blackrobe
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Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms
blackrobe replied to jcklvrga's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
If a bottom gets pain from condoms (they pinch me inside), or they are allergic to latex, or being cut off from the man's dick and cum doesn't work for them, they get to say no. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Workman's lunch? -
I'd enjoy hearing that story.
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Tops becoming always more agressive and rough
blackrobe replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
I've been a member of Seattle Men in Leather in the past, but never found the kind of connections and mentorship that have happened in traditional leather communities. I think I'm wired for the more well trained, curious, and human dominants. I'm very clued into subtle things and when I've connected with dominants they've enjoyed and respected my nature. Sadly, many men using the term dominant are in the middle of a false flag operation. There are also tops who discover that ripple of understanding inside them when they feel a bottom giving them something extra that they didn't realize they really wanted and needed. I'm happy to speak more in private. -
Tops becoming always more agressive and rough
blackrobe replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
I'd love you to expand on this. I have my own observations, but I'm keen to hear your thoughts. Let's be real, Dominant ≠ Aggressive. Some of the most effective dominant men I know move slowly, speak softly, and would never be described as aggressive. A dominant man can be aggressive, but too much of that can read as performative to me. Topping is even more nuanced and broad-ranging than domination. There is definitely a trend of some men being confused about what being a top asks of them and how to move into topping authentically and confidently. This is in the same way that men focus on aggression and exerting control because they think those are the bellwethers of being masculine. -
Navy blue hankies have white paisley on them already, so the polka dots are redundant. There *is* a black and white checked hanky that's for flagging safe-sex bottom and top. Given that, I always read a navy hanky as bareback fucking and breeding.
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Good man. I love getting fucked filthy in a man's office or workplace and leaving with his nut buried deep.
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I've had a few dozen in the last few days.
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I've had some great dick by being nearby and happy to take over from bottoms who don't understand the assignment or can't complete it. The guys are rarely "too big", but they often are very hard which makes the bottom tapping out hard to understand for me. Taking dicks that might be a personal challenge for you is the gig.
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Firstly, when people come for you for the kind of sex you're having, what's happening is about them, not you. They could simply be a troll (Don't feed the trolls!), but I suspect something else is happening. Envying how much sex you have, and the kind of sex you're having that they want and are (unreasonably and pathologically) afraid of are strong starters. All kinds of projection are possible too. I challenge you to flip the script and see every ignorant, pathological, and pathetic word they type as evidence of their twisted psyche unraveling. I'd be tempted to find a well known mental health organization in their location and after every unhinged post they make on yours, I'd post something like "If you're in a mental health crisis, please contact NAME on CONTACT_INFO for help" and say nothing else. I had the same kind of fixated obsessive guy dogging me in a forum and in the end I robbed him of all the attention he needed by utterly ignoring him.
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I know you're not humble-bragging, and thick inches are the best inches to stretch around.
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He lost focus on your preferences and needs. The breeder sets the language and tone.
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
blackrobe replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Interesting. When I contemplate being single, I'd be focused on relationships that open up to more sexual expression, not less. A companion or companions into us all fucking as many people as we can quite openly. I think having lived a life and a lot of life challenges to deal with makes you more compassionate, more open, more likely to chart your own course in the types of relationships you invest in. I don't think marriage is antithetical to a more sexually open life. Straight people have had open marriages and slutty promiscuous sex for centuries. Relationships are what those in them decide they are. -
Is your son a legal adult and not otherwise under your power or control?
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
blackrobe replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
That's is as ridiculous as those fake Grindr profiles looking for LTRs and monogamy.
