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blackrobe

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  1. As a rule, no. I don't get hard when I bottom. I get really aroused and my dick leaks gobs and gobs of precum, so much that my daddy always remarks on how wet I make his bed when he fucks me. He collects it off my dick and feeds it to me as he fucks me. Other partners have also reacted very favorably to how much precum they can fuck out of me. That seems a pretty clear indication of how much I'm into getting fucked. Great kissers and passionate making out gets me hard, having my nipples played with can get me really hard too. When it's time to get fucked I go soft, but the feeling of arousal doesn't go away at all. If anything it increases. Anyone who thinks "not hard" means "not aroused" should listen to how the bottom they're with actually feels over their own preconceptions. Not everyone is wired the same and no one should expect us to be. There are lots of things that might account for variations in erections and how it correlates with arousal. Our basic physiology and neurology, our emotional state, our intent when we bottom (whether it's to service breeders as much as they want, or to ejaculate ourselves), our past experiences of sex and sexual arousal (both good and bad), they can all play a part in how men respond when aroused and being fucked.
  2. "Miss Coco is here to help..."
  3. Yeah, this is definitely a thing for me as well. I'm average height and breeders much shorter, and much taller (size difference kink), than me press powerful buttons. Shorter breeders who are instinctive impregnators seem to have a strong effect on me and make me especially receptive.
  4. Hot, fresh seed delivered deep and direct is still the gold standard.
  5. Oooh. Oooh. Me! I'll take their share of both!
  6. You still fulfilled one of your most important functions.
  7. I'm well aware. I was born and raised in Sydney and, while it's a huge melting pot of different ethnicities, people of African descent are certainly not as common. Looking at the latest Census data only reveals the most recent foreign born Australians (29% of the total population in 2021), it doesn't illuminate earlier Asian and European and ROW migration or enumerate their descendants. I'm glad you're enjoying being so in demand there. I suspect you'd be in demand here as well, but the accent advantage isn't the same.
  8. That pretty much covers my own hypotheses as well. I think the sexual frustration coming from the repression of the (man) sex they really need is an additional layer as well. Since I don't know what region of Australia you're in (it's a big country) its hard to layer on possible local cultural and multi-cultural factors too. Aussie men have their own masculine baggage. My daddy here in Seattle loves sending me home to my husband filled with his seed as well. I think there's some universality on both sides of the equation.
  9. Is that recommendation from experience, or is it just theoretical?
  10. They do suit you, I think.
  11. My husband was diagnosed with an aggressive form of prostate cancer (Gleason score of 9), an old friend just got diagnosed and treated this year for a slightly less aggressive PC (Gleason 8), and a newer friend just got diagnosed with PC last month (Gleason 8). They all had routine PSA tests that were abnormally high, so it's worth paying attention to. Considering 1 in 2 men will get prostate cancer in their lifetime, it feels to me like the unlucky 50% are all in my circle.
  12. Yup. Everyone should get an exam and once you're over 50 look at getting a PSA test. If I want to feel pleasure in my hole I'll visit my daddy or a regular, not a doctor.
  13. Don't lose sight of the fact that Australian expats (like me) and travelers are everywhere. About 5% of the Australian population lives and works outside Australia. You don't need to be in Australia to fuck Australians, there's almost certainly some hot, horny, kinky guys near you!
  14. This. I was drugged and then raped at 12. My memories end when he climbed on top of me in his briefs and pick up again the next morning when I'm in the shower feeling weird (post-drug haze or disassociation) and with a really sore hole. I don't have memories of the experience, but my underwear was quite bloody so that says a lot. Part of the human mind's evolutionary development is to make sense of the world we live in and to rationalize our experiences. I spent plenty of time getting help when I realized what had been done to me and how it had affected me years later. I've been in men's groups where we talked about what happened to us and how we came to understand and integrate it into our lives. We renovate our memories after the fact and give new and different meaning to them as part of finding a way to make sense of them and to live with them. The same thing happens in near real time as well. Almost every kid finds a way to make what happened to them their fault. It's only in the process of understanding what happened to them that they see their limited agency and the part the adult played in a more objective light. There is no clear correlation between the severity of the experience and the impact it has on the individual. Some men who had a man expose himself to them, but never touched them, are horribly scarred, while others who were brutally and repeatedly raped over years are much more functional. It's not what was done to you, it's how it affected you. That varies wildly according to the individuals nature, knowledge, and gifts.
  15. I think I found the photograph that this might be based on...
  16. I had no idea these had a name, let alone one so alliterative.
  17. I think anything that stimulates some more broad-ranging self-examination in people is not entirely a bad thing. There are certainly occasions where a dialog is contra-indicated. For example, when someone has a PTSD-based response to something posted here. There are plenty of threads where it's very clear there are people who don't have open minds on their certitude or fallibility. In the past, I've had a dialog with those people elsewhere for the benefit of everyone *else* who is reading the thread. I know nothing will change their minds, but the other people with critical thinking skills will get to understand better in the process.
  18. A thoughtful response, as always. I vastly prefer giving positive feedback myself. I'd offer at least one counterpoint to your thought though. In a lot of discussions commenting can add more fuel to a fire that you might think should just be allowed to go out. In those cases, I think downvoting is a way of signaling that without adding that fuel. To your point, however, in some cases it's pretty clear that some individuals have used downvoting in a vengeful way. I think those cases are fairly easy to see.
  19. That's far too long. I'm sure you must be able to get some respite care from some local agency. Have someone else take care of your charge for a day so you can have a break and breed.
  20. This is a tale as old as time. I was a sysop of a BBS in the pre-internet days (you can look it up). Sysops were responsible for moderating content in forums originating on their system to be compliant with local laws even then. I've been hearing the same kinds of "big bad sysop/moderator was mean/unjust to me" stories since the late 80s. With the global reach of the internet, the complexity is multiplied by the need to comply with laws in *all* jurisdictions your users come from, not just the ones where your site is hosted. It's a difficult, unenviable, and completely thankless job. It's also an entirely necessary one if you want a site to continue to exist for your use. That's not to say some sysops back in the day didn't have themselves a power trip and get too controlling. But back then the restrictions were less stringent, the consequences less harsh, and the likelihood of LEO engagement much lower than today. The amount of content that needs to be moderated now is staggering. I can guarantee that moderators hope they don't *have* to take any kinds of actions, because it's just work.
  21. Some great past breeders have been Asian and Pacific Islanders and South Asian. I think that's just a function of population statistics rather than any specific choice. I have had great experiences with Vietnamese and Filipino men who have been piggy, kinky, and passionate. I like strong looking and obviously sexually mature men, so if they are furry, older, and with facial and body hair I'm going to be paying attention. To the OP's point, I've always found strong, furry, and tattooed Japanese men very sexy.
  22. Those sound like incorrectly sized and ill-fitting cages.
  23. You want bottoms that are sluts for the whole man - his vibe, his cock, his cum. We exist. The best way to make a bottom prefer you fucking them is by being the best fuck for them, by pressing their buttons and making them need you to fuck and impregnate them more than any other man.
  24. I think everyone has different things that they think of as emotionally intimate. For me, kissing is a very basic sexual act that's tough to do without. It does have levels of intimacy, but it's the connection with the man that adds that, it's not intrinsically in the act of kissing itself. Some find being bred deeply intimate, for others its mindful touching, for others it's just being held. I think a much more likely culprit for the OP's experience with this man is internalized homophobia. It's not at all uncommon for same-sex attracted men to create arbitrary lines in their minds that keep them "straight" so long as they don't cross them. Many gay men's coming out stories have shown this dynamic. However he identifies, that this man used the word "dangerous" to describe kissing makes me think he's decided kissing is on the super-gay side of the line, which makes kissing a threat to his straightness. That way, provided he doesn't kiss a man, he can protect and maintain his "straight" identity. It's a form of bargaining that we do with ourselves as a way of rationalizing our behavior. For example, "No matter what I do with men, provided I don't kiss them or have feelings for them, I'm not gay. I'm just getting off with a mate." The human ability to rationalize our behavior to maintain our equalibrium cannot be underestimated.
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