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Do You Wish You Had Started Barebacking Sooner?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I’m pretty happy to have taken the decision to bareback “full time” in December 2015, 4 years ago. I can be precise because I recall an ultimatum from a cute Chinese guy I’d hooked up on Grindr on a business trip to Macau refusing to come to my hotel a second time unless I barebacked. On his first visit we fucked with a condom for a while, he’d take it off and keep fucking me which I liked but I’d then put a new condom on him and restart. I had reflected on it after he left and decided as my ‘gift’ to him to let him bareback the next time. However, when I connected on Grindr on my last night in Macau he said he wasn’t available. I replied that I was disappointed as I wanted to surprise him by barebacking. Suddenly he was available and mentioned he simply wasn’t going to come over and use condoms. We had a great session that night and I decided to get on PrEP which I did on my return home. The timing was good for me. I didn’t start anal sex till after AIDS was known about so I used condoms from the get go, I didn’t miss what i’d not tried. I did have a great bareback night on a trip to Sydney with a guy I met in a sauna in the 1990s but otherwise didn’t ‘lapse’ from condom use until about the last 5 or 6 years. However, these lapses caused some worry which detracted from the enjoyment. However, the availability of PrEP changed all that. So I’ve now been on PrEP for 4 years and having plenty of raw sex. The time was right for me. -
Slow start to the year but I took two loads yesterday, and one the day before, taking me to 4 loads taken and 1 load deposited for January out of 13 fucks.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Hit the cruise club last night. Went straight into a cubical which I usually do to let my eyes adjust to the dim light and to warm up with some glory hole sucking before heading into the maze, rooms and dark room for cruising and fucking. Started sucking a guy with a big cock, really thick. I could tell by some subtle thrusts he made after a while that he was up for some fucking (funny how attuned we become to body language when we’re horny). I had been fucked a couple of hours earlier by an Indian guy on a Grindr hookup with a smallish cock so was partly loosened up but it was still a stretch. he fucked me for quite a while with me letting out small groans of pain with most thrusts. My bent legs were almost giving out with the awkward angle so I manoeuvred him cock to a higher gloryhole and continue until he came. I topped another guy later but things were pretty quiet so I went home. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Grindr hookup with a top who messaged that he’d run out of condoms so we’d not be able to fuck but only cuddle. Fucking was my bottom line (so to speak) so I supplied him with s condom. LOL he didn’t use it but bred me raw anyway. -
On a Grindr hookup this afternoon the top messaged to say he’d run out of condoms and so we’d not be able to fuck. I wasn’t having that so I said I have some but we didn’t need them as I’m on PrEP. After a non-commital answer I rummaged around to find a condom and set out. I handed the condom over on arrival, said again he needn’t use it, and he put it next to the bed. After the preliminaries he entered me raw and fucked me bareback, no attempt to use the condom. Not sure what the deal was but it’s very rare these days that anyone asks me for a condom.
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Sydney’s sauna 357 has a fairly good dark room which has two entrances, but one is down a dim passageway and the other through another smaller dark room. To keep dark rooms dark they need a semi dark entranceway like this or else they’d light up every time someone entered. The other nice feature of the 357 darkroom is a huge circular ‘bed’ as the centrepiece. Lots of guys would sit on the edge to suck passing cocks or bend over hoping to be fucked.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Felt like a drought has lifted as I hadn’t fucked for two weeks. My partner left at 1pm to go to a folk festival for the weekend and I was online with a fuckbuddy as he drove out the gate. The good news was he was available within the next hour, the unexpected news was that he couldn’t host, as he did two weeks before. So I arranged to pick him up and bring him home to fuck in my bed, the first time I’d done that with a hookup. I was slightly apprehensive as my partner was only 40 miles away and had hinted he might come home over the weekend sometime. Had a good bareback session though he was very young and had ‘rules’ like fucking only (no kissing, sucking, rimming), he’d top only, and he had only one position, doggy. Hell, I didn’t care so long as I got his black (Indian) cock up my ass and took his load (though if he was a little less rigid he could learn a lot of new techniques from me and he’d enjoy them all...maybe he’ll relax his rules next time or the time after that). Took a huge load, really huge. I dropped him back at the railway station and when I got back home swatted down to see how much cum I’d taken - one huge pool. Three hours later another loads worth dripped out my ass, I could hardly believe it for such a small guy. -
Like the other replies, I have an app on my phone, a pill dispenser and take it same time each day to get in a rhythm (first thing in the morning with pill dispenser next to bed). I use a 2 week dispenser which I can’t overlook but have a smaller one week version for trips away. The only additional thing is that I have a small metal capsule with a single pill in it attached in the jackets I wear in case I’m out and have forgotten to take my pill, I have needed that once or twice over 4 years of taking PrEP. I should confess that I use another technique that isn’t always available. My partner brings me a glass of juice each morning at the same time to take my PrEP and fills up my pill dispenser and reminds me to pack my PrEP if I’m going off travelling.
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Less obvious details in porn that turns guys on
BB4fking replied to spannergrip's topic in General Discussion
Guys smiling or laughing as they fuck. -
I remember a place in Montreal that had a dim basement room, and then another room with a low ceiling leading off that with no light except what was reflected in, and there was a heap of guys fucking raw during the times when condoms were the norm (as they were upstairs). I returned to Montreal a year later and walked the streets trying to find it again but couldn’t. I look forward to reading answers to your query as I’m also frustrated by the tendency to have well lit darkrooms, something of an oxymoron.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Enjoyed fucking a guy through a glory hole last night. He started by giving reasonably good head and then made a fairly seamless transition to his ass but I recognised the tight and velvety sensation and started pumping through the hole. Eventually he got the benefit of my load which had built up over 3 fucks that evening. -
Bottoms How Much Do You Clean Yourself Out?
BB4fking replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Been bottoming for years but having read the experiences on this thread I decided 3 weeks ago to try Metamucil for first time. Very pleased with the results from the first day onward - it’s transformed cleaning out for a hookup into a quick and simple process. -
Taken my first load on the 3rd day of the New Year. Looking to take more than the 53 loads of 2019 by end of 2020.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I was just about to head out the door and do a cycle ride downtown and visit the art museum when I checked Grindr and saw a promising message. With little of the fuss normally flowing fro Grindr exchanges I was set up to call in on my cycle ride with a sexy dark young Indian twink. Arrived at his apartment 25 minutes later and he had just emerged from the shower. Pretty young thing and I was about to ask if I could take some pictures of our session and he got in first and asked to video things. Oh yeah. Turned out he was pretty good at the videoing- and the fucking. Best of all with an apartment of his own he was a agreeable to adding me to his stable of fuck buddies so I can look forward to more fucking without bothering about the Grindr preliminaries that waste so much time and often end up nowhere. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I got home from the cruise club about 1 am in the morning but decided to return the next afternoon, earlier today. They have a naked Sunday afternoon session which attracts a lot of guys. As it was sunny I included the cruise club on my afternoon bike ride, saving the need to offer some explanation to my partner. A good turnout and got some good action, topping 4 times and bottoming five times. Took two loads, including one long standing fuck with a guy with a beautiful big cock with a big head. A lot of grunting as he built up to cum which was nice. I washed up my cock but kept the two loads inside me and cycled home. My partner immediately said I smelled of shit, so much for discretion as I headed off to shower. -
With two loads taken this afternoon I’ve reached: - 53 loads taken up my ass - 28 loads i’ve pumped up other guys’ assess - 6 loads squirted down throats. 2019 was the year I became a slut, probably 10 times the loads I’ve ever taken in previous years. I expect 2020 to be even sluttier.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Pretty quiet here in my local sexclub in the week after Xmas. So last night I chose to visit another cruise club, about 1 km apart, before going to my local. I hadn’t been to the other one for years and was surprised and initially disappointed to find it no longer included a 2nd floor. However, it had a sleazier dark vibe with an older fetish clientele and the new compact layout turned out to be well designed and better packing in spaces for all manner of fetishes: private rooms, video lounge, slings, bathtub, dark room, etc. the problem remained that there was only three guys. Two were getting it on in a slow rhythm on the sling - the top somehow also sitting on a stool as he fucked - and they were still at it 30 minutes later when I left, grabbing a pass out and saying I’d be back. I left for my regular cruise club which, though relatively quiet, probably still had 20 guys. I ended up cumming in a smooth Chinese guy’s ass and settled down to watch a regular movie while I recovered. Not much action later so I headed back to the first club at about midnight. A different 3 guys there and I settled in the dark room where I was joined by an older skinny guy in jeans. I rubbed his crotch and was excited to feel a Prince Albert. More groping and it was clear he had metal studs all up his cock, which was new for me but pretty hot. He brought his cock out as did I. He was clearly turned on by my cock which was bigger than his and rock hard as I’d slipped on a cock ring. But I was fascinated by his metallic tool and did all I could to encourage him to fuck me - presenting my ass, rubbing lube in my hole in front of him. Sticking my finger in - but it was clear he just wanted to have a hand job. I was happy to oblige and glad to see him cum as the last action in a quiet night of cruising. -
Unusual Places You Have "hooked Up" Or Met Guys
BB4fking replied to mjapie1's topic in General Discussion
I was walking along the major boulevard in Berlin’s Tiergarten when I caught a guy’s eye and within 90 seconds we were over the fence, in the bushes, and grabbing each other’s crotches prior to blowing each other and fucking each other. -
Talked a fuckbuddy who normally always uses condoms to go raw with me (and who then seeded me 8 times over 3 consecutive nights).
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Nothing as innovative as the knee pads great idea!) but when I’m properly organised for cruising I wear trousers with zippers down each leg which make it easy to slip them off over my shoes. I usually transfer some oil-based cream lube into a tiny plastic screw top tub of a type supplied for airline travel and slip that into my sock.
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I got herpes years ago while still a consistent user of condoms. Since going on PrEP about 4 years ago I’ve had chlamydia and gonorrhoea dealt with in the usual way. Most recently I had syphilis and had a bad reaction for about 24 hours to the painful injection (flu like symptoms) and my doctor has scheduled quarterly blood tests as specific follow up (separate to my normal blood/urine tests and throat/rectal swabs required with PrEP). Not sure I understand the question about ‘PrEP failure’ but I understand any failure to be rare and more usually to be linked to user failure to consistently take doses as recommended.
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Tried anything new sexually in 2019? Your highlights for the year? not sure what my top highlight is yet but on reflection I surprised myself with things I tried for first time this year. For the first time I: - fisted a guy (unexpectedly in France in a sauna) - had an anonymous fuck and go session (Grindr hookup asked me to be blindfolded and naked in my hotel room, door open a crack) - visited Berlin’s Lab.oratory (on my bucket list ever since I read about it) - made an amateur sex video.
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Up until my early twenties I used to donate blood. It was satisfying to be public spirited. I stopped years ago as guy’s having sex with men were banned. However, now that I’m on PrEP it occurred to me that the basic reason for the ban, HIV transmission, doesn’t apply. Are we permitted again to give blood? (I’m not really sure I’d donate blood again as I find the blood flows pretty slowly these days even with my much smaller and frequent STI/HIV blood tests but it would be nice to know if I have the option.)
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Brings back happy memories of my two nights at Lab.oratory in June. Hope to get back one day.
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I’ve fantasied about anon but never done anything until 3 days ago when I was on a small break for 2 nights in another city. Other than a theatre performance I had nothing planned and so intended just to have as many BBRTS and Grindr hookups as I could in my hotel room over 2 full days. I was excited when the very first hookup asked if I would leave the door unlocked, be blindfolded, naked and ready to be fucked. Of course I said yes! I had no blindfold but he agreed I could have a pillowcase over my head. I asked for a dick pic so I knew what I was up for and he sent one of his lower body and mentioned his cock was 19cm hard (almost 8”). The session was really hot although pretty painful with such a big cock and limited opportunity to have any control as bottom. He could feel my pain so reached under my pillowcase with amyl for me before resuming his pounding. A great session with only two regrets. First he insisted on using a condom which he said he always did with strangers - I retrieved it from the bin later and it was a huge load. And I asked him in advance if I could leave my iPad running to video and he said no.
