PozBearWI
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Being an admin on another bugchaser site, I definitely will put it as a message on our site. There are already many similar. I think it is fine to chase, everyone can make up their own mind. This is one of the things that occurs with HIV. It can still surprise us. Thankfully not often. So if one chases and expects any sort of guarantee this sort of thing can't happen to them, I encourage them to think again. If on the other hand your characterization of bug chasing and our sites as "damned"; I'll say the same thing I say to "right to lifers", my body my choice. Information great; castigation not so much...
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Indeed @tallslenderguy It is easy to conflate the idea of an open respectful relationship with 'cheating'. They are very different things.
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Similar to @atlfukbud @Konrad @MuscledHorse. I've been in my open, respectful and loving relationship for 23 years. We encourage each other to enjoy sexual pleasure however we find it. We had both experienced mates who insisted on absolute monogamy; we eventually discovered were anything but.
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Thanks @viking8x6. As an admin on another similar site I want to toss in that a lot of the reasons we put in such initial restrictions is to help the longer term survivability of our websites. There are no shortages of people who disagree with any of us discussing what we discuss here. So before we open up the floodgates to unrestricted posts we want to give time for people to reveal who they are (might be an over simplification but somewhat our "why").
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Do You Ever Slut Shame Yourself?
PozBearWI replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in General Discussion
Nicely said @ErosWired It wasn't a bathhouse encounter; it was a hotel room; so there was only the one other "customer" there. I think what would potentially bother me is less that I fucked the guy; but that there is a path to me per our pre meeting conversation that might leave me open to legal exposure (did I play with one guy who later accuses me of passing on an STI?). -
How do you convince guys to bareback you?
PozBearWI replied to bbttmm77's topic in General Discussion
The handful of condom guys are few and far between for me. -
Do we need a secret signal for breeding?
PozBearWI replied to rock-cock-jock's topic in General Discussion
I don't see the problem.... I just ask or tell guys I only do raw and want my load in them or theirs in me. Some demure but most are in the "bring it on" camp... -
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All true @BootmanLA I definitely discourage people from heading to Wisconsin. We've nearly limitless fresh water and clean air and open space. Who in their right mind would want that???? 🙂
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Pretty true @BootmanLA although I observe advantage plans providing a max out of pocket.
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Age 11
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Score 1 for Team Whore-of-Babylon. LOL
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HIV is rather difficult to contract in recent years. It has always been a pretty whimpy virus out of the body. PrEP and ARV's have reduced the pool of individuals who "could" infect that one's odds are remarkably good they can rawfuck with comparative impunity. Knowledge... Indeed we've long relied upon a model that what a fellow tells us is truthful. If you absolutely, positively do not want HIV; the best way is to get on PrEP. The odds are remarkably low. None of us live forever so if not this it'll be something else... I don't think PrEP has ever actually been studied up to "the whore of Babylon" standards (makes ones home in a slutty bathhouse, never leaves.). But it is quite effective.
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Bravo! So well done!!!!
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PrEP vs medication resistant aids
PozBearWI replied to fillforfun's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Thanks @BootmanLA. It is also relevant that HIV isn't quite as easy to contract as other STI's. Clearly individual results will vary; but CDC risk of unprotected bottoming with a viral top is still less than 2%. Add PrEP to this and risk drops considerably. -
While certainly a matter of degree Dems have their own brand of crazies. Not many, but to think there are non is delusional. That said, R has gone over the edge. A broken party.
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@DallasPozzible I didn't say "on a par". That is your interpretation.
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FWIW there isn't a shortage of D crazies....
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Indeed. For the Wisconsin Primary I have to pull a party ballot. This time I am likely to pull and R if Christie is still in the race. I want us to get back to classic R ; but maybe both parties can learn something and stop the partisan bullfeathers. What's going on now in DC is just disruption. A different form of Jan 6. Enough already.
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Indeed we're following more of the old bulletin board model here; but enhanced with links and images.
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Damn @viking8x6 those guys should be selling "massage" vs massage.
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As is often the case @BootmanLA I am tracking with you on this. The local nude mens club I administer does charge dues and a door fee for our events. Because our members are hosts, we only pay for consumable for the event; and a gratuity to the host for expenses we cant see (utilities, setup/cleanup). I don't see how I could do this if I rented any sort of space (which has to have HVAC in our climate) and make it work. I think the host gratuity is our "expense" for the venue. In my largely rural state we're reasonably popular with our events well attended, and providing our local equivalent of what a bath house would. I am one of the hosts and do my best to give some bath house flavor with my dungeon one of the playrooms when I host. I am unusually aware of local commercial market and how local public safety works; and thus some of the things which might put us out of commission. Confidentiality is a pivotal value. I'm aware there are similar clubs in other states. In fact we might do well to develop a directory of "local clubs". We vet our members before bringing them in. I'm sure that puts off a few; but it let's us make sure we know who is entering (ID verified) private homes we "rent". We can't run successfully and be "anonymous". That said; given the few things that make us different from a bath house, it's similar enough and is the closest "next thing" I can think of for fostering tactile human interactions.
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As well it should be @Tsjul. Our species seems to have this weird relationship with sex - or at least many do. Why we look at something so fucking pleasurable as sex as dirty is just twisted IMO. I hired a porn star once. Damned glad I did although honestly we spent most of our time talking and me learning more of his life to date. It was as much meeting another human as a human as it was sex. So not one regret. That said, for me sex is something to be shared freely so I am as uncomfortable paying as I would be getting paid. Still I pay for a massage and why should I look at any other sex work differently??
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@gingerdaddyG Man I can relate. DM me. Jim
