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Does sex matter without the load? To which I reply: Does cake matter without the frosting? I like cake. There are sooo many different types of cakes. Some are really good all on their own, like brownies for instance. A good brownie can be rich and fulfilling all by itself. (Yes, you could argue whether brownies are really cake, however I've been craving them so I'm sticking with my opinion.) On the other hand, some cakes simply aren't complete until the frosting has been slathered over the top and sides, and through the middle. While both frosted and un-frosted cake can be good, the situation in which they are served can influence your expectations and satisfaction with the outcome. If, for example, Ms. Manners invites you to tea and serves a Bundt cake, you probably won't be surprised that it is not frosted. (There may be some sugar glaze but that barely counts as precum and definitely doesn't count as frosting.) Compare that to a birthday cake. At a birthday, you'll probably expect a piece of cake topped with icing, and a few random bits of wax from the candles, and, if you don't get it and somehow end up with a bare-bones piece of sponge, you'll probably be disappointed. In that situation, you can only do two things: first, try to drop your expectations and just enjoy the party, and second, make sure the next party is hosted by someone who knows how to bake. I have to say that the worst cake I ever had was when I thought I was going to be served a nice big frosted piece but just at the last moment this guy pulled it back, scooped the icing off and drizzled it on the floor beside me. "Why -- oh why -- would you do that," I cried inside. It was the type of situation that makes you want to get down on all fours and and lick the frosting from the floor. On the other hand the best cake I've had was at a buffet where guys were going around sampling different types of cake. I was enjoying a nice piece of a bare brownie but suddenly a can of whipped cream appeared. It was, to use a phrase, "The icing on the cake."

I haven't seen anything that suggests autism is a risk factor for HIV, however there are studies that are suggesting the reverse: Autism isn't a psychological disorder but is instead a symptom of an immunological imbalance that may have viral origins. Here is a link to one such study: [think before following links] https://www.oatext.com/the-cause-of-autism-and-chronic-disease-from-misunderstanding-to-treatment-recovery-and-prevention.php#Article That said, autistic behaviors could lead to more risk taking which could lead to a higher rate of HIV. (And if the relationship I mentioned above is true, it could develop a feedback loop where a virus causes an imbalance that leads to behaviors that make someone more susceptible to future viral infections.) If you know of studies or statistics showing that type of correlation, or show percentages of people with both HIV and autism, I'd be interested in seeing them.

When I was a little boy, I loved going camping and being able to pee outside -- especially at night. I couldn't see the stream of piss or where it was landing, and sometimes it would land so softly on the grass that there would be no sound. With no visual references, I felt disembodied; feeling only a cool breeze on my exposed penis and the sensation of urine passing from my bladder. I found the experience oddly arousing. Most people have a dominant sense through which they perceive the world and validate their experiences. If you place yourself in a situation where your dominant sense is muted, it allows you to focus on information gathered by your other senses and thereby gain new perspectives on your situation/surroundings. Actors sometimes use this in sensory awareness training so they can more fully use all their senses in crafting a performance, and, it's something you can experience with almost anything (as long as it wouldn't cause a hazardous situation). So, for a sighted person, doing simple things like peeing in the dark or eating a meal blindfolded removes the distractions of sight and allows you to focus on what your other senses are telling you. If you can't see, one of your other senses will be dominant, so temporarily muting that sense might give you an idea of what I'm talking about. And, you may have noticed a similar effect when a dominant sound is shut off allowing the background noises to emerge. This occurred in some places that had lock-downs during the pandemic. The absence of traffic and industrial noise allowed people hear natural sounds that have become hidden by constant sound pollution. Anyway, back to sex. If you are a sighted person having sex in the dark, you reduce the distracting visual information which lets you focus on other aspects of the scene such as creating a hyper-awareness of the sensations of penetration, fullness, and other pleasures of the experience. If you do not have sight, it's understandable that you might be "baffled" by the draw since the experience of a darkroom is something that you would probably think of as "normal".

I'd tell myself three things: Trust your instincts. Don't listen to haters and bullies. Long term they will mean nothing and have no impact in your life. I'd also tell my younger self what my interest are now and suggest focusing some attention on those topics to avoid the aimless wandering search for inspiration. I never got any kind of 'sex talk' so I kind of figured it out on my own. I'd do myself the favor of explaining and showing a few things to make the process less awkward. And I'd let myself know when prep would be available to plan ahead.

After having my gallbladder removed, I had problems eating certain foods. Two things I found helpful were an acidophilus supplement, and a digestive enzymes supplement. Acidophilus helps to balance the ratio of bacteria in the digestive system. Digestive enzymes help break down various fats, dairy, proteins, etc so they are digested properly. There are different brands around and should be easy to Google to see if there's something you think might help you and find what is available in your area. Also be sure you are eating enough fiber -- fiber helps to bind things together and regulate water content in the intestines. If you have frequent diarrhea, that redness around your hole could be caused by contact with digestive acids. The condition is commonly known as diaper rash and can be aggravated by sweat from doing things like being on your bike for 2 hours. It's sort of common for cyclists and other athletes with sweaty butts. If you think that may be the problem, just be sure to wash your hole (not just wipe, but use soap and water) after every bowel movement for a few days to see if it clears up. If you don't see improvement, check with your doctor for other recommendations.

It may be a lie for some people but if you wanted an indicator to put in your profile or a way to "gently" turn someone down, you could say you have a "latex allergy". If you're asked about non-latex condoms you can say they affect you too. Personally, I've found that latex burns my ass and won't use them. I can use non-latex if I want. I'm also allergic to supposedly hypo-allergenic silicon lubes which sucks since they were my favorites. Anyway, allergies to the materials used in condoms do exist and it's not something you'll be asked to prove to be believed.

When I put my mouth on a cock my favorite things to taste are cum, stale piss, and ass slime. (I can get into tongue cleaning a dirty cock 😈) As for commercial lubes, I haven't found any that are good long lasting lubes and also good flavor-wise. Artificial flavors taste ... artificial. Also, flavored lubes tend to have a lot of glycerin to add sweetness. Unfortunately glycerin tends to dry quickly and get sticky/gluey instead of slippery. As mentioned by others, Swiss Navy has one lube with clove oil so that's one option if you like clove. Coconut oil is another option but oils do go bad so it could make that cock smell and taste like rancid french fries. (I know that from experience with a brand new, unopened jar -- yuck). Another option is, instead of looking for a flavored lube, try flavoring your ass. After you have cleaned out, insert a small amount of something like a banana puree, for example. It will be safe, easy, low cost (or free if you already have a banana in the house), and won't interfere with your regular lube -- probably won't be noticed at all except you'll notice the flavor when you lick the dick after a fuck. You don't need to fill your ass with it (unless you want to). If you have one of those "lube shooters" it would be easy to insert and less than an ounce would do. Try it, see if you like it, and if it works you can use your imagination on what to use to make your own flavors. You can also experiment with inserting chucks of banana and letting the top mash it up inside you. This adds a a little mental aspect to it because you know your hole is clean ... but not empty. You can have fun with that too.

This is difficult to answer because I like them both, however I think I'd give a slight edge to piss because I drank it long before I swallowed cum. As a curious young boy, I had no hesitation tasting piss and I liked it from the first sip. On the other hand, it took a while for me to work up to tasting cum; partly because once I'd shoot I'd start to loose interest, and also I thought it had a weird texture which put me off. But once I did taste it, I quickly decided I liked it and by the time I was taking loads from other guys (and not just licking up my own) I was an avid cum and piss junky. So as I said, I give a slight edge to piss. I also wonder which I'd prefer if they were available in equal quantities. If cum loads were as big as piss loads would I be able to chug it all or find it overwhelming? It would be interesting to find out strictly from a scientific stand point, of course. I'd definitely chug a glass full of each for science because science is cool.

A profile may show someone's intentions, however, just like someone on a "strict diet" who's offered a piece of cake, sometimes it's too hard to resist. 🍰

Condom manufacturers like to say it feels the same as bare, but we all know it's different. Most guys experience a decrease in tactile sensation with a condom, and for some that means it's more difficult to maintain an erection. But for guys who are quick cummers, a condom can help to prolong the fuck. I hadn't thought about it before but yeah -- a guy who cums quick might insist on a condom at first to make it a longer fuck or to cover any embarrassment they feel from premature ejaculation. Maybe these guys need split condoms so they can fuck longer and still cum deep inside. 😈

Starting slow and holding it deep helps to create a stronger connection and lets bodies and movements sync. Slower movements can let the top edge and prolong his pleasure. When I topped, this usually led to a more intense orgasm. As a bottom, long and slow gives a continual massaging action that stimulates but doesn't wear me out. It makes me feel well used and open but easily ready for more.

For me, it depends on location and position. If I'm in bed with someone I will continue to suck for as long as he let me. On the other hand, If I'm kneeling on a cold concrete floor at a bathhouse, if you're not even hard by the time my knees start to ache, then I'm going to have to get up and move around.

This wasn't memorable because of the sex, but because of how silly it turned out to be. I was kneeling on my bathroom floor sucking a guy who'd just pissed all over me. I glanced up toward his face and noticed him reach over and flick a light switch on. .... I have to stop here and explain that my apartment complex was built as an assisted living facility that was "decommissioned" and rented out as regular apartments. Because of it's former function, it has a couple "quirks". The relevant one is a "call light" circuit connected to one of the porch lights. There's a switch to activate it in every room. ... so, I see him flip the switch -- which does nothing obvious in the bathroom -- and then he continues to play with it; repeatedly turning it off, on, off, on. At first I was just sort of confused because who plays with a light switch in the middle of a blow job? But it became a major challenge to keep from laughing at the absurdity of sucking a guy while drenched in piss as he flashes the porch light like some kind of bat signal to the neighbors. He eventually shot a load and left. And I finally had a chance to chuckle when I went back to the bathroom and turned the porch light off.

My favorite time to play is when I have to piss. I like to lay back, slide a dildo in my ass, and slowly edge as the pressure builds on my bladder. Every so often I'll stop jacking long enough to release a squirt of piss but won't empty myself. This eases the pressure slightly and allows the pressure to build again so it prolongs the session. Plus, I can use the piss for lube. My ultimate goal is to reach a plateau where the need to piss and need to cum are perfectly balanced. The need to piss forces me to jack myself to keep from wetting, but also provides enough discomfort / distraction to keep me from cumming. Eventually, there comes a point of no return where you lose control and get very messy.

I can't do it in every position, but when possible I'll hook a leg around the top to prevent them from pulling out. Most guys get the signal and hold still to let all the cum drain into me. It really makes me horny and ready to be fucked again.

I prefer average lengths (6" to 8"). Over or under that range tend to poke and jab into uncomfortable locations. For thickness, I like cocks that are a little above average. If it's thick enough to make my jaw ache while sucking, I know it will fill my hole perfectly.

Many years ago ... ( yes, I realize I should say "many, many" however vanity prevents me from doing so) ... I had this type of philosophy because I wasn't just looking for casual sex -- I was looking for a boyfriend and didn't want to risk my (or my partner's) health in a one-off situation. So, at the time, I'd always use condoms for a first encounter. If we liked each other enough to meet again, I'd default to my partner's preference. It was a strategy to reduce risk which obviously didn't work for me since I ended up poz and never got that boyfriend. But there are things we say and do to reassure ourselves and allow us to hold the fiction that we are acting responsibly, and safely.

As a young top, I learned to feel out the landscape and know the basic terrain before trying to penetrate a hole. As a bottom, I'm surprised at how many guys have trouble figuring out where my hole is. I've had guys who had fingers of one hand in my ass and still couldn't find my hole with their cock. Sometimes I try to help out; sometimes I just shake my head and think to myself, 'what a dumb ass'. So, unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you -- all I can say is you're not alone in having that problem and try not to snicker when that top misses your hole and jabs it in the middle of your back.

So, first off I have to say that every time I hear the word 'stroke", that Billy Squier song pops in my head .... (stroke me stroke me ) ... so thanks for that. 🙂 Now to the issue of body temperature. You will get different temperature readings at different locations with anal temps being a little higher than oral. Here's a quick blurb off of uofmhealth.org: Comparing temperature types You can take a temperature using the mouth (oral), anus (rectal), armpit (axillary), or ear (tympanic). But the temperature readings vary depending on which one you use. And you need an accurate measurement to know if a fever is present. Medical research hasn't found an exact correlation between oral, rectal, ear, armpit, and forehead temperature measurements. In general, here's how the temperatures compare: The average normal oral temperature is 98.6°F (37°C). A rectal temperature is 0.5 F (0.3 C) to 1 F (0.6 C) higher than an oral temperature. An ear (tympanic) temperature is 0.5 F (0.3 C) to 1 F (0.6 C) higher than an oral temperature. An armpit (axillary) temperature is usually 0.5 F (0.3 C) to 1 F (0.6 C) lower than an oral temperature. A forehead (temporal) scanner is usually 0.5 F (0.3 C) to 1 F (0.6 C) lower than an oral temperature.

Mmmmm this looks like cake frosting. The next time I'm asked what kind of cake I want for my birthday, I know what I'm going to say ....

I've played with piss for years so the fantasy of only drinking piss seems hot, but the reality is that it isn't very practical. The first problem is logistics. It's unlikely you'll have your top around to piss on you all day (every day) so you will have to collect and carry a bottle of increasingly stale piss to drink from through the day. The next issue is that the salts make piss a diuretic so you tend to piss out more than you take in -- unless you take in more than your body can process and then your body just says "fuck this" and dumps it through the intestines giving you a bout of diarrhea. Either way, you end up getting dehydrated even though you are drinking fluids. You are working your kidneys increasingly harder, but if you have normal kidney function they should be able to handle it at least until you are too dehydrated and then the fatigue and body aches would set in. There also could be oral issues. Piss shouldn't be a problem for your teeth, however if you are only drinking piss, you may create an environment in your mouth and throat that allows bacteria to thrive. This could cause or contribute to sore throats, tonsil stones, bad breath, and gum disease. You say your top says there are benefits to drinking piss. Unfortunately that is not true. There is a controversial remedy called "urine therapy" where you drink some of your own urine in the morning in an attempt to self-balance the body. It is based on the same principle as homeopathy where a small amount of an irritant is used to cause the opposite effect and thereby bring balance. As far as drinking urine is concerned, it's not really clear why you'd want to drink an irritant that has already left the body -- it's already out of your system so it's no longer an irritant -- until you drink it again. Regardless, urine therapy is based on drinking your own urine. Even if it is a sound practice, you would not get a benefit from drinking piss from someone else. As I said, I've played with piss for a long time so I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't do it. Drinking piss is sooo hot, however if I was in your situation, I'd modify the terms to allow drinking plain water. You could still drink piss morning and night, but adding plain water through the day would clear your mouth and throat, ensure you stay properly hydrated, and ensure you are able to adequately flush your own system.

I never would have thought that piss was warm enough to melt a cup, but I guess they are changing the composition to make cups easier to compost and biodegrade. You'll just need to carry an insulated cup or sports bottle to disguise the contents when you're lucky enough to have it happen again. And ... um ... did you get fries with that? 🙂

No one ever has to take a load, however, I think it would be unrealistic to think that it's never going to happen. Fooling around and incorporating some bare foreplay could be fun and erotic, but once you go beyond foreplay I think you need to be prepared for the possibility of receiving a load even if it wasn't intended. So, personal opinion, if you are going to take a cock bare then you should be willing to take the load,

Adding up the things I've already experienced I have a score of 165. But, if I look over the list for things I haven't done and would like to do, there are only 4 (plus 1 or 2 not on the list) that are still "bucket list" items. I guess over all, I'm not doing too bad.

If it was someone I was thinking of dating then face pics might be nice, however, all I'm interested in is making a guy cum. I am focused on cock and letting a guy use my body to get off so I'd rather see pics of his cock. Cock pics make me want to feel it in my hole. Face pics usually do nothing for me.