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  1. These were guys that you'd come to "know", felt were trustworthy, all of that, right? So you were able to feel "safe" (from covid, anyway) with them?
  2. One fairly disguisable tool you can use is to monitor the bottom's involuntary body reactions. Watch the pupils of the eyes for dilation. Keep track of his pulse. Some sweat on his brow is delicious, of course - but it it become profuse, it can be a stress-indicator too. Prepping the Hole with your tongue can turn your bottom into a screaming pig, almost crying for your Cock. Verbal filthy talk can help too. Props to you though, for caring about the bottom's experience. Each of us is only half of the Breeding and the better it is for each guy, the more satisfaction each guy will get out of the scene. Even if it's an orgy scene, it's still an act of two men mating for those magic moments.
  3. Other than the tubs or private fuckclubs, I don't know of any public place where guys can shuck off their clothes and fuck naked. We certainly can't in the backrooms of the bars .... and almost no guy runs around naked at Slammer. I've seen it only very occasionally. Since those are the kinds of places I frequent, clothes are de rigueur. So usually, old engineers, 501's and a t ... maybe a cap. Besides - I'm what one would (graciously) call "slim" - I get cold fairly easily if the ac is blowing too hard - and every guy has to come up for air at some point ...
  4. I can only think of two explanations: 1. "On my way meaning", I'll be leaving (wherever I am) shortly and coming to you, with no intention to fulfill that statement in the first place. 2. An unsaid, but implied (in the mind of the trick), "I'll be" preceding the phrase, which would be "I'll be on my way", which phrase could mean ^, or he's already arrived, decided not to fulfill his intended purpose, and he'll be leaving (your place) momentarily. The first is the obvious insincerity, the second far more obtuse and almost certainly not applicable. There is a third though: "I am a total asshole, but I can't admit that to you (via the ether or in-the-flesh) or to myself".
  5. As a Liberal, I am cautiously optimistic, for two reasons: 1. I think there are countless very, very pissed off women, determined to vote the "R's" (meaning repressives) out of office. There are a number of R's (meaning Republicans) who are embarrassed by where the GOP is now, can't bring themselves to vote for a Dem, and simply will refrain from voting. 2. There are countless GLBTQ (and their supporters) that smell the coffee about to boil over, and will vote against the eventual cancellation of gay marriage rights, other non-glbtq folks of good will who will also vote that way. There are also many R's who are not infused with Cheeto-Head's poisonous shit, who will either not vote at all, or change their registration. 3. I also think it's way past high time to go after these "churches" that preach political insurrection, while ignoring the founding principles of what they claim to honor. When I read/hear about some candidate blathering about 'returning this country to it's "Christian" precepts, I could just hurl. I say, tax them right out of business, and give the money to the poor. In short, there are more than enough people of good will to throw these hatemongers out of office, and replace them with decent minded men and women. And all we have to do is make sure to vote Straight-ticket Democratic. At the Federal level, the only way the Republicans can gain seats in either House is if the above-mentioned folks are too damn lazy to vote. At the local level, in some areas the hatemongers do outnumber the progressives, and we can only hope that the Federal elections seat Liberal majorities in both houses, so Congress can pass progressive legislation into law - kinda like a row of dominos - one bill after another after another after another, reinforcing the foundations of the Democratic Republic, seemingly now so threatened.
  6. <<<polite cough>>> I don't think that's quite what JimInWisc meant by "get behind" ......
  7. Welllllllllll ..... that entity has been called the "great deceiver" ....... but there's nothing "great" about that woman, other than the depths of her vacancy, maybe.
  8. This being the final few days before I can fuck again, I CAN'T EVEN REMEMBER THE LAST TIME !!! 🤬😠😡😫
  9. It appears so, and this has been state of affairs for longer than I've been alive. The public school system hasn't taught civics for decades, and when kids don't grow up understanding that a democracy only lives when the citizens take part, the autocrats find their opportunity - and then it's too late. Here in the US, our Congress is full of greedy, money-grubbers, and on both sides of the aisle. There may be a handful of plain old middle-class folks (that most likely just arrived in Washington, and aren't fully corrupted yet), But the 'Mr. Smith that went to Washington' is as extinct as the dinosaurs.
  10. Well, after reading through some of this thread, all I can say is: 1. I've only found the moderators helpful when I had a question. 2. There's exactly one person on BZ that I've "blocked" because there appears to me to be nothing but poison in his fingers. I notice that portions of his texts are quoted, and thus visible to me, and that person is just as vitriolic today as he was before, regardless the issue. When someone only uses it to prop up their deficit of self esteem, why even bother to engage? 3. This site is of value to many of us. There are all kinds of interesting, positive, well-meaning threads to read, contribute to, learn from, see what others perspectives are, and find something useful out of the exercise.
  11. All the crazy shit we had to put up with back then, huh ??? Love this one .... may I borrow it? With proper accreditation, of course ...
  12. Wen I got the first one, the nurse told me it would become fully effective in 2 weeks. In another 2 weeks, the booster is given, which requires yet another 2 weeks to reach full efficacy, which boils down to about a month and a half for both shots to become fully effective. I'm not sure all these people dishing out the shots are on the same page, but it's a helluva lot better than nothing.
  13. This is how I use the upvote doo-dad. I very seldom use the downvote, and enjoy any opportunity to have a laugh with some guy. Occasionally, Mr. Piggie is appropriate too. I run out of chances to use them quite a bit though. Not as much as when I first signed up, but - enough to be a bit irritated. But, I like BZ quite a bit, and it belongs to someone else, right? Limited responses is a really small price to pay for the opportunity to participate.
  14. Fortunately, I managed to avoid that trap, and here's how I did it: One of my mom's friends wanted me to take her frumpy oldest daughter to the prom (there was a second sister I would have gladly taken, since she was a lot of fun and a real trouble-maker). So mom waited till dad got home from work, everyone sitting in the living room watching Cronkite, and she said (names changed) "Mary (the mother) would like you to take Jane (daughter) to her prom. I want you to do it". My dad just sat there, waiting to see what I would do, with this tiny little hint of a smile. Of course, I was outraged, and said so. So my mom angrily said "alright then, call Mary and tell her that he daughter isn't good enough for you". My dad's little smile grew a bit. I replied "No, YOU call Mary and tell her what a stupid thing that was to do, and make sure she doesn't do what you've done to HER kid" (there was also a boy in that family). Dad's grinning widely by now, and saying nothing. Mom attacks dad for not supporting her. Dad laughs and says he hope she's learned a lesson. Mom stomps off to the kitchen to get supper out of the oven. Everyone eats in silence. And my mom never asked anything like that again.
  15. This, it seems, is the key to the whole business. There's a huge difference between having sex with other men, and the intimacy that 2 men who care deeply for each other experience. Interestingly, it's not only possible, it's rather common for guys to experience both together.
  16. As a man who enjoyed a lovely relationship for many years, I might point out that the relationship was with HIM, and definitely not any parents, kids, relatives or other flotsam/jetsam. While I am able to be polite and appear to be kind when it suits me, I can be that much and more determined that "extended family" stay away until they're invited (which some are still waiting for after all these years). His older sister came exactly once, with an abbreviated stay in our home. Point: you simply don't have to put up with the extraneous stuff. You may choose to, for the sake of your other half, and for a limited bit of time, but you don't have to.
  17. That "seals" it .... you're officially the "most fun" guy of the Month.
  18. Well, I have a good idea: move HERE to Ft. Breedingdale !!! From all appearances in your profile pic, that Cock would be mightily appreciated in this burg. Plus, everyone always needs more inquiring minds. The healthcare system can be a bit intimidating at first, but once you know your way around, it's not all that tough.
  19. Well, there are all these medals, and I can't say I know what they're used for. At first, I spent so much time in the "responses" clink I moved a small table w/reading lamp in there too, along with some books .... but BZ is still well worth the wait. I very much enjoy (most of) the subject matter and the discourse.
  20. No, not at all. The regular schedule has been maintained, and if there were any difficulty, it never impacted me.
  21. The way I see it, sex is completely natural, no matter how it happens to take place. More, sex with an audience makes fucking al the more interesting and exciting. I'm not necessarily talking about lovers making love together, since that implies a deeper connection than merely the sexual, that the lovers may or may not choose to put on display. I'm merely alluding to group sex, where it's all about the thrill of having sex with any number of other guys - every guy fucking every other guy - just for the pure pleasure of it. It follows, then, that group sex is a pleasurable, joy-inducing, Lust-satisfying pursuit that's akin to kids sharing their toys with every other kid, and everyone has a great time of it. A roomful of rutting men is nothing more, nothing less than the pure joy of "playing" with our brothers, celebrating our sexual selves, with each guy giving what he can to the others, and taking from the others what he so deeply needs.
  22. I don't think monkey pox has altered the way we think of the prices we occasionally have to pay for exercising our Lusts. It's merely a newcomer to the list, and we need to accommodate it accordingly. It's just "one more thing". We've all known for decades that there are illnesses, diseases that come right along with wanton Breeding with many men. It doesn't take "many" either - it only takes one to pass on a bug. Some men will simply stop fucking other men, or steeply restrict what sex they have. Some men will be irresponsible, and pass bugs along without a second thought. Most men, however, are responsible, take steps to minimize their risks of contracting these bugs by taking the appropriate medications and staying on top of the testing regimen. I have chosen to be responsible (or, as caring) as possible, and still exercise my sexual proclivities. When I pick up an unwanted "souvenir" , I wait the required period before resuming my sexual life. Each guy needs to figure out where on that spectrum he falls, and hopefully have a care for his fellow barebackers. I think the key is testing more often, thus catching these bugs early, and treating them early.
  23. Very sorry to know this, Lorenzo. Condolences on this sorrow.
  24. Sure it makes sense. The more you share with us, the more I wonder if he couldn't use a little chat with a counsellor too. Sounds like he wants to exert quite a bit of control over your life, without cementing that privilege in a sexual way. I'm guessing he's working his way through what must - to him - be a wholly confusing situation. While we don't know what kind of cultural situation you two are living in, he may be completely at sea, trying to care for you, love you in his way, and shield you from the attention of others that may "use" you, and then discard you. We still don't know if he's fucking women yet .... and that would impact the bent of at least my response.
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