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I had already been living in Chicago for a number of years before hiv came along, everyone had sex (obviously, sans condoms*) with everyone else, and at the drop of a hat. It didn't amount to much more than saying something like "hi - let's fuck" in the bars. As I recall, there were plenty of guys on both sides of the issue (T & b), but - it was a long time ago too. I do remember that at the gh joints, guys would suck Cocks through the gh's, and then very carefully switch from mouth to hand, stand up, turn around, and try to "stealth" the Cock up their Hole, without the other guy knowing it. This was as hiv was racing through the community, and almost everyone was afraid to fuck raw, since guys were dropping like flies. I think one of the reasons there appears to be a dearth of Tops, is the advent and subsequent widespread use of dick-shrinking drugs. I used poppers occasionally, but I'm referencing the "hard" junk so widespread today. It just wasn't around that much, and usually associated with cocaine/needles/lighters & spoons, 'drug-dens" on the South Side**, etc. Not all that many guys were interested in drugs over sex, as I recall. I know that a lot of bottoms are complaining about a lack of Tops lately, but if a guy inclined to Top more than bottom chooses being a junkie over being a Breeder, well ..... choices are choices. *I do recall hearing about guys that had fetish-ized condoms, which - back then - seemed silly to me, and if I ever met one, I didn't know it. They were a minority within a minority though. **obviously, a mistaken, ignorant, racially-based supposition
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Hello, Chris, and welcome to the site. I hope you enjoy reading the various threads, and offering your perspective as well.
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What Does Gay Community Think of Cumsluts?
hntnhole replied to TwinkSlut24's topic in General Discussion
I don't understand why some men seem to associate demeaning others with inflating themselves. It simply doesn't make any kind of sense. At least you do know that there are some men who value cumdumps at the highest level, and honor them for living their calling truthfully and sincerely. I suppose we could just put it down to insecure men pretending to be something other than what they are. Every guy knows that without men like you, the rest of us would be s.o.l. -
Well said. I agree completely, and have utmost respect for bottoms that prep themselves thoroughly. Which is one of the reasons I very seldom allow a guy to fuck me - "precise circumstances"- describes it perfectly.
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Actually, after giving this some thought I think I somewhat agree with you. Only a few years ago when I was in a backroom/fuckjoint rutting in Holes, there were usually other guys on my left doing the same, and on my right as well. Sometimes we'd compliment each other - swap Holes, talk Breedshit about how hot this Hole is, blah blah blah. As I thought about it while doing other stuff, that doesn't happen all that much anymore. I don't have any idea why, but the one extraordinary thing that has happened is covid - but that would inhibit all guys, I would think - not just Tops. I think you're right, but I don't have much of an idea why - sorry .......
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Can't say I've ever used it, but - word has it there's some doo-dad somewhere on BZ that relieves us of having to wade through ridiculous, time-wasting, poorly-imagined, and even more poorly constructed nonsense. I know it's somewhere around here on the site ... I'll keep looking ....
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As you have surely noticed, we have been provided a thread dedicated to LGBT Politics, in which thread this discussion is taking place. Interestingly, the owner has purposely included this area for exactly the exchange of views relating to politics, for which some of us are most grateful. Thus, if any member finds it disinteresting, spurious, not germane to his own particular interests, he can simply avoid reading it. I've done that with a couple of threads I don't care to read about, so perhaps it's something to consider. Those who are interested in the political discourse can engage, share ideas, and maybe increase their understanding, or at least learn to appreciate other men's viewpoints. No guy gets pissed off, no guy feels impugned, no guy gets defensive (and thus somewhat caustic), and we all get to enjoy that which we love most about BZ. Thank you.
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What a deliciously irreverent post first thing in the morning !!! Thanks for the "a laugh a line" submission - makes my day. 😁
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When Liddy Dole took over running that agency, I crossed it off my "regular" list. Only when there are large-scale disasters that call for large-scale and immediate responses do I get in touch with them anymore.
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I agree completely, if the fuck is to take place in my home. That said, I almost never invite "fresh" Hole into my home; much prefer to hit the backrooms/fuckjoints and get the sweat off my brow. I need to have a really good idea of who the guy actually is before I let him come over, and even that can be tenuous.
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Some sex irrelevant thoughts about patients
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
That's for sure !!! When my life-partner of 30 years was in his final days, fortunately he had me to run interference on his behalf. We had talked any number of times about the issue of doing everything possible, as opposed to letting go, and codified all the legal directives decades earlier. Yet, when it came down to it, I had to holler at some doctor who came running into his room when all the horns started honking, and first tell her to read the charts on the door. She paid not one instant's-worth of attention, so I hollered at her - in her face - to read what's in the charts hanging on the door. This doctor froze momentarily, jerked her head towards the door, and one of her little minions ran over there and got the clipboard holding all the documentation. All she said was "he will be passing shortly - these are your last moments together" - turned on her heel and stalked out. If I hadn't been there (sleeping in a lazy-boy in the middle of the night), he would have been forced to linger even longer. As far as I'm concerned, they can shove their Hippocratic Oath waaaaay up their asses. -
While this post appeared about 2 years ago, it is even more urgently apropos today. Our freedoms are not "free". They must be nurtured, cared for, just as our Democracy must. Attend gay-rights rallies. Attend demonstrations. Attend Pride events. Make your voices heard at the voting booth, particularly on Primary Day. Some of remember the days when we had to tuck "bail money" into our boot every time we went to a gay bar. The usual, same old police raid on the Stonewall Inn, over 50 years ago, which ushered in the Gay Rights Movement, was first resisted by - guess who - the Drag Queens. They were the first to throw stuff in their pocketbooks like bottles of fingernail stuff, hairbrushes, lord only knows what else, at the cops, and chased them up Christopher St. All the rights/freedoms some of us take for granted today, weren't around 50 years ago. Don't simply assume that the rights we hold today can't be taken away tomorrow. They can be taken away, and will be if the old repressions - cultural, racial, sexual - are reinstated. It's up to all decent-minded citizens to turn back the tide of hatreds welling up these past few years. Get involved. Take a stand. Join us.
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First, loads off previous Cocks. Second, plenty of saliva. Third, "pre-cum", aka Cock-drool.
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When, in the places men cruise/fuck, some guy displays political clothing, regalia, of some persuasion or another, then it is that guy who has included his mental capacities into the "mating dance". Most of us don't do that, since we're interested in matters of the flesh, not matters of the mind. Given the numbers, years, I am certain that I have fucked many men whom I would disagree with on other matters. The point is, we're not fucking each other's political perceptions, we're fucking their Holes. It's only when others purposefully display their political persuasions, un-invited to do so - and thus intentionally force that view into the "Breeding-Equation", that we ourselves are also faced with decisions irrelevant to fucking the guy. Most of us - including you, given your obvious intelligence - have "standards" in all manner of aspects in our lives. Those non-related-to-sex standards are to be left at home, not carried with us to the fuckjoints. They are irrelevant to sexual interaction. When political views (or any other, for that matter) are forced upon us (as in the original post), any man with a brain will react one way or another. It is wholly inappropriate to introduce extraneous issues into sating our Lusts, since any man of any political view can be burning hot or repellently cold. That quotient exists in the mind, alongside other perceptions such as political ones, and should stay there when the owner of that mind is cruising for sex. Thank you.
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I agree. It's as though in some guys minds, there's nothing else to a man of color but his Cock/Hole. And that's the real tragedy - if we don't want to be objectified, the we should know better than to do it to others.
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Well, I don't know about other parts of the country, but around here, there isn't any accepted/not accepted etiquette, other than the usual base-line. Prepped Hole, all of that. I think you should do/behave in whatever way makes you feel best - At Cumunion, (3rd Sat of the month) guys just wander around, stop for some action, continue to make the circuit, jump into a pile, peel off to one of the rooms, whatever. All that's really needed is to project confidence in yourself, your Lust, your commitment to your calling. Don't feel embarrassed to let your inner Pig shine. Men like me need men like you.
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While not a deal-breaker, I much prefer HAIRY to smooth, and the more the merrier. It looks better, it feels better, it tastes better. I suppose we all like that which we aren't.
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From what I've read in your reports, I think this man is heavily conflicted about a number of issues, and whether you can help or harm is - as I understand your reports - an open question. One thing I doubt though, is you're the first guy he's ever fantasized about, or felt an attraction to. You may well be the first that he's found so attractive that he's actually devoting some intellectual/emotional attention to his own issues. That said, only he can actually do that. Perhaps you can help in some way, but when it comes down to brass tacks, it's only he himself that can make potentially life-altering decisions. Maybe you should consider backing off a bit - maintaining non-personal contact - i.e. texts, whatever, and when he asks you why you seem to be backing off, tell him in as kind a way as you're able. We still haven't heard how you deal with your own current relationship regarding "outside" sex, and that would impact him, however indirectly. You've referred a number of times to this man's professional accomplishments, his apparent financial stability, etc. These seem to be ancillary to your main focus, as I understand it. It would be helpful if you took some time and outlined what your goals are regarding this man. I mean, list them. Write them down. 1st goal, 2nd goal, 3rd, etc. Discard all the projections onto him, and concentrate only on your goals. This would be most helpful. Best wishes ...
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Nothing is better than Sperm off previous Cocks already soaking the Hole. If there aren't any yet, then spit is next-best. Obviously, some guy has to be first-of-the-night to Breed the Hole. I'd just prefer it isn't me, but if it is, so be it.
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Thanks for the tips, skinster. I did so the drive-down to KW once, and that was more than enough. Another time, caught a tiny "commuter" plane, where you climb up this little ladder in the tail of the plane to find a seat. Turned out that when it was time to take off, the pilot pulled aside that dirty rag pretending to be a divider between the cabin and the cockpit, looked around, and made a fat lady change seats, since she wasn't sitting directly over the wings. That was the last time I did that !!! Once they built that big hotel at the end of Duval St, things started to go down hill in my mind, but I did have a lot of diiiiiiirty fun whenever we went.
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Congrats, bud !!! We'll all be waiting for you in a couple of months !!! And don't forget that the Cumunion parties are held at Clubhouse II over on Oakland Park Blvd once a month.
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Beautifully put. Of all the sexual Lusts that exist to be enjoyed, this - and permutations of it - are some of my very best memories of my life-partner. It drove me absolutely nuts with Lust watching him suck off Cocks, take loads up that beautiful ass ... I was so damn proud of him - such a sweet, beautiful man - and I miss him every day. Sometimes in the backrooms I pretend he's there with me - think to myself "hey, babe - how about that hot Cock? You'd love it up your sweet Hole" - all kinds of fun stuff. I know he would have loved this site.
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What sort of guys did you hookup with before you turned 18?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
None. All it consisted of was sneaking out of the H.S. gym through an unused door, standing around talking about which girls put out, which girls we'd fucked, blah blah blah, smoking cigarettes, pretending we were all sooooo cool, so worldly. At that time, only fucked girls (wellllll, I didn't know any better .... gimme a break ....). Too full of the O.R*. garbage, cultural bs, and just learning to question / challenge those disgustments. I didn't have sex with another guy until I went away to school, and then it was off to the races .... *Organized Religion -
In the places I go, I haven't even seen a condom in ages ... R.i.L.
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Thanks so much for the reply, Leather69 Turns out that there just may be an extenuating situation that would set off the alarms, other than just the CockSteel. I had no idea of that possiblity. Given that these incidents happened years ago, it may well be the cause. Many thanks !!!
