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There's risk involved in almost every aspect of living our lives. We can get run down walking across the street, etc, etc, ad nauseum. The issue is, how we deal with risk. Sexually, there are preventative steps we can take to protect our health, which is how I handle the issue of risky sexual behavior. I hope every guy does the same, but I know every other guy may not. Thus, knowing that I have taken every available precaution, I proceed into exercising the depths of Lust that I find crucial to my well-being. Some men settle for 50/50, some 60-40, some 70/30, and so on. Every guy gets to decide for himself how important raw sex is in his life, and rank it against the other aspects of his life. We all get to choose. I remember too well how going without any sex at all (arrival of hiv) turned me into a fairly mean, ugly person. Sure, there were Act Up demonstrations - we shut down LaSalle St any number of times - but no one was fucking. We got into fights with other assholes. We acted out our fears, we were scared shitless. Today though, it's very different. There are steps we can take to prolong our abilities, live longer, stay healthier, and rawfuck each other until our Cocks fall off for overuse. I adore/respect/uphold cumdumps - men that are called to that most noble service - far too much not to mate/Breed with as many as I possibly can. I remember what life is like without wanton sex, and I simply won't go back.

a LOT of beautiful BreedHoles in this thread .... every single one has something of interest to offer. That said, these 3 photos from 7 months ago are still my favorite !!!

So we're hearing all kinds of issues relevant to the plight of the new immigrants on the Mexican/Texan border. I seem to be hearing some complaining about the "cost" of all the immigrants to US taxpayers, blah blah blah, and I have a potential solution. As I try to do when considering issues of import, I ask myself "if X is true, then why is it true?" Without going into the weeds too deeply, there are repressive governments, there are education problems, and there is virtually one religious institution, which has been the case since Spain took the Southern Continent by force several hundred years ago. Whilst the R.C. Church is well known to reject birth control as against "God's Will", I had assumed this was the case since the Middle Ages, when the Papal Armies needed cannon-fodder for the advancement of R.C. temporal power in Europe. But no. That is not the case. Since the advent of the R.C. Church (emphasis on Roman), that institution has not taken a firm stance on the issue of abortion or "birth control" until the previous century. That peculiar event happened less than a century ago - at the hands of Pius XI in 1930*. Thus, the anti-birth control strictures are less than 100 years old, taken barely an eyeblink ago in Church history. So, I think we can legitimately invoice the Vatican - loaded with untold treasures accumulated over the millennia through wars, bloodshed, conquest, all the usual filth - for compensation and support of the unfortunates from the South who were mind-fucked into believing that they simply must bring to term any potential life, every time they fucked. It's the institution that forced this inhumanity upon these human brothers and sisters, sucked what few coins they could spare out of their pockets, taught them that the fires of hell awaited them if they didn't pony up, the whole Power Trip. We can legitimately claim wealth and property belonging to the RCC in the US, build residential developments, commercial developments, commodious living/working spaces for these new Americans, and invoice the Roman Catholic Church for all of it. And we can simply take these thousands and thousands of properties, just as our Caucasian forebears took this continent from the Indigenous. I believe that the only group of people that can legitimately comment on accepting/declining/welcoming new arrivals to the shores of this nation are the Indigenous People who lived on the North American Continent for millennia before we Pale Ones invaded, killed them off via genocide, and stole the Continent from them. To be fair, the new arrivals are far closer in lineage to the indigenous Americans than anyone else is, and the guys are a helluva lot sexier. Fortunately, no one anointed me King, right ???🥰 *this was the predecessor of Pious 12, the infamous "Nazi" pope

Wrapping up a most interesting thread with a smidge of a smile: Considering the Institution which these women serve, run by Princes of the Institution wearing long dresses, ruby slippers, and who knows what else, chances are rather poor that these nuns don't get none. There actually are het clerics (one guy's fingers and toes may be enough to count them all, but that's not the point), and I rather doubt they'd blush at porking the nuns whenever they ran across an semi-attractive one while the majority of their "brothers-in-the-cloth" are busy fucking each other every time a candle was lit or a tinkerbell rang. Which brings to mind a potential amelioration of the border issues in south TX - but I think it belongs in the Politics department, not the sexual health department. Thanks to all of you who've been offering information/experiences in this most thought-provoking thread. Every guy excuses every other guy, right ???

about 20 minutes ago, between a couple of parked cars over by ramrod .... fucked a guy that said he'd been getting fucked all night (it's still dark here) loose sloppy wet Hole .... other guys milling around, watching, jacking, fucking ..... it was fun .....

Beautifully said. That tiny, fearful inner voice that presses us to fall in line, accept the repressions can be silenced when we recognize it for what it really is. Thanks, Tanbottom, for that lovely description of the burdens some of us bear, even if we don't need to. As you point out, we are sexually focused beings, and that focus might be repressed, even buried, but it is never entirely expunged. Far, far better to come to terms with Truth, and live our lives as productively, "others-focused" as we can.

Thank you, mpjockstrap, for your response. I am a life-long registered Democrat. I have never voted for a Republican. I am a dyed-in-the-wool Progressive Liberal. I have never missed an election, even when I was traveling quite a bit building the businesses with my life-partner. Since you're in Illinois, you may be familiar with the remnants of the old political "machine" built by Richard J, and continued (with a few intermediate interruptions) by Richard M. I was a part of that organization for a number of years, in two different wards. It was Tip O'Neill that made famous the old phrase "all politics is local", and it's entirely true. The phrase "two sides of the same coin", as I used that phrase, applies to 1) registered voters who did not bother to vote, and 2) registered voters who vote not for the common good, but their own personal benefit, or in support of their personal biases, or who vote their own self-based notions, as opposed to what's best for the common good. Thus, the phrase was properly used. Citizens to whom numbers 1 & 2 above apply, are indeed nothing more than two sides of the same damn coin. Again, thanks for your response.

You can't "cheat" your brain, but you can alter what that brain perceives as "attractive". It's a gradual process, of course, and you can't fool your brain into thinking red is blue. It's not so easy that you'll get an immediate shift in your intellectual perceptions, but if you concentrate (i.e. train your brain) purposefully on the Cock you need to Breed your Hole, and push aside any negative perceptions as what they really are - unimportant - you can gradually re-orient your sexual responses. The crucial thing won't change - you'll still be taking loads off as many Cocks as you need, and the unimportant things will gradually fade. It's the kind of thing that works, if you work it. Now. If some guy's face could stop the Rocky Mountain Express on it's tracks with one glance, it ain't gonna work. But, you can lessen the impact, and enhance the impact of the really important thing. As viking8x6 points out, there are many possibilities to learning to control that which you think you can't. Just be patient, keep at it, and let us know how it's working out. Good luck !!

Generally, spitting is not an accepted activity in the greater community. Of course, there are guys that fetishize spit, but it's mostly considered to be regrettable. However: There has to be something lubing a Hole before it can take a thick Cock, right? Thus, in the event that there's no Sperm up the Hole as of yet, the Top has no choice but to indulge in "mouth-lubing" the Hole, right? A dry fuck isn't any fun for either guy. Since there are a decent number of Tops that don't care for commercial lubes, much preferring completely "natural" lubes (Sperm or saliva or combination of both), sometimes saliva is a requirement. In these cases, i.e. fucking, there is no "negativity" associated with saliva, as with the general population. Lots of Tops enjoy eating Hole merely for the pleasure of doing it. But the point is, there is no "spitting" when two men are about to Breed - there is only oral preparation of the Hole if there's no loads already taken - or - an exciting unspoken statement by the bottom that he's a cumdump, and that makes any Top salivate more than Pavlov's dog.

I've noticed the writings on walls of t-rooms, of course, but no - never have left any. I much prefer to cruise in-the-flesh.

What a splendid boy ..... of course everyone noticed ..... and wanted the extraordinary pleasure of mating with you as well ..... who wouldn't ???

LOL .... I had managed to forget that nasty stuff .... is it still being marketed these days? I had thought that Orange Jesus ate a jumbo bag of Cheetos for breakfast, put the empty bag over his head and shook his jowly face back and forth inside the bag, thus achieving that particular shade of orange. Maybe it's not Cheetos - maybe it's Tang !!!

I don't think there are many public school curricula that get even that far into the weeds. Studying the law wasn't either of my focal points while pursuing advanced degrees, and it's taken until now - when there's already mischief afoot on the Supreme Court - to take the time to understand the Chief Justice's role. It's more than I realized all these years. More, from my perch, it appears Roberts is either ill equipped or disinclined to extend a firm hand of guidance*. From the standpoint of a mere citizen, not educated in the complexities of the SCOTUS, it's tough to read the mind of the C.J. *If that's the case, it could well be a case of the "puppy principal"; i.e. "who's this kid to tell us octogenarians what to do or how to do it". Very interesting discourse - thanks !!

Way to go, new guy ....

LOL !!!! Awwwwwww, shucks ..... what more do I have to do to earn the Slut Status medal ?????

I can't say I care whose load it is - only that it's already been pumped up the Hole I'm eating out. Hopefully, along with several other previously shot loads. I don't care which Top it was, I only care that at least one has preceded me. A dry Hole isn't a deal-breaker - I'll still fuck it - I know that some guy has to be the first of the night for the bottoms - I just hope that it's not me .... if that sounds selfish, well .... (shrugs) ..... it is what it is.

If "public" is defined as including backrooms or fuck clubs, then last night. And I will again tonight.

First, and most importantly, get all the inoculations that are available against std's. Get on PReP or whatever hiv-preventative your internist recommends. If you don't trust that he/she is competent in this area, find one that is. Once protected as fully as possible, realize that there are std's that you will pick up occasionally - we all do - so plan on a very regular testing regimen. The sooner they're caught, the sooner they'll be treated, the sooner you'll be back in the pigpen with the rest of us. Since you (perhaps?) envy what some of us do, once you're as fully as protected as possible, let your Lusts be your guide, and join in. Fear is a terribly debilitating thing to live with, and there's no reason to allow your inborn nature to suffer because of fear. It doesn't sound like you're dealing with too much cultural baggage retarding your progress in your sexual life, and that's a good thing. Be the man you need to be, and do it with Pride and Confidence. Love yourself, in your wholeness. Then, we'll seeya in the fuckjoints! Only take all the preventative steps first.

If that's true - and I'm not saying it is or isn't - I'm guessing that these married (to women) men; 1. Wish they had made different choices, and subconsciously "take it out" on men that made the correct choices. 2. Attempt to make the Hole they're fucking pay for the mistakes they themselves have made. 3. Build up a "reserve" of sexual satisfaction they can't get with their wives, since the next opportunity for *real* sex may not come around again for a while. Finally, they don't even realize that a hard, rough Breeding is just what a ton of men who know themselves love most.

YES !!! And the next one (Jan 4th) is at SLAMMER - not that tubs over in Oakland Park !!!

<filthy grin> Sounds more like you went to the city take some loads, and managed to pick up a Christmas present or two as well ..... 😈 Well done !!!

Well, just don't fuck until the roast is OUT of the oven ...... and good luck !!!

Geez .... that reminds me of the Lawson YMCA on Chicago Ave, near north side. That place was a total PigPen back in the day, but parking around there was a nightmare, and I seldom went. There were a couple of sleazy bars in the area too, but the one I remember best was Kitty Sheon's, and you had to be dressed in a shirt/tie/dress jacket to get buzzed in. Every guy in there was in at least a tie and jacket, usually a suit. More, there was no touching allowed, other than shaking hands when you met some guy. How our world has changed !!!

What are you afraid of? Where's this whiff of danger coming from? The way I see it, you helped him a helluva lot when he really needed help, and he's making a gesture of thanks. Maybe he's sniffin you out, maybe not. Maybe he's just thankful for your help when he couldn't help himself. Accept the invitation, and pick up a good bottle of wine to bring. Go to his place for dinner, and don't go with presuppositions in your mind. Be responsive to whatever he's got to say. He made your Cock hard, maybe you make his just as hard. Be receptive to whatever he has to say, unless and until he makes things more clear. Ya never know until ya know, right? Even if he's not sexually available, a friend is always worth having.

As we all celebrate the Winter Solstice - as our forebears have for countless millennia - long before the artifices of religiosity surfaced in humankind - let's remember that each of us is important, each of us is necessary, each of us has an equal voice, and we need to keep fucking each other. That's the paramount issue. That's the necessity that binds us together, even over the ether. Fucking is what really counts.