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20 hours ago, Erik62 said:

SORRY BootmanLA if you have taken my discussion as a specifically US issue & that full transition was being practiced. I believe my intention was to participate on a broader international basis of action / reaction to a world-wide issue / problem. Although, there is in fact legislation in most countries, that does actually allow surgical transitioning in minors, for medical reasons. Also, just wondering where in my comments did I actually raise the issues of FGM & other cultural practices of genital mutilation. 

    Trump & Health Care is the main topic of discussion & so I ran with the "outrage" of under age transitioning & the specific / undetermined side effects that this would / could leave. I used the Tavistock Clinic (London) as an example of the bizarre lengths that must be guarded against. 

  "..... no irreversible change to mental or physical developement.....". Once again you have misread my comments. At no time did I state that Puberty Blockers provided irreversible changes. I reiterate that my discussion was from an international viewpoint. You cannot disagree that full transitioning of children, has been discussed by the more radical trans groups. I do know that the idea has been "thrown around" by certain elements (there is always a fringe that want to push the limits) in Australia, the UK, Sweden, Denmark & most other Western countries (US included, I would imagine) on that basis my comments of irreversible changes were made. 

  When commenting I attempt to express myself as clearly as possible. Unfortunately, in attempting to do so my screeds can get rather lengthy & as I have found my intent is still misinterpreted, for this I apologise AGAIN. 

@Erik62 there is a huge amount of value in discussing and observing across our species rather than limit to a geographic area.  Although I'll ask your forbearance.  Here in the US it is as if we live next to an out of control teenager playing what he calls "music" at full volume 24x7.  Whose goal seems to be that we stop talking with each other.  

What Trump is doing isn't "healthcare".  It is celebrating the unfettered spread of disease across humanity.  Big beautiful measles???  WTF?  

When I communicate with you and others in Australia, man please help your fellow citizens see the Orange Clown for what he is and not make the same mistakes my fellow US citizens made.  

32 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

This is an interesting (potentially) issue.  It's nothing I'd known of prior, and I'm not sure I buy into very much of this thought-train.  

While it's entirely possible that in truly ancient times, males felt some kind of competition (between themselves) to supplant other males sperm with their own, and thus propagate their own individual characteristics via this "replacement" theory, it's hard to imagine that mind-set lingering on for very long.  The notion that (every? almost every?) male wants his own dna propagated, to the exclusion of other males I hadn't heard of until reading that reference material.  

I rather doubt that any man's individual urge to procreate goes much farther than his lusts do.  Of course, making "love" to his "loved one" is fully sanctioned by society, and for good reason.  Once that goal is accomplished, why would that "instinct" carry on much farther?  I wonder if there's much "instinct" at all involved in the "displacement theory" material.  Men have the instinct to procreate, of course, but to the extent that men instinctually want 'their" own dna to continue, as opposed to procreation as a by-product of their instinctual pressure to fuck is where I'm missing the premise. 

I think "the penis" is - for the vast majority of males - an instrument of pleasure, and making love to a loved one, which also doubles as handy piss-tool.  More, I don't think most men give a hoot who else has fucked the woman (as long as it's not their own property ... er.... I mean "wife" other men have fucked).  

It was admittedly half a century ago, but one woman I slept with at the time explained to me that her birth control was that semen competed with other semen and in her thinking, canceled each other out.  I never did find out the name of the baby...

9 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

I've never lived in a place (after leaving the town I grew up in) where there was a dearth of men who fucked each other.  I did use the apps for a while, but it was always easier to just get in the car, drive a little, and hit the fuckjoints.  And, I met a handful of guys on the apps that became good buddies, both fuckbuds and guys who I became actual friends with as well as fuckbuds.  I guess I've always liked living close to the action - and was able to do that to this day.  

Reading about all the disappointments that seem to go hand-in-glove with using the apps is a sorrow - and I wish all of us could live in places where we could fuck each other without any hindrances. 

I suppose that would also be called Heaven.  

I always preferred "the fuck joints".  Sadly here in Wisconsin the conservative christians prevailed and they aren't around.  I've heard rumors of one 'in my area" but on examination it just isn't the same...

Hmmm, are we cock suckers subdivided into a form of tops and bottoms (or more correctly, active vs passive)?  I am definitely a cock sucker, but I tend to be the one with my suckee strapped to my cross while I take them for a lovely ride.

Interesting @viking8x6, I didn't realize they had been in use for multiple decades.  

And indeed I honestly had no idea of the duration of use.  Delaying puberty 3 to 5 years is certainly a rational approach.  Although I am curious if the long term effects of such a delay has been studied much?  

My life position on choices about our own bodies is one of my longest held beliefs.  We've always had parts of society telling everyone else what they should do.  And many of our fellow citizens are firmly in the "do as I say, not what I do" camp.  

35 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

With respect, what happened at Tavistock in the UK has zero bearing on whether those surgeries are occurring in the United States, which (given that this topic is about Trump and health care) is the parameter at hand. Just because, say, certain African countries permit female genital mutilation doesn't mean that FGM is even occurring in the US, much less on a widespread basis. (I'm well aware it may be happening under the radar in some immigrant communities, but that's a far cry from the outrage over "they're letting this thing happen all over!" that we're seeing about trans surgery for minors.

I'll also note that even if I agreed with your categorical statement about "no irreversible change", puberty blockers - which accounts for about 99% of the pre-age-of-majority "intervention" in this country - is not in fact "irreversible". Simply stopping taking them allows puberty to progress.

Understanding of course that we don't have decades of data about going on puberty blockers at a young age and dropping them at mid life.  That said, I would be loathe to legislate against them.  That individual and their doctors, and with minors with the consent of their parents should be the only ones making that choice.  

Sweet start!!!  Oh to have photos of those two...

Bottom line, once we are poz we will always be poz.  So it doesn't really matter whether we "like it".  It is permanent.  

That said, I'm glad to be poz today.

No @viking8x6.  No disinfection needed.

But I think both you and I agree that leaving NATO is a bad idea.  Balancing NATO cost vs benefits is complex because there aren't clearly defined boundaries that describe costs and benefits.  It is more about the evolution of a cooperative set of societies on earth vs uncooperative.  But nonetheless as our societies evolve rebalancing these things makes sense.  Can we cooperate with each other on this one planet we all share?  Or not?  That seems to be the point.  

Truly I don't see the attraction anyone has ever had to Mr Trump.  His life is as a self described deal maker and the best one ever.  He created the Mexico/US/Canada trade deal in his first term.  Now he decries it as the worst deal ever made.  But it was HIS deal.  His lifelong pattern has been making deals and then violating the very deals he made.  That isn't a deal.  That's the ploy of a con man.  

Much of NATO is around the idea of agreeing where national boundaries are.  But guys like Putin and now Trump want to "renegotiate" those.  But not for us, for themselves....

When given a choice I prefer other poz guys.  Seems our focus there is sharing pleasure and not fretting bugs.  

I gave 12 blow jobs to completion the day I opened my home glory hole and hosted a group of about 40 guys.  

Thanks Doc

On 2/27/2025 at 12:24 PM, Poz50something said:

Nah- you are definitely not a sociopath. You care too much for your fellow human beings. 

Indeed, i had intended to write "He self describes as a sociopath...".  

Obviously I am a keyboard fuck up at times!  🙂

Need?  Hmm, no...  Desire?  Definitely. 

I find myself stopping myself.  While I pozzed intentionally and have no regrets, I am not of a mind to poz others unintentionally.  The idea of stealth is abhorrent to me.  Of course candor works against me as there are a massive quantity of utterly ignorant guys; who have an unhealthy fear of disease to their own peril.  There are guys in my neighborhood fearful of handshakes.  OY.  From a sexual standpoint I have become my own cock block.  

Obviously power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.  We see that old saw playing out again, but it is hardly new.  Still from my POV no cheers for the ugly fuck in the WH now.  

My pharmacist doesn't have to ask me...  He can see my records we've developed over the years.  

I am going to believe my doctor over some dude I've never met in person, much less sans credentials uttering their line of snake oil.  As a society we tried to deal with this in the 1800's and 1900's to counteract snake oil salesmen (who exist throughout human history) and largely succeeded.  Now we have new snake oil sales men trying to get the system to work in their favor.  The unskilled and unqualified leading the charge.  

Anyone who has actually worked the life of a manager; and has had success doing so, knows that firing is an indication of our failure as a coach, not a measure of strength.  

He demonstrated himself ONLY as a bully today, and demonstrated how is absolutely sucks as a negotiator.  

Ditto, my answer is YES.  Didn't we work through all this nonsense 60 years ago?  For me it is always the quality of the man attached to said dick and ass.  Complexion is, as is hair color and texture, a feature of how we look, not who we are.

Exactly @partying.hard.  and yet it is super simple to do.  If nothing else it gives Muskrat a clue of the economic power he is fucking around with.  

And Max, damn he is a beautiful man!  He hits every single one of my hot buttons, and some in addition.  

@Erik62 would you please cite your sources?

3 hours ago, Erik62 said:

I don't understand your reference to "the 45". 

If I had written "the 45" your misunderstanding might make sense.  But that isn't what I wrote at all...  

I wrote "And yet 45 decided....".  Trump is the 45th and 47th POTUS (President of the United States).  And back in October my utterly stupid fellow US citizens hadn't elected that traitor.  

10 hours ago, Erik62 said:

"I love being a little poppered up sub slut for dom daddies.....".

  Is it just me or does this statement run in TOTAL contradiction of what the rest of your statement describes. 

  In fact, a reader may very well conclude that you had VERY VANILLA ideas about your sexual "proclivities". 

I self describes as a sociopath and his post reflects that.  

Missionary, I just wrap my legs around his back when they get tired.  That said, any position naturally evolves if the length of our fuck extends into hours.

I have a home dungeon, making it a nice dungeon was my covid project.  All my toys are in here (as well as a 'puter to get on here).