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from experience: don't schedule a dentist appt the following day because they look in your mouth, eyes go wide as saucers and they ask "*what happened to you?? are you ok??*". in my case they put it together a moment later so didn't really have to explain but makes for an awkward start to the visit.

Guys, I have the stupidest problem ever. when covid started I felt compelled to follow all the rules very closely. Just my personal decision. So I did social distancing, kind of went off on my own for the most part, and closed the cock service station. I thought it would be short term. But then I just I dunno got used to it and feeling kinda down, never got back in the swing of things, and now it has been almost 3.5 years since I had any load!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it has not been required for covid reasons for a long time but I am still living that way. I'm really hungry for cock like you can imagine. And I want to suck and get my throat fucked and worship balls and take anything in my holes. I feel that I am gd out of practice I won't be good at it any more and will just be a timewaster for a top. I tried putting dildos in my throat and it was so tight. A couple of times I have triggered my gag reflex brushing my teeth! wtf that never happened to me before. Before all this I could swallow cock til their balls press against me. A top could stroke in me like a fleshlight. I could massage him with my throat. Felt so satisfying to be receptive in this way. With a good top that I trust I could really submit and just let him control everything. A top who I trust to let me breathe, eventually, would have the best access to my throat. You know like some tops will go as long as possible in the throat every time till the body starts to fight back. (Of course he can use my holes however he wants. I am always grateful for the chance to make a top feel good, cum, etc and I dig a range of scenes.). But in that case my breathing and how much longer can I do it til I need to stop things is always in the front of mind so attention is divided. And I think I would last a shorter time mostly, even though he is trying to go as long as possible; and sometimes it would end up I would make him stop in the wrong moment because I wouldn't be reading him as carefully. If on the other hand, I know he will let me breathe eventually I would be able give over to his desire and just put all my mind on reading his cues and adjusting my position to be receptive and reacting to his movements to enhance for him. And He can ride his pleasure and allow me to breathe when it suits his rhythm. ... well I didn't expect to write all that... got carried away in fantasy/memories. I know all of cocksucking isn't in the throat and some cocksuckers I guess don't even use their throats? It has always been key to me. I don't demand it if the top is not interested ofc but many of them are. Now I feel like my body in general will not be able to be receptive. I am so disconnected. It is not just throating/sucking but that is the worst part. I dunno if anyone has every been in this situation. It is the opposite of what the whole forum is about I know. 😕 I need to get opened back up but I don't want to give someone substandard service. I feel that I would be wasting a guy's time to hook up. I am like trapped in my mind here how do I get out so I can be available to service men and swallow loads??? Please someone give me a pep talk, or kick my ass, or take one for the team by letting me give you a shitty blow job.

So nice to hear of others who had similar experiences to me and know what I'm on about. @Sub-Cocksucker love your avatar I have the source image and actually printed it and framed it many years ago. I wonder what is the source? Do you know by some chance?

guys, I fucking miss craigslist m4m. I know it has been gone a long time now, apparently killed by sesta-fosta (though they were pretty quick on letting the hammer fall... I have always wondered what is the real story). m4m was so great for me because it was pursued by a wide range of people unlike the apps that all have their little "niche". you didn't need to install anything or even make an account to answer postings, you could just visit the page whenever you felt like it. I think a lot of people would check it once in a while giving it a way huger reach. craigslist was famous of course. there is no hookup app that soooo many people know about. and you have to install apps, which sucks. with m4m there was no tracking, no ads, no premium features for sale. I loved making postings because I could say what I wanted NOW or THIS WEEK instead of making a profile that is more general. Or if you were looking for something very specific that requires a very special person to fulfill (like sometimes I am) you can put up a posting with a lot of keywords and people who search for those things will email you over the next month or 2 til it expired. But you don't need to be constantly running some app on your phone for that. And if you want you can put up more than 1 at the same time. And of course you can also put up a general posting for yourself of what you are generally looking for, people will also message you for a while afterwards depending how you construct it. They were so free form; you could put a lot of pictures or none; a lot of words or none. Apps are mostly encouraging lots of pictures, not much words. and maybe fill their fields like "height" "race" etc. Email responses tended to be more focused and as a person who doesn't like chat pals, the tedious small talk back and forth is avoided. People do not expect to be responded to right away when they send you a message. Unless you are trying to arrange something for today. basically every time I made a posting, if I made the time to monitor the email, I would find what I was looking for. Most times I got way more great responses than I even had time to chase up. Even if it was fairly specific I got at least some. and I met cool, diverse people there. Cool diverse people with beautiful hard cocks. Best kind. Postings. To me way better than chat. Sometimes I look in the old magazines and papers, read the classifieds and think, who might I respond to.... Anybody else? What do you guys think of cl m4m? Better off gone? Replaced by something better? Or like me does a stark white background with times new roman text make you a bit hot?

@SleazyCumPig it's good to know what you want! there are lots of tops who want to see how turned on you are getting when they are fucking you. I am jealous that you are verse; I think it's a limitation on me that I can't please guys by fucking them. Maybe one day I would have a a change of heart and learn to enjoy doing this enough to get through fucking someone with a rubber cock or my hand or something. Sometimes I feel so selfish that I just take from tops without giving back to the universe in this way!

I am a trans guy (ftm) and I have 2 holes down there and a glans that is a bit bigger than it was before I took T but still unambiguously a clit. For a long time I was sad because believe it or not all I wanted was to be in a cage like youse all have been posting. (the grass is always greener!) Without going into all the anatomy details, "chastity" devices made for people with 2x cunts are a totally different situation and do not work the same way at all, and it's impossible to really get the same effect on this body. Because you cannot stop getting hard. I got a bunch of piercings hoping to figure out how to do something similar and even have a couple of small cock cages to see if I could wear them, but I could not do it comfortably. (duh. but I had to try.) Lately I have come to think of myself as having a built-in natural chastity OR I imagine that at some point in the past I was like some of the folks here fantasizing but I went and got myself modified to be as I am. So I am kind of building myself some head cannon about how my body came to be the way it is through my choice rather than circumstance. I hope it is not shitty of me to say that it makes me happy to read stuff like this: because honestly as a total bottom I have always felt very privileged to have the extra orifice. It gives me a bit of grief from top men who are not interested for whatever reason (that's their prerogative of course) and gay guys in gneeral who are hostile (some reasons I understand why too) but I never wanted to get rid of it. The only reason I ever thought of getting any surgical mods done was like I said, so I could be locked up. But it is great to have the extra fuckpocket and really if I could get more of them I would. I would have 10 holes to fuck if the option were available to me hahaha. For anyone interested in what it's like to be gay with this kind of body (which is different than being a str8/les chick): It's not just the fact of being able to take an extra guy (which is kind of awkward rly) that is why it's good. I think the #1 reason is that it is always ready 100% of the time. Doesn't matter what you ate, you never have to clean it, there are no hemorrhoids or other damage etc. If you are a kind of person who's agreeable to this kind of thing, there is seldom any real reason to refuse getting fucked and you can be fucked by surprise at any moment; you can be fucked in the middle of the night or the morning. I know some guys have a really good relationship with their digestion but personally I am not sure my body would ever allow my asscunt to get used with the freedom of my cuntcunt. other benefit, and this is just what I am told because I never was able to know for myself, is that it feels different to fuck them, so for the top it is fun. You can fuck one hole then just slip back to the other. Maybe someone who has fucked both would describe that? (But boy cunt is different than lady pussy because T makes everything more muscled but close enough.) Also you can feel what's in one hole through the other. So if you do have 2 guys they feel each other's cocks. You can use one hole to put a sensation on the cock in the other. Like you can put a vibrator in the front to make the asshole vibrate. You can rub the cock from the other hole. I want to get really good at being fisted so a man can stick his cock into my front hole and put his hand into my ass and grab my whole cunt from the inside and jerk himself off inside me. All that said, whenever I have a cock in my hand and the choice to guide it one place or the other, if it's just about my own pleasure I will send it to my ass 90% of the time. I think the feeling of getting assfucked is superior because it goes so much deeper inside, like you feel it way higher up your body, and the feeling of girth is so much more delightful in the sphincter. I already have what you are fantasizing about but it is still difficult for men to forget about! A lot of guys want to suck on my 1" glans, you pretty much have to go hunting for it because it's so small. I'd rather be like a no recip bottom kind of thing. I will let them if they really want because I want to please, but I really do not like the feeling. I just want to service their body. Maybe it's too much pressure for some guys. They want to shift the attention to someone else for a break. :) I feel that it is a lot of work to be a top and such a kindness they are doing. I wish I could have a cage on my clit even while being fucked. Sometimes I can stop myself and others from rubbing it. A lot of the time nobody even thinks about it. I really love it when a guy fucks me and he does not even make a pretense to suck me or rub me or warm up my holes or do anything else to me except aim his cock at what he wants and dive in. But sometimes there is a temptation to rub. I would love a man who is so selfish he stops me from jerking myself but so far I have been left to my own devices. I always regret it when I do it to myself; it is better to be focused only on him and his pleasure. Hope it's not rude to say that is really a glorious cock. :) I'm sure the tops can appreciate looking at it while riding you.

I'm sure some of you know about [think before following links] https://thephallicbrotherhood.com/ but if not have a look, I think youse might find kindred spirits there. I think all of this is really beautiful and I completely feel it in my bones. @FemBottomFinder I naturally always say thank you because I have real genuine gratitude when any man allows me to taste his cock and balls and to do so long enough that he would cum. Ever since I started out I just always knew it was right. I found that some guys find it kind of offputting, like they are really not into that kind of dynamic at all, especially immediately after they have cum. And I don't want to put my needs ahead of theirs, you know what I mean? So then I'm in a conundrum. I don't want to ruin something that was perfect by making him feel pressured to go along with how I want it. As a bottom in general I am trying to be more flexible in serving men who aren't exactly on the same vibe as I am, and accommodating them, not being demanding. But then on the other hand I feel so much the urge to thank him, sometimes profusely. What does everybody think? Always say Thank you? Or case by case?

@jeff238 - thank you for sharing your wisdom! actually dental tourism sounds like a great idea to me other than the fact that I don't travel much and I'm not even sure how to get all the way to mexico lol. I've had bad experiences with dentists in canada so I've got no reason to think they would be the best. @houbtmbtch - !!!!! I actually have a night guard and I LOVE using it for oral especially being throatfucked because it means everyone can really kind of relax and stop worrying about teeth. He can thrust into me the way it feels best and I can you know just make sure my throat is the right amount of open, no breathing/gagging at wrong moment, massage his cock while in me if he likes it and everything else that's nice. Vs same situation without guard where I am spending a lot of my limited brain power basically trying to make sure my mouth is open wide enough to stay out of his way. Especially these guys that like to move around a lot. I mostly have used it with this one top, he would fuck me so deeeeeep in my face, I think he found new holes in there. Can go in on angles that would normally be straight up hazards and can change approach at any time. By the end of a nice long session my throat has been fucked from like 180° and the top of it feels like a sock with absolutely no elastic left; totally busted in this completely pleasant way. Which sure can happen in any case but I find these guard things enable a kind of, idk, recklessness for the top to really just use it according to the hole that it is. If that's what is wanted... of course it can also be used for more active BJ or oral service to good effect. And whether for throating or BJs it lets the teeth area be used for a nice pressure, like a gum job as your describe. When I first figured this out I was searching on the internet trying to find out other people who were misusing dental tech like this and could not find anything. Is this A Thing that people do?? My major problem with this amazing thing is that I am not sure how to introduce this to new people. I tried a couple of times and I felt so awkward doing it. I'm like "OK trust me this is weird but it's worth it." but I felt so self conscious. I think it kind of gives the impression that I can't give good head on my own which I think it not the case and my, um, pride gets in the way there. Though seriously this tool enables things that are just not possible otherwise. Anyway there was one guy who seemed to get the joy of it but a couple of others seems to find it distracting so I ended up taking it off. Also, I know this may not be too much a concern for folks here but for some it might be: maybe it is kind of gross to be wearing the same one shared between lots of guys? Mine is a custom one from the dentist when I had insurance. I never really tried these pharmacy ones; do you swap them for every person? Will anybody ask? Sounds expensive if so. Looking online they are $1-40(and up)/each. I had a really cheap one once and it was unusable. Sorry for being so jazzed this is the first time I have ever heard anyone else who is aware of one of my favourite things in the whole world so that really made my day. Maybe someone here would be able to say something about this so I could get out of my head. I never used to be this shy before so very confused about how to deal with it. lololol

hi guys have not been here for a while but i know this is the place to ask this, um, nuts n bolts question. i have been out of circulation for a long time due to covid etc. but i would really like to go on with things. the thing that is keeping me from getting back into things is my teeth. i have couple of place in my mouth where fillings have fallen out or chipped off or something. so it is sharp in there, i feel with my tongue. i am broke and doubt there is a dentist in my imminent future. one time, years ago, i had something like this and this guy who was a great top with a beautiful big hard cock was fucking my throat. he was totally in charge of everything and really didn't want my input. he had a solid grip on my skull and neck against the bed. which is one of my favorite things in the world. but i wasn't able to hint him away from a chip i had in my teeth and he scraped his beautiful cock against it and it made a 2-3 inch open gash, which of course due to being so hard bled a lot. and he was really not impressed. i mean he kept fucking me but he was pretty angry i had done that. fair enough i would be too. so i do not know what to do. since my overall goal is to be pleasing, and most tops don't find cheese graters pleasing, i have been staying away. i have a pretty small mouth and med-lg cocks take all of it making it difficult, even if i am in control, to be sure i wouldn't hurt a guy unless he is perfectly still. and my preference tends to be towards guys who would be active. what do i do? input from POV of tops, bottoms, whatever.

breath control and subbing and all sorts of stuff are common all over the world. here is a classic write up of risks [think before following links] http://www.sasmtx.info/breath.html by jay wisean tbh I am not sure how alarmist it is. a lot of people do choking. like people who are otherwise vanilla straight etc.. i feel like the only time you hear about deaths is when it's autoerotic (solo). but you'd have to ask the coroner for numbers i guess. I love face/throat/breath/mouth stuff. hands around the neck, fingers in the mouth, hand over the mouth. and throat fucked so deep and long.

Hi guys! so hot reading about everyone's orgasms. Tell me more. Any men who take while fucking? Another guy inside you or a toy? I bought an aneros for my fav top because I heard they were great to wear while fucking but he was not interested. All he wanted to do was pound my holes. 😉 I'm trans to male.. I have the front hole cums like youse guys are thinking of so thought I would share that they are tres different from the buttgasms. It's great to have an extra hole of course (all the better to service with), but I would love to feel prostate sesations. Drives me nuts thinking that most people who have that thing are too afraid to give it any love at all. Sad! But also, even without the button I have had total anal orgasms. Not that the gspot etc are being stimulated from the other side. It's totally in my ass. It happens in the gut rather than the reproductve parts. Anal cums happen in the intestines and I feel them elsewhere as secondary. Writing this it occurs to me that "anal" it not the right word. Anus is a component but it's really the entire tube. Especially with hands or deep toys. Orgasm usually thought of as being or the autonomic nervous system, but maybe this is enteric? Maybe why the totally different sesations. I have lots more to say about this lol. Suffice to say that asshole cums are their very own special thing.

someone's thoughts: [think before following links] http://www.anus.org/SEX/jlube.html clove oil is numbing.. To mix any oil with water you would need an emulsifier or the oil will seperate. lecithin is commonly used in commercial/DIY and easily available; you'd have to work out a recipie. If you wanted clove without fucking around with oils you could isntead try a tincture. can buy, or make by soaking cloves in vodka or other high-proof booze for a couple weeks. not sure how the kick of liquor would work out tho... It is NOT possible to simply mix j lube just with oil instead of water.. I have tried. I have never found the microwave neccissary and it's a big mess. I fill the bottle about 1/4 or 1/3 full, put the powder in, shake to mix. then add half remaining water, shake, add the rest.

There is no real reason that you'd have to get rid of your dick or socially/permanently transition to female. If the medical system was motivated (which I doubt it is!) it seems plausible that you could take androgen blockers and supplement female hormones for the period before and during pregnancy. So a year or 2 max? And after if you want to breastfeed. You'd probably have some amount of permanent tits (unless you get them removed) but other than that the effects of being estrogen/progesterone/etc in such a context would all go away once your balls took over hormining your body again. And of course you could have all the changes of pregnancy like weight gain, risks like diabetes etc. The actual fertilization would have to be via IVF though so the fantasy of taking the fuck train to preggoville wouldn't be possible. Honestly I spent so long thinking about surgical, hormonal and other medicalized body modifications... eventually I reached the conclusion that everyone should have whatever they want. Gatekeeping based on who has a "legitimate" desire to have a certain organ is always a pointless project. If cis guys want uteri then let them have them. Anyone who wants my uterus is welcome to it. It's probably a bit fucked by now tho. But I'm sure there's lots of new trans guys who would be happy to donate their wombs to a good home. If cis guys started getting preggers themselves there might be a lot of good changes in the world.

thank your for clarifying. interesting system. not sure i have seen this anywhere else. did the site admin(s) make this up or is it a known practice that is just new to me? looks like it's working for the people who are here as there are many members who have been regular participants for quite a long time. curious about how ppl think this system impacts the traffic and content. as a new member it's kind of a barrier to participate. but sometimes barriers are good to raise the quality.

I can't figure out how to add a "reaction" to someone's comments. I can see those added by others. Is it because I'm a newer user?