bed, the first time I’d done that with a hookup. I was slightly apprehensive as my partner was only 40 miles away and had hinted he might come home over the weekend sometime. Had a good bareback session though he was very young and had ‘rules’ like fucking only (no kissing, sucking, rimming), he’d top only, and he had only one position, doggy. Hell, I didn’t care so long as I got his black (Indian) cock up my ass and took his load (though if he was a little less rigid he could learn a lot of new techniques from me and he’d enjoy them all...maybe he’ll relax his rules next time or the time after that). Took a huge load, really huge. I dropped him back at the railway station and when I got back home swatted down to see how much cum I’d taken - one huge pool. Three hours later another loads worth dripped out my ass, I could hardly believe it for such a small guy. -
Like the other replies, I have an app on my phone, a pill dispenser and take it same time each day to get in a rhythm (first thing in the morning with pill dispenser next to bed). I use a 2 week dispenser which I can’t overlook but have a smaller one week version for trips away. The only additional thing is that I have a small metal capsule with a single pill in it attached in the jackets I wear in case I’m out and have forgotten to take my pill, I have needed that once or twice over 4 years of taking PrEP. I should confess that I use another technique that isn’t always available. My partner brings me a glass of juice each morning at the same time to take my PrEP and fills up my pill dispenser and reminds me to pack my PrEP if I’m going off travelling.
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Less obvious details in porn that turns guys on
BB4fking replied to spannergrip's topic in General Discussion
Guys smiling or laughing as they fuck. -
I remember a place in Montreal that had a dim basement room, and then another room with a low ceiling leading off that with no light except what was reflected in, and there was a heap of guys fucking raw during the times when condoms were the norm (as they were upstairs). I returned to Montreal a year later and walked the streets trying to find it again but couldn’t. I look forward to reading answers to your query as I’m also frustrated by the tendency to have well lit darkrooms, something of an oxymoron.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Enjoyed fucking a guy through a glory hole last night. He started by giving reasonably good head and then made a fairly seamless transition to his ass but I recognised the tight and velvety sensation and started pumping through the hole. Eventually he got the benefit of my load which had built up over 3 fucks that evening. -
Bottoms How Much Do You Clean Yourself Out?
BB4fking replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Been bottoming for years but having read the experiences on this thread I decided 3 weeks ago to try Metamucil for first time. Very pleased with the results from the first day onward - it’s transformed cleaning out for a hookup into a quick and simple process. -
Taken my first load on the 3rd day of the New Year. Looking to take more than the 53 loads of 2019 by end of 2020.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I was just about to head out the door and do a cycle ride downtown and visit the art museum when I checked Grindr and saw a promising message. With little of the fuss normally flowing fro Grindr exchanges I was set up to call in on my cycle ride with a sexy dark young Indian twink. Arrived at his apartment 25 minutes later and he had just emerged from the shower. Pretty young thing and I was about to ask if I could take some pictures of our session and he got in first and asked to video things. Oh yeah. Turned out he was pretty good at the videoing- and the fucking. Best of all with an apartment of his own he was a agreeable to adding me to his stable of fuck buddies so I can look forward to more fucking without bothering about the Grindr preliminaries that waste so much time and often end up nowhere. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I got home from the cruise club about 1 am in the morning but decided to return the next afternoon, earlier today. They have a naked Sunday afternoon session which attracts a lot of guys. As it was sunny I included the cruise club on my afternoon bike ride, saving the need to offer some explanation to my partner. A good turnout and got some good action, topping 4 times and bottoming five times. Took two loads, including one long standing fuck with a guy with a beautiful big cock with a big head. A lot of grunting as he built up to cum which was nice. I washed up my cock but kept the two loads inside me and cycled home. My partner immediately said I smelled of shit, so much for discretion as I headed off to shower. -
With two loads taken this afternoon I’ve reached: - 53 loads taken up my ass - 28 loads i’ve pumped up other guys’ assess - 6 loads squirted down throats. 2019 was the year I became a slut, probably 10 times the loads I’ve ever taken in previous years. I expect 2020 to be even sluttier.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Pretty quiet here in my local sexclub in the week after Xmas. So last night I chose to visit another cruise club, about 1 km apart, before going to my local. I hadn’t been to the other one for years and was surprised and initially disappointed to find it no longer included a 2nd floor. However, it had a sleazier dark vibe with an older fetish clientele and the new compact layout turned out to be well designed and better packing in spaces for all manner of fetishes: private rooms, video lounge, slings, bathtub, dark room, etc. the problem remained that there was only three guys. Two were getting it on in a slow rhythm on the sling - the top somehow also sitting on a stool as he fucked - and they were still at it 30 minutes later when I left, grabbing a pass out and saying I’d be back. I left for my regular cruise club which, though relatively quiet, probably still had 20 guys. I ended up cumming in a smooth Chinese guy’s ass and settled down to watch a regular movie while I recovered. Not much action later so I headed back to the first club at about midnight. A different 3 guys there and I settled in the dark room where I was joined by an older skinny guy in jeans. I rubbed his crotch and was excited to feel a Prince Albert. More groping and it was clear he had metal studs all up his cock, which was new for me but pretty hot. He brought his cock out as did I. He was clearly turned on by my cock which was bigger than his and rock hard as I’d slipped on a cock ring. But I was fascinated by his metallic tool and did all I could to encourage him to fuck me - presenting my ass, rubbing lube in my hole in front of him. Sticking my finger in - but it was clear he just wanted to have a hand job. I was happy to oblige and glad to see him cum as the last action in a quiet night of cruising.
