PozBearWI
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@viking8x6 do you have a Purple front door???? LOL
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@viking8x6 Man I agree. My husband and I started our relationship open, having concluded from prior ones that to put arbitrary monogamy requirements made no sense. We were fuck bunnies in our early years, but as often happens, that gave way to affection. Permanent? No, one of us is going to die first. And that is gonna be a crappy time for the one who doesn't. But we built our private little empire and whomever survives will do OK enough until his end. Now, perhaps this sounds morbid and depressing. It is not intended that way. It is simply a fact, we humans have this annoying habit of dying. And there aren't ever exceptions. Meanwhile we enjoy our lives and the things we do, build, make happen; and those little acts of caring that pop up a few times a day.
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I can imagine dad talking to son and proposing to monitor his sexual habits on the phone (which is not a burner phone) - and putting that up as "you can look at what I don't do". The man has a problem though if he needs sexual thought controlled that way.
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PSA: Not everyone gets the fuck flu (seroconversion illness). Most do, but about 20% don't. @BootmanLA brings up excellent points. If your encounter with "scorpion man' was less than 48 hours ago; and you don't want to be poz yourself, PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) will generally do a good job stopping infection. PrEP is an excellent choice although be diligent about your 3 month checks. Depending on how active you are, 2-1-1 Truvada can minimize side effects while protecting you from HIV infection. Newere PrEP Discovy has fewer side effects for daily use. HIV infection symptoms take weeks to show up. -
Indeed @BootmanLA, we might observe given the opportunity, but one's relationship is between the two (sometimes more) individuals and this seems to be an inside the relationship topic.
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I am concerned of the continued expansion of the anti-Semites we saw early in Mr. T's administration. Typically this sort of tribalism comes from scarcity; and our planet changes are certainly causing widespread shortages, food and water specifically so as not to get caught up in supply chain issues. Mr. N of Israel demonstrates some issues. That said, he keeps getting elected so it follows that the external simplified view sees him as the Jewish Proxy. And regardless, all this seems like core ideology rather than immediately political response. Regarding the "I hope the 'you broke it, you fix it'" mindset is NOT being floated around the White House. That mindset itself is part of the problem. This is our nation. ALL of our nation, not us vs them. For those who were in power whose future should be prison, I hope we've the gumption to follow through on that, with after a period of strife, might get is back as a unified nation. Global response seems to ignore the significance of 10/7 to those whose home is Israel.
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Honestly I think it all started with the whole Santa Claus myth... At least in Eurocentric societies. We teach our kids that Santa will bring them crap if they're good, and that sets in motion a whole like of irrational thinking. We combine that with bible studies which are essentially teaching the whole Santa thing but now wrapped up in a more superior mythological being. Be good or you'll get worse than coal.... Mythology is our attempt to explain the unknown. But it isn't truth, it is just a POV. I am hopeful at a point we can all achieve freedom FROM religion.
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DoxyPEP being rolled out in San Franciso
PozBearWI replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Thanks @viking8x6. I guess I've misunderstood DoxyPrEP; when its DoxyPEP. So treatment on hand for shall we say slutty times? 🙂 -
You'll do better with the Foregestalt device. Or, in particular now the TLC Tugger line (like TLC-X. Done with my restoration, If I say nothing I am taken as uncut.
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We are seeing that now... No "will" about it...
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If you think our system of parties was "designed to support a party-based system" may I suggest you reread Washington's farewell address?
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Man I see the exposure given Mr. Johnson's history. Things might get quite ugly making MTG and MG love him all the more. If he isn't awful, stability in the role is more desirable.
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Florida becoming more and more Republican
PozBearWI replied to Want my 1st cock's topic in LGBT Politics
Indeed on balance I think Biden has done a good job given conditions on the ground when he started. For most of us the years 82 - 85 are more challenging. As a result whomever is VP has a good chance of becoming President. It might be healthy if the WH starts showcasing Harris as well if Dem's proceed with an incumbent only candidate. Further, I think a second (and even a third) candidate allows for healthy discussion within the party; which I think would prove more attractive to undecided voters. -
Indeed @viking8x6 focusing on where we agree has historically worked pretty well.
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I'm already local elected person; and also work every election unless I am on the ballot. Re: Parties, I am opposed to parties in general and both of them specifically. Both parties hound me to join.
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Perhaps the question to explore. How can we begin to neutralize and ultimately reverse this seemingly intractable Hatfield's and McCoy's we're in?
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@viking8x6 I'm wishing you well. Indeed new stuff emerges all the time.
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Is the experience of taking a monster cock worth the pain?
PozBearWI replied to luvblack77's topic in General Discussion
I am thankful to have experienced a number of monster cocks. Equally grateful that after a few days my butt recovered. Given the opportunity I won't say "no"; but not the usual local find for me. -
@J-raw Interesting. I've managed to not get Covid. I am not fearful of it; but I note who around me comes down with it and act accordingly. It is not uncommon for ED symptoms to begin with some in their 40's. Sometimes due to medications prescribed and taken. And indeed, the SARS-cov19 virus is both still evolving and being studied now that there is more data to consider. Further libido often drops off as family and professional demands stress ones bandwidth. So there are plenty of potential causal opportunities. Herpes still goes around. Certainly never stops anyone from even asking me who has had HSV for decades. I will mention it if I have an outbreak, but as I control HSV with anti virals as it is an uncomfortable and irritating event (for me anyway). Herpes however is profoundly easy to pass on. And most of the time one won't feel a thing until the first outbreak; which is typically many weeks or months later.
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Indeed, if I had to wait for others to have sexual pleasure I would be truly frustrated. At 74 my option pool has changed, but still plenty of opportunities. Even with my short term medical break (a series of things perhaps resulting from my recent conversion to HIV); I was at 80 playdates, plus hosted a dozen more group events. ED shows up more often than I would like. PT141 (Bremelanotide) truly amps up my feeling of horns and ED resolves for a time; but I get a nasty backache to use it infrequently. TriMix was stupidly expensive and I had to use too big a dose to get a satisfactory response. Maybe the needle poke in my dick pissed him off... I typically cum only once or twice a week - when I truly engage my body and mind towards those happy feelings. That tends to suggest to me that I might consider more planned pleasure time each day...
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Indeed @BootmanLA ARV's may pose side effects I don't know of yet.
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Both my husband and I have previous experience being in purportedly monogamous relationships. We created our own "rules" for the two of us. And mostly it is quite simple; we each want to see how each other winds up; until one of us dies. We have few if any "expectations". We have developed patterns with each other. We enjoy each others "sexploits". We are each others immediate family. We co own everything we have in every country where we have stuff. We have our contracts which we put in place when we weren't allowed to marry. As we don't view our right to be married as a state we can rely upon, we keep our contracts current. I don't need him to "make me happy". He doesn't need me to "make him happy". We are happy with each other. Perhaps most significant' we don't worship imaginary beings we think provide us with magical outcomes. So there is no entity above or below we fret about displeasing; that which is the foundation of "social norms".
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Being an admin on another bugchaser site, I definitely will put it as a message on our site. There are already many similar. I think it is fine to chase, everyone can make up their own mind. This is one of the things that occurs with HIV. It can still surprise us. Thankfully not often. So if one chases and expects any sort of guarantee this sort of thing can't happen to them, I encourage them to think again. If on the other hand your characterization of bug chasing and our sites as "damned"; I'll say the same thing I say to "right to lifers", my body my choice. Information great; castigation not so much...
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Indeed @tallslenderguy It is easy to conflate the idea of an open respectful relationship with 'cheating'. They are very different things.
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Similar to @atlfukbud @Konrad @MuscledHorse. I've been in my open, respectful and loving relationship for 23 years. We encourage each other to enjoy sexual pleasure however we find it. We had both experienced mates who insisted on absolute monogamy; we eventually discovered were anything but.
