Sfmike64
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I once picked up a guy in the cruisy park near my apartment in Boston (back in 1994-5) and then a few months later went to a new dentist office. Guy walks in to clean my teeth. GUESS WHO? The guy who introduced me to piss play from The Fens. It's very weird to have someone flirt with you AND clean your teeth, which for me is VERY unsexy.
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You can read that story here. Same title. I removed all my stories from Nifty after they removed one of my stories (and didn't tell me it just vanished) because it featured drug use. This from a site that has stories that heavily feature sex with kids. They claimed I violated a rule but then couldn't show me where that rule was listed (sex with kids IS a rule violation, if I recall correctly). Other drug related stories were left up. I came to the conclusion that I was dealing with one moderator who was a dick and wouldn't budge so I told them to go fuck themselves. Volunteer online orgs like Nifty can be colonized by assholes who like ruling over their little fief and if you violate their rule (spoken or not) they will get rid of you. The guy who runs bear411 is notorious for this. I'm told NastyKinkPigs is the same way. They won't even let you share your email with someone in a private message, which is creepy as fuck.
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HELLOOOOOO! <HELLOOOOOO HELLOOOOO HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!> I think there's an echo in there! -
Why Gay Men Pursue People They Don’t Want
Sfmike64 replied to BareBack35's topic in General Discussion
I think this is a good point. I am very very clear with people upfront that I'm only looking for sex or maybe a fuck buddy but I'm not interested in dating because my relationship doesn't allow for it. I'm also not interested in it. I have a husband, he's primary and I'm in love with him. I understand people can be in love with more than one person, but I choose not to do that. But hooking up doesn't require it. Fuck buddies can keep it light. -
a trio of fine arses - each with its own charms.jpeg
Sfmike64 commented on ff69's gallery image in User Galleries
I could eat......a BUFFET! -
It is. But I would advise you.....if you want to do it: TAKE. IT. SLOW. Play with an experienced partner (www.asspig.com is a good site for fisters) who knows what they're doing. Be upfront that you're a novice fisting bottom. If someone doesn't want to play with you because you're a novice, find someone else. Lots of guys love breaking in a new hole. And if you use chemicals, do it the first time sober. You want to understand exactly what your hole is doing, and you cloud your judgement if you are high or drunk. Later when you have more experience you can do it high if you want.
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ROFL! That's hilarious. I have a university degree in history and grew up Catholic. 🙂 I was a very nerdy boy who paid attention in school.
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DAMN. I could eat! Especially after you're dripping loads. Amazing hole! Sexy boy!
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I COULD EAT. DAMN. -
Yes. It counts. We sound like the Council of Nicea. We should write The Cumdump's Creed.
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I have noticed this too. In my 50s I started to become more dominant and verbal. I'm not really sure when it happened, but maybe it was when guys started calling me Daddy all the time. When it started I didn't like it, but then I realized it wasn't going away as I became covered in gray hair (I'm a short furry bear) and my head lost its hair (I have a shaved head now). I leaned into it, as the dumb cliche says. Something clicked and I just faked it till I made it and I'm sure there were some guys who didn't know how to say "christ, faggot, SHUT UP." But I learned to spin a story and have written a bunch of them here. Also, a particular buddy in the early 10s sorta trained me in Daddy/boy (as the Daddy, shout out to Jeb) and we had some fun times. Have fun. Don't overthink it. You won't always get it right, try to remember that you can laugh about it even while it's happening. Or laugh about it and pivot to something else if it's not working. Try not to take it too seriously, but when it clicks it can be ripping hot and making my cock like concrete.
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Favorite part about giving head?
Sfmike64 replied to DiscreetNDangerous's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
In Italian cooking there is a dish called veal (or chicken) saltimbocca. Which means "jumps in your mouth." Clearly you should be eating this. -
Share your Twitter handle to connect with other barebackers
Sfmike64 replied to silverlining's topic in General Discussion
Sent you a follow request. -
Waiting for the cumdump to get loaded up. -
I have. "I"m a filthy pig."
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Come on. Let us see. 🙂 -
Puphawaii is right.....contact the moderators of the forum. Ask them to stop this person from harassing you. That's fucked up and rude and creepy. It's also borderline stalking. If it was my forum (and I moderate a Facebook group for bears) I would immediately ban the person with no warning and no second chance. I have no tolerance for that shit. Luckily we have few people who pull stunts like that. I'm sorry that happened to you. Anyone making comments like that doesn't understand the current HIV regimes such as PREP and U=U.
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No way. That's a KKKKKKKKKUNT. -
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
That just sounds like a challenge. -
Oh god yes. I think I wrote about this elsewhere on the site. It's one of things I attributed later on to my penchant for short furry guys. I went to a University lab school and so a lot of our teachers were graduate students at the University. Mr. T was one of those. He was probably 5'5", very furry, Italian, no beard but one of those guys who has to shave an hour after doing so, muscled but not overly worked out. GREAT super hairy ass. Basically HOT HOT HOT. He started an after school running club, very casual you could just show up and we'd run a few miles. Then we'd come back and shower in the tiny locker room of the 1930s era gym. Came many times thinking about him.
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
You do have a pretty spectacular booty there. Bet it looks great in a sling! -
Wanna turn him into a cumdump?
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
He did you a favor. NEVER FUCK REPUBLICANS. They don't deserve your hole. -
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
Sfmike64 replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
I've always been a short, I'm only 5'7" tall, but bigger guy (200-255 lbs depending on my age and other stuff). When bear came along it really helped my self-esteem. People sought me out for my looks which didn't happen so much in the 80s when I first came out and twinks ruled (and I starved myself down to 155 lbs which was not cute on me, body shit is weird). One of the nicest things someone ever said to me was at 4AM at Burning Man in the early 00s. We were naked, rolling on Ecstasy, snuggling under the covers after fucking and he reached over, rubbed my stomach and said "I LOVE your hairy belly!" That made my week. I still remember it 20 years later. He was a super hot, short otter guy (one of my types). So imagine my shock when around the same time back in San Francisco someone rejected me for not being fat enough. OK. Sure, dude. I laughed about it (not to his face, obviously, I'm not a monster). He was a fit muscle guy but was into really large bears. I didn't take it personally, we all have our preferences. He wasn't unkind. I think that's the trick. Be nice about it. Just say "we're not a good fit." You don't need to TELL the person why you're rejecting them. If you do that's kinda rude, TBH. -
The Combat Zone long long long gone. Playland apparently closed in 1998. That had been a bar since the 1937 and gay since the early 1940s.
