PozBearWI

Your fellow American pigs from the US would appreciate that.  

Man if only getting pozzed was this easy...  

I've been on bluesky about a month now.  I don't compare to X because that has become a cesspool on it's own.  For now Bluesky seems like a good place to communicate, time will tell.  

@BootmanLA how do you imagine terminating our marriages is going to work?  Would they simply be automatically annulled?  Impact on back taxed risking arrest for tax fraud?  

Hmmm, they're exactly the same but entirely different?  Both are a form of sexual pleasure.  Both involve a penis and a body opening.  Beyond that...  

@drscorpio actually the underage start didn't affect me at all.  The whole story evolved in what seemed to be a natural way.  The fuck itself reminded me of my first fuck; and that I think is why I found it such a hot story.

@jXsluT oh hell yes, on your knees at my cross with me strapped to it enjoying your oral ministrations.  Wear that navy blue wifebeater ok?

I think 3 is the minimum, and its only an orgy when all are fucking each other.  5+ is ideal, again when all are fucking each other.  

adding to @Pozguyinchi plus being in the same room for fucking just feels better I think.

My favorite sucking position is to have my suckee strapped to my St Andrews Cross so that he is restrained, and I can use my mouth, throat and hands anyway I choose.  

Fuck yes @RandyCubby I would love to do pushups on your face, and you on mine I hope...

It was not a fast survey - needing me to contemplate each.  And even then radio button answers don't give us much.  They are, by nature, devoid of nuance.  

#1, Is it primarily driven by non-reproductive factors (e.g. emotional connection, various forms of attraction, etc)?

#2, Claim to have sexual arousal and desire, but it is more complicated and requires many variables to come together properly for. them to get "turned on" enough to perform sexual acts.   But even then it really is sort of situational.  I've been in situations where I wasn't even thinking along sexual lines; but was in the right place and we went at it.  But this third option at least came closer to how it works for me.

#3 I think "most" men are going to still have a broad range of answers describing our natural instincts around sexual arousal.  I know for me, it's really physical attraction and paying attention to whether they're attracted back.  I suppose I can just be bold and ask "hey ya wanna fuck", but that's not generally what I do...  For a lot of reasons needing to maintain day to day decorum.  

18 minutes ago, cockfun69 said:

No just porn for me, not Netflix 😎 😮 

It doesn't matter your purpose.  The point is, it is a more secure connection you buy.

@JustAFrecklyWriter this particular story seems to have the potential to be it's own book; more around Will's sexual awakening and discovery of what gay life CAN be like.  Certainly exposes the reader to what it was like at one time - and there is so much Jay could choose to do.  And it is a book I think I would happily buy; especially when it contains @Jaygusher artwork to put a picture to his words.  

Also, inflatables are essentially a balloon.  The more air the more it resembles a ball.  Still, as a stretch trainer?  Inflatable let's you feel the stretch as it occurs.  You set the pace with the pump and those are typically easy to control, increments pretty small.  

It was that ball effect where I learned it was best when I figured at what depth that occurred.  Ultimately it seemed to want to "slip off center" of the tendon we're trying to relax.  

An inflatable also has the benefit of being able to do this alone; increase one's "capacity" (as it were) before it is needed....

11 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

Like learning how to date, the people who don't want to break you in with more aggressive sex are NOT PEOPLE YOU WANT TO PLAY WITH.

Find someone who will be patient with you, respect your limits (even if they pretend you don't have any...EVERYONE has limits and should be explicit about them) and will discuss the scene with you BEFORE you play. Preferably in person. 

Be patient. You're not just looking for a fuck, you're looking to explore BDSM and that's more complicated. Set up a Recon (also Growlr since you're into bears/dads) profile and be explicit about what you've done and have not done and what turns you on and want to explore. A top that's worth your time (and responds to your looks and personality) will make time and respect you and your limits. Try to make friends who are into the scene even if you don't want to fuck them (or vice versa). Having a wingman/mentor can be a very useful thing.

Good luck. That's a nice butt. Someone should be playing with it and telling you you're a dirty faggot. 🙂

Sadly, not everyone is comfortable being explicit about their what I'll call "operating parameters".  Reluctant or embarrassed to discuss that level of detail.  

I think in our present social media hook up tools; there is an assumption that we adequately express our limits off an option chart; as if that explains why, how, when, where, how?  Honestly it was truly easier when there was more an active bar scene.  When we caught someone's eye we didn't have this incomplete and imperfect dossier pop up over their head... 

Further, HIV develops differently in each of us.  I have friends who progressed to AIDS within their first year poz.  And others who didn't have a CD4 drop off for more than 20 years.  

My consistent answer to anyone asking "should I get infected with HIV?".  NO.  You have to figure this out on your own. 

We have a choice to prevent HIV infection (and some others if you're young enough when you read this).  There will be fewer challenges if you don't get infected.  There is still some AIDS  hysteria around and that is growing in surprising areas.  When I write that, the misinformation and folk lore about HIV that tends to separate Neg and Poz people.  So u=u be damned they are still not willing to engage.  At least here in rural US Midwest.  

Until you can have a face to face conversation with yourself, and can explain for yourself why you need to live with an HIV factory inside you, you have your own doubt.  And only you can resolve your own doubt.  If you choose to let Joe down the street decide everything, well then you're living Joe's life, not your own.  

11 hours ago, Slipitupme said:

What does this mean?

You can google VPN services which apply to your "home" network, whether that is on a modem/router you own, your mobile phone.  Each provider will have info on where and how to install.  Or, if necessary, ask one of your geekier friends.  🙂  

VPN is a Virtual Private Network.  Because the network you buy isn't your actual location; it is the VPN provider's location that is used.  

@fluffybutt I am looking forward to whatever @Jaygusher writes.  While in my take on this story so far I think Chester has likely already infected Will, there is enough reason to be 'unsure'.  But it is clear Chester's cock finds Will's ass a familiar place, perhaps because Will's dad's ass was such a familiar place.  

So that's my take, but whatever Jay chooses to do with this story I know I am going to like.  So I'll simply try to be patient...  🙂

Indeed, and we're all on this unknown roller coaster ride.  It's going to be whatever it turns out to be.  My hope is that my worst fears won't manifest.  

Indeed it is lowest pricing tier in my plan.  

Indeed and mancount?  Honestly I don't know.  At least a few hundred.  

Easily exceed 1,000 here with 50+ years of fucking/getting fucked.

14 minutes ago, Erik62 said:

Same here, about 4or5wks.

Is it OK if I follow you there as well🧐?? 

 

Sure Erik, Same handle as here on there.

You're not alone @Erik62, I was banned from Twitter as well.  And it was never clear why.  I kind of viewed it as a badge of honor though, Twitter becoming the cesspool known as X.  

I'm finding Bluesky pretty good although I am only a month or two into use of it.