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I'm curious... At these hypothetical orgies, if I suck every cock presented to me, enthusiastically take every dick, lick every ass, and make out with every interested guy at an orgy, including other bottoms, but my dick doesn't get hard, am I still welcome?
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You'll note I said I pushed him off or went soft, I didn't say anything out loud for just that reason. I'd already said no non-verbally twice to this guy, but don't think for a moment that douchebags like him don't *rely* on that "preserving the vibe" pressure to silence guys like me and get away without consequences. This kind of thing has happened to me before and I've been told I'm the problem for not letting a rapey little goblin do whatever they like to me. It sounded not at all dissimilar to what you said above. I didn't realize it was implicit in an orgy that anyone can do anything to anyone else that they like, even if they say no several times. The meta problem here isn't orgy etiquette, it's that gay men collectively suck at understanding and honoring consent.
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Guys, your feelings about your dick are immaterial to bottoms. We love a man who needs hole. Apologies to the news industry, but when it coms to men's dick, if it breeds, it leads.
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There's a lot more of us who love all men's dicks and love getting fucked by them than you think. Dick size is a dumb filtering criteria. Some of the best fucks I've ever had were guys with average sized dicks but who had incredible fuck energy.
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As in quantum physics, the act of observing (and recording) sex changes what the experience is for the participants. In psychology, this is called the Hawthorne Effect. I abhor the performative in power dynamics and sex. So much so that I wonder if authenticity in sexual experience might be one of my kinks. I think filming for personal viewing versus as content to share via social media or only fans type platforms makes a big difference as well.
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Share your Twitter handle to connect with other barebackers
blackrobe replied to silverlining's topic in General Discussion
Connecting with other bare backers is great. I just hate what X/twitter is now so I don't ever go there. Bluesky is a better environment for me. -
You'd have ethically been within your rights to slap the phone out of his hand. Perhaps not legally though.
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I have a thing for guys with great asses. I don't want to fuck their ass, I want them to fuck mine and grab that hot ass as they pound into me. Full marks for giving your man the gift of ass. His strong ass, his strong thighs, makes me spread mine wide. 🥵
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Miscellaneous sites - individual video links here
blackrobe replied to ottawawhtverbttm's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Not being able to cast to another device is usually a protected content streaming format issue. What site is the problem? -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Happy birthday! -
For those considering an early read on substack, the posts comprising this story are all tagged as PAID, requiring a subscription to read them in their entirety.
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You're killing me, son.
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I'm so weary of the fiction that *all* men can *decide* to be versatile. It smacks of "can't you just decide to be straight" to me. There's a big difference between a guy who prefers to bottom vs. a guy who is wired as a bottom. The guy who prefers to bottom, but can top too, has other options and that's awesome (but he still gets to choose). That isn't me. I'm wired as a bottom so my dick isn't the center of my sexuality and penetrating someone doesn't turn me on very often. Trying to penetrate when I'm not into it... Does. Not. Work. The number of times I've been into penetrating someone in the last 30 years can be counted on one hand. The narratives that bottoms are "selfish" and "withholding their dicks" are fallacious and reek of ignorance and unhealthy entitlement. Those narratives ignore or seek to invalidate the bottom's autonomy over their body. What *really* bugs me are the guys that ignore me saying "I don't top", back up on my dick when I can't move away, then get pissed at me when my boner evaporates or I push them off. Firstly, not my choice, not my fault. Second, "forced to penetrate" is a category of rape. I get it, I have a nice dick and plenty of guys want to suck it and have it up their ass. I'd have a lot more sex if I topped, believe me, but I'm just not wired that way. If I could just *decide* to top and it would happen, I would have fucked a lot more ass over the years. I participate fully and play well in groups according to my nature. Asking me to do something I either can't do or don't enjoy because it you expect or want it is not cool with me.
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The great thing about FWBs is having the space to grow and explore like this, and a treat when a man tries new things.
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<Fx: The sound of hundreds of mature bottoms checking flights though BUR and LAX>
