Close2MyBro

It seems the 'trend' in society today is to shame anyone who disagrees with you. It's happening everywhere.

Take care of your hole after a hard fuck. Using vaseline to keep your hole lubed overinight while you sleep helps it heal faster from all the friction and keeps it moist and supple so you're able to get fucked more often.

According to the CDC it can be passed any of those ways. [think before following links] https://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm [think before following links] https://www.cdc.gov/std/chlamydia/stdfact-chlamydia.htm

If you've read thru many of the posts in the forum, I think you'll see that there are many people here who walked away with a net positive experience from their early start. I don't think that it's fair to pass judgment on their own thoughts and feelings about their experiences, or expect that they have to share the same draconian sexual views on this topic that we have here in the United States when in other countries these practices are normal and routine, and those people live a perfectly well-adjusted life. I think we do a lot of people a disfavor when we tell them they are supposed to be traumatized instead of letting them decide if it was traumatic for them on their own.

I've always thought that when guys use the term 'breeding', it was meant as an intentional transmission of positive cum. The term "raw" typically denotes "natural, unprotected" sex.

Since you were quickly put on PEP and had already been on Prep, I think it's highly unlikely that you'll contract HIV. I had a similar scare myself many years ago with a guy who told me after he came in my ass that he was positive and not on meds and I went to the doctor and was immediately put on PEP and it prevented me from contracting HIV. It seems to be very effective when dispensed soon after the possible exposure.

Deepthroating is like any other skill and requires regular practice to be great at it. I notice that I can't just jump right back into it as fast if I haven't been doing it in a while, so try to get regular practice to keep you in your best form.

I've only had one instance in which I sucked a guy at work, but I've had sex with co-workers outside of work, and I've also gone to other people's work locations to have sex with them at their job. The guy I sucked at work had already known I was gay and was OK with it and we would even joke about it now and then. We were both working late this particular night and it was just us two in the office. He came into my office and told me he needed a break and asked me how I was doing with my project. I told him I was still working on mine as well. He said his was stressing him out and I suggested he sit down and relax for a bit to lower his stress and he responded that he usually jacks off when he's stressed. I told him I'd never heard that before and he joked that he thought maybe I sucked dick when I was stressed. I joked that I didn't need to be stressed to suck dick, that I sucked dick no matter how I was feeling and he asked if I felt like sucking dick right now, and I said I always feel like sucking dick. Without saying a word he dropped his pants to his knees and sat down and said 'why don't you do me a solid"? I got up out of my chair, got on my knees and sucked him off. He shot in my mouth and I swallowed him down and he zipped up and went back to his office with no words spoken. After that when we would hang out with the work group after work for drinks now and then he'd ask me to "do him a solid" and I'd suck him off in his car before he went home to his wife. That went on until he went to work for another company. One of the most memorable work situations was this older married guy I used to hook up with who couldn't host and wasn't always able to get away after work for a quickie. He would have me come to his work and pretend I was a vendor who was there to meet with him. I'd pre-lub before I got there. He'd take me into the conference room, close the door, bend me over the table and fuck me like an animal for about 10-15 minutes and cum in my ass. He'd zip up and our "meeting" was over. I think we did the "vendor" thing about three times. I also use to suck off an attorney who would have me call and schedule a "consultation" with his secretary and once in his office he would lay back in his chair and I'd suck him off. He worked for a big law firm and I had numerous consultations with him and I don't think his secretary ever caught on.

I used to have a fuck buddy who had four large screen tvs in his room, one on each wall. He'd have porn playing on all of them with the sound on and different video on each. He said he loved having sex that way because it made him feel like he was at an orgy or in a sex club.

I've had a guy shoot up my nose before.

I'm glad I don't have these worries. Most of my hookups are with regulars or guys I find online. I didn't realize so much drama took place at the sex clubs.

The "lockdown" isn't even going to be enough to get rid of the corona virus. I doubt it would be able to get rid of STD's as well.

I know a guy in Puerto Rico who rents out one of his rooms as an Air BNB. He waives the rental fee if you're willing to have regular sex with him while he's there.

I had forgotten to mention the photo sensitivity to your skin and the ability to sunburn easily. Thanks for adding that in there!

Just an FYI, don't use expired Doxycycline. This is one of the medications that does not do well beyond its expiration date (especially in capsule form) and using expired Doxycycline has been linked to kidney damage. Although it is rare, people with Kidney disease are also at risk of developing life-threatening complications from use of Doxycycline.

A lot of medications or drug metabolites get passed thru to piss, and since a lot of older guys are on them, you can sometimes tell by the taste of their piss.

Tried poppers once. All I got was a really bad headache. Never tried them again.

I definitely try to look when I'm at a urinal and see what there is to be seen. I'll also see if the guy I'm looking toward has a reaction towards me trying to peek. Sometimes I get a "what's wrong with you" kind of look or the guy just looks away. I've only had a couple of rare occasions where I got an inviting look and one instance in which a guy actually stepped back a little so I could get a better look. I used to have a fuck buddy who would take me to his work now and then and he worked at an old factory building where the men's room still had those big metal troughs. I used to try to spend as much time in there as I could and a lot of guys didn't seem to mind if you looked, probably because they were so used to it being open. It reminded me when I was a kid and my parents used to take me to the baseball stadium and I'd love to see the guys pissing in the troughs.

I just tell them flat out that I only fuck bare and they usually disappear on their own.

I try not to put too many details into my fantasies and keep them more as concepts than well drawn-out fantasies. In the past when I have drawn out all the details as a fantasy and then it "happens", it never matches the fantasy as I thought it would, so I moved onto the "concept" theory instead. I have concepts I still want to try, but haven't had a chance to live them out yet.

Most guys I've been with try to shoot in as deep as they possibly can. I've only had one guy who liked to shoot with just barely his dickhead stuck in there. He told me he liked to watch his own dick throb as he shot.

I've done it quite a few times. It's great when all the people and the angles all fit together, but not every 3way is ideal for double penetration. Positions, physical sizes of people involved, dick size and any bend/angles can make it difficult to accomplish at times.

A lot of guys seem to call my hole a cunt a lot, and that's my brother's favorite term as well. A lot of the black guys I know like to call it my pussy or boipussy, and a lot of the truckers I've been with refer to it as my man hole, fuck hole or shit hole.

I think your view is pretty unique. I don't know any bottoms myself that would agree with this, as man bottoms, like myself, acknowledge that there is a big difference of position and power in our sexual roles.

My very first anal experience was bareback. I've never stopped since.