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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Fortunately, as the old nursery rhyme goes - Jack Sprat could eat no fat, but boy, could he take cum !!! Nice to be a good neighbor, right? Just try not to smile too broadly when you meet the wife !!! -
Planning A Sex-Capade Vacation for 2022/2023...
hntnhole replied to PendragonSpirit's topic in General Discussion
Very sorry to know that - but I'm not surprised. Katrina was a national tragedy, hammering NOLA like it did. I haven't been back to your neck of the woods since ... -
The “thrill” of Hard to Get - Turn On or No?
hntnhole replied to ldnlad98's topic in General Discussion
You and me both. I wonder how many hours - years ago - I wasted on the cruise sites. I don't like to fuck guys that aren't "present", off on some damn "cloud" somewhere. As the online stuff got more and more full of junkies, I just quit them. Haven't missed them one iota, either. Qualifier: in the darkrooms, I'm sure there are plenty of drugged-up holes, and I couldn't care less. In the darkrooms, they're already there, full of Seed off other Cocks, ready for more, and that's all I care about in the fuckjoints. I have a few fuckbuds that come over, or I go to their place, and these are guys I know, they're not junkies, and I do give a rats ass about them. A couple of beers or a smoke (as in weed) is one thing - the rest, no thanks. -
Sounds like a great experience ... a couple of things before the restraints come into play though: 1. Make sure you get a "negotiation" first. If you're unclear about what that entails, I've addressed it in other posts, or you can ask. It can only help with the group scene if he knows you're aware of potential issues, want them resolved beforehand, and he will respect you for it. 2. Be sure to leave your whereabouts with a friend, instruct that friend to call you on your phone at X time, and if you don't answer, call the cops. The Dom will only respect you more for taking these precautions if he's the man you think he is. There's another thread on here that's been getting a lot of attention, because a guy suffered a serious trauma at the hands of a "wanna-be" human being. You can't take care of "Daddy" without taking care of your own well-being first. Good luck with the group-thing ... probably my favorite too !!
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This is what I was trying to write above, but much better conceived. While there are men like me (never having suffered a sexual trauma like rape), that are ill-equipped to offer any kind of *real* feedback, simply because we have no basis upon which to offer it. The fact that there are sexual predators, rapists, Dahmers out there, until one survives a horror like that it's difficult to imagine. The defensive mechanisms are not within our life's experience. That's still no real excuse for disbelieving the experiences of others though. My best wishes as you wrestle with the issue. At least you have sound advice from other men who have experienced these kinds of crimes first-hand. You're trying - that's all anyone can ask of anyone else.
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Thanks, Karl8181 For me, it was sharing the day with my best buddy and his husband. Laughing, talking, a few presents, appreciating each other, walking the dogs, just being together. The "present" was spending the time together.
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Yes !!! There is a prize !!! Hmmm ... now where is that little button we can click on to relieve one's self of loose thought-trainlets, silly demonstrations of inability to compose coherent points of view? I know it's somewhere around the site ... What is particularly inappropriate is when thoughtless individuals waste the intelligence of truly impressive minds, belonging to altruistic individuals who truly do give a hoot about helping others. One last word to Mr. Hungry Hole: There are many qualities that excite a Top's interest, and one of the most important is fucking a man with a brain, and who uses it for other's betterment. Dullness = disinterest. Intelligence = sexy. Intelligence + altruism = totally sexy.
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Why are black people at greater risk of catching HIV?
hntnhole replied to Safer's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Thank you, Shotsfired, for the excellent reply. Living most of my adult life in Chicago, there was a steady stream of Af/Am guys coming from the South Side up to the North Side (boystown), to get away from exactly what you describe. There was also (at least with some of the guys we hung around with) sort of a "network" of gay households that would help out with getting a SouthSider settled, find a place, a job, make sure he had what he needed, all of that. We called it the "new" underground railroad, and it gradually expanded to Mormon kids out west too, some of which were afraid for their lives. -
I agree completely. I still have some fuckbuds that come over to get fucked, and I like that - but nothing compares to a hot, sweaty darkroom full of rutting men. I can't see all of them, and I don't really want to. I can hear them, Tops and bottoms, groaning with pleasure and Lust, their Cocks squishing around in full wet Holes - and I'll eventually work my way over to them. In the dark, eating wet Hole, rutting in wet Hole, sucking a Cock fresh out of a wet Hole, reaching out to feel a hard Cock busy Breeding a Hole - maybe taking one up my gut - all of it is just what I need. The more the better. One after the other after the other after the other. Just typing this turns my Cock to granite, and it's only 8:30 in the morning, dammittall.
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Planning A Sex-Capade Vacation for 2022/2023...
hntnhole replied to PendragonSpirit's topic in General Discussion
Well, I stuck to the originally posted 3 choices, but given the above from Leather69, BERLIN is absolutely 100% the best destination on earth, particularly for Leathermen. Folsom-in-Berlin over Easter will blow your mind. I stayed in Fuggerstrasse - in a small hotel above the Prinz Eugen - "ground zero" for realizing every possible sexual depravity you can dream up. The "darkrooms" are in the basements of the bars, for the most part. Not just a room, the entire basements, vaulted ceilings jammed with men rutting in each other. The Pig and Perverts parties are gigantic, and are held at old abandoned buildings, with entire floors of "darkroom" breeding. Occasionally some guy will use a cigarette lighter for a few seconds - which gives a momentary glance at just how many men are in that same room Breeding each other. The street-fair event is fun, in that behind the vendor tents, guys fuck in broad daylight, and not just a handful of them. It's fukkin HEAVEN !!!! And when you take a "breather", there are a number of lovely parks (Tiergarten), public gardens, museums, and of course, Ku-damm. Up towards the K. Wilhelm Kirchke ruins is The Enforcer, a store dealing in fine-quality Leather/Bd/Sm gear. A-dam can be a lot of fun, but nothing beats Berlin. If I had one last place to go in my life, I'd absolutely go to Berlin !!! -
I'm really sorry to read what happened. That friend who disbelieved you probably had no experience in the issue, found it fantastical, and had a tough time imagining it. He shouldn't have disbelieved you though - he should have asked more questions to inform himself more deeply of your experience. Try to forgive him for his instinctive-but-poor reaction.
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Utterly. Completely. re: the hypnosis thing: There are some people who, for whatever reason, are more susceptible to hypnosis than others. Some folks simply resist it (knowingly or un), and no matter how hard the hypnotizer tries, they cannot (will not?) be hypnotized. Other people, more susceptible, can be hypnotized at the first suggestion. I've witnessed this, when I was familiar with both of the people who were the "volunteers" - and I know neither were "in on it".
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Well, thanks for the education. I had / have no idea how websites operate, so if Ms. Palin was the choice for substitution, my thanks to mgmt. I simply assumed it was some kind of contractual thing with some service-provider. If it involves a wrench, hand-tools, I can usually fix it. Other than that, not so much.
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Planning A Sex-Capade Vacation for 2022/2023...
hntnhole replied to PendragonSpirit's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, but please wait until this covid mess is over. The cruise ships are being denied port access - again. Under different circumstances though, the gay cruises are floating fuckjoints. -
Planning A Sex-Capade Vacation for 2022/2023...
hntnhole replied to PendragonSpirit's topic in General Discussion
Las Vegas: There was a large business convention held there I attended for years. While there were dinners, etc with business associates, we snuck off one night to sample the seamier side of town, and found not a lot. That was at least 15 years ago, and I'm hopeful things have gotten much better. Miami: Yes, there's quite a bit of action, but I also know that lots of guys in Miami drive up "Die 95"*to Ft. Lauderdale. In the evenings, it's not that long a drive, but during the days it's a nightmare. New Orleans is absolutely magical. You can exhaust your Lusts any/every night of the week, the blues bars are the best (musically, I mean), and all you have to do is walk down the street to get cruised. Restaurants are first class, with dessert wandering the streets all night long. Have a GREAT trip, wherever you decide to go !!! *so named because of the absolutely worst drivers on the face of the earth. Crashes constantly, fatalities regularly, most folks will do almost anything to avoid using I-95. -
Actually, I think that any sexual perversions performed with the benefit of an audience makes the event all the hotter ... the participants get even deeper into their Lusts - and those watching either get in line or start in on the guy next to them ... Presto - ORGY !!! What's better than that !!!
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LOL ... Keillor indeed !!! I used to make glogg years ago when we had large Holiday parties - made it with all the usuals, plus aqavit - until one queen had waaaay too much and threw it all up on the hall carpet (this was wtw - not easy to replace). From then on, it was just mulled port. For my part, I much preferred whiskey - but those days are done, and I'm glad of it.
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May whoever / whatever you pray to grant it !!!
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Why are black people at greater risk of catching HIV?
hntnhole replied to Safer's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I agree with everything you mentioned, except the above. If that is so, and I do not accept that it is, I rather think it's for the same situations listed before adding this final statement to your post. -
(and I had NO idea Mt. Ararat was in Kentucky !!!)
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I consider that phrase - "our kind"- to be a cultural one, not defined by racial, economic, social-standing, or other standards, and rooted in what I would call "tribalism". It is a phrase I learned early on in childhood, meaning "our values", our cultural heritage. Gay men merely adopted that phrase for use within our own community, to reference those of us who are gay, and identify with their "gayness". For instance, people of my cultural heritage eat an outrage called lutfisk on Christmas Eve, which I will not even describe lest you toss up your dinner. It's something "our kind" just do. I think it's more an innocuous phrase used by many different people to identify their "tribe", and usually within their own tribe.
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100% Agreed To the last sentence, well - if that's your experience, then I'm glad it is. For some of us, we either simply refuse take part in the extended familial bs anymore, or just break ties completely. For clarity: one of my uncles was a cleric, now 3 of my 4 male cousins have returned to the judgemental trough, peddling the same old shit. I opted out years ago.
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Really - how can you be so sure that we're all like you describe? First, not all Tops collapse in their needs after the first load leaves their balls. If that's your personal experience, I'm sorry to know that. Second, not all Tops are completely self-centered. Some of us actually do try to include the bottom as a "partner" in the event, even when serially rutting in the darkrooms, since that effort usually delivers a better experience for both guys. I'd be interested to know how you've come to such assumptions, since I don't accept the lumping together of all Tops in one bag of perceptions. Everyone is who and what they are - and we're not a bunch of automatons.
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I remember many years worth of Holiday nights when the bars, backrooms, fuckjoints were crammed full of guys that had spent the day with family, putting up with Uncle Asshole, Aunt Bitch, Cousin Cunt, on and on. Holiday nights are still full of guys anxious to put all of that behind them, and get into some serious Breeding. This year, I just hope they're at least trying to be more careful. Around here, the new variant is everywhere ...
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Too young, maybe .... I've been wondering about that too. So I read through a lot of the posts, and realized that perhaps typing in a certain "forbidden" word (aka Lucifer, I gather?) would alter that word and what would appear would be the name of that ridiculous choice of running mate John McCain made, and a vain attempt to garner women voters. That was the woman who thought it would impress potential voters to tell how she could see Russia from the roof of her house. She should have stayed there. The choice of Sarah Palin as Veep candidate went a long way to sinking his hopes of winning the Presidency. As far as I'm concerned, the connection between (the unmentionable one) and Ms. Palin is far too slim; there is not one ounce of wile or wit to that utterly dull, vacant woman. I think that some computer geek somewhere, hired to "filter" certain words and substitute other words, got a big fat laugh out of it. If I failed to figure this out properly, someone please let me know.
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