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I'm a daily user and that bug was fixed. Update to the latest version. -
Ethical Non-Monogamy is a valid option as well, let's not ignore it. Open relationships = No cheating.
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When an FB wants to get serious and you don’t
blackrobe replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
Unless they already are a housewife who is wired to service and satisfy breeders. -
I think many bottoms would find your idea of their inner sanctum familiar and resonant, regardless of their belief or non-belief. Your decision not to knowingly breed atheists or agnostics intrigues me. There's a missionary imperative in most religious traditions, a drive to bring ecstatic awareness of the divine and ultimately convert people with the power and presence of your own belief and faith. It's striking that, given the missionary tradition, the powerful anointing of breeding someone so deeply is something you avoid.
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I prefer long-haul fucking with skilled breeders, especially those who need to cum multiple times. It's rare to find top breeders interested in long-haul and overnight fucking (3-5 hours of solid fucking if it's not an overnight). I'm very lucky to have found a man recently that I have an intense connection with. He loves my body and wants to be inside me as long as possible. Last time we fucked for three solid hours and only stopped because I had another commitment. What you're seeing isn't a phenomena limited to bottoms, the vast majority of tops are looking to get off fast and move on. So much so, that I've been tempted by a t-shirt that says "I cleaned out for this?"
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I think you're embodying the "Platinum Rule" here. The Golden Rule is to treat others as you would want to be treated. Well, it's pretty clear that how people want to be treated when fucking varies wildly. The Platinum Rule is to treat people the way *they* want to be treated.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
The intent is good, but consider the law of unintended consequences. If you do, you'll see this $olution would be a terrible and unfair burden on some of us. On Grindr I'm solicited by 12 to ~20 100% fake scam profiles a day. These are mostly "love scams" and PII mining scams run out of China. Reporting them all has become too onerous (I've reported hundreds of them) so I've been blocking them instead. Requiring users who are targeted by scammers that Grindr has totally failed to prevent from engaging in their platform (thus driving their internal engagement metrics up) to PAY to block the bad actors Grindr's negligence has allowed to fester is every kind of unethical and fucked-up. -
I think it's very individual. But there needs to be a follow up clarifying question - to whom are we asking the *original* question? Bottoms and tops will have different points of view. My daddy started out surprised that I didn't need to cum when he fucked me. He learned that the more orgasms he had inside me the happier I was independent of ever having an orgasm myself. In fact, *not* cumming means I can be horny and hungry for more fucking and breeding as long as men need it. That feels to me like a bottom sluts first duty, be as horny as possible to help men breed for as long as possible. There's a lot of satisfaction in earning a breeders nut impregnating you deep in your guts. However, it's his bone-deep satisfaction and desire for a repeat that is my true goal, whether I'm someone who he's really turned on by and instinctively needs to impregnate, or simply a convenient utility fuck hole to give release and keep his nut safe for him. Specific men have been able to get my hole to spasm around them to varying degrees, some of them causing my whole body to spasm from the intensity of their fuck. Recently a man has managed to fuck me into incredibly intense sensations and anal spasms with his cock and body. We're both trying to take every chance for long sessions (the longest we've kept it up is 3 hours) to explore and experience this more. If these spasms are a form of anal orgasm, does it count? Does only cumming count? The anal spasms he fucks me into milk and pleasure his cock and, as they peak, my hole brings him over the edge and he breeds me intensely. If these spasms count as cumming and they deliver pleasure to a breeder, then the top might say it does matter if their bottom cums because of he extra pleasure it brings them. The degree to which the top gets pleasure from giving pleasure will be a big factor, versus focusing on their own satisfaction exclusively.
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There's lots of ways to tell. AI images leap out at me for their inauthenticity (for now). There's a bunch of tells depending on the AI system producing the image, neutrality of expression, eyes missing aliveness, skin/hair too regular and perfect, wrong textures, missing any text/nonsense text, nonsense tattoos, physics errors (E.g. douche attendant above has no reflection in the mirror behind him - not a vampire), too handsome/homogenized good looks, missing arms/legs/bodyparts, abnormal symmetry, anatomical improbabilities and impossibilities, mythical creature/animal hybridization, multiple subjects too similar/obvious micro-variations of two models, duplicate body parts, uncanny resemblances to famous people, airbrushed look, etc. etc. The better AI image systems can turn out very realistic looking people - mostly. For a fair sample across the spectrum from the obviously fantastical to the harder to spot, take a look at mengen.bdsmlr.com.
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Yeah, I've been on that ride too. I was shocked at first (disassociating level of shock) but it ultimately led to us opening our relationship (Ironically, I'd proposed it several times in the early days and got shot down hard). Sound familiar? I started out thinking I'd avoid guys who are cheating for ethical reasons, but at the end of the day there's no way to know what's the truth about someone else's relationship. I ended up deciding their conscience is their responsibility and it wasn't my job to police other people's behavior and that I just didn't have the data to do it effectively. The reality is that where I live about 80% of gay male relationships have some degree of openness (I recall hearing about 50% is the national average). For some men cheating is a kink whether it's real or imagined. I have a couple of regulars who love pumping their load inside me because they know I'm married (and open). After they fuck and impregnate me with their DNA I'll be going home to make dinner for my husband with their fresh seed in my ass. They fucking love that. I also have a guy who is an Alpha breeder in a monogamous relationship and sometimes he needs to cheat to stay with his man. Life is (hopefully) long and it gets complicated fast. I try to access my compassion and avoid judging others.
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BTW, using the Western dataset at CalcSD, at 5" in a room of 1000 men, 825 would be bigger than you, at 5.5" on 634 would be bigger. At 6" only 401 of the 1000 men would be bigger, and 6.5" only 199 would be bigger. Using the Global dataset the average sized dick goes down, penis size in Western countries seem to be larger on average.
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Pick your favorite dick and explain why you like it...
blackrobe replied to camelblue's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
You lucky, lucky bastard. -
What kind of guys turn you on? (Personality)
blackrobe replied to Blkmuscbreeder's topic in General Discussion
Do you know what it was about that fact about the beefy muscle daddy that affected your libido and breeding instinct so strongly? -
Huh, 205. I don't think anyone would look at me and guess I'd been so slutty, but it's nice that there's some runway to be sluttier.
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Thanks, my pics are all here:
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Squirt.org has jumped the shark. Their desktop implementation had more features and was more usable than their very badly designed mobile web site. When they sunset the desktop "legacy" site, I stopped logging in. It's frankly useless in its mobile form and with the feature deficits, Sniffies is far superior.
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Flowmax is also prescribed for folks with kidney stones. Same outcome, different reason.
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We landed in the same place. Since I already have hypertension, I can't take poppers anyway, so no great loss for me.
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I have no problem getting hard if I'm turned on in the ways I'm wired to respond to, but like having the safety net of one of these solutions in case it's something the breeder wants: I tried both and here's my experience: I found Viagra caused sharp headaches and I had a sense of my body being altered after having taken it. I do have genetic high blood pressure and can feel when my blood pressure is high in my body, taking Viagra feels like my blood pressure is high. Not pleasant. I found Cialis didn't make me feel altered and was pretty effective. That's what I've stuck with. I get 20mg tablets, cut them in half, and take 10mg when I'm hooking up. They last a couple of days from a 10mg dose. Last Saturday a Latino boy got me hard with his mouth and nipple play and rode my cock before pulling out and fucking me hard and fast. Pretty rare for me, and I think the Cialis made it easier.
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I loved that one too.
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Antibiotic resistant gonorrhea
blackrobe replied to sindiktas's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
If we knew what European country it would help. I'm guessing it's one of the least gay friendly ones at the tail end of the attached list.
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Antibiotic resistant gonorrhea
blackrobe replied to sindiktas's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Firstly, take a deep breath. You're fine. Second, what @viking8x6 said. What makes you think you're not cured? Did you test again after 14 days, or did the provider do a follow-up proof of cure test? If the former, you need to make sure you've waited long enough (especially with pharyngal gonorrhea), if the latter, the provider knows the protocol for follow up treatment. That said, I have to ask - are you in the US? If so, you should have got intramuscular ceftriaxone for "uncomplicated gonorrhea" per the CDC. That's the bog-standard kind that I'm betting you have and just needed to be given the right medication to treat it. The oral ofloxacinum you were prescribed this time is as, or more, curative of uncomplicated gonorrhea as intramuscular ceftriaxone based on this study, so I think you should relax and let the medication do its job. I just took a quick look at your posts on BZ and I noticed they are all about STIs - HIV, HPV, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc. I really recommend you find a clinic that caters to the gay community and get all your sexual health vaccinations, PrEP, Doxycycline PEP, etc. so you can get up to date information from people who know our community and help you be more informed and proactive about your sexual health. -
I started PrEP and had no side effects. Except I got to take a lot of bare dick and seed without fretting about HIV at all. I'd consider trying the daily dosing to see if ii's a matter of your body being able to adjust/adapt.
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On All Fours, Knees Together Or Apart?
blackrobe replied to TigerMilner's topic in General Discussion
Huh. I find that regardless of my position I'm fully engaged in the mechanics of the fuck. Knees apart involves a fair amount of muscular effort to maintain stability, match the breeder's rhythm, adjust the plane of my hips to the angle of their cock, etc. I've found breeders who want my knees together are more controlling of the fuck and tend to bounce me on and off their cock. It also puts some of the balance and stability into the breeders hands if my knees and feet are both together. -
On All Fours, Knees Together Or Apart?
blackrobe replied to TigerMilner's topic in General Discussion
A past breeder told me that knees together makes the sensation of fucking a hole different with pressure in different places. Making the hole feel "tighter" to some breeders. I do what breeders want to give them what they need.
