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As someone who's adopted and didn't know their ethnicity for most of their life, I've always thought the socially constructed idea of race, and with it concepts of blackness and whiteness, are too arbitrary, simplistic, and disconnected from actual genetic heritage to be of much use. Regardless, humans are wired to identify and recognize who seems the same as them and who seems different. I grew up in a melting pot so I've always saw Lebanese, Italian, Greek, Vietnamese, Cambodian, etc. people around me. Weirdly, when I came out and started to move in gay circles, I didn't see all the ethnicities of my childhood visible in the same numbers. Likely a function of opportunity, and relative affluence since I was living in a big city. As my life has gone on, I've travelled, and have lived in a country different from my birth for approaching half my life. I've learned this... that difference has made my life richer. In cultures, in literature, in food, in music, in film, and, yes, in men. When I found through DNA testing that I was mostly of Irish ancestry (except for some DNA from Morocco) I was a little disappointed. I think I was hoping for a little more difference in me. I feel like I'm kind of boring. That just makes the differences in others all the more interesting to explore.
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Thanks for the follow. Giving my ass to breeders and taking their impregnation is a calling.
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There is more information on his passing under his original name, Paul Yinger, for those who might want to find out more.
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I think I saw a thread on this elsewhere on this site, showing a continuum from total top to total bottom. From memory I think it looked like this: Top - Only tops Top Versatile - Top but bottoms under the right conditions Versatile Top - Versatile but prefers to top Versatile - Versatile with no preference for top or bottom Versatile Bottom - Versatile but prefers to bottom Bottom Versatile - Bottom but tops under the right conditions Bottom - Only bottoms If I recall correctly the premise of the continuum was that it tried to express the gradations of proclivity to top or bottom. In that scale, I think the people you're talking about seem to be more accurately expressed as Bottom Versatile. I consider my self a total bottom as I have no drive or interest in topping at all. However, on a couple of occasions when I've been playing with guys who top me very well, they've turned me on hard and been curious and wanted my cock inside them (I'm told I have a very pretty dick). This is where my submissive wiring lines up with how turned on I am and they can mount and use me because my drive to please them is so strong. I know they will be fucking me good and hard in short order. I don't think this moves me into the "Bottom Versatile" bucket, as I'm being used and not using.
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I've been making a point of telling guys I only fuck bare and sober. I want to be able to consent and if they are so altered that I don't think they are able to consent, I won't give them mine. I've ended up driving guys who are much drunker than they seem home quite a bit lately.
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I hate that inauthentic shit, it's why I can't watch most porn. I give a breeder the courtesy of showing him how he's affecting me for real.
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How Old Were You When You Took Your First Load?
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
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Offering Head on BBRT-How Should I Respond
blackrobe replied to BlackDude's topic in General Discussion
A man who uses mendicant in his vocabulary gets whatever the fuck he needs from me. -
That's what I suspected, but needed you to punt it before I could escalate to Apple. Thanks.
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Bug: I've tried to put in an upvote reaction on a few posts in the last few days and I've found that the expand on hover reaction UI collapses unexpectedly while I'm still hovering on it. This limits the types of reactions that are possible. OS X 10.15.7 and Safari 15.3 (15612.4.9.1.8, 15612) Expected behavior: Reaction UI remains expanded until either a reaction is selected, or the mouse pointer leaves the hover area. I swapped out the trackpad with a USB mouse and found the problem persists, so it's not an obvious hardware issue. Doing a little more testing, the UI collapses as I move left past the SAD icon on multiple messages. The same problem doesn't occur on an affected message using Chrome (98.0.4758.102 (Official Build) (x86_64)) on the above OS version. Ergo this looks like it only affects Safari. It doesn't occur on Windows 10 + Chrome either.
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LTR with a Cumdump - Feasible or Fantasy?
blackrobe replied to Ieatcumholes's topic in General Discussion
Since my nature became clear to me, I've known that monogamy was a non-starter. What I've learned is that, while I love and crave offering up my receptive hole to many men, I do crave a deeper bond with a breeder or breeders that can add deeper meaning to my life. Any version of that involves them enjoying and supporting my nature, as I support and enjoy their own nature and need to fuck and fill other men. Going out and getting filled with cum for a man you love or are bonded to so he can enjoy it just makes everything better for me. The only thing better than that is staying home and doing the same thing for him while he watches. I think the kind of relationship you're looking for is possible. I think it's just an additional layer of filtering that makes finding the cumdump you can have a connection with more challenging. I think doing it when the cumdump isn't local to you, and he isn't one of your regular cumholes you've grown to want more from, is even tougher. -
This is a very apt description of how I'm wired. Even my nipples are wired to my ass.
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There are delirious and ecstatic states states of consciousness that fucking can take you to. I'm always honored and grateful when I experience it myself, or when I can enable it for a breeder.
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The prospect of being monetized for their benefit doesn't foster the kind of mutual connection I'm after. Nor am I into performative shenanigans. Be authentic, and be present.
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Do you bottoms wish you had a smaller cock?
blackrobe replied to PussyBottomBitch's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Thanks. The whole point is preventing you from getting hard in the cage. You get it in when your dick is soft. It takes some adjustment. -
Do you bottoms wish you had a smaller cock?
blackrobe replied to PussyBottomBitch's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I'm more modestly sized than you, but guys see my "pretty dick" and get dickstracted from my ass as well. One solution that has helped is getting a cage to lock my dick away. Firstly, it looks much smaller, and secondly it is impossible for them to get at.
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I'm 100% with you on this. A man's seed needs to be cherished. Earning a man's seed and having him fuck it deep inside you is an honor. Once he's bred it up into your gut, that's where it stays. I want men to fuck and breed me who really want/need to get their cum in my hole and want it to stay there. When I'm cherishing a breeders load, I'm thinking about him as I feel him inside me as I go about my day. My goal is always 100% absorption.
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I'm there for both. The longer a breeder takes to cum, and the more often he cums, the happier I am.
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Age psychology, like pricing psychology, is a real thing. It's pretty interesting seeing how differently people react to you once they know how old you are, vs just having seen your pics. From a purely marketing point of view, I completely understand why some men might fudge their age down a little.
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Barriers: Reasons why vulnerable people stop PrEP
blackrobe replied to fskn's topic in PrEP Discussion
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Its overwhelming colloquial use is "big black cock". Google search for each term with the following result counts: "big black cock" = About 2,620,000,000 results (0.40 seconds) "big bare cock" = About 141,000,000 results (0.31 seconds) 2.6 billion vs. 141 million makes it clear which term is meant most frequently by using the acronym "bbc". That established, there are clearly racial connotations when "black" is in the term.
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You're getting some good advice here, @LurkingBottom. If you haven't had the HPV vaccine, regardless of your age and the amount of sexual experience you've had, get vaccinated immediately. There are 6 or 7 cancer causing strains of HPV out of about 34 last time I checked the research. There is no test to determine the strains of HPV you've been exposed to, but based on the probabilities, it's prudent to assume it's one of the non-cancer causing strains and that eventually you will be exposed to a cancer causing strain. So get vaccinated ASAP! I would get a doctor to treat you and not use any over the counter treatment. Anal warts are very likely to be inside the rectum as well as on the outside. They'll need to be dealt with in there as well.
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"BBC" is a very troubling acronym rooted in racism. If it wasn't then BWC would be used for big white cock just as often, but it isn't. I'm not suggesting that you make a hookup more than it is, just that you think about the man as a whole person and not just a black cock with a life support system to sustain it. Reading about, and talking to, black gay men and their experience has shown me how toxic and racist terms like that are ([think before following links] https://www.intomore.com/you/im-not-your-bbc/). It's problematic for black straight and bi men as well ([think before following links] https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/fetishisation-black-masculinity). If you use a term, it's best to understand how the men you are referring to receive it and feel about it.
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I'm sure you like the whole man, and aren't just objectifying and fetishizing him by reducing his whole humanity to his race and his cock.
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What staggers me about his position is that the reason why Catholic Doctrine is anti-contraception is that they hold sex needs to be open to procreation. By definition, gay sex is not procreative. So if a Catholic believes contraception is not allowed, then for the same underlying reason gay sex is also not allowed. It's also worth noting that the overwhelming majority of lay Catholics ignore the church's teaching on contraception and procreative sex. In a 2017 study (2015–2017 National Survey of Family Growth, administered by the National Center for Health Statistics), they found 99.0% of Catholic women had used birth control of some kind. For religiously non-affiliated women that number was 99.6%. If 99% of Catholic women don't follow the church's teaching on contraception, I really don't get why a gay man would purport to. PrEP is not, by any definition, a contraceptive so how it got dragged into this I really can't fathom.
