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LOL .... perfectly done 😉

LOL .... welllllll .... to paraphrase an old saying: "a cock in your hole is worth two waiting in line ..." I completely understand that your focus would be entirely on the cock fucking you, rutting back on it properly, and focusing on that cock and the one after it, rather than a couple of unfortunates. You were busy, I appreciate that. It's guys like you that inspire so many other guys to work towards achieving their own sexual goals. ❤️

Grew up in Rockford, Illinois. Went away to undergrad, and never moved back. Visited the parents somewhat regularly, all of that, but always left as soon as I thought it was appropriate. There was a grand total of one gay bar* there, in the second-largest metro area (including burbs) after Chicago & burbs. There were, of course, a number of "boners", and those guys got razzed like crazy, and I only remember one guy actually shitting in the pool. He was a hero - his act of heroism got swimming class cancelled that day. Just a guess, but I think the naked swimming thing was just so the parents didn't have to go buy swim suits for their kids. Generally, back in Rockford, pennies got pinched to the point of Abe Lincoln getting ingrown whiskers ..... *in a rundown-stretch of State Street, no one ever used the front door, but would park in a lot behind all the stores-buildings and go in the back door of the dump. Owned by a cop, which is why it managed to exist in the first place. The really closeted guys parked a block further away, by 1st Svenska Lutersk Kyrka (1st Swedish Lutheran Church), as opposed to other Lutheran churches of other Synods.

Couldn't you have suggested to a couple of tops waiting in your line to at least rut in those other two bottoms next to you? They could save the load for your particularly hot hole, and the other two could at least get some action while the lineup for your hole proceeded from cock to cock to cock .... Maybe I'm just too altruistic ..... it's been an issue my entire life, I guess.

Well ...... they were never all that high in the first place, so I guess I never did have that far to fall .... All I really care about is whether or not the bottom has done his preparatory duty properly.

AMEN !!! I think of AI porn pretty much the same as I think of "regular" porn, either printed or on tape - i.e. something that's better than Readers Digest, but not much. When all is said and done, real, in-the-flesh actual guy-to-guy sex is what interests me. Porn is ok, if it scratches the itch, but in the end, it's just imaginary, but at least the actors are "real". In the survey, I thought I'd be among a handful of other voters, but - pleasantly surprisingly - I voted with the majority both times. I'd call that a "throw-down" to the AI folks: Improve your product or suffer the consequences.

Of course it's ok. Consider yourself invited !!!

My favorite fuckjoint - and it was simply crazy over there last night. Even though it's unusually been cold here (40's nights), it was packed.

I don't feel badly at all about 2025, sexually speaking. So, if 2026 turns out to be similar, and I see no reason it shouldn't be, that'll be fine with me.

Thanks for your interesting response, PozToxVersePig. I appreciate it; these discussions are one of the major reasons I enjoy BZ. to the quote above, the implication is/was the fact that a certain type of learned behavior was suddenly cut off, in the view of the majority of their peers at that time. As you point out, yes - I was a part of the community at that time, and while it seemed a stunning choice for most, there actually were guys that felt that their lives were so interwoven with their sexual practices, nothing else was worth the bother. I thought then, and I think now that was an over-reaction to all the burgeoning mortalities, but that's my un-researched opinion. There were guys I tangentially "knew" who became so depressed, they simply ended their lives, rather than wait for the grinding down of their bodies, that whole horrific process. For that matter, when one of the gay news-weeklies (Gay Chicago) began publishing all the notifications, it went out of business because no one wanted to pick it up anymore. I'm not saying that level of despair was widespread, but it did exist, and I find no fault with the men who made that seemingly-impossible choice. One guy simply laid down in our driveway and died. Imagine trying to process that in your mind. That's an interesting p.o.v., and perhaps it has merit. I'll chew on that one for a while ... I think that being "forced" into using barriers (assuming one wanted to live for a myriad of reasons), automatically created an 'anti-barriers' reaction in men who had become immersed in the various "anti" movements in the country, and either felt that "it couldn't happen to me" or simply didn't care anymore. After all, we had marched, we had organized, we had almost kicked down the societal doors to be allowed out of the closet, and that was a huge achievement. There was a mindset of "yes, we can and we will", at least in the major metro areas. Rather than "created", it was more a re-normalization of what had always been the norm. If you accept that there is a level of "connection" between two men when they fuck raw, that is unavailable when they use barriers, then perhaps you can understand how displeasing barriers was/is to some men. This website exists for men that are disinclined to use barriers when they fuck, and those types of men have always been around. Thus, I stand by the phrasing initially used. Thank you for your perspective, never-the-less. Sharing opinions about all kinds of issues, relevant to our particular needs or not, is probably the most pleasurable part of BZ for me. Thanks for your opinions and your post, however I don't believe I oversimplified by a lot (sic).

... if we wanted to live our our lives. There were a handful of guys that were so offended by having to use rubbers - in other words, became so "attached" to fucking raw - that they actually kept taking raw cock, knowing it may very well kill them. This was before PrEP or similar appeared. I can't quite wrap my head around those choices, but I knew a few for whom life without taking loads was simply not worth living. When any one "thing" simply takes over one's life - whatever it is - the results can be tragic. Now, of course, the medical arts can offer us ways to live our lives and maintain a sexual life relatively free of what used to be virtually guaranteed mortality. Every single one of us should be grateful for the choices we currently have. Those choices came at a terrible price.