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Start with larger toys (and get good quality squishy silicone ones). Use a good thick lube like j-lube or x-lube and take your time working your hole open. Once you can manage toys/plugs that are as wide as a coke can then find a good (and patient) top who's happy to spend his time slowly working you wider and wider. Most importantly, take your time. It took me months before I could even manage a small fist just passed the knuckles. And then a year before I could get really fisted 'easily'. You'll need to keep 'training' with toys and plugs to keep getting used to being opened up. Good luck!
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Love getting opened up in my sling. Feet in the loops to keep my legs open and my hole available. But also like being face down and ass up with a massive cushion under me. Keeps my gaping hole in the air and any lube just goes inside me.
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This is one of the most frustrating things about sauna visits (and one of the reasons I don't go as much). So many tops seem to be waiting for something 'better' to finish. They'll happily fuck a bit but they know they'll leave after cumming so they want to wait for some mythical perfect bottom who'll appear.
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Toy recommendations to prepare for fisting
FallenLad replied to SamHou's topic in Fisting Discussion
Gotta agree with this. They make such a range of toys in different shapes and sizes that are perfect for warming up or stretching yourself. Not cheap but better to buy good quality silicone toys than nasty PVC ones. -
I had this about 4 years back, a top I was seeing regularly called me and let me know he'd tested positive for it (and it hurt when he pissed). I had no symptoms and it took 3 courses if different antibiotics to finally clear it. But clinics in the UK won't test for it unless there's some symptoms. So have no idea if I have caught it again since.. as taken a fair bit of cock since then
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Can you enjoy getting fisted while keeping the tightness?
FallenLad replied to lj1987's topic in Fisting Discussion
Honestly, I've taken double fists and ridiculously large toys and never had this issue. I'm sure if I was doing that daily then it might be. But I'm back to normal a day or so after. I'll open up easily and stretch quickly, but still have good muscle control. -
Can you enjoy getting fisted while keeping the tightness?
FallenLad replied to lj1987's topic in Fisting Discussion
I found that while tops brag about how they want "a nice tight arse" they then come too quickly or don't get hard enough to penetrate. Since being able to take a fist I wouldn't say I'm loose to start, I can just relax a lot easier and let it open up. Means I can get fucked for longer and I enjoy it more. Not every meeting needs to involve fisting, I still enjoy having my brains fucked out. -
You need to work on straightening the colon. Try getting some narrow, flexible toys that are long enough to gently curve round. Once you can manage that you can use slightly wider and more solid toys to open up your 2nd hole.
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Since I started using x-lube I've not needed to have a particular recipe. 2 caps in 500ml of warm water, a few drops of clove oil, shake well and it's good. Far less tacky than j-lube and a lot easier to clean off.
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I find it best to go for both girth and depth. No point being able to take something huge if it's not got anywhere to go. If you're looking for toys to give you more of a 'slit' then check out the Topped Toys Maremaker plug. A few different sizes and it's got a perfect shape for opening you up.
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Honestly I love it. There was a point ages ago that I would struggle being fucked by even an average cock and would feel sore for days after. Since getting into larger and larger toys and eventually fists it's made sex so much more enjoyable. I still have enough control that sex feels enjoyable for both me and the top, and I can be fucked for ages without any discomfort. But I also get to enjoy an entirely different sensation of having my hole opened up and filled to the most extreme extent. And that's given me full body orgasms that I never even knew were possible. Also for all the tops that boast about how they want to fuck a tight arse, so many can't manage it. Having a more relaxed, loose cunt means they can actual fuck me without being rock hard and can last a whole lot longer.
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Biohazard party, what to expect?
FallenLad replied to naughtymat22's topic in German-Speaking Europe
At the risk of being naïve the FAQ says that neg guys aren't welcome. Is it just a case of 'don't tell anyone' or are they strict about that? -
I'll always prefer an actual fist and that interaction with someone, but toys are a great way to warm up or stretch when no-one is available. I can happily spend hours stretching myself out with my collection.
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Give Verbal Or Stay Quiet When Being Fucked?
FallenLad replied to VersGuyAnon's topic in General Discussion
When I'm being fucked I nearly always beg to be bred. Find myself asking to be "knocked up" as well lately which plays into another kink. Don't think I've met a top who minded the dirty talk. -
Do you bottoms wish you had a smaller cock?
FallenLad replied to PussyBottomBitch's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Wish mine was just a little nub. I nearly always wear a jock to keep it covered and don't get hard while being fucked. So it's never really in use. -
First time started with a condom, but I didn't take much convincing when he said he couldn't continue if he was wearing one. It was night and day how much better it felt taking his cock without it. I used them on and off for a few years, and still will occasionally if I really need to get laid and the top insists. But I'll always prefer without.
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261, only done a couple of the 10's but managed plenty of others. Although there's definitely some I'm happy to skip.
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This is one of the reasons I haven't been to Hove sauna in ages. Waiting around for anything to actually happen because the older guys are expecting a bunch of 20yo twinks to turn up. And while I like older men, I've seen at least a couple of guys who are outright showing signs of dementia during some visits. Just got depressing.
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THE MAKING OF A CHASING PIG
FallenLad replied to DirtyFckr's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Great start! Looking forward to seeing where this goes. -
I'll do A2M but only from my ass. I don't know how well any other bottom has cleaned out, whereas I know that mine is pristine.
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Great story. Love it when he finally says what he really wants!
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Why Did You Start Barebacking?
FallenLad replied to west933's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
When I started having sex (with women) I hated condoms, but hated the idea of paying child support even more! Then when I started experimenting and getting fucked by guys I kept using them, but after having a regular partner who I want bare with I really struggled to ever go back to using them. Now I only play bare. -
I'm in Brighton, up for all types of sleezy fun.
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