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Yes. It counts. We sound like the Council of Nicea. We should write The Cumdump's Creed.
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I have noticed this too. In my 50s I started to become more dominant and verbal. I'm not really sure when it happened, but maybe it was when guys started calling me Daddy all the time. When it started I didn't like it, but then I realized it wasn't going away as I became covered in gray hair (I'm a short furry bear) and my head lost its hair (I have a shaved head now). I leaned into it, as the dumb cliche says. Something clicked and I just faked it till I made it and I'm sure there were some guys who didn't know how to say "christ, faggot, SHUT UP." But I learned to spin a story and have written a bunch of them here. Also, a particular buddy in the early 10s sorta trained me in Daddy/boy (as the Daddy, shout out to Jeb) and we had some fun times. Have fun. Don't overthink it. You won't always get it right, try to remember that you can laugh about it even while it's happening. Or laugh about it and pivot to something else if it's not working. Try not to take it too seriously, but when it clicks it can be ripping hot and making my cock like concrete.
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Favorite part about giving head?
Sfmike64 replied to DiscreetNDangerous's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
In Italian cooking there is a dish called veal (or chicken) saltimbocca. Which means "jumps in your mouth." Clearly you should be eating this. -
Share your Twitter handle to connect with other barebackers
Sfmike64 replied to silverlining's topic in General Discussion
Sent you a follow request. -
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I have. "I"m a filthy pig."
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Puphawaii is right.....contact the moderators of the forum. Ask them to stop this person from harassing you. That's fucked up and rude and creepy. It's also borderline stalking. If it was my forum (and I moderate a Facebook group for bears) I would immediately ban the person with no warning and no second chance. I have no tolerance for that shit. Luckily we have few people who pull stunts like that. I'm sorry that happened to you. Anyone making comments like that doesn't understand the current HIV regimes such as PREP and U=U.
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
That just sounds like a challenge. -
Oh god yes. I think I wrote about this elsewhere on the site. It's one of things I attributed later on to my penchant for short furry guys. I went to a University lab school and so a lot of our teachers were graduate students at the University. Mr. T was one of those. He was probably 5'5", very furry, Italian, no beard but one of those guys who has to shave an hour after doing so, muscled but not overly worked out. GREAT super hairy ass. Basically HOT HOT HOT. He started an after school running club, very casual you could just show up and we'd run a few miles. Then we'd come back and shower in the tiny locker room of the 1930s era gym. Came many times thinking about him.
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
You do have a pretty spectacular booty there. Bet it looks great in a sling! -
Wanna turn him into a cumdump?
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
He did you a favor. NEVER FUCK REPUBLICANS. They don't deserve your hole. -
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
I've always been a short, I'm only 5'7" tall, but bigger guy (200-255 lbs depending on my age and other stuff). When bear came along it really helped my self-esteem. People sought me out for my looks which didn't happen so much in the 80s when I first came out and twinks ruled (and I starved myself down to 155 lbs which was not cute on me, body shit is weird). One of the nicest things someone ever said to me was at 4AM at Burning Man in the early 00s. We were naked, rolling on Ecstasy, snuggling under the covers after fucking and he reached over, rubbed my stomach and said "I LOVE your hairy belly!" That made my week. I still remember it 20 years later. He was a super hot, short otter guy (one of my types). So imagine my shock when around the same time back in San Francisco someone rejected me for not being fat enough. OK. Sure, dude. I laughed about it (not to his face, obviously, I'm not a monster). He was a fit muscle guy but was into really large bears. I didn't take it personally, we all have our preferences. He wasn't unkind. I think that's the trick. Be nice about it. Just say "we're not a good fit." You don't need to TELL the person why you're rejecting them. If you do that's kinda rude, TBH. -
The Combat Zone long long long gone. Playland apparently closed in 1998. That had been a bar since the 1937 and gay since the early 1940s.
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
This is a lesson to EVERYONE. If someone from another country won't meet you via Zoom or FaceTime do not travel to meet them. This is nuts. -
I really find it astounding that women think men aren't jacking off ALL THE FUCKING TIME. The ones who think that their boyfriend/husband looking at porn is cheating on them are HILARIOUSLY silly. Girl. Grow up. Get some therapy. Every man looks at porn. The question is are they discreet if their female partner doesn't like it (though why she cares is beyond me). It is important to know that straight porn is made ethically. There's a lot more exploitation/trafficking in straight porn than in gay, I think. I can't understand why a man (I'm not picking on you Iker80) would date (let alone marry or spawn with) a woman who thinks jacking off and looking at porn are "cheating." No single person can be everything to anyone. I've been married for twenty years, trust me. I was with my previous boyfriends both for six years. Done monogamy (didn't like it), done open (works much better for me). But even when I was monogamous, I had a private jack off routine that did not involve my boyfriend.
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Yep. That's the place. This is more or less what it looked like when I was regularly going there in the late 1980s and early 1990s. Brings back some great sleazebucket memories, like the sexy clean cut blonde frat boy type kid who parked himself on the toilet, drank beer all night, got shit faced and sucked one cock after another.
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
"Unclear on the concept." -
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Questions that don't deserve their own thread
Sfmike64 replied to yoursinmine's topic in General Discussion
I do it to give my knees a break and maybe to slow down so I don't breed the bottom quite yet. Take your time. I'm usually not in a hurry. -
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
Personally, I think you're from YouSexyMotherFuckeristan. -
The Pilgrim was in the Combat Zone on Washington St around the corner from Playland Cafe. Now that place was a TRIP and a half. A gay bar since the 1930s. Some of the customers in the 1980s had been there opening day.
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