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I try not to allow my Cock to get too pushy during the week, when there are other things besides trying to satisfy him to take care of. Not that I simply won't fuck during the week, I just try to inhibit that part of who I am. That said, Fri and Sat nights belong to him, and he gets to go out and play in as many Holes as he pleases. So, to the question: yeah, when it's time to Breed, I tend to block out extraneous stuff, and allow myself to sink into the pool of sweet, compelling rutting, fucking, Breeding without carrying any other thing around in my head. I do make the carnivorous Pig inside my mind to wait it's turn, but when it's time, I turn him loose and become focused on rutting in Holes, Breeding Holes, the whole sweet, perverse ball of wax.

This is why I restrict myself (mostly) to 2 nights per week in the fuckjoints. There are other responsibilities, other interests, other things I want to do with my life besides fuck. I don't like losing control of myself, and the best way I've found is to simply restrict myself to that schedule. Of course, there are those occasional irresistible mating events, special circumstances, but not all that many. I handle other responsibilities similarly. Business stuff mostly on Mondays, etc, etc. The added benefit is, on Friday and Saturday nights, I can free my mind of extraneous stuff, and just let my Lusts take over. Plunge into the Pigpens and celebrate my Lusts with my fellow Pigs. I realized that this type of compartmentalizing isn't for every guy, but it works well for me. Thus, on Friday and Saturday nights ..... It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm - and nothing else.

Well you sweet Pig ... and I mean that in the best possible sense !!!

Well, we gotta wear something ...... jeans and a T-shirt aren't a "costume" - they keep us outta the clink ......

Thanks so much, AlwaysOpen. You're entirely correct in pointing to Oakland Park as a most viable place for gay men to live. I know there are many, since my best buddy lives there. As to the hurricane issue, the first one I actually lived through here in FL was Irma, which went up the center of the FL peninsula, and didn't hit Ft.L. directly. That, however, was plenty scary enough. I'd experienced tornados back in Illinois, but the widespread impact of Irma was a shocker. While it's true that we haven't suffered a direct impact for a number of years, one day we will. Storm season is upon us right now, and everyone with a head on their shoulders is preparing now. I certainly am. Another issue you mention is finding "reliable" contractors. Or "honest" ones. Or "able" ones. The ratio of con-artists to actual service-providers here is exponentially higher for conmen than back North. In other words, there is no panacea, there is only the sure bet that we'll have the pleasure of giving our snowblowers, shovels, bags of salt to our friends and neighbors when we leave. Winters will no longer be 4 months long, with cold, dark, inhospitable weather.

Thanks for the informative post. I think that most guys that love to eat wet Hole either "know" or at least "sense" that this is a dangerous (however delightful) practice. The "sniff-test" isn't even close to indicating the level of safety, or lack thereof, but it's at least something. The only real way to protect ones self is to either not do it, or get tested very regularly for the bugs that will inevitably come. Testing often = treatment earlier than later.

Perfectly said, BBArchangel. It magnifies the Man inside the man. It holds us to a Higher Standard than jeans & a t-shirt. It's an outward manifestation of love and respect for others. I've lived a far better life as a Leatherman than I otherwise would have.

re: Wanamakers ... I wonder if that enormous Barton is still there? As a kid, I was in a touring boy-choir, and we stopped there once to sing a non-sectarian gig. That organ was partially unavailable (I think it had some 400 ranks? - just gargantuan), and some was being serviced, but it was still overpowering. As I recall, there was a 64 foot bourdon that was so huge, you didn't really "hear" it, you only "felt" it's lower notes inside your chest.

I was in the dark backroom of the Eagle fucking a guy, as was my habit since I'd figured it all out. As I was fucking the guy, I felt a hand on my ass - said over my shoulder "sorry, bud - can't help you with that", which was my usual answer to a guy feeling my ass up. But, the guy continued for some reason. As discussed in more depth in a previous post, at some point it was like an Epiphany: I had been conditioned into closing off half - 50% - of the opportunity to "connect" with the greater community of rawmen, since I considered myself exclusively Top. After a few moments of soaking up this realization, all the while rutting in the Hole I'd been fucking, I did reach around and felt the guy's Cock behind me. It wasn't all that thick or long, pretty "normal". The dawning of realization became all the more intense, and - while I'd only had the Cock of my life-partner in my ass before (and it was much larger than was even remotely comfortable), I'd never felt a Cock shoot Sperm up my gut. But the Epiphany - the Awakening to the possibilities of that "connection" allowed me to say "take it" to the guy behind me. I never did care for Cock up my ass - still don't - but in that moment I felt so "connected" to every other Cock, every other Hole, every other sexually adventurous gay man, I allowed it. It didn't feel good - but the overwhelming sense of connection was magnificent. Uplifting. Empowering. Enabling. All kinds of awesome feelings - sensations. I never did see the guy who first pumped Sperm up my gut. I knew he was wearing gear, I was able to see the Boots, felt the Leather. But when he did, I shot my load so hard into the guy I was fucking, I thought my toenails were shooting up the Hole too. I very seldom take a Cock up my gut, but I know I can - and I know how beautifully that can magnify the majestic connection to Everything. I don't particularly care for the mechanicals required to get fucked, and I don't particularly care for the process of it. I need to really feel closeness, sense of sharing, a sense of Brotherhood in a Universe of men being with men on the deepest levels to allow it, but - I know how intensely magical taking another man's Cock/Sperm into my gut can be. So, I do know how changing positions can bring new awareness.

Becoming a cumdump is more of a "calling" than anything else. If you genuinely feel that your purpose is to service as many Cocks with your BreedHole as you possibly can, and make it at least your principal avocation (if not career), of course you should answer your calling. That said, you should also take every precaution to preserve your health. You already know that there are multiple vaccinations against a number of std's, and you should avail yourself of those now, before you embark on your journey. To answer the direct question above, yes, it will work at preventing hiv infection in the large majority of cases. However, it is not a "get out of jail free" card, and you may become infected at some point - mostly depending on whether you actually do what real cumdumps do. What is certain though, is you will become infected with other std's, and it's entirely possible with hiv as well at some point. PReP is an efficient tool, but it is not a guarantee. There are other, far more medically-informed men on this site. Take some time to sift through their answers to similar questions, and ask for detailed information, which I know they will gladly offer. There are many similar questions - over the space of several years - that have been thoroughly discussed. That said ... Good luck.

First, let's make the definitions clear: 1. A "straight" man means a guy who is completely oriented sexually to women, and not to other men. 2. A "bisexual" man is a guy who can be oriented mostly to one gender, but willing to have sex with the other. The percentage can vary, of course - i.e. 80% straight & 20% gay, 50/50, 80% gay & 20% straight - and still a bisexual man. 3. A "gay" or, in ancient clinical-ese, homosexual man means a guy who is completely sexually oriented to men. I guess this will remain a mystery to me. Why a straight man would even think of a gay man when he's jacking out a load doesn't make sense to me. A straight man would be thinking about loose women; tarts, tits and twats ... not gay men. If you're describing men that are part straight, part gay, then that would be a bisexual man, not a straight man, right? When a male participates in sexual activity with both genders - regardless of percentages - then that man is bisexual. There are infinitely more female prostitutes than there are male cumdumps - why would an actual "straight man" even consider a sexual encounter with a gay man .... I just don't understand this. If descriptive terms like "masculine", "butch", "effeminate" "sissy" are employed, those would be perhaps descriptive of one of the 3 above, but not be definitive. Uber-butch men can adore dick up their guts. Effeminate men can love hammer-fucking/Breeding another man, and be great at it. Descriptive, but not definitive. It seems to me that if a gay man thinks he's having sex with a straight man, he's actually having sex with a bi-sexual man, who may be married / relationshipped to a woman, and merely exercising whatever percentage of "gay" he possesses.

Briefly, clearly, succinctly, and bluntly clear. They're not straight, they're merely emotionally stunted.

HAIRY .... just like ^ that one !!! Yummmmmm ....

100 %, Andy !!! Don't give those idiots another whisp of your air. Have a great time wherever you're going. To the fetish-gear issue: I just checked, and VK-79 is still in business. Speaking only for men holding a fetish for Leather gear, VK-79 creates made-to-measure, exact replications of military gear, with no hint of the political horrors that accompanied those years. It's an easy train ride out to Karow, their website provides clear directions. Juergen is (I think) still the proprietor and principal tailor, Mirco having passed some years ago now. The gear is as fine-quality as it gets, and any man interested in Leather gear should at least check out the website. True, the best is never cheap, but I can say from experience that walking into a Leatherbar wearing VK-79 gear, will make your Cock hard when the crowd parts as you advance.

I always thought that "straight" - in the sexual sense - meant that the person is sexually attracted to the other gender. Somehow, I didn't get the notice that no longer applies.

Ditch the cultural/religious bullshit sooner, and get down to business quicker.

THANK YOU, ErosWired. This is among the most common of misconceptions about B/d S/m . While there is a place for experiencing physical distress, it is by no means a requirement, and anyone who says so doesn't have a firm grasp on the Leather Ethic. Undesired pain should never be administered - it can be useful in focusing the sub's mind, when and if it's been thoroughly explained, why it might be useful, and thoroughly negotiated. There are other techniques that are more effective in aligning a subs mind with the goal, and often more effective. It's not all about whips and chains - it's all about the mental connection, enhanced by the emotional connection. Every man starts at some level, and wherever he is, it must be respected first, then built and expanded upon.

Depending on when you need to relocate, and depending on how much you love wanton sex, Ft. L. would be a consideration - in a number of months. The recent (and outrageous) rise in real estate prices is probably (this according to several realtors I know) within a few months of descending, having reach their zenith recently. Whatever kind of sex you love most, it's here, and in abundance.

You let the guy next to you lick it off your face, unless you want to wear it home .....

You really "get it" .... That's one of the best descriptions of why we Breed each other I've read ...

I think this is a great way to put words to the ineffable question. Fucking raw is still fucking, but it can be so much more, and with whoever you happen to run into in a bar, backroom, whatever. Raw is natural, no barriers, nothing phony, just men connecting with that which unites them in a very strong bond. We need not know each other, we don't even have to see each other. We mate with our brothers - over and over and over again, without needing more that that magical, very Spiritual connection - we affirm each other's self-hood, we uphold, validate each other's deepest nature. We share that crucial part of ourselves with each other, giving what the other guy needs, taking what we need from him. Wanton Breeding is the definition of Freedom. If that's not Spirituality made manifest, it's close enough for me.

That happens every so often in Chicago, generally in the boystown area. The general m.o. is, some guy that doesn't know what he's getting into, hits one of the Leatherbars and gets picked up by a disturbed wanna-be Leatherman (who, never-the-less, knows enough to impress the newbie), and winds up dead. It's a sorrow when a man hates himself so much, but lacks the backbone to seek professional help, that he commits acts like this. Still, it happens, and usually the authorities try to look the other way.

Possibly, but not in an irretrievable way. I would lay this feeling at the feet of the man that "conditioned" you so magnificently. While I do know a little bit about Autism (a nephew), I surely don't know enough to comment on how that may or may not affect your perceptions of how others perceive you. Whatever that answer is, clearly nothing has mitigated your intelligence in any way at all.

Used to - quit maybe 20, 25 years ago .... To the question though, no - smokers breath doesn't bother me. Not allowed in my home - they have to go out to the back yard if they want to smoke.

With you 100%, Ieatcumholes !!!!!!! A hairy guy, taking loads is about as hottttttt as it gets. If there's any cuisine more "haute" than eating a hairy Hole fucked full of Sperm by other Cocks, I certainly don't know what it might be. Two peas in a pod, buddy !!!