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Earlier this evening I attended a small gathering organised by our local foundation devoted to HIV/AIDS prevention work. It was an informal discussion forum about PrEP and they held it in a lounge at a local gay bathhouse, an inspired choice I thought. There were only 6 or 7 guys in the discussion at any one time though people came and went during the couple of hours it was on. In addition there were 4 foundation staff or volunteers all of course naked but for the towels around there waists. Many cute young guys amongst the staff and participants as well as older guys, quite a diversity of ethnic groups too. One of the staff was HIV+ but everyone else was either on PrEP or wanting to learn about it. The session was quite fun with refreshments and quizzes and prizes. One hilarious incident was when an older Chinese guy got a quiz question asking ‘can you get HIV from rimming?’ He didn’t know what rimming was, didn’t understand the explanations offered and rushed out to his locker to get a translation on his phone only to announce that there was no equivalent Chinese word. Eventually a staff member from the bathhouse brought in a short video on an iPad to explain the concept. I won’t recount the rest of the session but was interested to hear a young foundation worker explain that being on PrEP was helpful in negotiations over sex as to whether to use condoms or not. This sounded good in theory but in my experience, in contrast to 5 years ago when condom use was the norm, there is very little negotiation with barebacking the default and little talk of condoms, with few people in my experience asking about HIV or PrEP status before fucking raw. Indeed that was why I went onto PrEP 4 years ago, to protect myself in this new normal. I slipped out of the session after 40 minutes to cruise the sauna and as if to prove my point to myself I came across and open door to a room with a slim and dark young guy positioned with his cute ass inviting strangers to fuck him which I did. No suggestion of condoms, no questioning of status, indeed no talking though quite a number of moans and grunts. Actually it was one of the best fucks I’d had in a long time as he had the cutest bubble but and a great asshole that seemed to envelope and squeeze my cock. Needless to say I deposited my load in him before quietly returning for the last few minutes of the gathering.

Visiting Texas I stopped by Club Houston a few times. On my first visit I had just arrived and stepped out of the shower when a good looking black guy grabbed my ass. Great start to the evening I thought and after checking out each other’s cocks - both big and hard, his dark and cut, mine lily white and uncut - we went to my room. I sucked him expertly and for a long time, every time I’d try to pause for a breather by sucking his nipples or whatever he’d soon be forcing my head down again on his cock. And he liked me to deep throat him, none of the lighter flicking my mouth and tongue around the head of his cock it had to be deep mouth fucking. Enjoyed sucking his fat black cock with its black/purple head, I rarely get access to suck cocks where I live where it’s mainly white and Asian fare. Eventually he came and I was disappointed he didn’t cum in my mouth but rather spurted onto his belly, though I got a quick taste. He told me he’d come to Texas from Ethiopia and let me photograph his cock somewhat deflated after he’d come.

I’ve been using Elbow Grease, an oil-based cream that comes in a tub, for the last year or two. The advantage I find with that is that after I add it to my asshole it seems to last for hours without reapplication and still be slick enough to take a cock where the top hasn’t added some lube - which can be reassuring in places where things are dark, moving fast, involving multiple cocks, etc. I like to discretely add a bit more lube occasionally- not essential but reassuring in case that hoped for huge cock emerges into range - so I transfer a small amount into a tiny screw top pot I keep in my sock in cruise clubs - which I also use if I top.

143. Missed out on my first DP a couple of months back when a guy in a threesome inconveniently came prematurely, so still have that and a few other things on my bucket list yet to boost my score. No dogs and horses though.

Marshall’s Beach

Visited Club Houston 3 times on a visit to that city last week. Fucked many guys. On my last visit I started fucking a stocky Latino guy standing in an elevated area designed for sticking your cock to be sucked by guys below (suckitorium?), I’d already discovered some great suckers there. While fucking the guy for about 10 minutes there were several guys standing around watching and one in particular started playing with my nipples and I reciprocated by tweaking his. I wandered to my room and catching the Latino guy’s eye he followed me, and we recommenced and I fucked for another 10 minutes, with a few minutes where he allowed me to take a few photos and videos of the fuck (unfortunately the light wasn’t very good though it added a bit of that atmospheric bathhouse feel). I could probably have continued fucking him indefinitely as my cock was hard, he could take it, and he just wasn’t quite exciting me enough to tip me over the edge. Luckily I spotted he was holding some poppers and a few sniffs later he got my load inside him.

Visiting Houston, so tried Club Houston last night and found that it was half price room night which may explain the full car park, a good sign. It’s a large club with a fabulous outdoor pool and jacuzzi. The cruising space is mainly corridors of rooms with a surprisingly small dark/maze area given the floor area. Steam room not available, still being constructed apparently. I had a video room but the picture quality was fairly dire. Free wifi. Overall a good quality bathhouse and the patrons seemed pretty friendly. Enough of the reviews already, what of the action? I’m versatile but this night I’d decided only to top so my expectations of action were lowered by 50%. However, I did pretty well fucking 6 guys and breeding two of them. Some of theses were in the glory holes and two in other guys’ rooms including a lithe daddy who I saw perched with his door open and as in the air for the 4 hours I was there so I’m sure my cum mixed with that of a number of other guys. The highlight for me was after I’d been in the club for over 3 hours and so I’d donned a metal cock ring lest I be soft at an inopportune time. I started out in a gloryhole booth and had been fucking a guy for a little while. Although I couldn’t see anything I had gauged him to be a fairly short and small guy based on where I had to position my cock and his small hands when he once reached through. He left his booth after a while and I followed shortly after and while I hadn’t seen him I sensed the short guy heading up the stairs to the sucking platform might have been him. I positioned myself behind him and was pleased when he reached behind him to grab my cock and manoeuvre it into his hole. I was soon fucking him again - I could tell it was the same guy by the texture of his ass, which was great. After 10 minutes of that I invited him back to my room. After fucking him some more I took the metal cock ring off (with some difficulty!) so I could thrust more deeply. Not unexpectedly, as it’s happened before, I heard a gasp, a squeal and a cry of ‘its so big’ when I recommenced thrusting as my cock is much thicker at its base. But the small Asian guy gritted his teeth and took it. After a while we stopped the standing doggy position and he lay on his face flat on the bed and I fucked him laying on top, which is my favourite position for finishing off and soon I had planted my seed deep in his ass.

I use a pill box with days of the week marked but also use an app that gives me a daily reminder (Medicare) which you tap when you’ve taken the daily pill. Together it’s a handy combination and I don’t think I’ve missed a dose or taken a double dose over the 4 years I’ve been on PrEP.

I went to NUD @ Club 80 on Friday for the first time on Friday and had a great time. I topped 16 times and bottomed 6 times - I would have preferred to bottom more but couldn’t find enough willing tops. Unfortunately I only took the one load. However I went back last night - not as much fucking but I did managed to score two loads this time. Tonight I might try Subway for a change.

Hopefully it does happen in reverse as it may give some of those craft beer enthusiasts a heart attack to read what breeding zone types are up to. 🍺

Flat on my front with the top flat on top of me really deep inside me (and sometimes squeezing the air out of me though I don’t really like that aspect). But I only go for this position last thing - like desert - after the others as it’s the one I like to be finished off in; while I don’t always cum while being fucked I almost always do in this position.

Wall to wall barebacking last night. I arrived yesterday evening in Melbourne Australia for a weekend break and after I checked into my hotel, and douched, I took a short tram ride to Club 80, the local cruise club. Although over the years I’d been to the city’s saunas this was my first visit to this cruise club. I was particularly looking forward as it was the nude night in their basement. It turned out to be quite busy although I don’t know if that was because of nude night, that it was a Friday, or perhaps because it was a public holiday and a lot of guys were in town for the AFL (football) grand final the next day. After paying upstairs (there is cruising on two other floors), and checking-in my clothes in a cloth bag, I headed naked into the dark basement, just wearing shoes. There were dozens and dozens of naked guys and with comings and goings in the couple of hours I was there, certainly over a hundred. The basement was lit in various areas and guys were making out in some of those areas but most action was in the darker areas including two sling rooms and a large dark corner area, which seemed to be partly curtained off and semi-enclosed with oil drums; anyway it was pretty dark. I headed into the corner and squeezed past several naked bodies and was soon being fucked. I started fucking guys and others would pull me over to fuck them. Occasionally I was fucking a guy and someone would start playing with my hole and I’d pull out to get them to fuck me. Sometimes I’d finish fucking one hole and another had lined itself up virtually without my needing to move at all. All of this was bareback of course. I took. Load from a short Chinese guy with a relatively small cock who had an unusual technique involving fucking for a couple of minutes, then pulling out and fingering me for 30 seconds or so, then starting again. He did this about 4 times but finally there was no mistaking his build up to a climax with his excited thrusting, moaning, and then I took my first and alas only load of the evening. This from topping about bottoming about 6 or 7 times. At one stage I began to flag from the endless demands for me to fuck guys (I’d have preferred to have had a greater proportion fuck me which would recharge my batteries so to speak). However, I asked the guy I was struggling to enter to suck me and he turned out to have good technique and I became rock hard again. He kindly repeated this by sucking my cock fresh from his ass again every few minutes. My final fuck of the evening started when I was able to coax a guy with a very large cock to enter my hole. That was great and it was good to feel a bit of stretch and pain. However, it didn’t continue for more than 3 or 4 minutes and it became clear that he was angling for me to fuck him. It was good and I enjoyed reaching down and feeling his large and hard balls. I decided not to hold back and put myself in a mental state to release my cum and eventually I deposited my load in him. That was the 16th topping of a successful cruising session.

Last December I was at an orgy and spent most of the evening flip fucking with a young guy I realised later was profoundly hard of hearing. I didn’t notice at the time as it was pretty noisy, as there were more that 60 guys in a fairly confined space, and I’m deaf in one ear and so don’t expect to hear everything anyway and I didn’t realise the slight difficulty I had understanding him might be related to deafness as there were other reasons that might have applied (it was in another country, Australia, so he may have an accent, and he was Asian as well). I had taken my glasses off for the orgy, all our clothes were in plastic bags, so I didn’t notice till later that his head was shaved for a hearing aid - he also had taken that off for the orgy, only putting it back on when he drove me to my hotel (where he came to my room and I was able to breed him and return the favour when he bred me at the orgy). To be honest I don’t know for sure how he communicated as from his perspective I have an accent and also I mumble (partly down to my own partial deafness) but I think for the most part words weren’t really needed, and I think there was a lot of repeating stuff and smiling. Sweet guy.

The overwhelming vibe at Lab was bareback but, yes, you couldn’t miss the condom usage too. However, having read your message I’m disappointed that I didn’t try out The Bull, Scheune, Mutschmanns, as I had assumed Lab would be the busiest, sluttiest, rawest ...

Level 2 for 20 years, level 6 for last 5 years.

On my way to a BBRTS hookup this week I got a tex saying a friend had turned up and did I mind a threesome. I texted back saying OK and would they be willing to try DP. Got a positive reply which gave me a hardon already. The threesome went well, lots of sucking, rimming and fucking. But disaster struck in the form of the host cumming. Turned out he was one of those guys that looses interest after he’s come - and he actually got up and went for a shower while me and the other guy were still fucking! So no DP. We chatted about it afterwards and we Agreed that you’d need both cocks to be really hard so it wasn’t going to happen now (the other guy had dumped his load in me by then). Suggested that having different sized cocks would help - don’t know if that’s true but in any case the host had a big uncut cock and his friend had a long but thinner cut cock so we were well set up. I don’t always enjoy threesomes as the sex is sometimes a bit uneven but this time was great except that I missed my chance to try something new, not sure when I’ll get the chance again to have two cocks up my ass together.

I test every 3 months regularly plus I get tested additionally after every major fuckfest, such as a holiday where I’m fucking multiple guys every day for a week. Obviously I also get tested if I had symptoms but I’ve often been unaware when STIs have been revealed through tests. I was pleasantly surprised recently when I returned from 10 days in Bangkok where I bottomed 52 times raw and took 19 loads and yet was STI free - hopefully that was partly because more guys are getting tested regularly and getting treated promptly if needed.

I find in dark rooms where I’m relying only on touch I instinctively hone in on the bigger cocks and do all I can to coax them into my hole and fuck me deep and hard. But I am an equal-opportunities fucker with a no-cock refused approach and I find I also enjoy shorter cocks with hardness being the key quality. I’ve taken beer can cocks and enjoyed them but what really pleases me there is knowing many guys can’t take such girth and so I’m ensuring the top gets his deserved relief - I’d hate to think of such great hunks of meat going home from a sauna unsatisfied. Although I’m not overly keen on tiny cocks, the 2 or 3 inchers, as I get no physical pleasure from the fuck I do let them fuck me and I’ve taken many loads that way and I enjoy the other guy’s pleasure and physical intimacy.

Haven’t done understall in a long time but did start out that way when I was at University in local public toilets first jerking off the later sucking. Ironically I only actually did it in campus toilets after I left university and was working nearby. Bit silly really in retrospect. I also remember once doing an understall in a campus shower where there were gaps at the foot of the dividers between showers. I didn’t need to shower, I’d simply dropped by in the hope of some action after I’d noticed some suspicious behaviour in the showers one day when I was cruising the toilet stalls.

The guys I fuck with know I bareback. It’d be hard for them not to notice.

Connected with a guy on BBRTS late last week and offered to find a time during the day this week to meet at his small apartment downtown. We’d been having intermittent storms and I was waiting for a dry day to cycle over. Today I decided was the day and I texted him to arrange the hookup. Actually I’d be riding over after I stopped in with my doctor to pick up my latest 3 month PrEP prescription- I’d had the necessary regular blood and urine tests and was clear for HIV, Gono and syphilis (which surprised me after the non-stop barebacking I’d been doing for two weeks in Bangkok) but had a nurse take a throat and anal swab for chamlydia while I was there. While waiting at the clinic I got a text from the guy to say that a friend had arrived from downcountry and did I mind him joining? I replied I’d happily have a threesome. I suggested that with three of us maybe we should make a movie. After a while he texted back to say no. I then suggested we try a double penetration which got a more enthusiastic reply “yeah hot we can try that”. i arrived in the apartment where the guy had just had a shower. His friend was out of sight in the bathroom having a shower. So we stripped off and he started sucking me hard. We moved onto the bed where I started sucking his large uncircumcised cock. It was pretty big and nice to suck. He had a hairy bear body. The other guy came out o& the shower and into the room and started sucking my cock. He was much thinner, with a tattoo in a ring around his arm and had a hairless body. He had quite a long cock and circumcised. After a lot of sucking, in various combinations, I spread my ass hoping to be first to be fucked. The thin guy started rimming me which appeared to be a prelude to fucking but actually he just kept rimming while the other guy started fucking him. After a while we switched and the bear started fucking me with his thick cock which was great. He used an unusual rhythm which involved him working up to give me periodic deep thrusts as hard as he could (nice). I cleaned up his cock with my mouth. The thin guy then fucked me before the bear went back to fucking his thin friend. Unfortunately at this point the bear came and while his cock seemed to remain hard he mumbled something and disappeared into the shower. With that went my hopes of being double penetration. I tried to fuck the thin guy at this stage but wasn’t quite hard enough to get into his really tight asshole. I’m pretty sure it was because of the poppers I’d unwisely sniffed as I’d been rock hard earlier. So the thin guy fucked me very vigorously first doggy and then face to face with my legs in the air. He came in me but I didn’t realise till later what a huge load he’d inserted. i really enjoyed the session despite the unusual premature departure of our host to the shower while the rest of us were still fucking. It’s a shame no movie record was made but it will stay vivid in my memory.

I’m pretty pleased with my holiday at Bangkok Babylon last month where I bottomed 52 times and took 19 loads (I also topped 18 times and deposited 4 loads in guys’ asses but that’s not much to brag abou).

Its great that this question was posed in 2012 - this forum is almost like a time capsule of evolving attitudes. Over the period since 2012 (and before) I travelled a lot on business around the world, fucking, and barebacking was certainly rare and contrary to norms both where I live and where I travelled in 2012. But I could sense things changing by about 2014. PrEP wasn’t the explanation as it wasn’t then available but I’d put it down to condom fatigue and a more mainstream recognition that HIV was now treatable. But barebacking still wasn’t the norm in my observation in 2014-15 just more common. However, by about 2015-16 attitudes seem to have been changing rapidly with barebacking common and less stigmatised than before. Since about 2017 barebacking is usual, more common in my observation than condom use, and is socially accepted even expected, which I guess is to say it has become the norm. This time it is down to the wide availability of PrEP and an awareness of U=U plus a recognition of the desirable aspects of raw sex. The change in norms is not exactly the same everywhere, obviously, but in my experience the trend is the same in many regions of the world.

You say PrEP is not an option but don’t say why not. Except for that statement PrEP would seem the perfect solution and one that wasn’t available to young gay men in earlier generations. Speaking only for myself, PrEP has liberated me to take raw cock and i’m working as hard as I can to make up for lost years where I was wrapped in rubber.

I used to religiously use condoms every time. I got both anal herpes and anal warts during that phase so I don’t think that condoms are a complete protection against either. Actually my experience confirms for me that they’re surely not. The warts were frozen off in 3 consecutive visits to the hospital Sexual Health clinic. I wish the hpv vaccine was around when I was a boy as I understand it may prevent them. Herpes remains with you but is easily treated either by a short course of pills on an outbreak or, as I’m currently doing, taking a daily pill to avoid any outbreaks (you’re not infectious unless there’s an outbreak). As for other STIs you can obviously catch them, that’s a fact of life for any sexually active person. They are easily treated.