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Sfmike64

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  1. Look at inflatable dildos/butt plugs. You can pump them up and slowly stretch your ass. DO NOT use crisco or oil based lubes on rubber inflatables. The material will degrade (it's why you don't use oil with condoms). You don't want the dildo to pop inside your ass. You can also have a partner play with it too, but when you pump it up, do so slowly to help your ass muscles relax and stretch.
  2. started dating my first long term lover, who had been a very devout Catholic boy, I was also Catholic but not so devout. in 1988. We were together for 6 years or so. We were talking about "body count" one night in the first year or so of our relationship and he realized he knew precisely how many people he'd slept with but no idea how many times he'd been to confession. I was the exact opposite. I was about 25 at the time and had been a slut since I discovered adult bookstores at 16. Needless to say I quickly fixed this problem. He was never as much of a slut as I was, but I took him to his first orgy which became a regular thing.
  3. Sounds like he needs some alone time with an inflatable dildo!
  4. 51. Just a boy.
  5. You don't "deserve it." STIs happen. Don't shame yourself and do not let others shame you for getting one. Also, everyone needs to remember that people often do not know they have syphilis. You don't always get the classic lesion. That may be what happened to you. Or you simply didn't notice the lesion. This is why everyone who is slutty should be getting tested for STIs every three or four months. You should also talk to your doctor about DoxyPEP (which is antibiotics you take prophylactically like PREP).
  6. Sounds like you should see if he's horny. And send us pictures. 🙂
  7. Not even a few weeks. I've found the sprays to work better than the creams, unless you get a prescription cream, the one my podiatrist gave me is called Ciclopirox. That clears this stuff up in a day or two. Jock itch and athlete's foot are the same thing just in different places. These creams also work on ringworm (which isn't a worm at all, it's a rash). You can come over and jerk off on me. I'll even swallow.
  8. Get on DoxyPep if you want to avoid getting an STI.
  9. Trust me, we all wanna hear all the details!
  10. It's such a fucking hot story.
  11. The only way that could be hotter would be if all of their loads were in your cunt. Damn.
  12. Right? The problem with most porn for me is that the people in it are NOT enjoying themselves, or you can tell they're just waiting to get paid so they can leave. That's such a turnoff for me, when they look bored. Timothy and Joel Someone (who is SOOOOO my type) always look like they're having a great time even when the setup is cheesy or cliche.
  13. I really like him too, because you can tell he’s always having a good time. I want Timothy and Joel someone to do a scene.
  14. You might also try inflatable plugs. If they're of the thinner latex variety, don't use oil based lube on them because you don't want it to explode when it's in your cunt.
  15. Now we're talking! Hope you have more than beer. And lots of toys.
  16. There are SO many slang words for dick. In every culture/language. My favorite was in Cuba there is a kind of blood sausage called moronga (apparently this exists all over Latin America). That's also slang for a big fat cock. It's even better when you roll the R harrrrrrrrrd. I've also heard people say that straight men say "dick" and gay men say "cock." Does it matter? Dicks are amazing.
  17. THIS. ALL OF THIS. Look, guys, your dick is what it is. You can't change it. Just enjoy what you have. I've always loved my cock. It's not the longest or the fattest, but it's a decent size and it's given me thousands of orgasms since 1975-76 (I was 11-12 when I started having orgasms). And if you DO want to try this, DO NOT treat it like a tooth implant you go to Costa Rica for and pay 25% what you would here. It's your DICK.
  18. TBH, I don't remember exactly. I started dating someone who was more of a top (and had a huge dick) and it was something he was already into. I was in my early 30s (around 1996-7) and he was a little older and more experienced with kink than me. I was just finding my way and figuring out what I liked (I learned I DO NOT like pain at all). Anyway Brad tried fisting me but he has REALLY big hands (freaky large) and it wasn't happening. But we used to go to parties together and at one of those I took my first fist from a stranger. It was really hot but I don't remember much of the details, except that it was on a doctor's exam table with my feet in stirrups. I was SO into it. Then a few years later (after dating a vanilla guy for a few years) I discovered chems and that led to giant toys in my cunt and a DP or two. 🙂
  19. I don't think you can ever keep kinks down. I started fisting in the mid 90s when AIDS was still raging in SF (I moved there in 1995) and I knew people who were really sick (sometimes the meds didn't work for people). We just used gloves. When people discovered Nitrile gloves (as opposed to latex) that was a huge game changer. 🙂 It never occurred to me that fisting was "unsafe." Even when someone got a little pink. I do think you're right that kinks tend to come and go in popularity, but now the internet has made it easy for people to find others with similar kinks, even really niche ones like pony play or scat.
  20. I was very shy and introverted when I was coming out so I found cruising adult bookstores much easier than cruising bars. I was never very good at fuck buddy. If we were fucking it either transmuted into dating (even if only for a short time) or I never saw the person again. About 15 years ago I met a guy on Growlr who was not really my type, tall and thin with longish hair. A surfer dude. He made surfboards for a living, even. But he was sweet and sexy and we had sex on and off for about 5 years. I woke his nipples up, which is one of my proudest sexual achievements. When we first started fucking, he said "oh those don't work." And I just said "uh huh...sure....and I kept pinching them." By the time I moved away from SF, his nipples were central to his libido. 🙂 The last time I saw him, he thanked me for waking his tits up. It was one of the nicest things anyone ever said to me. These days I have a sexy cubby fisting buddy that I see now and then. Another younger guy super into Daddies like me. 🙂 Yay!
  21. The answer is to use a VPN. I've been doing this since Louisiana did this a while back. Free ones exist, but even paid ones don't cost much. I use one called Windscribe. VPN makes it appear that you're in another place. Most VPNs have many choices. I'm currently connected to one in Los Angeles. This is another reason why these laws are stupid.
  22. I try to use the BDSM adage..."don't yuck someone's yum." Various friends of mine love guys with big bushy beards, which I don't care for. Those guys are just not for me. Which is fine. 🙂
  23. Interesting question. If you asked me "my type," he would be 5'3", 180, thick, as hairy as humanly possible, uncut and a pig. But people are complicated and massively varied. My last two serious relationships (including current one) were/are 5'11" and not thick. Personality and vibe are as important as looks to me. I find that I have a wide variety of types, even though that little furry hobbit would be super fun to play with. I also think that people here are expressing fantasies and talking about what turns them on which isn't necessarily what they're actually going to do. I also find that I'm far more attracted to men younger than me now that I'm 60 and look like a Daddy. I embraced it when I realized it wasn't going to change. You're going to get turned down sometimes, and it can hurt....trust me I know this, I was very shy and introverted when I came out at 16, it's why I liked cruising adult bookstores. You just have to keep putting yourself out there and be clear about what you're looking for. Put it on your profiles online (if it's not already there) and try not to take the rejection too hard. Lots of guys will have a hard time turning down your great ass. 🙂
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