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PozBearWI

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  1. Indeed there are a number of risk mitigation strategies one might employ. In my world the number of neg or undet represent the majority of local available playmates. So with our without PrEP my risk is quite low to begin with. After that it seems for me to be a cost/benefit situation; including cost to me and cost to society. I love poz talk and if it turned out that one of my play buds was poz and passed it to me; it would be "just another thing to manage". PrEP seems to pour a shit ton of money into pharma industry
  2. The debate of risk management i've gone through evolved thusly... Pre Retirement it was vastly cheaper to just get on PrEP. It cost me nothing and continuing care was in context of my regular medical team close to the office. In retirement the cost of the drug plan that would support PrEP is stupidly expensive. Traveling into the city where random crime has become ubiquitous (not if there were any today; but how rather how many today?) is considerably riskier than any chance I might contract HIV with my current play buddies. With a couple dozen regular play buds; what I bring into our group is relevant. It isn't all about me in that context. The fantasy; fuck I love it. I dearly love dirty poz talk and can find that very satisfying. It hasn't come up with my current play buds. And if any want to jump into those waters, I would want to set the stage with them about fantasy vs reality. True poz talk to me has to sound convincing. So do we make a safe word? Or to we just jump in and see if it takes (and if so, get on meds so we can protect our buddies from unwitting infection)? For me the latter. I am happy to accept the risk for myself; and I know once I am undetectable U=U. Taking away another's free informed choice is a hard line for me. The next question though, for me not yet answered, if I am poz and undetectable; why should I have a duty to tell? (I have my own answers here but I am curious what you fellows will say).
  3. Even funnier buddy! Fuck man I wish you were in the same room so that I could hug you cock to cock!
  4. You are truly evil @Justinrain 🙂 Nice cliffhanger there too; it pays to follow the commentary here.
  5. I agree completely. Even with an HVL load the best chance of converting would be around 1 in 3. Either way I would not characterize Tommy as 'poor Tommy'. But clearly he doesn't think much along the line of risk management which the protagonist in your previous story @Justinrain. Tommy definitely dodged pozzing when Gramps peed in him after cumming in him; that reduced transmission chance to near zero.
  6. Oh indeed, I recall GymBear....
  7. I never anticipated grandpa would steal a key, or that his boy would not grab it back...
  8. Plus Mr Lewis is unabashedly a horny old man; not afraid to be himself.
  9. Interesting story. What I find odd is that the young guy doesn't just exit. He is clearly finding the whole thing interesting when saying "no" would in fact be the easier option. But adding the landlord to the game is quite an interesting twist. I'm looking forward to the story unfolding. @Justinrain another captivating story. I'm of course imagining the young man as you.... 🙂
  10. I read it but don't relate. I am not one to intentionally inflict pain. I suspect the field of true sadists is (thankfully) relatively small.
  11. Condoms I carry expired in 1987....
  12. Adding to @BootmanLA post, infections for other STI's are on the rise, so your outside play if unknown exposes her to not only HIV (if you're not on PrEP) but a host of other popular STI's.
  13. Yes, both. Of course the GOP is the more seriously corrupted party. But that doesn't mean there aren't other issues.
  14. Indeed, the ONLY reason I would move to Florida would be to be seeded by you two...
  15. EQP man it would be shocking if you sat idly by. I think there are more of us concerned about extreme behaviors on either end of the political spectrum. Those extremes seem to be feeding each other while many of us doing what we can to attenuate those extremes. Perhaps it is my age. I've seen our social pendulum swing in three quarters of a century. In recent times I still see polling numbers spouted which seem typically off by more points than their "margin of error". (I think @BootmanLA has a more complete history on stuff like this; I believe because the issues are more pronounced in the south.) As far as those of us in this conversation; we seem to be aligned with the same end. And it will take many paths to get there (wherever there turns out to be),
  16. 🙂 the context here of course fiction... a lovely fuckbud in your dreams. of course. LOL
  17. Indeed those opposing CRT seem to lack critical thinking skills. 🙂
  18. I've had a few UD Poz repeat fuck buds over the years. I have gotten used to hearing "take my poz cum". And honestly it doesn't matter. Not on PrEP. If it happens it happens.
  19. Most I've driven was about 2.5 hours away.
  20. Well said @BootmanLA. I wonder though how other social and geopolitical fronts might have evolved? We would still be in the Iran deal, and we would not have left the Climate Accord. Had there been neonazi gatherings, the president would not be describing them as very fine people. And I doubt Jan 6th would have happened. The benefit of 2020 hindsight. From that starting point though; what might have been the social direction? While I don't want to condone slurs against me or anyone else; I certainly don't want to outlaw them. I would rather be insulted than not be spoken to at all. I don't want to elect someone because of their gender. Or sexual orientation. Or religion. IMO many people believe in silly stuff (I am of no religion, nor party, I also don't believe in the Easter Bunny; until there is verification of life on other planets, I am content to just not know.) But I certainly don't want to outlaw those. But we we don't TALK; then nothing moves forward. I would rather we truly explore our social challenges together. We'll understand each other better. We can choose not to demean each other; but when we do we can also choose to take that as information about ours or another's thinking. Critical thinking might be a victim of our reactions to topics and words we find uncomfortable.
  21. @BlackDude Yup I am there with you. I don't support any political party largely for the reasons you list. My personal motto is that I vote for people not parties.
  22. I like how it is unfolding too....
  23. That funneling for many is the side effect of their goals and party leadership. Party leadership is likely NOT the elected ones, but those who paid to get them elected (Big Pharma, The oligarchs). But indeed there are a number of R's who are in it only for the $$, not for any social benefit save their own self interests. There are others who were taught from babyhood that us queers are the evil ones, and hold onto that like their next meal depended upon it.
  24. Or, perhaps, they're neither stupid nor evil. Perhaps they just have differing priorities than most of us here.
  25. Every single response has answered that. I'll conclude that english is not your native language or you ignored much of your early education. Neither PARTY has done a fucking thing for any of us. Parties have one purpose, to carry a banner for their agenda and to promote election of people to follow that. If you think I am trying to be "kind" you are delusional.
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