blackrobe
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I have a time/distance travel rule. Ideally, the play is twice as long as the round drip travel time, but never less than the round trip travel time. 30 minute each way needs to be between 1 (minimum) and 2 hours of play. If I get pushback I tell them if I'm making a commitment of my time and resources, they need to make a corresponding commitment of their time and effort. I had a character on Sniffies tell me he had a proposal for me. He asked me to pick up a traveling guy he wanted to play with from his place and drive him to the hosts place. That was a 45 minute one-way trip. He didn't say what was in it for me, so I asked him what the inducement would be. It hadn't occurred to him he'd need one! He muddled about and said that I could watch. It astounds me what some guys have the gall, the effrontery, to expect from strangers. I passed.
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What you're describing here is not a "typical sub" in my experience, it's a bossy BDSM bottom (not at all submissive) who has confused what he wants with actual power exchange. Nor is the performative domination you describe what actual power exchange usually looks like. These bottoms are either ignorant, manipulative, or fundamentally misunderstand what submission is. A typical submissive bottom is there for whatever experience the top requires. Good alignment in interests can make the experience better for both, but it's not usually what drives a submissive bottom. They want to please the top as the first order goal. Wilde was right, "Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." Meaning there are power dynamics at play in all sex. What you describe as using a bottom definitely has elements of your control and your desires being met your way. Lots of bottoms who don't identify as submissive will *love* that energy from a top. How you deliver that use determines whether it's read as demanding, selfish, piggy, dominant, etc. You can be a cumdump without being submissive and vice versa, but plenty of bottoms become cumdumps because of their submissive journey.
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Welcome! You're the dad we all want to help out with our hungry asses.
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I think the point is that there is nothing wrong with you. Whether you are just curious and exploring, or whether this is a part of your sexual evolution, you're totally okay.
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bdsmlr doesn't render any content in my feed, just ads. I've researched, flushed caches, tried different browsers, etc. but it's worthless on Safari and Chrome on MacOS.
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Sucking a penis is analogous to being fucked
blackrobe replied to sashaer's topic in General Discussion
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What would you call the man who swallowed your sperm?
blackrobe replied to sashaer's topic in General Discussion
... is the correct answer! -
...aaaand now I have questions.
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Sluts, how often do you deal with STDs?
blackrobe replied to breakland's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
There are plenty of asymptomatic STIs that you wouldn't know to test for. That's the reason regular testing periods are the gold standard. Not having symptoms of an STI does not equal being STI negative. -
Dentists are very poorly trained, both in what the varied clinical uses of Truvada and Descovy are, and in how to communicate and ask questions about them. I went to the UW Dental School clinic and they assumed I was HIV+ after seeing Descovy in my meds (even though it wasn't in my history) and when I explained that it was used for PrEP and how it worked they had no idea about it and didn't believe me. I spoke to one of the supervising instructors and told them that the students need to be better educated for their clinical work? Also, how was it that the UW Student Health people hadn't educated their students about PrEP as an personal option for all sexually active students?
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To me, the topic title and the contents of the topic aren't the same subject. For me, "a man I don't like" isn't about their looks at all. It's about them being unkind, an asshole, etc. In other words it's about their behavior and impact on others, not their looks. Now if it had said, "a man I don't find attractive" I'd have understood. When you're presenting your ass with the door open in the bathhouse, you don't know who they are, or anything about their character. Just what you might glimpse in the dim light as they rub their meaty cock over your hole and dip it inside you. If I recognize an unkind/asshole guy or someone makes me feel unsafe I'll wave them off, but otherwise all men get hole. It's how they fuck me and how much they enjoy themselves that determines how I end up feeling about, and remembering them.
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In the absence of a CNC negotiation, hell yes.
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Deep impregnation for the win.
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Drugged and raped, so very negative.
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Best Cruising sites for Storefront, ABS, etc.
blackrobe replied to Reble's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Squirt.org is dead. They're being outcompeted more broadly, their in-person cruising niche has less and less value as cruising becomes more online, with less users their user sources cruising data gets more stale and less useful, and their user experience is so old it's kind of embarrassing. They're also compromising that user experience with all kinds of annoying ad email (I suspect to try and keep the lights on). Unless they have a brilliant pivot they haven't signaled, it's a matter of time before they sell their cruising location data or fade away.
