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YourNoLimitsBottom

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  1. I was a lurker for a while reading the bug chasing stories, which are hot as hell, especially the ones from the submissive's POV of taking loads from a group of horny tops. I signed up to post in the forums and get to know people, and maybe make some connections. Yeah, BZ gets my motor running. I can read some hot stories, jack off, and STILL want it bad. That's how I know I really need it and it isn't just some horny fantasy that is over the instant I get off. Hopefully a covid vaccine gets us back out in the real world soon!
  2. It would be awesome if the world was filled completely with selfless people that looked their their fellow human beings and would isolate themselves when they are sick with covid, but that is a laughable fantasy. I haven't been with a guy since pre-pandemic. Yes, it sucks and I have spent A LOT of time on the story forums on this site in a feeble attempt to compensate! But I won't risk catching then transmitting covid to a loved one simply because I couldn't keep my pants pulled up. Being "stealthed by covid" could affect people I care about, and that is unacceptable to me. Hopefully there is a vaccine soon, but until then, keep the stories coming!
  3. I'm one of those cliche "It's not the destination, it's the journey" kind of guys. I enjoy the sex. The feel of him working his cock in either slowly or quickly if I got him worked up from the start; the repetitive pleasure of feeling him slide in and out; working my muscles to massage his cock; his hands on me and feeling his excitement build... Yeah, the cum is icing on the cake and I will certainly do my best to get him there, but I really enjoy the cake as well!
  4. No one has been able to tell, in fact some gay friends I have were shocked when they found out. Which does make it hard to attract attention, or at least attention where the guy that sees me is bold enough to openly hit on me. I typically have to start the conversation. This is where the internet comes in handy. I use it to make online friends and find out the physical places where I should go to find like-minded men, and then I need to go and mingle. It doesn't always work out with a hookup, but I've made a lot of friends over the years.
  5. I'm in IT and software design.
  6. Call me nostalgic. Back when I first started my journey the first toy I bought was an 8" dildo. I've played with other toys over time, but that is still my favorite. I may put my mechanical and electrical skills to work and build some kind of BDSM-stepped up fucking machine! Any ideas to incorporate into it, message me!
  7. Yes please! Oh wait, you're asking if I like it. Absolutely! I take it as a sign I'm doing things right. If I am sucking him and he hasn't grabbed hold of my head or hair hard and started fucking my face, I need to step up my efforts. The trick is to drive him wild so he comes back for more!
  8. I'm a bottom, but I stay away from anyone under 30. I'm not painting all guys younger than that with the same brush, but I have found that guys are less flaky with age, and the 20s are a flaky age for a lot of guys. I'm sure there are a lot of young guys figuring things out, and may think they want something and chicken out at the last moment when things start to get real. That's something a lot of us went through as we aged. I just don't want the drama. And personally, I prefer a top older than myself!
  9. I enjoy feeling his eagerness build as I put my all into it, and the benefits that come from it. Such as if I am doing a great job massaging his cock head as I swallow, he is prone to thrust more into my throat, and I love to deep-throat! If I am moving my hips as I bob up and down on his cock and that drives him over the edge in his desire to fuck me, well happy days are here again because I love to be fucked. And in the end, if I drive him to the point of lust where he goes wild and starts to hard fuck my face or ass, well that is a great time because I love a top going full-on BDSM-wild on me. And you can bet I am going to thrust my face or ass into it in return. Let's drive each other wilder and wilder and see who breaks first. Deepthroating is a great way to prime the engine. You get back what you put into it!
  10. This has been an irritant to me for a while. When I found this thread further back in the pages, I had to reply. In my area you see more ads on places like BareBackRT and Craigslist where someone is looking for a top. And I have seen ads where a bottom is bitching that they can't get fucked. Some of them come off as acting like they are entitled to being fucked. That has got to be a major turnoff for the tops out there. I have to imagine a top doesn't want a whiny-ass hookup. I'm a bottom and I don't top, I just don't get anything out of it. I don't bitch about there being less tops because a long time ago I took it as incentive to work on myself physically and to get out in the real world. I use the apps to get an idea of local places where like-minded men congregate. Do I always find a top when I am looking at that moment? Nope! But I have made new friends and expanded my social circle, and that expanded social circle has lead to more confidence in myself and also to building relationships with tops that don't hang out on the ad sites. In the end, I do believe there are fewer tops than bottoms. That just means we bottoms have to work harder for it. Bitching that you can't get fucked doesn't change a damn thing.
  11. Yes I do. He posted a Craigslist looking for a bottom. Unfortunately he was "straight" looking to just get off and couldn't find a woman. So he wasn't that into it, and it was disappointing as hell. He is one of the reasons I appreciate a good gay top! They are fucking you, and not fantasizing about a woman!
  12. In the throat swab position. Laying on my back with my head over the edge of the bed, him standing and fucking my throat. It's easy access to my throat for his hands. I'd also love to find two Dom masters and try this underwater while getting fucked in the ass. Gotta have goals!
  13. I've had tops that expect it. The ones that in my experience that typically don't are the "drive by" tops that are bi or "straight" and are looking for someone to fuck and can't get a woman at that moment. Once they dump their load, they come down off the high and are done with you. But for the ones that do enjoy having their cock sucked clean, it pays for you to be clean because you don't want to turn down the opportunity!
  14. I found a guy I worked with on barebackrt. He never alluded to being into it, never talked about liking guys. I'm not sure if he just wasn't careful when posting because it was obvious to anyone that knew him; he (inadvertently?) put in wayyy too many clues and some pictures with some pretty obvious background details. I never said anything though at work, and didn't contact him through the site. There is no need to out someone or make them uncomfortable coming to work, work typically makes people uncomfortable and miserable all on its own.
  15. I haven't been on the site ;long enough yet to run across something downright awful to deserve a down-vote. I'd only give one if it was someone being a ridiculous asshole in some way. Other postings above give great examples of good reasons to down-vote something (or someone in general!) I stay away from subject threads if they are not something I am interested in, or if I don't fit the category they are made to appeal to, or if it is about something I have nothing useful to contribute to. Or worse, jumping into a thread to spin some line of bullshit about experience I don't really have or talking about a situation I don't have any intention of going through with. Why try to fake knowledge or experience to post garbage in a thread, when there are many other threads that I can contribute positively to? Posting stupid shit is a good way to get one of those down-votes!
  16. Totally agree. This is one of the reasons I prefer a gay top to a bi or "straight" top. I want a guy in me who is thinking about me, and not fantasizing about a woman he just didn't have access to when he was currently horny. Sure, I'm not above getting fucked by a fuck buddy or random guy who wants to just have a moment of wild sex, hell, I have needs too, but for an encounter with substance I want a guy who is focussed on using me for his pleasure. And that gets me hot as hell...
  17. I personally have success with an ongoing diet of oatmeal each morning. It helps keep me regular and cleaned out, and any additional preparation is none to minimal. After months of a clean diet, I have had no worries about spontaneous encounters or ass-to-mouth activities. And you definitely score points with a top when you have no hesitation about submitting to whatever he wants to do. It takes dedication to maintain your diet, but a good top or even better a good Dom is worth the effort! I guess I should elaborate that maybe a diet change will get you a good way to your goal, and then any additional cleaning method will take you the rest of the way.
  18. I love being completely nude when getting fucked. And I prefer the guy fucking me to be completely nude as well. Something about hot skin-on-skin action drives me wild. I've never done it outside, but would love to find an outdoors place where we can both be nude as we do it. I think there are some campgrounds around the state that cater to men-on-men action.
  19. Why can't more people do this? I mean being up front with a list of what they are looking for. If I read an ad and someone has a hard and fast list, I appreciate knowing instantly if there are things that immediately make it a no-go, and I can move on. It beats putting forth a reply and shooting messages back and forth before you (typically) determine they are a flake just looking for the "thrill" of having someone answer them.
  20. This is my goal for rolling into 2021. His cock goes in before midnight, and no pulling out until after midnight! I want to end and start the year with hands on my hips and cock balls-deep in me. Happy New Year!
  21. I've never seen that exact phrase before, but have seen wording that pretty much conveys the same concept. I think phrases like that are handy, if a guy feels that way, I know they aren't worth my time. I love sex, but not with narcissistic assholes. Not much turns me off, but that is a deal breaker.
  22. Totally agree on the concept of fiber. I have a fairly standard clean diet, complete with oatmeal in the mornings, and have very regular... well, morning functions. I've found that this goes a long way to keeping me cleaned out so any preparation for fun activities is very minimal, and any spontaneous activities with no preparation don't worry me.
  23. I came to it later in life, and lord do I regret waiting that long! I watched a lot of porn, and more often than not identified with the woman in the video. I know most of the noises she made was acting, but damn, she plays it up that it feels good! I wanted to know how it felt, and without a pussy I had to try the third most used hole (third most used in straight porn that is!). I started with a finger in the shower. I am a runner, and coupled with never having had anything inserted into my ass I am very tight. It took some soap to lube my finger enough to slide it in. I imagined the guy sliding in would feel how tight that I am and it would excite him more, and the thought of pleasing him made the sensation all the more pleasurable for me. I finger-fucked myself, enjoying the sensations and imagining how my tight ass would make him feel. To this day I get a lot of pleasure knowing I am pleasing him, and luckily we tend to feed off each other, the more I please him, the more he pleases me, etc. It wasn't long after a few finger-fucks in the shower that I bought my first dildos. Yeah, I bought multiple types (length, girth, vibrating). I used them to fuck myself as often as I could. Living alone, there were no places off limits to do it. I enjoyed using them while talking to guys in online chat rooms. And it wasn't long after that that I took my first real cock. I've been a cock-slut ever since. In my mouth is great, in my ass is mind-blowing. My only regret as I said above is that I didn't start sooner!
  24. As a bottom, it's on me to go into a situation clean, the top doesn't need to be bothered with my concerns. The top/Dom is there to be serviced, and if he wants his cock cleaned, that is what my mouth is for. Simple as that. Truth be told, the longer the session goes, the further "bottom slut" I go, and I want it to be as rough and primal and messy as possible. I want the top/Dom to break me or wear me out. So if atm is something that will drive him wild, I will gratefully do it and beg for more.
  25. I've always looked at it that it is on me to work out or do what is necessary to attract someone, and I will get out of it what I put into it. And I may never be good enough for some guys, but I am ok with that too. In the end my mindset is make do with what you got, and improve yourself as you can/want.
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