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  1. Uh, maybe the top is wearing a really wide cockring? I hope the blond dude fucks raw, anyway. I hope he gets fucked when he's doing it. It's a hot pic, and I'm officially placing myself in the blond's ass. And if I don't feel another cock grinding against mine when I go in... I want to. Damn, blond dude's cock against mine in a DP would be hot too. A fucking condom would be hot if I could be a top in a 5-man gangbang right now.
  2. I like hotels. When I show up to fuck a dude, I'm interested in his body and he's interested in mine. A hotel is sort of a neutral venue where men only bring their body — at a house, you see the rest of his life too. Usually it's not a problem, but I prefer to open the door and step right into a sexual realm. Definitely, if you're looking for numbers, a hotel is a lot easier. Easier to get to, easier to find, easier to park... There's the drawback that some guys don't like going through a public space, but there are hookup-friendly places where you can go in off the street and it's not too open.
  3. Aw, I like the idea of someone's ass opening up and getting horny when he smells my armpits. Kinda like a bottle of poppers I've always got with me. Goes nicely with natural lube.
  4. The difference is about depth. You can fuck ass balls deep. It changes a lot about how intense you can get... like, you can slam your body into his buttcheeks. You can put your whole weight on him when you're lying on top. Stuff like that. You can fuck pussy hard, for sure, but an ass is a bottomless tunnel, and a pussy will always be a pocket. Yeah, they both feel fucking good. Ass is better.
  5. Yeah, it's definitely not just psychological. When you cum from fucking you're thrusting, and you either keep thrusting or you tighten up hard on the muscles you've been thrusting with. So just the fact that you're using those muscles through the orgasm means it's more intense. The difference between cumming in ass in a condom and bb shots feels like it would be psychological (but maybe not). With a condom you feel it fill up, which actually feels kinda good... but a bb load fucking disappears. You don't feel it (much) because it's going inside him. And that's hotter, even though it's missing a sensation you feel when you don't bareback.
  6. What I like about bottoms' cocks is that they're hot in any configuration. If he's rock hard because I'm making him feel that good, it's hot af. If he's soft because his cock doesn't matter and he gets off on his ass, hot af. Some bottoms stay soft, but need to touch it. Hot af. Everywhere in between, also hot af. The only time I might not want a soft bottom is if I think he's not up to taking it from me. When I get that feeling, I suck him hard, probably as I'm rimming him. Some guys need that to get into the session.
  7. @YourNoLimitsBottom Yeah, I don't check out guys there myself. Imagining a cruisy shower at some gym where guys can check each other out and fuck is definitely hot but I'm not sure that's a real place, or at least one I'm likely to find. Just remembered how communal showers in bathhouses feel different than gyms. In a bathhouse I don't feel self-conscious about my cock, even though I'm there to impress guys with it. Maybe it's because I know it gets bigger. And I like knowing other tops can shrink down to my size... but I don't like guys at the gym not knowing I'm 7" hard.
  8. A lot of guys aren't used to actually having hot gay sex. (You said raw, I want to say hot, but remember hot means raw.) I like watching cum fly. It never disappoints me to see it spraying on anyone's ass or abs or chest or cock... or face or mouth... But porn definitely needs more internal cumshots, I know. It's out there, but the demand clearly is for pullouts. What's missing for me isn't just the cumshot itself, it's watching the top cum. The way a man gets when he's about to cum in a hole, and when he's actually breeding, is fucking awesome to watch because that's the best place to be. Shooting outside has none of the transformation into a beast that needs to fuck and breed and it doesn't have the explosive face-wrenching force that you get when you cum where it counts.
  9. I'm not an actual cumdump... but my strategy would be to be active about it and ask anyone who's hard or who might want to fuck me. I'd check him out, give him a genuine compliment, and feel out what he might want to do. I'd offer to suck if I didn't think he was ready to commit to ass fucking. (Being an actual top, I know that he would be committing to ass fucking.) If he didn't seem interested I'd talk a bit about what I was looking for. You know, so he could tell his top buddies about me. Other guys hear this and might take you up on it. I just think the active approach will get you the most cum. And I've used the getting overheard tactic to get stuff like two bottoms in a room with me.
  10. Get nice abs. Fuck guys with nice abs.
  11. I go really well prepared and I actually do have condoms in my backpack. They're wrapped in duct tape (it's complicated). They have three purposes... 1. Survival tools. If there's an earthquake or something you can use them to carry water, keep things dry, or start collecting much-needed sperm. 2. They're lubricated, so they could be a handy source of slippery if I do have sex and we both have a really dry mouth. 3. They're Trojan Magnums. They remind me that, although I'm not going to use condoms for sex, if for some unholy reason I ever did, I would have to use a condom for men with relatively large penises. This is an awesome confidence booster. Right, more than anyone ever wanted to hear about condoms at the gym. One thing I'm gonna ask. Communal showers. Dicks hanging out. I'm a grower in a big way — 7" (real) hard, not impressive at all in the shower. Seems worse after I've been swimming – I'm vulnerable to shrinkage. Showers aren't really cruisy for me so I can just remind myself that it gets a lot bigger. Bottom guys... when you check out guys in the shower, do you compensate for that? Do you maybe look at their cock differently in that setting?
  12. "I want you to fuck me." I've heard that said lots of different ways, in lots of different tones. Not every session — more often, it's me making the decision to bring it from mouth to ass — but it always comes to mind as the most erotic thing he can say. "I fucking own you." Then I bite his shoulder, grunt hard, and breed deep. If he really knows what it means to have a cock in his ass — and a lot of bottoms do — "I fucking own you, bitch." "Suck that fucking cock now." Yeah, "fuck that ass" or "suck that cock" can sound bad in porn, but sometimes it's gotta be that cock instead of my cock. I might push him down, and he definitely gets my hands on his head once he gets where he needs to be. (Aw, but he needs to be there as much as I need him to be there. Maybe more.)
  13. If guys ask, it's to confirm I'll fuck them raw. Whether I actually turn down ass because he wants a condom... not always. If I'm just on an app and he asks, then I won't end up fucking him. If I'm about to top him and he asks, then I fuck him. This would mean he hasn't been screened through an app — but it would mean I want his ass, and not even a condom is gonna stop me from that.
  14. Aw, you should always be able to laugh while you're having sex. Not always, but... if you can, it's a good thing that means you have a strong connection with the other guy. I'm remembering one big (and really cute) guy I fucked who loved bottoming... I was switching from doggy on a bed to getting him on his back, with me on the floor. He was trying to get his legs up the right way and get his ass the right distance from the edge of the bed and we had to get the angle exactly right. He says: "Why does gay sex have to be so difficult?" There's lots of times I've wanted to say that.
  15. The term that comes to mind is "fuck any hole". I want to say I'm not into that right now, but if I'm gonna be honest about it, anyone can suck me, and anyone who sucks me is likely to make me want to fuck them. It's not out of desperation, though, as much as convenience. Picking the easiest fuck, not necessarily the best fuck. It's like this: there's a ass that could be fucked, and I'd rather be fucking ass than not fucking ass, so I'll fuck it.
  16. They're generalizations. There are low beds and high beds, and there are private and intimate sling fucks. It just feels more straightforward to talk about it as if they're all the same. I know they're not. But if there's even more diversity among face-to-face fucks inside and outside a sling than I said there were, then the positions are even more different.
  17. Doggy style. It's the most natural position for male-on-male buttfucking. Bottoms look absolutely fucking beautiful in the butt-shot position. It's comfortable, because you don't have to support yourself much. You can go deep. You can grab on to his sides. And you can lick or bite his ears, back, or shoulders, so he knows how vulnerable he is when you're breeding him. A variation: reverse fucking, where the top penetrates then turns around or pushes his cock back between his legs and you fuck ass-to-ass. I like it because I can do it, and it's impressive AF because it's so exotic and rare. It doesn't feel amazing, you can't do it for long, and it's not even common in porn, but it's memorable, fun, and definitely worth trying. Those feel very different for the top. If the bottom is on his back on a bed, you have to support yourself with your arms, and you tend to press your body close to his. It's an intimate, almost romantic way to get really deep in his ass and mash the hell out of his prostate until he cums all over himself. (It's the easiest position for me to make a bottom cum.) If he's in a sling, you're standing, so you don't have to support your body. It's a convenient way to just service him by thrusting your cock in; it's not intimate. (Plus, he's often pre-lubed, and you can decide whether you want to cum or just leak precum inside him then hand him over to the next dude.) There's a middle ground where the bottom is on his back at the edge of a bed or some other surface. The top can stand or kneel, so it's more comfortable, and it feels more intimate. It's like a sling for the bedroom (if you don't have a sling in your bedroom).
  18. Bottoms are either cock sluts or cum sluts. I prefer cock sluts. I want/need to be more than Load #2749 for a bottom. I want him to remember me and our session. So if the purpose of me fucking him is just so he can get generic cum, I feel like I'm making less of a contribution to his sluttiness. Or, maybe, I'm making the same contribution all his other tops are making. I get competitive with other tops when I fuck, so I can't really outperform them if it's just about the volume of cum I squirt into some ass. Too bad bottoms don't really feel how competitive those fast, agile swimmers are. OK, so some bottoms are definitely both cock sluts and cum sluts. I still prefer the ones that love it when I fuck them.
  19. You really never know with the scorpion, especially if it's not in a sexual area. I kinda like the idea of a cumdump bottom who got a scorpion tat because he's a Scorpio. Like, if he's taking loads in a dark corner and he's pre-bred and he doesn't know the tat means anything else. This is because I like fucking dumb bottoms, especially if they're highly appreciative ones. Plus, you don't inject venom or sperm or anything when you get buttfucked. I don't have tats because I could never decide on something I'd want to keep forever. Way back, though, I was thinking about the biohazard symbol just because it looks cool. I would have gotten it on my left shoulder, not near my cock. Location matters, I guess, but if it's in a sexual area, I'd be pretty confident it either means he's poz or likes taking loads enough that he got the tat ahead of time.
  20. It should be obvious how good it feels, but men underestimate how important touch is when you're actually having real sex, as opposed to watching porn. Porn overemphasizes what looks hot. Don't get me wrong on this — I love watching my cock pounding holes. But you don't have to fuck shallow (or with your knee up) so the camera can see you penetrating. Another example is the licking-a-popsicle blowjob. It's great to watch cocks getting sucked. Deepthroat feels better. Still, I have to vote for sound. C'mon, take that head in your mouth. Get your lips on the back... yeah, fuck, exactly like that... fuck... now just suck... I get really verbal, so sound must be my thing. I will pick up on anything a bottom says — or, even better, his submissive whimpers — and use the energy from that to pound the fuck out of him. The sloppy slapping noise of a buttfuck keeps me going, too. Tops... you'd think taste isn't as important, right? Not when one of a bottom's holes has taste buds and your cock doesn't. I'd rank taste last, definitely, but that doesn't mean it's not extremely important. When I'm close, I find myself needing to taste his skin, and I love to lick and bite when I cum. Seems like adding in another sense (that's not too active for most of the session) is a way to add that extra push you need to get over the edge.
  21. That's true for the first ring too, obviously, but bottoms don't have any control over it, except maybe for the way their body is positioned. I think it helps that they can't control it, because they could easily get scared and tense up if they did. Most don't really seem to notice when it happens, although some do. I don't specifically change anything about the way I fuck when I'm in that deep. I just keep reading what the bottom likes and giving him lots of that. I mix up long strokes with staying deep and giving little jabs. There isn't any erogenous zone beyond the prostate, AFAIK, and that isn't very deep — you can mash the hell out of it with a 5 inch cock. Everything past that is just guts. My guess is that big cocks just cause a general feeling of fullness from the pressure on the abdominal wall. It's pretty clear here that what bottoms get off on is the thought of being opened up really deep inside, as well as the thought of having cum shot beyond their rectum. They're not talking about the feeling itself so much.
  22. I got hard reading that. Knowing how long my seed stays inside a bottom is a massive turnon. I love when they tell me. I always imagine them fingering or toying their holes and thinking about my cock. Or thinking about, or even taking another cock — the important thing is that my sperm stays locked in his guts, every one of them trying to win that race. (Hard again.) So, for a top who's fucking into the second ring, it's about how it feels a little tighter. For a top who's just bred some ass, it's about how that bend is keeping his sperm where it belongs. Aw, and for a bi top... it might be like actually fucking a female balls deep. FSR I'm trying to shield you gold star men from thinking of the second ring "in that way", but that's what it is. And that's why I don't mind that pink spot I'm likely to get. That, and I know what I'm getting into when I fuck butt... it's part of the appeal, And, fuck, there's so much appeal,
  23. I'm 7", but in real inches. I do hit this zone when I fuck some bottoms, especially if we're in a position where I can get really deep (like facing each other) and especially if he's a smaller man, like 5'8" or so. It feels good, though. "Second ring" is a decent term because it does feel a bit like the actual anus. It's nowhere near as tight, but it's just a little bit tighter than the rest of his guts. You could say, if you're bi like me, that it's like fucking a female for a depth of about an inch, enough to surround my head. I'm not long enough to break well past it, so it's more like a pocket, but my tip can get past it. I guess someone has to say this: the second ring can feel kinda rough or gritty, and, when I fuck that deep, I usually end up with a trace of pink on my head. The upside is that it feels fucking awesome knowing I've gotten that deep in his guts. (Come to think of it, breaking into a bottom's second ring is all upside.) It's even more awesome to shoot that deep, because my seed is getting blasted in a special region of his guts, and it's gonna stay inside him when I pull out, which is what I want. When I'm fucking for a long time it can get difficult to make myself cum. One trick I have is to pull way back, so I'm barely inside him and my corona (the ridge at the back of the head) gets to rub on his anus, where it's tightest. I can do that with the second ring, too — I slam balls deep and grind on him, giving really short jabs into that pocket. Basically, I give my cock extra friction to make it squirt. One more thing — bottoms don't seem to have any problem with getting fucked this deep. (Bottoms, TBH, can fuck up taking a cock in their ass in lots of ways.) It's technically dangerous to go past the second ring because the sigmoid colon isn't as tough as the rectum. But it never seems to hurt them when I do it, possibly because they have no control over what's happening.
  24. It shouldn't be frustrating. As a man, as a male animal, my sole purpose is putting cum in hole. That's why I need you as a vessel to use for release. When you only need something in your ass, you can spend an hour or two with a dildo. When I only need to drain my balls, I can use my hands. When that's not enough, we need to fuck. If it takes 30 seconds or 3 hours, we get what we need. Cum in hole.
  25. I almost always go to my bottoms rather than them coming to me, so I don't get this much. You could reword the phrase. "On my way" can mean "I'm coming". Or "I'm gonna come." Right? A lot of the time he's just so excited about the sex he's gonna have that he just nuts and decides not to have it.
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