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One quick observation: If cumdumps do absorb a disproportionate share, then they deserve to. It's cumdumps who are reliable, not like some trick in the ether. It's the cumdumps that only serve, without a lot of carrying on. It's the cumdumps that feel the commitment to their calling more deeply than a casual bottom. But, I've been barking up this tree for a while, so ..... I'll let it go with this.

I meant in your area. Of course online contacts are usually too far away to be productive.

There's an RC orphanage/facility for homeless boys/whatever, in Woodstock, IL (just west of Chicago) that has had a reputation of corrupting boys en masse for decades. One of the raw porn stars (not sure what the name is) even mentioned it by name in an interview. And the joint is still there, churning out used, injured, harmed boys (or, in some cases, burgeoning raw porn stars) for decades. Personally, I think they must be part of the "supply-chain" for all those Queens in Rome, prancing around in their long dresses and ruby slippers. First, the "graduates" are sent to the bishops, then the cardinals, then the arch-cardinals, and finally the Vatican itself. After all - can't send inexperienced boys to the Vatican, now can we ........

So Philip ... I think that "compartmentalizing" our sexual lives away from "the rest of our lives" is what many of us try to do, at least initially. I'm glad to know that you have (apparently) substantial experience in slutting. That would imply that you've accepted that needing/wanting a lot of raw Cock pumping Seed up your gut is something you've come to terms with. But why mention it in the past tense? Are you saying you've decided that whoring around is something you no longer need or want to do? Chances are poor that it would, since once men like us taste the "forbidden fruit" we seldom get our fill and only want more and more. When you tell your gay friends you took a dozen raw Cocks in one night, I doubt your friends are shocked or disgusted; more likely, their Cocks get hard for it too. Taking a dozen loads off different Cocks may define your sexual lusts, but there are many other areas of interest in a well-balanced life, sex being an important, but hardly the only one. Sure, there is such a thing as "addictive behavior";, it can be productive or unproductive. Smoking cigarettes is addictive, and probably prove unhealthy. Sucking fresh Cock can be addictive, just like taking loads off numerous, anonymous Cocks can be addictive, and may (or, probably) result in some unpleasant bugs. So do we attempt to expunge our sexual addictions, or try to mitigate the potentially negatives, and continue to feed that addiction? It sounds like you're either developing into a "whole" man, comfortable with who you've become and trying to come to terms with guys from before you did, or perhaps trying to figure out how to move beyond them, fearing their "disgust". It's difficult trying to juggle two separate "identities" - one as a sexual Pig and the other as something you may not be. More, it's not necessary, and wasteful of our energy. Friends either accept us as we are, or not. What really matters is that we accept ourselves as who we really are, and move forward, confident in our wholeness. Since you are (apparently) drawn to whoring, maybe even addicted to wanton Breeding, far better to accept and revel in your Lusts, than try to be something you're not, and only for the sake of what others might think of you. For some of us ..... It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm

Neither do I ... usually, when I see a fellow pig at the grocery store, we just exchange a hint of a smile ... he knows what my Cock does, and I know what his Hole does ...

It depends on if I have to go to a "respectable" meeting/appt/whatever with business people, service providers, whatever. On those (fairly rare) occasions, boxers. Usual "everyday" wear is Commando - but then I'm not swinging a porn-cock either. I just like the feeling of swinging free. For cruising the darkrooms, a steel cock-ring as well as 501's. I like when other men check it out.

100 % Correct !!! TwinkSlut24 self-identifies as a "cumdump", and that fact alone deserves to be respected. I don't know what the gay community in general things about anything - all I know is what I think, and that is: Cumdumps are to be upheld for their dedication to their service, regardless of how much they love giving their service to any man that needs it. These aren't just gay men who bottom; they're committed to service, have likely weighed the potential outcomes, and render their service despite them. If the gay community in general looks down on a cumdump, I would lay that blame on them, since they aren't secure enough in their own sexuality to uphold the dedication of cumdumps. It's easy to point the finger, less easy to realize the finger we point usually should be pointed right back. As to the "addiction", perhaps the adrenaline-rush when a Cock shoots up their ass? More likely though, the rush of satisfaction in knowing they've fulfilled their function - again. I don't assume to have much knowledge though. What I do know is, cumdumps are a most valuable addition to our particular corner of the sexual world. It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm

I rather doubt it's an escape mechanism. Some guys tend to feel cooler, some warmer, particularly if the one complaining of too much body heat is producing plenty of his own. Depending on how "comprehensive" you define cuddling (i.e. full-body, arm-around-him, a leg crossed with his, etc) maybe just a sheet covering both of you would solve the problem. As it happens, I've always been on the slim side, and get cold easily.* My guess it that it's not at all an emotional escape mechanism, merely a reaction to a heat-source that's a bit too hot. Sadly, I have no experience with cuddling/sleeping with a guy that runs "too warm". On the other hand, maybe you've exhausted the other guy by fucking the daylights out of him, and he only needs to "recover" for a while. Cuddling is great - inhaling the guy's scent - holding his body - it's part of the post-mating ritual - so I hope you get it solved. *even living in SoFL, if the temps get down to the mid-70's, I need jeans, t-shirt, sweatshirt to be warm enough !! Lately, we've had a cold-snap (below 70 !!), and I had to go get one of the insulated leather jackets and a pair of Wescos out of the closet 🥶

May I mention that all life excretes waste. Insects, animals, all living thing creatures piss and/or shit. It's a biological function of living. Eat, shit, repeat. Love, on the other hand, ranks far higher on the scale of life. It's emotional, rather than biological. It's a conjoining of humanness, which, in my opinion, is far above merely a biological function of necessity. More, how that capability to love is expressed varies widely in focus. Love is not something we earn, it's something we consciously and gratefully accept, and then return-in-kind. In our corner of the sexuality world, some of us feel "meant", "born to it", "the need to follow our nature" and fuck each other, and hopefully find a partner that embraces a similar view. I see it as perfectly natural, wholesome and satisfying.

That you are, young man ... there's this thing called an air-conditioner ... make it colder, and drag that guy back under the covers with you !!!😇

^ needs a one-word editing job: "I love the idea that he knows I'm a proud cumdump." Tops love it too !!

It always surprises me when a multi-year-old post suddenly springs to life again ... That said, if it's your inborn nature to be a cumdump, then why not revel in that fact? If it's your "truth", then accept it and practice your truth. What possible reason could there be to denying your calling - to yourself ??? If you need professional help getting over the cultural bs that may be restricting you, by all means get professional help with that. But never turn your back on your Truth.

And I'm happy for the both of you. Ditching the cultural bs we've been raised with, and listening to our own hearts and minds (and lusts) will almost always lead us to where we need to be. Kudos, bud !!

What's so "conceited" about that response? Sounds more like you know yourself, you know what you want, what you don't, and run your life accordingly. That's not conceit; that's self-confidence.

I hadn't thought of it in this context, and now that I have, it's true: While I was "happy" before I met him, somewhat content with my life (career, all of that), I had no idea of what life could be. I had just moved to the Big City back then, and was busy fucking everything in sight. There was a gap, in that I didn't realize at the time that there might possibly be so much more. Maybe the fact that I considered myself happy, and therefore wasn't "on the hunt" for more, that I was open to the real deal when it presented itself. Thanks for pointing this out. It's always a good day when we learn something new - particularly about ourselves. I appreciate your insights.

Per the completely mis-named Mr. Justified, I've started a response to this guy a number of times, and each time it only got worse and worse. Thank you, EW, for a clear, concise and well written reply. My attempts devolved quickly into text I simply didn't want to put out there. And I'm posting this reply now - lest I succumb to temptation to really burn this .... well .... "person".

For me, it's the thrill of the hunt. In a different thread, the comparison of men to beasts (sexually) was well made. Our innate sexual drive to pump our seed up the guts of as many men as possible is powerful, and it's only that particular instinct which carries the power. Of course, preserving our lives is the most powerful of all, but Breeding anonymously, nothing but Cock pumping Sperm up Holes answers one of our most fundamental, driving, innate needs. No names, no faces, only rutting men performing that which is required; that endless thrill of mating.

For once, I disagree. There is no human experience that I know of more fulfilling, wonderful than loving a guy completely, and knowing he loves you back completely. I had that for 30 years, and it made me a far better man than if I had only thought of myself, my inclinations, my own self-sufficiency. Of this, I am completely, 100% positive. When he became ill, I was there for him. When I went through an illness, he was there for me. When he was unable to handle things, I was there to make all the terrible, gut-wrenching decisions. And had it been me seriously ill, there is not a scintilla of doubt in my mind he would have been there to set me free. Partner, boyfriend, lover, life-companion, call it whatever suits, and be happy, grateful, thankful that love found you, and you found love. All the rest, the fucking, the backrooms, isn't more than a puff of smoke in the wind, comparatively. Sorry, but this time I think the friend mentioned above has a far less healthy outlook on relationships than our poster. I happen to think that if we're lucky enough to find only one "soulmate", that can be enough to carry us our entire lives. Friends, buddies are all great, and they do come and go. But sharing real Love in one's life is the greatest of gifts.

Well, I can't even remember the last time I went on a "date". To me, that would imply dinner, followed by the theatre, or a concert or whatever, followed by (maybe) a fuck, if the two guys liked each other enough after the "getting to know you" dance. A hookup, on the other hand, implies none of the above, (except, of course) the fuck. Either at one guy's place, or even meeting for a drink and then hitting the backroom for the fuck. One implies the mutual desire to become acquainted, the other only "you're hot, let's fuck".

Around here, that's certainly the case. You'd think that many Floridians have never heard of covid. But then, that pie-faced excuse of a Governor hasn't helped either. The good news is, every gay guy I know has been triple vacced, and waiting for the next shot. I know a number of guys that have come down with omicron, none with any serious illness. Still, I've taken a hiatus from my favorite fuckjoint, so it's not back to normal for many of us. Now that the snowbirds have come back to SoFl, the streets are full again.

I didn't read it as the guy is trying to pass the bottom off as his biological son. There are tons of Daddy/boy relationships that work well, with no biological connection. I would agree that there are probably very, very few actual successful Father/son sexual relationships out there, but there are plenty of guys into the scene. Actual incest is not cool, but "pretend" Daddy/boy scenes - especially well-planned orgies - can be fantastic.

But, you're not wrong. DCslutHole, when you compose your posting for the event, you really do need to stress the Daddy/boy part. There are more guys in that kind of arrangement than you may think, and (speaking for myself) I know there are other Tops that love watching their boy take loads off other Cocks. Also, make clear that it's to be a "swapping" event - boys strongly encouraged to take any/all Cocks, Tops strongly encouraged to at least rut in a number of Holes, Breed as many as possible. The pig farms around your area will be missing a lot of pork in the morning, but you'll have one sweaty fuckuva good time. I think I've mentioned this in another thread, but for a couple of years I kept a cumslut, and always loved watching him take loads at the orgies - usually fucking another Hole close by. BIG turn-on !!

Well ...... How about sloppy twentieths ?? Better and better !!

Agreed. If a guy goes to the tubs, has sex with 1 guy, maybe 2, his risk level for contracting an STD is exponentially lower than if he took 20 loads off different Cocks, or fucked 20 different guys, or ate loads out of 20 different Holes. Oddly, what used to be "enough" years ago, just isn't anymore; thus I put more importance on the regular check-ups, etc. Ever deeper depravities lead to ever greater chances.

Thanks for adding your perspective !