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  1. Alarm bells ring for me too from what you say. Sadly he has much to gain from you so it is not easy to know what his real motivations are. He is not in a position to dictate terms. You should not let your desire for a relationship blind you to the danger of being fucked over instead of just fucked. Be very careful.
  2. Thanks for the factoids! Re the neg test, it's not only not having fucked since, it's also not having fucked in the window period before the test. No wonder people are confused!
  3. Did I do this right? A top on BBRT had 'Ask me' for his HIV status, and mine is an honest 'Not sure'. I wrote... "Also if you fancy a fuck sometime let me know your HIV status. I tested neg a couple of months ago but do fuck poz guys bare and take poz undetectable guys, so not sure of mine." He replied... "I'm undetectable..." I immediately thought of the post where someone reported a guy said he was undetectable because no one could tell he was poz, and also of the follow up medical history questions needed to qualify the answer of true undetectable, but I kind of lost the courage to persist and engage at that level. We didn't hook up after all that but I still couldn't be sure whether he was telling me the truth or just what he hoped would get him in my butt
  4. I don't know if you are being asked that as a top or a bottom. If as a bottom I take "are you clean" as meaning have you cleaned out your ass.
  5. I get blocked as well. Try to look on it as their problem which it is. They have the problem with you, you are best off finding it out early.. I got blocked this morning on Squirt - guy looked at my profile, Squirt told me I was being cruised, and when I clicked on his entry in the list it told me he had blocked me. I guess he did not want me perving his profile. Dirty old man and all that crap. Whatever.
  6. It is difficult to describe, baregeil, partly because it's the imagination and the thought of what's actually happening that intensifies the physical sensations. I feel the total intimacy of accepting him in you without a barrier is what makes it special - he's giving you his sperm and you are taking it to keep. I guess as he said he was not experienced either that he found it amazing too? He should. The feeling of your tight hole giving way to his cock pressing inside, and the warmth enveloping his cock as your hole wraps round it. Hopefully he can become a regular fuck buddy, but whatever happens, so long as you are careful with your choice of bare top, and stay away from anonymous sex, I think your risks are going to be kept low but then I feel sure you know that by now. Have fun!
  7. That's true Cannero, on naked nights especially - Mon and Thu. Seems to be any darkroom area is for raw fucking. Sometimes you hear a condom wrapper being ripped open but rarely. People don't like to be seen to be fucking bare it seems. Vault 139 is pretty dark in places. Only has a small washroom though. Can be awkward. The Underground Club under Central Station at Kings Cross has a darkroom, most saunas have darkrooms such as Pleasuredrome, Chariots Shoreditch, and others. There's a lot going on. But you take your chances as to when the busiest times and best action is. Depends a lot on how forward you are and impervious to brush-offs I guess unless you're a hot fucker.
  8. I am a 57 year-old so fast approaching that milestone. Never had sex with a woman. It feels really odd to hear about guys a little above my age being a Grandad figure. But I guess it's then ok to have the young early 20s lads sit on my knee... or on something else down there! I am just getting used to calling myself a Daddy figure, though of course as you get older it's the late 30s early 40s who see you as a Daddy! It is a niche taste to be sure, but my admirers tend to be in their 30s upwards. I have a poz undetectable bottom pump and dump buddy, a short 46 year old italian, that I see once or twice a week to breed. He loves my cock. It is 6 inches, but it is thick and he loves it. It is ideal for aiming down and stroking his prostate with. Alternating slow and fast, short and long strokes. He loves when I pull right out and then plunge back in. I also tend to shoot a big load and he proudly tells me he still has it in him by email the following morning. Sadly there's no intimacy apart from fucking his hole. No post coital hugs or hole fingering. Well no fingering when I am there... after I see his BBRT advertising for guys to fuck his cummy hole... I smile! My best buddy is a 30s latino poz undetectable hottie, the first time I met him he was so into me. Quickly introduced we got down to kissing and cuddling and then he turned around and bent over on the couch. I lined up behind, rimmed his hole, spit on my cock and pressed in. He loved it, we fucked for a bit then we changed positions and he did the same to me. We flipped-fucked and sucked the night away. And snuggled up inbetween.
  9. Raw Heat is not listed at the moment but is not on a Wednesday generally. Check BBRT Local parties in Greater London on Monday to see what's happening on Wednesday.
  10. Baregeil, our newest club member, your ass is not the only thing that is now full, so is your message inbox
  11. Big hug! Lovely to see you're so happy about it and enjoyed it. And 2 loads! He was obviously as excited as you. Enjoy the glow
  12. TxBBTop, thank you, I really appreciate the compliment. I just checked your BBRT profile too. You'd be very welcome to breed my ass - if only we were closer :)

  13. Dammit, can we come and watch, hehehehe
  14. I have an open fuck buddy relationship with a poz undetectable guy, and he's 26 years younger, so it is similar. My other friends know he's a buddy of mine, but not that he's poz, and they don't know I bareback either. They don't need to know. This is between you two only. As has been said, I'd say you should let him decide if he wants to tell anyone he's poz, and perhaps avoid telling people that you fuck bare or you'll likely freak them out. Good luck.
  15. Ah, well 22 is better. You prefer older men Seriously though, it's nice that you are both similar ages, exploring together. Report back, complete with diagrams
  16. Well one day of restraint is better than nothing, dear Baregeil Your excitement is obvious from your post, if he's holding off cumming until Tuesday, and he's 20 year old hot top, I think you might find you get a big load quite early and then a leisurely second load and after a bit of a cuddle a third...
  17. ... we did, and you are doing us proud in being sure before letting him 'do' you proud
  18. slowfuck

    Bbrt

    I too just hook up there. I didn't really register there was chat on BBRT. I will give it a go. I am there with the same name.
  19. He's hot, 22 and a top? I admire your restraint Baregeil Yes, please keep us posted. Good luck!
  20. Matias47, that's broadly much like me except I will flip fuck as versatile, so I think it odd to rim a top. It sends out confusing signals to my mind. So I will say No to the question but not necessarily no to the top! Can I do that, lol. You might find your 'top' bends over and spreads his cheeks - awkwardness over what he expects next - then there's that awkward moment when the top/bottom status is re-established and re-set.
  21. Several possibilities all a bit of a gamble. I checked your BBRT profile out and see you like the younger guys. Sweatbox sauna has a younger crowd, Pleasuredrome sauna at Waterloo could be good too with a mixed crowd and a fairly busy darkroom. Chariots saunas at Vauxhall and Shoreditch are possible too. Mainly earlier on but check the Local Parties ads for London on BBRT too. Good luck in your choice and hope you find a bottom or three to seed.
  22. I think there are a lot of bottoms craving bare but not wanting to really be poz. I'm guessing most of the lurkers here for a start. Plenty of 'neg' looking for 'neg only' on Bareback RT as well. In the real world I reckon it is possible to make it through without being pozzed with luck and judgement. Judgement alone is not sufficient though, unless you never have sex. Good luck
  23. Pulzer, that is a 'big fucker' of a cock
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