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18 loads taken up the ass so far in 2019, not as many as others but an accomplishment for me.

I’ve had sex many times with guys who don’t speak English. Actually I find it quite a turn on to hook up with a guy in a regular setting and end up getting off without having been able to speak with each other. Two memories of hot hook ups of that kind are vivid for me. One was in the last month where I was walking down the pavement on the central road dividing Berlin’s Tiergarten- caught the eye of a guy getting out of a parked car and two minutes later he was fucking me in the bushes. As far as I could tell he spoke only German and Italian. The other occasion was a couple of years back in Kowloon or Macau, I can’t recall which, in a busy shopping street where I was not cruising but nonetheless caught the eye of a Chinese man who it turned out couldn’t speak a word of English but that didn’t stop him conveying the message that I should follow him which I did for 10 minutes along streets, through shops, up hills, before he found some public toilets where we got it off. I think it would have been much less hot as a random hookup if we could have chatted.

Went to a Sunday afternoon naked session at my local cruise club and in less than an hour had taken three loads which is a personal record for me. Two were standing fucks which the other bent over the corner of a bed in the dark, and I have no idea who loaded me up. I dropped my own load down the throat of a guy on his knees sucking me off.

I was fucked in the bushes at the side of the road in Berlin’s Tiergarten a couple of weeks back and was a bit surprised to find the top was filming his cock sliding in and out of my ass. I only noticed as he’d slowed down and was pulling nearly all the way out and slamming back in. He’d come out entirely a couple of times and I needed to reposition his cock which caused me to glance back over my shoulder when I saw him operating his camera phone. He was pretty dextrous to be able to coolly film while fucking on a slope, in some bushes, people passing by quite close a few metres on a path, having just cruised a stranger who didn’t speak his language. I noticed he had his phone in his shirt pocket convenient for easy reach but still. I imagine he frequently filmed his outdoor sex - I’d liked to have seen his collection!

I think my joint favourites would be Kaiserbrundl in Vienna and Babylon in Bangkok. By coincidence they both have restaurants with good food at reasonable prices within the venue and while that’s not what I primarily go to a bathhouse for its fun dining in just a towel and can extend the session. In terms of facilities they both have two large steam rooms set out as mazes a feature that distinguishes them from many bathhouses that have just a small token steam room where many guys seem inhibited from having sex because other guys are around. Both have many other great features. Babylon also has accommodation on site and I’ve stayed there several times (as I have in Munich at the Deutsche Eiche, another of my favourites). I like sauna 357 in Sydney as well, which attracts many Asian guys and is always very busy.

Excellent write up about Lab.oratory, thanks, and it inspired me to visit last week when I was in Berlin. In went on 2 for 1 drinks night and also hooded night, both excellent and plenty of action. I have two minor observations. first, I was surprised at how many guys asked me to use a condom, in that place I’d kinda expected zero. On the first night one guy insisted on a condom (out of 8 guys I fucked). A minor aberration I suppose. However, three guys I fucked on the second night (also out of 8 fucks) insisted on rubbers. There was a 4th but I’d had it by that stage and handed the condom back and walked on. It was made worse by the fact that I wasn’t carrying condoms, which I sometimes do if I’m likely to be asked to use them, so had to use these tight little condoms that the guy’s handed to me rather than the XL ones I need. Second, I was surprised at how many guys attended the masked night which I thought might attract a smaller fetish crowd. While not as many as the first night, when there was no dress code, the numbers were still pretty large and certainly in the hundreds. And it was hot - even more uninhibited than the first night if that were possible.

When I was much much younger I always used to come when I was fucked and, I am ashamed to say, would stop fucking at that point and leave the top to jerk off or whatever. Very selfish and I really didn’t know better. However, for a long time now it’s been the opposite in that I don’t seek to come when being fucked and usually try not to so that the top is fully satisfied by coming. It doesn’t bother me if I don’t come and may often return from the baths having been fucked a couple of times, fucked a few more, and yet not come. In addition to the goal of satisfying others, which I find to be a real turn on and satisfaction for me, and hoping to take some loads in the process, there’s also some practical considerations in not coming. The most obvious one is keeping a hard on. If I come I have to wait a while to get hard again and it takes a little longer as I age - although I find I can get hard again pretty quickly if another guy in the bathhouse will take the time to assist with hand and mouth. The need for the constant hard cock is a little ironic since I’d prefer to bottom but I find that many tops when cruising for a bottom will nonetheless first grab your cock and unless it’s hard pass over to seek someone else. Also there always seems to be more bottoms than tops so as a versatile guy I’m more often than not topping.

On almost the last day of a 6 week European holiday I had a memorable fuck in a famous German Park. The day before I had visited Berlin’s Tiergarten, a large park with lakes, paths , memorials, busy roads and, most importantly, bushes and patches of wilderness. I visited the park to sunbathe naked in a part of the park near the Siegessaule where nudism is enjoyed by many Berliners. I tried to take a shortcut through an unofficial track through some scrub and almost ran into a guy being given a blowjob. I wasn’t looking to cruise that day but kept it in mind the following day when I came back to do some more nude sunbathing and to visit the nearby gay museum. Although cruising wasn’t really the plan this day I did a quick douche before leaving the hotel in the afternoon and carried a small tub of oil based lube. After visiting the museum I walked back through the park at about 5pm and crossed a busy road to a part of the park I’d not visited before. Almost immediately I sensed I was being cruised by this good looking middle aged guy. It was rush hour and he had just gotten out of a parked car in the centre of a ceremonial avenue bisecting the park where few cars remained - it’s funny how gaydar can pick up these small details. He looked me in the eye as I passed and was still looking as I glanced back over my shoulder. On a second glance a couple of steps later he brushed his crotch. The game was afoot! I love this old style real world cruising much more than the online stuff, it provides a bit of an adrenaline rush. i was on the footpath next to the about 15 metres away from the guy and the park was separated by a hedge. I walked on a few steps and cut through a gap in the hedge to the park. It emerged at the top of a slope that ran down to a wide paved path but there were patches of bushes. He ducked through a different gap. I casually headed down to the path and circled around to his approximate position and he signalled to a particular patch of bush with a tree that I shoulD join him in. I had a feeling he’d used it before! Probably the reason for the placement of his parked car. Once in place he rubbed my crotch and then motioned for me to release my cock. Clearly pleased with what he saw he proceeded to a long and skilled suck. He continued for so long I feared sucking was all he was into but eventually he drew out his own cock and I was able to reciprocate. His cock was quite big, bigger than mine, and I was keen that he fuck me. He initially entered me roughly with no lube but I was able to add some lube to his cock which eased things along and reduced the likelihood that I would cry out. We were, after all, less than 5m from either the footpath or the park path. I need we had to stop several times as groups of women passed by quite close. He insisted that I also fuck him so we kept flipping around although I was keener to get his big cock in me that to take my turn fucking him. From his complexion and the odd word he spoke I took the guy to be Italian. After quite a while he started a different rhythm in his fucking; slower and drawing his cock out almost entirely and then thrusting back in. I though this might mean he was close to cumming but a glance over my shoulder revealed he was filming our fucking on his phone. I scrambled to draw out my phone without stopping his fucking with the intention of asking him to record something for me. However, by the time I got ready he was to my dismay already cumming. While he had deposited his first spurt up my ass he had pulled out at that point and was wasting his seed on the ground. I frantically tried to get him to renter my ass to no avail. I tried to film his last few spurts but I mucked up the shots. I did manage to salvage one near focused #hot of his cock which I’ll upload to the gallery. All in all a great fuck made better by the fun of the cruise and the frisson at the 4i#k of discovery.

Just spent 4 days in Berlin and can confirm its claim to be a great place for barebacking. On the first two nights I went to the legendary Lab.oratory cruise club which I’d read about before on this forum. It’s a huge place, a former factory I’d guess, with a different theme each night - it opens 4 nights per week centred on the weekend. It opens at 10 pm and closes its doors at midnight but the action continues until 6am I’m told (I was back in my hotel tucked up in bed well before closing time I’m ashamed to say). Theme on the first night was 2 drinks for price of one, and I got 2 red bulls to keep me alert. I topped 8 times that night and dropped my load into the 8th lucky guy. Theme on second night, which I had really been looking forward to, was masks. So I wore my hood with two eye holes and a mouth hole (I have another with no eye holes but thought the risk of tripping and falling down a hole was a bit too high) and a leather harness. It was such a blast to have this added air of anonymity amongst all these hundreds of guys, a kind of leveller. I also topped 8 times that night and the last was an absolute highlight: a young guy I could hardly see in the semi-darkness on a bench in a shipping container outside the back of the club. He was smooth, hard, on his back, moaning, and I was at least the third guy to cum in him during the 15 minutes waiting my turn, I wonder how man6 loads he’d taken before I turned up. In the following days I cruised a Park, which I’ll post separately on, and a video arcade back room. Interestingly I had a long raw fuck of a guy in the backroom who was in a sling, but after 10 minutes, and when I was close to cumming, he asked me to pull out as he was negative. I was taken aback given he was in the sling and we’d been barebacking for quite some time but I respected his wishes. It did seem a bit perverse though and I reckon taking all guys on a sling, and taking bareback, should have equated to an invitation to cum dump. Frustrating.

The many great features of well frequented bathhouses already mentioned. The fact that at their heart is the “bath” or realistically the shower means that guys are clean, something harder to guarantee in other cruising settings. For me this helps to overcome my usual reluctance to rim. I really enjoy rimming a guy, licking his asshole and pushing my tongue as deep within him as I can, and I find I’m more likely to initiate rimming with a freshly laundered ass.

No to mile high club etc. but I did once fuck a uniformed airline staffer at a South American airport who was manning the gate alone for a flight that had 40 minutes before boarding and passengers were slowly arriving or sitting about. We had connected on Grindr and he messaged me to come to the gate which was not my flight and he would slip away when he could and we’d go to the disabled toilet cubicle. After a couple of false starts we did and it was hot. Took me back to cruising public toilets with the thrill and fear of being exposed. Didn’t have a lot of time for the usual niceties and I probably shoved my fairly thick cock in a little roughly as I recall some blood but he didn’t complain. Had to run to my own flight which was now being called.

It’s all good from the anticipation and the initial entry (especially on a big cock) onwards but one special thing I like is when the top gets close to coming and you feel him speed up or thrust deeper or start breathing hard or whatever and you’re doing your best as bottom to give him the pleasure or release by squeezing or bending or calling encouragement.

Great, thanks for the encouragement! I’m enjoying fucking around from Barcelona to Berlin.

I’m currently barebacking across Europe at @traveller_gay

Just had a total waste of an evening at the same sauna as I went to with some success yesterday. All sorts of things annoyed me today although it wasn’t the fault of the bathhouse but the clientele. It got me thinking that one of the things I value about a bathhouse is reliably or consistency. The things that pissed me off tonight included: - getting into a room with a guy, right to the point of lubing up in front of him, sitting on top and having his cock at the opening of my ass, and he asks ‘where is the condom?’ (Well actually what he said was ‘preservative?’, I think he was French). This has happened to me twice in the last two weeks once as a top and once as a bottom. Now I don’t use condoms, and I prefer raw, but a fucks a fuck and I’ll respect the choice of partners to use condoms. But, hey, bring the rubbers with you especially if you’re going to top as you may want a particular size (I use a large condom if I am compelled to use one). If you don’t have a condom and need to ask the partner do so in plenty of time. - guys coming into the steam room holding the door open while trying to check out the guys and losing heat while doing so. - guy’s watching the porn on screen to the exclusion of the potential live action around them. Example tonight was a guy jerking off to a Tv screen porn, I go up to him and find he has a lovely hard cock and bend down and suck it. He clearly likes this but remains as much engaged with the tv as me. I motion for him to fuck me standing there and he starts fingering my ass. It is only after 4 or 5 minutes, including when I waved off an admirer, that I realised he had no intention of fucking me he was interested only in the screen. - when you start a scene with a guy, someone will turn up and try to get in the middle, often in the process scaring off the first guy. This can be annoying- I contrast it with guys watching when you’re having sex in public areas. I don’t even mind the odd bit of groping when you’re fully in action, it’s the interference at the outset that is disruptive. - finally, and this didn’t annoy me merely puzzle me, a guy brought his smartphone into the steam room, simply apologising about the light it initially emitted. Sorry to be negative but my experience has left me frustrated this evening. I usually have fewer gripes about behaviour in cruise clubs.

Went to 2 sex venues in Prague today. Early evening I went to sauna Babylonia, after midnight I went to Factory club. Eight fucks in all, 4 tops, 4 bottoms. One big load was taken and in another case the guy used a condom which I took, once used, and emptied it into my ass. One guy was interesting at factory cruise club as he had a technique that while I fucked him he would clench his anal muscles several times a second. Quite a cool trick. However, my favourite sessions were at the sauna. The first was an Indian guy with a grey beard and probably in his 60s. I got him to start fucking me in the steam room. However he was determined that I also fuck him so we flipped 3 or 4 times. He then led me out of the sauna and down to a room where he did some serious fucking of me in several positions. He came in me in copious quantities. The other guy was was very cute and I noticed him at the bar as I came in. In the steam room the old Indian guy, who had obvious regained his erection pretty fast, was competing for the young guy’s attention at the same time I was as we sat on either side. Ultimately he went for me perhaps because I was younger or perhaps because I was more subtle in caressing him and nibbling his nipples whereas the Indian jumped the gun and attempted to sit on the guy’s cock without asking. The young guy went into the sauna and I followed and I sucked and rimmed him fully winning him over. It turned out he was from Lebanon which may have explained his good looks. Like me he was versatile so we agreed to each fuck the other. He insisted on condoms which was a disappointment. I rimmed him again and fucked him first with his legs over his shoulders. It was very intimate. He then fucked me doggy style and came in his condom which I smoothly secreted away under my towel. Afterwards I emptied the cum from the condom into my asshole.

Just been to a sauna in Prague that cost €15. Sauna Babylonia had some features that made good value starting with cheap beer. For me the two steam rooms was great, one very dark, the other moderately dark with a maze. Also had wifi, funnily enough as I was leaving I checked Grindr and found that a guy that had messaged me hours be&ore was the very guy I’d just hooked up with and we has flip fucked. The main downside was the lack of a pass out system. Had there been one I’d have returned in the evening.

A couple of weeks ago this happened to me and the hookup from either Grindr or BBRTS suggested some woods near his home.

I started fucking guys in 1985, after a couple of years sucking and being sucked at public toilets, actually the first fuck resulted from a note written on toilet paper passed under the stall (it said meet me outside).He gave me a phone number and we met up at his apartment some days later when I turned up with a condom which I wore fucking him. I recall he was a bit surprised at the condom, obviously he wouldn’t have provided one. So I’d used condoms from the very start. The following year I was in New York on my first trip abroad and had been picked up by a guy who spotted me alone leaving a gay dance. He got me to uplift my bag from the hostel I was staying at and sleep the night with him in his apartment (despite condom use the signs were there that I would become a slut). He explained that his strategy for avoiding AIDS was to only pick up young guys arriving from the country at Port Authority! Although we slept together, the guy was a perfect gentleman and we didn’t fuck, but instead the next day he took me to his ‘rap group’ at a gay community centre. All very New York and very 1980s. I was a shy 25 year old and was invited to speak during this session of about 15 guys. As well as explaining that I was travelling to London to come out to my family, which elicited a lot of advice which made me even more nervous that I hadn’t thought things through, I was somehow asked about my sexual practices. I made the statement that I always had used condoms and thus did not miss raw fucking I.e. what you don’t know you can’t miss. This caused quite a lively discussion, the gist of it mainly being “oh dear boy, you don’t know what you’re missing” mixed in with “good boy, keep up the good work, it’s too late for us”. I haven’t thought about that session from 30 years ago for a long time but I was glad that they let me into their meeting and opened up. They were nice men and I imagine many of them will have died of AIDS, I think effective treatments were not available for some time later. Enough of the rambling, the short answer is I don’t think I ever imagined wanting or actually barebacking. The introduction of high quality treatment of HIV infection in recent years would not have changed my mind really although it did mean I lapsed into raw sex occasionally, and then more frequently, without undue concern but a little guilt. The game changer for me was PrEP and, alongside that an understanding of U=U, and that has turned me into a full time barebacker comparatively suddenly about 4 years ago.

Its good to keep score, it keeps you on the ball and aiming to do better. So I looked at my current totals and those I reported previously and am pleased to observe the improvement. in the last 10 weeks I’ve increased the rate of fucks I’ve been having from 4.1 per week to 4.8. As importantly the rate of loads taken or given has tripled from 0.5 to 1.5 per week. i also noted the number of fucks I’ve had this year (since February when I started counting) is 95. So I hope to reach 100 soon, maybe tonight...

I’ve just been to Kaiserbrundl sauna in Vienna a veritable institution amongst European bathhouses. It cost €22 or about US$25 which included a pair of rubber “slippers”. It’s a large bathhouse with all the facilities you’d expect and a few that may surprise (such as a restaurant). It’s spread out over at least 3 floors but probably 4 - it’s so large and such a labyrinth that I’m never quite sure where I am. One facility it doesn’t seem to provide is condoms and it charges 50 cents for a small sachet of lube. I am a bit critical of that since most of us need lube and charging seems penny pinching at that entry price (I always take my own supply for topping and I prelube with oil-based cream for bottoming which usually lasts a few hours so it didn’t affect me.) in relation to condoms I don’t use them as Im on PrEP but for other guys it is their choice and I think sex-on-site owners and managers have a responsibility to support those choices. As it happens I doubt many condoms would be needed as all the guys I hooked up with or saw went bareback without discussion.

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Had a good time at Vienna’s classic Kaiserbrundl sauna last night. I started surprisingly by causing a Japanese guy to cum down my leg by an extended session of my nibbling his nipples while standing in an open nude cruising area. Later I got a guy to cum just with some caressing, kissing and frottage. While I was starting to think I had unknown erotic skills I was a bit worried as I was there for the fucking and I hadn’t yet gotten any. I needn’t have worried as I got saguaro in the steam room hard and then to fuck me. When I got back to my hotel room 3 hours later found he’d deposited a nice load. However, the highlight(s) for my evening were in one of the dark huge communal beds that are one of the Kaiserbrundl’s nice features for both resting and action. I was lying in there hoping to get fucked. A tallish guy lay down on his front next to me so he clearly was a bottom wasn’t going to fuck me. However, he reached over to feel my cock and although only semi-hard he seemed to like what he felt. So I took this as my invitation and reached over and stroked his ass. All this was in semi-darkness so you can’t see faces etc. He had a nice ass, slightly hairy, and I gave it a quick lick before pushing my cock in, just pausing and pulling out to apply some oil-based lube. I gave him a good pounding before depositing my load in him. That seemed like a good night’s work completed so I stopped by the small bistro within the sauna, one of the best I’ve seen in a sex venue, and had a light meal and beer. After that I returned to the dark communal beds still hoping to be fucked. After a while the same guy reappeared (I could tell by feeling the hair on his head which was slightly spiky - as I was leaving I recognised a tall muscular Chinese guy as almost certainly being the bottom I’d now fucked twice). I didn’t need to be asked and once again mounted the guy and started fucking him. As I’d already come by now I knew from experience I could stay hard indefinitely while topping - except if I took a whiff of poppers. The bottom had been using poppers and kindly shared with me which entitled him to a free second load. Satisfied with a well-spent evening I headed off into the night.

I recently fisted a guy for the first time which I thought would raise my score, but I’m still only 117.

In New Zealand, if you’re eligible (as young guys fucking around bareback will be) PrEP is paid for in the public health system so the drug is free although you pay a $5 dispensing fee for a 3 month supply. You also have to see a doctor every three months and get the necessary laboratory tests. A doctor costs about $40 and the lab tests are free. Actually you can dispense with some of these small costs if you use a pharmacy that does not charge the dispensing fee and if the doctor is willing, with the lab results, to write a repeat prescription without a further consultation (a repeat prescription alone would be about $15). These are NZ$, US$1 v NZ1.6 or so. If the guy is not at high risk the drug is not free but the arrangement is still reasonably affordable, about $100 a month locally for a months supply or less if self-import on the internet (which is legal) with a NZ prescription.